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By *reamweavers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these.

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

My view is that most of the profiles where the man can meet alone are actually single men hoping to stand out from the crowd. It's certainly not true for everyone, but I have encountered it

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Couples who play alone are minus 50%, which equals fake deception and list goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view is that most of the profiles where the man can meet alone are actually single men hoping to stand out from the crowd. It's certainly not true for everyone, but I have encountered it"
happens all the time here. I get wife girlfriend etc out at work. But I want to play.plus Straight men always mailing asking for sex ?

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby


"My view is that most of the profiles where the man can meet alone are actually single men hoping to stand out from the crowd. It's certainly not true for everyone, but I have encountered it happens all the time here. I get wife girlfriend etc out at work. But I want to play.plus Straight men always mailing asking for sex ? "

Men eh?!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these."

I do. And i agree.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


" A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, may have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these."

So these men who are cheats as you put it are in a couple just the same as men from couples profiles the only difference is the disclosure element.

The facts are men in couples be it with permission or not will always be less reliable won't stop as long and be less attentive because they have a primary partner who isn't you. If you want a more cold less intimate approach then the partnered up guy is the way to go but then you could just choose a very good dildo if you just want a hole filled.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are loads of coupled men on here who play alone. Whether or not they understand the dynamic of joining another couple is debatable though.

Lots of the singe men have been in a swinging relationship and understand well.

Some of the coupled up men have obtained their permission from unwilling spouses, I wouldn't say that's understanding the dynamic of a relationship at all.

In short it's the person not the relationship status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these."

Would it not just make sence to meet with single available guys? Let’s be honest there’s no shortage of them on this site it’s literaly a sausage fest

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By *reamweavers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


" A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, may have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these.

So these men who are cheats as you put it are in a couple just the same as men from couples profiles the only difference is the disclosure element.

The facts are men in couples be it with permission or not will always be less reliable won't stop as long and be less attentive because they have a primary partner who isn't you. If you want a more cold less intimate approach then the partnered up guy is the way to go but then you could just choose a very good dildo if you just want a hole filled.

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Totally disagree from experience with this. But opinions are opinions

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By *reamweavers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these.

Would it not just make sence to meet with single available guys? Let’s be honest there’s no shortage of them on this site it’s literaly a sausage fest"

Easier maybe, but too many let downs and arrogance

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Both Jack and i meet alone with each others full knowledege and permission

Its so tough getting fourway attraction and availability eith couples.

I can and have happily confirmed this to any ladies who want to meet Jack.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these."

So you know these coupled men are not fakes, how then? Do they tell you so? Or is this an other sweeping statement against all single men on here?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


" A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, may have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these.

So these men who are cheats as you put it are in a couple just the same as men from couples profiles the only difference is the disclosure element.

The facts are men in couples be it with permission or not will always be less reliable won't stop as long and be less attentive because they have a primary partner who isn't you. If you want a more cold less intimate approach then the partnered up guy is the way to go but then you could just choose a very good dildo if you just want a hole filled.

Totally disagree from experience with this. But opinions are opinions"

Also totally disagree. If we want a single guy then we borrow one from the couples we've already met. Works brilliantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these."

so do you build up a rapore with the mans wife/partner and have her approval......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is all well and good. But you have no proof that the guy in question has told his wife or partner. We think it’s important for a couple to involve her even if it’s just meeting for a social to show her the potential couple her husband is going to get involved with.

This way it’s guaranteed she is aware and hopefully happy for whatever his reason is for being there. We would not play if we thought she was unaware of his actions. For obvious reasons. No one wants an angry woman banging on your door at 2am.

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By *reamweavers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these.

so do you build up a rapore with the mans wife/partner and have her approval...... "

That's the best scenario, yes

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By *reamweavers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these.

So you know these coupled men are not fakes, how then? Do they tell you so? Or is this an other sweeping statement against all single men on here? "

No...we discuss it with the husband and wife, who are on here as a couple and are verified. Total transparency

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By *reamweavers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Both Jack and i meet alone with each others full knowledege and permission

Its so tough getting fourway attraction and availability eith couples.

I can and have happily confirmed this to any ladies who want to meet Jack.

Miss"

This exactly outlines why it works better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both me and foxy enjoy to play with other men and women either together or apart, we really enjoy seeing and talking about what we have each done

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

More than happy to lend the husband out, but it's not something we advertise on our profile for the very reasons shown in this thread, many people just jump to the conclusion it's just a male trying to fake it as a couple, or he doesn't have consent etc. Just easier to let people know that already know us and know how relaxed about it we really are haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can play alone as she would like that also have a couples profile which is deedarnchar where we have plenty of cam verifications and one or two meet verifications

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"This is all well and good. But you have no proof that the guy in question has told his wife or partner. We think it’s important for a couple to involve her even if it’s just meeting for a social to show her the potential couple her husband is going to get involved with.

This way it’s guaranteed she is aware and hopefully happy for whatever his reason is for being there. We would not play if we thought she was unaware of his actions. For obvious reasons. No one wants an angry woman banging on your door at 2am. "

Why do you assume they don’t seek to make sure the wife is aware?

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By *reamweavers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"This is all well and good. But you have no proof that the guy in question has told his wife or partner. We think it’s important for a couple to involve her even if it’s just meeting for a social to show her the potential couple her husband is going to get involved with.

This way it’s guaranteed she is aware and hopefully happy for whatever his reason is for being there. We would not play if we thought she was unaware of his actions. For obvious reasons. No one wants an angry woman banging on your door at 2am.

Why do you assume they don’t seek to make sure the wife is aware?"

Exactly, we would always chat with the wife too, to make sure she knew. That's why we prefer to meet men from couples who are active and with verifications on here. Kind of proves our original point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these.

So you know these coupled men are not fakes, how then? Do they tell you so? Or is this an other sweeping statement against all single men on here?

No...we discuss it with the husband and wife, who are on here as a couple and are verified. Total transparency "

What about your single men statement?

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By *reamweavers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Well we posted this a couple of weeks ago and had a moderate response. We are in contact with one very sexy man from a couple and hope to meet soon.

Surely there must be more couples out there where the man can meet alone? We would love to get to know more of you. Please get in touch

The reason: A massive proportion of single guys on here are cheats, fakes or dreamers. Of those who aren't, ma y have no idea of the dynamic if inviting a man into a marriage. Men from couples are none of these.

So you know these coupled men are not fakes, how then? Do they tell you so? Or is this an other sweeping statement against all single men on here?

No...we discuss it with the husband and wife, who are on here as a couple and are verified. Total transparency

What about your single men statement? "

Not all single men are as we have stated, and we have met some really nice single guys, but with the thousands on here a high number are, so it's just not worth the filtering, or being let down,or going through no shows. There are enough of them to ruin it for the rest.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many fakes on here..... single or part of a couple. It's up to you to suss out if they are for you or not. You can only decide what suits you - not just magically know who is lying and who isn't.

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