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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been here many years on and off and have been fortunate to meet some really nice people. But lately I have sent out nice, polite message to people and get ignored. I don't understand why the change of attitude from people. Do the ladies prefer a more direct, crude message being sent. I think not. My apologises if this sounds like a rant, just don't understand why the shift in attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No public pics

No profile pics

Can't accom

Asking for discretion

Not verified

All going to go against you

Why not try and meet with those you have met previously ? (If they are still here)

Or ask them to veri you again ?

It'd be a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When were you here last? I joined first 4 years ago and it’s pretty much the same now as it ever was?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"No public pics

No profile pics

Can't accom

Asking for discretion

Not verified

All going to go against you

Why not try and meet with those you have met previously ? (If they are still here)

Or ask them to veri you again ?

It'd be a start "

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here many years on and off and have been fortunate to meet some really nice people. But lately I have sent out nice, polite message to people and get ignored. I don't understand why the change of attitude from people. Do the ladies prefer a more direct, crude message being sent. I think not. My apologises if this sounds like a rant, just don't understand why the shift in attitude."

I've found exactly the same as well.Seems like most people think it's acceptable to ignore & sometimes block. I guess there are so many solo men on here compared to women & couples its the only way to keep on top of hundreds of messsges from solo men. Rather annoying though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 23/11/18 07:03:44]

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"No public pics

No profile pics

Can't accom

Asking for discretion

Not verified

All going to go against you

"
...and don't forget the fabswingers being a publicly traded entity in his disclaimer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been here many years on and off and have been fortunate to meet some really nice people. But lately I have sent out nice, polite message to people and get ignored. I don't understand why the change of attitude from people. Do the ladies prefer a more direct, crude message being sent. I think not. My apologises if this sounds like a rant, just don't understand why the shift in attitude.

I've found exactly the same as well.Seems like most people think it's acceptable to ignore & sometimes block. I guess there are so many solo men on here compared to women & couples its the only way to keep on top of hundreds of messsges from solo men. Rather annoying though."

Thank you. Sometimes you wonder if it is just you. As for some of the previous comments, i would like to say, as everyone else here i have the right to annonimity as does everyone here. If people chatted more and judged less, it would be a better place.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I would agree with the profile pointers that have already been made plus half of your profile is one of those meaningless warning notices. I have been here around 8 years and it's pretty much the same....it works for some..not for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here many years on and off and have been fortunate to meet some really nice people. But lately I have sent out nice, polite message to people and get ignored. I don't understand why the change of attitude from people. Do the ladies prefer a more direct, crude message being sent. I think not. My apologises if this sounds like a rant, just don't understand why the shift in attitude.

I've found exactly the same as well.Seems like most people think it's acceptable to ignore & sometimes block. I guess there are so many solo men on here compared to women & couples its the only way to keep on top of hundreds of messsges from solo men. Rather annoying though.

Thank you. Sometimes you wonder if it is just you. As for some of the previous comments, i would like to say, as everyone else here i have the right to annonimity as does everyone here. If people chatted more and judged less, it would be a better place."

How do you think people are judging you?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


".As for some of the previous comments, i would like to say, as everyone else here i have the right to annonimity as does everyone here. If people chatted more and judged less, it would be a better place."

But you appear to be asking why you're being ignored, posters are providing a range of reasons..having no visible profile pictures might be one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here many years on and off and have been fortunate to meet some really nice people. But lately I have sent out nice, polite message to people and get ignored. I don't understand why the change of attitude from people. Do the ladies prefer a more direct, crude message being sent. I think not. My apologises if this sounds like a rant, just don't understand why the shift in attitude.

I've found exactly the same as well.Seems like most people think it's acceptable to ignore & sometimes block. I guess there are so many solo men on here compared to women & couples its the only way to keep on top of hundreds of messsges from solo men. Rather annoying though.

Thank you. Sometimes you wonder if it is just you. As for some of the previous comments, i would like to say, as everyone else here i have the right to annonimity as does everyone here. If people chatted more and judged less, it would be a better place."

No one is judging you

No one is trying to take your annonymity away

By proxy, you asked for advice

You were provided with some

Without judgement

You can use that advice or you can self fulfill your prophecy that it is a shift in attitude on the site that is holding you back

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

When no effort is made with profile then no effort returned I'd guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here many years on and off and have been fortunate to meet some really nice people. But lately I have sent out nice, polite message to people and get ignored. I don't understand why the change of attitude from people. Do the ladies prefer a more direct, crude message being sent. I think not. My apologises if this sounds like a rant, just don't understand why the shift in attitude.

I've found exactly the same as well.Seems like most people think it's acceptable to ignore & sometimes block. I guess there are so many solo men on here compared to women & couples its the only way to keep on top of hundreds of messsges from solo men. Rather annoying though."

Do you reply to all the unsolicited post that drops through the letter box or do you bin the ones that do not interest you

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"No public pics

No profile pics

Can't accom

Asking for discretion

Not verified

All going to go against you

Why not try and meet with those you have met previously ? (If they are still here)

Or ask them to veri you again ?

