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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just us or are others put off when they see passive aggressive status.

I think we all know now that there are going to be let downs and no shows etc.

But when you see someone throw their toys out the pram does it put you off even considering messaging them

We are all here for fun not drama

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Yes it puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when I see one I block the person so I don't make the mistake of contacting them when they are NOT throwing a tantrum.

Usual complaints are "are there any real people on here", " does anyone ever reply to messages", "sick of time wasters", one guy even wrote a ladies username saying she never replies to him. I reported that one to admin.

The worst are the ones that are abusive to women in general...using the words fake or time wasting followed by the word slags or bitches.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

The ones goin I’m bout who they blocked um, you blockecthem they won’t see it and I doubt they even cared or noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels more and more like Facebook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us or are others put off when they see passive aggressive status.

I think we all know now that there are going to be let downs and no shows etc.

But when you see someone throw their toys out the pram does it put you off even considering messaging them

We are all here for fun not drama "

Definitely a putt off. When we see one we make a note on that profile so to know not to get involved with them in any way if they were ever to message us.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feels more and more like Facebook! "

I do sometimes wish I could respond to these statuses with an eye rolling or crying laughing emoji.

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

That is why I never instigate a meet as having day's of feelings OK but days not Medical. I've found it more difficult and yes of putting when I see those kinds of status.

And when I think I've found a potential you then find out there not telling everything i.e married without consent from the partner.

That might suit other people but for me no. I have no issues chatting to them on here or in a social environment party but nothing else would happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have replied to one or two for fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have replied to one or two for fun "

We are always tempted too

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"I have replied to one or two for fun

We are always tempted too "

Me too

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Definitely puts us off, it is like they are showing their true colours. Everyone gets let down or upset at one point but there is no real excuse for going off on one.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"Is it just us or are others put off when they see passive aggressive status.

I think we all know now that there are going to be let downs and no shows etc.

But when you see someone throw their toys out the pram does it put you off even considering messaging them

We are all here for fun not drama "

Most people are but I get why some do it at times and assume the ones who do don't really struggle to get meets anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have replied to one or two for fun

We are always tempted too "

It's so much fun when I'm bored and don't mind getting blocked by them

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It doesn’t bother me really. I use it as a filter if anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t bother us. I don’t think a rant or two in the statuses is a window into someone’s soul!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We just view it as a helpful hint for what they are really like ... negativity and moaning are unattrative.

On the other hand funny or unusual profiles statuses are a definite attraction.

Nita

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I have replied to one or two for fun "

Me too!

But they're useful. Particularly when they lean more aggressive. If you're willing to say that the women of Fab are (insert sexist remarks here), then do you wonder why none of them will reply to your messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes Status also tells their mood, we cant misjudge then just on status unless is downright offensive or mentions certain ppl.

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