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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...

Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.

Unbelievable

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

bugger...any decent person will understand...onward and upward as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on there are plenty more fish in the sea as they say! If we have had to cancel a meet at the last min everyone has been cool, ok it is disappointing but hey that's life!

Perhaps its a wake up call for you to what that person is really like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...

Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.

Unbelievable "
its difficult not 2 b disappointed when u get yourself all hyped and pumped up 4 a meet, then it don't happen, but yeah your situations a little different....the worst is when the meet actually happens and falls way short of expectations, something that makes me abit weary now, so i try not 2 expect 2 much b4 hand..really really try!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh well never mind. Maybe the "life" should be more understanding and give you a pass to go out shagging more often

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Oh well never mind. Maybe the "life" should be more understanding and give you a pass to go out shagging more often"

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By *ovable roguesCouple
over a year ago

GATESHEAD

that is the reason why we dont tend to make arrangements to meet we usually sway more towards the last min type of meet

it probably doesnt work for everyone but it works for us as we find the more we chat and try to arrange things the less likely it happens (in our experience anyway)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well never mind. Maybe the "life" should be more understanding and give you a pass to go out shagging more often"

I'm not sure that's entirely fair. The OP has made a valid point and all sorts of things can stop a meet from going ahead. People on here all have their own personal circumstances and to assume that he is cheating on someone is a leap. Speaks more of your experience than of the OP perhaps?

Sorry. I don't usually comment on such posts, but...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right, this is probably gonna sound mean. Warning over lol.

But some people are just too desperate to understand that swingers have a life outside of... well.. swinging

Some people can be extremely pushy, but you can get lucky with the people who are actually in the same position as you, but still talk to you even if there isn't a meet anytime soon between you. We are lucky, we have found people like that.

You'll find someone who has a life outside of fab

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...

Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.

Unbelievable "

in which case.... 2 things

1) why would you want to meet someone if that is the way they felt???

2) why are you stressing over it????

if that is life and that is who they are then why get annoyed.....

things happen... move on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...

Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.

Unbelievable "

ok im sorry im free to play chess next friday if you can make it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well never mind. Maybe the "life" should be more understanding and give you a pass to go out shagging more often "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely especially those who don't have kids and don't understand that those of us that have kids, put them first

Just move on, plenty more fish in the sea as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh well never mind. Maybe the "life" should be more understanding and give you a pass to go out shagging more often"

Brutal but very funny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I'm quite interested in getting a meet now so I can cancel at the last minute and be classed as a timewaster to go along with "no good single guy"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had to as a single mother my daughter comes first always will. the way i look at it is if they dont understand just move on they arent worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...

Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.

Unbelievable

its difficult not 2 b disappointed when u get yourself all hyped and pumped up 4 a meet, then it don't happen"

Actually it does not bother me at all if people cancel a meet, i just come on here and find someone to replace them, its no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i cancel a meet there is a damm good reason for it

my life comes 1st my sexlife 2nd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only cancelled a meet once in 11 years of doing this and that was when i was a couple as my daughter cut her leg open and we had to take her to the hospital, i have never had to cancel a meet in the 2 and a half years ive been single as i only arrange meets when my daughter is at her dads there for i dont have the babysitter letting me down problem, of course even if she was at her dads and she became ill id cancel and go to her but thats never happened as yet

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Oh well never mind. Maybe the "life" should be more understanding and give you a pass to go out shagging more often

I'm not sure that's entirely fair. The OP has made a valid point and all sorts of things can stop a meet from going ahead. People on here all have their own personal circumstances and to assume that he is cheating on someone is a leap. Speaks more of your experience than of the OP perhaps?

Sorry. I don't usually comment on such posts, but... "

I would agree with you if i had assumed but seeing as he has it on his profile, its not an assumption

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That sometimes 'life' gets in the way and meetings have to be cancelled...

Someone I've met a few times and still thinks I'm a waster.

Unbelievable

its difficult not 2 b disappointed when u get yourself all hyped and pumped up 4 a meet, then it don't happen

Actually it does not bother me at all if people cancel a meet, i just come on here and find someone to replace them, its no big deal "
haha...ohhh, your frosty!

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