FabSwingers.com forum: Negative threads

By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Getting so pissed off with negative threads about timewasters, picture collectors etc. People need to use their filters and bloody common sense instead of expecting fab to hand everything on a plate to them. So yes, I would agree with some who say the site is getting worse, only because of this type person joining and moaning about everything.

People need to put some effort in themselves and do their own checks.

Personally, I love fab and intend to stay here whether I'm meeting or not. People can use the site how they wish.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Getting so pissed off with negative threads about timewasters, picture collectors etc. People need to use their filters and bloody common sense instead of expecting fab to hand everything on a plate to them. So yes, I would agree with some who say the site is getting worse, only because of this type person joining and moaning about everything.

People need to put some effort in themselves and do their own checks.

Personally, I love fab and intend to stay here whether I'm meeting or not. People can use the site how they wish. "
There is some irony in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By *hyevernotMan
over a year ago

Here and there

The site is what it is! Take the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune and all that. I love it here. I've met some truly great people. I just try not to take it too seriously!

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

People need to put some effort in themselves and do their own checks.

Personally, I love fab and intend to stay here whether I'm meeting or not. People can use the site how they wish. There is some irony in this thread.

Indeed. I'm moaning about the moaners lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People need to put some effort in themselves and do their own checks.

Personally, I love fab and intend to stay here whether I'm meeting or not. People can use the site how they wish. "

I just don’t read them. Most are probably new people who don’t realise the same thing gets posted every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People need to put some effort in themselves and do their own checks.

Personally, I love fab and intend to stay here whether I'm meeting or not. People can use the site how they wish. "

This

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

People need to put some effort in themselves and do their own checks.

Personally, I love fab and intend to stay here whether I'm meeting or not. People can use the site how they wish.

I just don’t read them. Most are probably new people who don’t realise the same thing gets posted every day. "

A lot seem to be from people who have rejoined of late.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

People need to put some effort in themselves and do their own checks.

Personally, I love fab and intend to stay here whether I'm meeting or not. People can use the site how they wish. There is some irony in this thread.

Indeed. I'm moaning about the moaners lol

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All I can say is Fab must do some good marketing and hype this site up. I think people moan if they're not getting sex to make themselves feel better.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I think at some point on here, we all encounter the odd 'chancer'

Tbh, it's not hard to spot them, it's how you deal with them that matters.

From what I see on the forums, alot of people are so eager to meet, they throw themselves in feet first, lose their common sense and then wail about it after.

I've met some amazing people here, had some fantastic experiences and have made incredible friends and will carry on doing so.

You really do get out what you put in.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m not one to be negative or moan but I’m just feeling so bored at the moment so here goes

Yes your cocks tiny

No it’s not special lady juice. Its pee

No I can’t meet you now

Fab my photo is you want I couldn’t give a shit

Look at me. Why? It’s just another cock

Yes believe it or not women do have brains fancy that

How rude you say and you sent me a photo of your red cock

And finially

Yes I do wear women’s clothes. Why? Because they don’t make dresses with flys

Now why don’t you go ¥$#k right off

Jesus Ms woods I do feel better xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is what it is.

When people complain, it is normally the average male who is overlooked.

If you have a clunge, tits, prepared to go bi, hung like a donkey, have a six pack etc then you can play on a level playing field.

A woman who has a pulse can get laid, all she has to do is agree to meet.

A male has to really sell himself to stand a chance.

The fact that people come on to the forums to moan is an indication that there is a significant population of the dissatisfied who trawl around fab, boosting ego's and feeding the beast in the hope of a fuck, yet get nowhere.

I'm an aquired taste. I know this. My friends list is small but I have managed to make friends. Funnily enough they are discerning,.aren't whoring themselves with predator yawn shots and they don't have a facebook status generator updating hourly.

If people voted with their feet and went elsewhere, fab would be left with the same bed hopping couples shagging each other and women suddenly bereft of attention.

If you don't like a thread, skip it.

Simples.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

The site is what you make it

I think some people have too high expectations of how it works and expect to have lots of meets,no effort.

Miss

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"The site is what you make it

I think some people have too high expectations of how it works and expect to have lots of meets,no effort.

Miss"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone posted something in a similar thread the other day that made sense. He asked “how do you identify a pic collector?”

The generic reply to the “”complainers” is “you get out what you put in” no matter what site you register with, simple as that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People need to put some effort in themselves and do their own checks.

Personally, I love fab and intend to stay here whether I'm meeting or not. People can use the site how they wish. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. I really don’t get the gripes.

Either leave if it’s so bad, or make the most of what you have, you can make your experiences on here better.