It'd be a start "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why message back if your not interested especially as most of the woman have over 100 messages a day so why peeling it plus I bet you would reply to their polite thanks but no thanks with your missing out on the fuck of your life grow a thicker skin or don’t fab simples

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh there it is the old judging thing,it couldn't be anything to do with your profile could it,you just go ahead and blame women for your lack of messages. We've heard it countless time's before.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I have been here many years on and off and have been fortunate to meet some really nice people. But lately I have sent out nice, polite message to people and get ignored. I don't understand why the change of attitude from people. Do the ladies prefer a more direct, crude message being sent. I think not. My apologises if this sounds like a rant, just don't understand why the shift in attitude."

It'll be due to the influx of singletons who assume that as it's a Swingers site, it has to be Instashag.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The self entitlement is strong today with a touch of the boo hoos thrown in on this thread.

Don’t tread on those dummies with bare feet folks, it hurts.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"The self entitlement is strong today with a touch of the boo hoos thrown in on this thread.

Don’t tread on those dummies with bare feet folks, it hurts.

"

Lego hurts more

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The self entitlement is strong today with a touch of the boo hoos thrown in on this thread.

Don’t tread on those dummies with bare feet folks, it hurts.

Lego hurts more "

True but ever trod on a Birkenstock flip flop the wrong way? That’s a contender also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No public pics

No profile pics

Can't accom

Asking for discretion

Not verified

All going to go against you

...and don't forget the fabswingers being a publicly traded entity in his disclaimer! "

Totally this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why message back if your not interested especially as most of the woman have over 100 messages a day so why peeling it plus I bet you would reply to their polite thanks but no thanks with your missing out on the fuck of your life grow a thicker skin or don’t fab simples "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which couples/single ladies have the time to respond if they're getting countless messages every day? If you don't get a response just take it as a no thanks not interested at the moment. Actually seeing that in writing from someone doesn't make any difference to the outcome.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

[Removed by poster at 23/11/18 08:52:10]

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"The self entitlement is strong today with a touch of the boo hoos thrown in on this thread.

Don’t tread on those dummies with bare feet folks, it hurts.

Lego hurts more

True but ever trod on a Birkenstock flip flop the wrong way? That’s a contender also. "

Nope, a 3 pin plug trumps them all

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No public pics

No profile pics

Can't accom

Asking for discretion

Not verified

All going to go against you

Why not try and meet with those you have met previously ? (If they are still here)

Or ask them to veri you again ?

It'd be a start "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"The self entitlement is strong today with a touch of the boo hoos thrown in on this thread.

Don’t tread on those dummies with bare feet folks, it hurts.

"

The thread heading was a clue of what was to follow for me: entitlement.

I honestly don't understand the mentality around thinking as it's a sex/swinging site so EVERYONE I contact MUST get back to me tout suite! I'm working on secondment from the CIA to MI5 so can't upload any pertinent information, so what bitches, it's nsa fucking, how dare you not reply to me!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The self entitlement is strong today with a touch of the boo hoos thrown in on this thread.

Don’t tread on those dummies with bare feet folks, it hurts.

The thread heading was a clue of what was to follow for me: entitlement.

I honestly don't understand the mentality around thinking as it's a sex/swinging site so EVERYONE I contact MUST get back to me tout suite! I'm working on secondment from the CIA to MI5 so can't upload any pertinent information, so what bitches, it's nsa fucking, how dare you not reply to me! "

Nailed it!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The self entitlement is strong today with a touch of the boo hoos thrown in on this thread.

Don’t tread on those dummies with bare feet folks, it hurts.

Lego hurts more

True but ever trod on a Birkenstock flip flop the wrong way? That’s a contender also.

Nope, a 3 pin plug trumps them all "

You win

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I have been here many years on and off and have been fortunate to meet some really nice people. But lately I have sent out nice, polite message to people and get ignored. I don't understand why the change of attitude from people. Do the ladies prefer a more direct, crude message being sent. I think not. My apologises if this sounds like a rant, just don't understand why the shift in attitude.

I've found exactly the same as well.Seems like most people think it's acceptable to ignore & sometimes block. I guess there are so many solo men on here compared to women & couples its the only way to keep on top of hundreds of messsges from solo men. Rather annoying though.

Thank you. Sometimes you wonder if it is just you. As for some of the previous comments, i would like to say, as everyone else here i have the right to annonimity as does everyone here. If people chatted more and judged less, it would be a better place."

You're forgetting this is a swingers site where it's important too be attracted to each other. You have no profile pic, no public pictures for us to view. I do not mean face pictures.. I'm talking body pictures.. there's nothing worse than talking to someone then finally seeing their photos only to find you're not attrached at all.. then there's the awkwardness of telling them they are not for you.. then you end up upsetting them. In our profile we do not ask for face pictures either way as we need to be attrached to the body 1st And foremost. You can still retain your identity by just showing your body (like us) Just cover tattoos etc. *Mrs

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"The self entitlement is strong today with a touch of the boo hoos thrown in on this thread.

Don’t tread on those dummies with bare feet folks, it hurts.

Lego hurts more

True but ever trod on a Birkenstock flip flop the wrong way? That’s a contender also.

Nope, a 3 pin plug trumps them all

You win "

I raise you a sharp clump of hard kitty litter... my cat learned some new vocabulary

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The self entitlement is strong today with a touch of the boo hoos thrown in on this thread.

Don’t tread on those dummies with bare feet folks, it hurts.

Lego hurts more

True but ever trod on a Birkenstock flip flop the wrong way? That’s a contender also.

Nope, a 3 pin plug trumps them all

You win

I raise you a sharp clump of hard kitty litter... my cat learned some new vocabulary "

Nah, not buying that one.

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