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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Simple question really. I’ve always wondered how far I would go for a meet. I stay just outside Edinburgh and once considered travelling to Leeds for a meet in a hotel.

How far would you go for a meet?

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

It would completely depend on the person. I would not go that far unless it was something exceptional. Any more than 30 miles feels like it's less and less likely to happen

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It depends if meeting somebody new we would only travel local but we have been know to travel down to London to meet friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends how hot the person is

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Ten mins up the road in the car.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have travelled 4235 miles and got a meet, does that count?

I'd set a limit of anywhere within the British Isles for a social and further afield for a guaranteed fuck from a friend.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm 10000 miles away at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've done two and a half hours each way before and it was very much worth it - if the other person is willing to do similar that's mpstnof England and Wales covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done a 450 mile round trip for a club night, not something I'm going to do again in a hurry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I baulked North London - Mid Kent for a real hottie at midnight a few months ago (about 1hr40 minutes drive at that time of night) ...I've no regrets - I hate driving distances more than I like having sex with a hottie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you fancy the meet and vice versa , you have a car ,the money and the time distance shouldnt matter to be honest.

ive done 125 mile drives each way ,no big deal , couple of hours.

if i fancy a beer i book a local hotel.

class it as work saying , your in london next week for work purposes, youll have to stay over ,you going to say sorry to far?

or loook at eddie stobart drivers ,sorry guv ,im not driving edingburgh to leeds ,to far lol.

i recently drove a client stansted to edingburgh as his flight was cancelled (£975)..7.5 hours later,

distance no object for me..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I baulked North London - Mid Kent for a real hottie at midnight a few months ago (about 1hr40 minutes drive at that time of night) ...I've no regrets - I hate driving distances more than I like having sex with a hottie."

i'd do exactly the same .....i do need time to shower first though.

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By *r_StockingtopsMan
over a year ago

Selby

I generally say 50 miles or an hour's drive. I did 90 miles as a two hour drive once and I was not really in the mood when I got there. An hour feels about right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep within the 'shire, so a radius of 30 miles max

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By *ove and DuckCouple
over a year ago

Between Sheffield & Chesterfield

We have done scotland before for New Years Eve swingers party. Deffo do it again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd do exactly the same .....i do need time to shower first though."

I'm not sure you understood - I didn't go through with it (I couldn't be arsed to make the drive ...especially bearing in mind it was after midnight when the request came through)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man came to meet me from nottingham then went to sheffield where he was from.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

There are a lot of guys saying they would drive the length of the country for a meet. I would have to be pretty certain that the person was genuine to begin with.

We have turned other couples down who have offered to travel up to Newcastle as we would hate them to travel all the way up here for us to not get on and for us to say no. There would be too much pressure to play. As said before if we know somebody and know we get on then distance is no object.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

As with sex. The journey is as enjoyable as the destination

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Depends on the lady waiting at the other end

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Depends on the lady waiting at the other end "

Is there a formula for that?

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We're happy to travel - our issue is time. So we tend to "go big or go stay home". We've done clubs in Manchester and Blackpool on just that basis.

Our search radius is about 80 miles currently (how we search fluctuates and while I could tel you what we do, I'd have to kill you ) , but we are in contact with people considerably outside of that who are definitely in the category of "when, not if" (you know who you are!).

When we message people who are far away, we make a point of saying that we know they are a long way away, and what we could do to fix that. We have had messages from all round the country (well, sometimes!) but unless they do the same for us, I have to say we do tend to ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple question really. I’ve always wondered how far I would go for a meet. I stay just outside Edinburgh and once considered travelling to Leeds for a meet in a hotel.

How far would you go for a meet? "

I travel so as long as I knew the person was ligit it would not bother me xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the lady waiting at the other end

Is there a formula for that?"

(Cup size x number of toys owned) ÷ distance = Relative attractiveness of meet.

Multiply the result by Vernon's Constant if she has pierced nipples.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Distance has been plane, train, automobile for one meet. So for the right person it could include the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it says on my profile, about an hour's drive.

I have gone further, two and a half hours, but they would have to be exceptionally exceptional.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

For one on one meetings about 25 miles. It generally takes an hour to get ready then maximum of about 45 minutes driving. Then do it all in reverse after the meeting.

I have met in other parts of the country with locals when I'm in there area anyway (work). I do travel countrywide for clubs. Again usually combine a weekend away with something else and a visit to a club

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

amsterdam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chester

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I do travel for a good club night. VA is 2 1/2 hours away. Although I much prefer it when someone else is driving. Eurekas and Arousals also miles away but an FWB drove both of those.

I have a lovely friend in Leeds and often drive up there to meet him, but that’s not a “meet” (ugh hate that word) he’s someone I met here but we are now good friends. Someone once came out to Amsterdam to meet up with me while I was there for a business meeting.

V x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Luckily I travel lots for work so I'd try to fit it in with that so a no show wouldn't be total waste of time.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

An hour, so if you are a long way a way, I’m not paying for the helicopter.

Although we do travel at times...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once drove from Lake Como to the airport at Bergamo, took a flight to Luton and then drove to Finchley

That's far enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a ten minute drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple question really. I’ve always wondered how far I would go for a meet. I stay just outside Edinburgh and once considered travelling to Leeds for a meet in a hotel.

How far would you go for a meet? "

6 miles

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the lady waiting at the other end

Is there a formula for that?

(Cup size x number of toys owned) ÷ distance = Relative attractiveness of meet.

Multiply the result by Vernon's Constant if she has pierced nipples."

You missed off " ... + the current volumetric capacity of my ballbag"

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

20 miles max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the lady waiting at the other end

Is there a formula for that?

(Cup size x number of toys owned) ÷ distance = Relative attractiveness of meet.

Multiply the result by Vernon's Constant if she has pierced nipples.

You missed off " ... + the current volumetric capacity of my ballbag""

If you're going to take into account the Blueball Variation then we've also got to consider the number of cock picks on your profile and the expiry date of your oldest condom. I was trying to keep the calculation simple for those who can't do differential calculus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d answer my front door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d answer my front door"

Love it!

Have travelled 250 miles for a meet, it is exhausting!

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By *and2aCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

Carcassonne, Belgian and going to Nottingham next week.

Well worth the effort

G and C

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Carcassonne, Belgian and going to Nottingham next week.

Well worth the effort

G and C"

Ooh I have a friend who lives in carcassone

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

In the new year for social events or clubs maybe a few hrs its the way forward. Im only doing one on one meets if they are local no pressure for a coffee. One to many bad experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of hours each way for the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once drove for miles and miles deep into desolate moors for a meet.

It was great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would completely depend on the person. I would not go that far unless it was something exceptional. Any more than 30 miles feels like it's less and less likely to happen"

Kinda irrelevant when you have to explain where your profile pic came from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once drove for miles and miles deep into desolate moors for a meet.

It was great fun. "

Did he say his name was Heathcliffe?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Depends really, but as a rule no more than 30 minutes away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I know the person then miles are really no problem if I don't have to work next day. I normally drive 30 to 40 miles to friends house just for a few hrs then home again. But if it's a 1st time not far unless I have talked on phone and if I can have a coffee meet 1st.so around 5 miles

Used to clean once a week 60 miles away. But that was a temporary arrangement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once drove for miles and miles deep into desolate moors for a meet.

It was great fun.

Did he say his name was Heathcliffe?"

I don't kiss n tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is not an issue for the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the gentleman waiting at the other end

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