People forget it is just sex, it is not a job, or our livelihood so there really is no need to have a hissy fit if you can’t get a meet this week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. I really don’t get the gripes.

Either leave if it’s so bad, or make the most of what you have, you can make your experiences on here better.

People forget it is just sex, it is ot a job, or our livelihood so there really is no need to have a hissy fit if you can’t get a meet this year!

ftfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who are having a great experience really have no idea how grim it is for mere mortals.

Try setting up a fake male profile and see how you get on.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I agree. I really don’t get the gripes.

Either leave if it’s so bad, or make the most of what you have, you can make your experiences on here better.

People forget it is just sex, it is not a job, or our livelihood so there really is no need to have a hissy fit if you can’t get a meet this week!

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Yeah but you're a woman, easy for you to get sex.

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By *7345Man
over a year ago

wakefield

I agree. There’s not need for the negativity.

Also- no need for negative comments they can be quite upsetting. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. I really don’t get the gripes.

Either leave if it’s so bad, or make the most of what you have, you can make your experiences on here better.

People forget it is just sex, it is not a job, or our livelihood so there really is no need to have a hissy fit if you can’t get a meet this week!

Yeah but you're a woman, easy for you to get sex.

Maybe so.

But still, why stay on a site that is giving you a negative experience unless you can’t get it elsewhere?

Not saying that is the case, but surely many on here have plenty of options to get sex, so why stay on a site that isn’t giving you what you want?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Fab is what it is.

When people complain, it is normally the average male who is overlooked.

If you have a clunge, tits, prepared to go bi, hung like a donkey, have a six pack etc then you can play on a level playing field.

A woman who has a pulse can get laid, all she has to do is agree to meet.

A male has to really sell himself to stand a chance.

If people voted with their feet and went elsewhere, fab would be left with the same bed hopping couples shagging each other and women suddenly bereft of attention.

If you don't like a thread, skip it.

Simples."

You had your weetabix this morning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. I really don’t get the gripes.

Either leave if it’s so bad, or make the most of what you have, you can make your experiences on here better.

People forget it is just sex, it is ot a job, or our livelihood so there really is no need to have a hissy fit if you can’t get a meet this year!

ftfy"

Haha! Well there’s not long left of this year!

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Those who are having a great experience really have no idea how grim it is for mere mortals.

Try setting up a fake male profile and see how you get on."

Try a female one lol.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I agree. I really don’t get the gripes.

Either leave if it’s so bad, or make the most of what you have, you can make your experiences on here better.

People forget it is just sex, it is not a job, or our livelihood so there really is no need to have a hissy fit if you can’t get a meet this week!

Yeah but you're a woman, easy for you to get sex.

Maybe so.

But still, why stay on a site that is giving you a negative experience unless you can’t get it elsewhere?

Not saying that is the case, but surely many on here have plenty of options to get sex, so why stay on a site that isn’t giving you what you want?

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Hope is a dangerous thing. Hope can drive a man insane.

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By *ournemouthbusinessguyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I totally agree, we all have different wants and needs, this site has quite a mix. ive met some lovely people and some total nutjobs, i just believe to someone else they are perfect. why moan about it?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

People need to put some effort in themselves and do their own checks.

Personally, I love fab and intend to stay here whether I'm meeting or not. People can use the site how they wish. There is some irony in this thread.

Indeed. I don't think it's fair to moan at people moaning about timewasters though,it must be damn annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who are having a great experience really have no idea how grim it is for mere mortals.

Try setting up a fake male profile and see how you get on."

I did once...and did not have a problem talking to people....the key is just that...talk to people, be polite and respectful...and never expect an instant fuck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who are having a great experience really have no idea how grim it is for mere mortals.

Try setting up a fake male profile and see how you get on.

Try a female one lol. "

Touche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who are having a great experience really have no idea how grim it is for mere mortals.

Try setting up a fake male profile and see how you get on.

I did once...and did not have a problem talking to people....the key is just that...talk to people, be polite and respectful...and never expect an instant fuck!!"

I gave up on the fuck option ages ago...

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Those who are having a great experience really have no idea how grim it is for mere mortals.

Try setting up a fake male profile and see how you get on.

I did once...and did not have a problem talking to people....the key is just that...talk to people, be polite and respectful...and never expect an instant fuck!!

I gave up on the fuck option ages ago..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn’t at al negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site has a massive part to play in keeping fakes out.

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"The site has a massive part to play in keeping fakes out."

How do you propose they do that? Site users have all the tools available to do this as well. Due diligence with a large dose of common sense usually works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tbag them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moan threads do get repetitive but you get to the point you just bypass most of them.

Maybe we should have a rant forum like the politics one then they are easier to avoid.

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