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By *ittenandthepirate OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We've found a new fun game! Instead of blocking people who decide to send abusive messages because they feel they have a right to no limits access to your bedroom, point out their orthological errors until they block us. Usually by the time they do, they're absolutely furious

What do you lot do when you get abusive messages apart form block and ignore?

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Hahahah, I like your style! I must try this next time we get an abusive message .

*Her*

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've a fair bit of practice lol - Sometimes I call it sport, and if I bored, really fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what's orthological mean?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Unfortunately I need to be in a good mood to be able to do this and that's unlikely after getting an abusive message. However I did have a long and very sarcastic conversation the other day when a guy decided his opinion of my activities was something I should take notice of. I think it was wasted on him though.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"what's orthological mean? "

Spelling and grammar, innit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's orthological mean? "

so glad you asked that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

orthological????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's orthological mean?

so glad you asked that "

I thought it were something to do with birds...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's orthological mean?

so glad you asked that

I thought it were something to do with birds...

Wolf

"

sshhhh so did I

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

I just keep sending a "polite" answer till they get fed up and go away!!!

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By *ostcauseMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

Just be nice to get a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be nice to get a message"

If your profile was a bit more informative you might get some. If it stays as it is, you most likely wont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just block and ignore seeing as i got reported and a warning the last time i sent an abusive message back....didnt seem to matter that i got the abuse first! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been playing this game for a long time...slanging match in cyber space...fantastic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is brilliant! Have to say it's not just the guys on here that take the huff. Some couples have so many regulations on their profile you need a notepad to keep then happy... even when they've messaged you!

Must try it!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"

What do you lot do when you get abusive messages apart form block and ignore?"

Nothing.....prefer to spend my time perving

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

i get guys saying nasty stuff about my size, i do state that im big and a few other things in my profile but still i get the idiots.i tend to just block and move onto the ones who deserve my attention. people shouldnt be so abusive.if someone says no, then move on.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I think its terribly unfair to have a battle of wits with someone who is unarmed. So I just block.

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By *ittenandthepirate OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"I think its terribly unfair to have a battle of wits with someone who is unarmed. So I just block. "

But baiting is so fun! There's a reason Jeremy Kyle is so popular these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i get guys saying nasty stuff about my size, i do state that im big and a few other things in my profile but still i get the idiots.i tend to just block and move onto the ones who deserve my attention. people shouldnt be so abusive.if someone says no, then move on. "

I get that to, one guy ive met before and had fun with, then got abusive. He messaged asking if i as available, i replied saying that i wasnt, his response was.... well i only asked cos i was desperate........ Some men just dont handle rejection well, bless them, they show their true colours and make it easier for me to choose who to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not believe in sinking to their level, hence I would normally delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are hours of fun to be had with the senders of abusive messages. Are they small? Tell them you are not Snow White and don't find dwarfs attractive. Do they live in insalubrious places like Gateshead? Tell them you are very sensitive and get depressed if you go to such places. Are they clearly poorly educated? Use lots of long words which they won't understand. Are they soldiers, sailors or airmen? Ask them why they chose a profession which entails spending all their time with other males.

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By *unwmidscplCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

sounds fun ..... now then wheres our block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The private notes but is a genius bit of work from admin, they deserve 5 stars for it!!

If we get an abusive one, we don't reply, we used to but there's no point in bickering. We just add some private notes, and when the same person emails is a few weeks later... That's when they are reminded of what they said and a no thanks. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think swinging attracts two types of people on here:

The first who swing because they enjoy the scene and everything that it entails.

The second who are on here because their faculties don't fuction well enough to get laid in the 'real world' and as a result tend to be a little touchy and overly aggressive.

I bet you can guess which catagory is most likely to send abusive messages

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i never get abusive messages....i feel left out now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The odd one we get, just ignore…. and block/report where needed.

Why waste any time on them, much more fun things to be doing

Is it worth been abusive back and Admin removing your profile too…. along with any verifications that you may have?

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what's orthological mean?

so glad you asked that

I thought it were something to do with birds...

Wolf

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Same here but I think it's ornithology

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"what's orthological mean?

so glad you asked that

I thought it were something to do with birds...

Wolf

horny theology wats that

Same here but I think it's ornithology "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id just abuse them back - fuck em

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton

The sort of people that send abusive messages are easy prey when it comes to any form of sensible and reasoned argument, now if they over time were to grow another brain cell it may be more of a sparing match...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or we can message people we like instead of messaging people we don't.

Much better use of energy.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"i never get abusive messages....i feel left out now "

I think people are too scared of me for abuse.. the last ones who did spent a night trying to avoid me in a club!!! lol... gave up after about an hour...

for some reason i am imposing.. lol

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By *risky-841Woman
over a year ago

Plymouth


"i get guys saying nasty stuff about my size, i do state that im big and a few other things in my profile but still i get the idiots.i tend to just block and move onto the ones who deserve my attention. people shouldnt be so abusive.if someone says no, then move on. "

I just had a look at your pics and you are gorgeous!! I wouldn't mind Good for you for not taking the crap, they don't know what they're missing! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i get guys saying nasty stuff about my size, i do state that im big and a few other things in my profile but still i get the idiots.i tend to just block and move onto the ones who deserve my attention. people shouldnt be so abusive.if someone says no, then move on. "
The posts you read here about men loving curvey woman ... its strange thay should send nasty mail ... is this because you will not meet ? i bet it is , and thay just lash out at having a go at hurting your feelings .... i say thank-god you found out what sort of people thay was before a meet .. you had a lucky escape . x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"i never get abusive messages....i feel left out now

I think people are too scared of me for abuse.. the last ones who did spent a night trying to avoid me in a club!!! lol... gave up after about an hour...

for some reason i am imposing.. lol "

can't think why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although, not abusive, I received a message from a young man and I replied (very nicely) and said I thought he was too young for me. He messaged me back and said, but surely age doesn't matter?I messaged back and said that he surely he should remove the 18-40 restriction on his profile then!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've found a new fun game! Instead of blocking people who decide to send abusive messages because they feel they have a right to no limits access to your bedroom, point out their orthological errors until they block us. Usually by the time they do, they're absolutely furious

What do you lot do when you get abusive messages apart form block and ignore?"

Oh I love the idea!

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