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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. " i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about " It’s also about meeting with someone you’re attracted to. If people look at your photos and aren’t physically attracted to you, why should they waste their time meeting you? Or would you rather them waste your time and get to know you, only for them still to say “you’re not my type”? Atleast they’re not stringing you along. I certainly wouldn’t meet with someone I don’t fancy, I don’t think many would. | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about It’s also about meeting with someone you’re attracted to. If people look at your photos and aren’t physically attracted to you, why should they waste their time meeting you? Or would you rather them waste your time and get to know you, only for them still to say “you’re not my type”? Atleast they’re not stringing you along. I certainly wouldn’t meet with someone I don’t fancy, I don’t think many would. " this i totally understand for example your profile states you prefer older white men. although your very good looking and have great pics, immediately this would stop me from messaging you as im not your type. but im talking about the people on here who day in day out beg for meets and then have a hissy when they dont get one when you know they have had maybe 3-4 people say they want to meet but cus of whatever reason they dont meet | |||
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"this site has got so backwards over the years. seeeing alot of people complaining on there status they dont get meets yet you message them and they either disregard your message or say your not there type. surely if they actually gave someone a chance theyd get meets and people need to stop judging people on face value and get to know people... e.g i have an allergy to razors therefore can only trim my genital hair which is well kept but then cheky fuckers say "shave your pubes and ill meet" like what is that about Rant over" OP if you feel that not removing your pubic hair completely may be an issue then pop something about it in your profile. That way people will know before engaging in conversation and nobody will feel their time is being wasted talking to someone they aren't compatible with. I did and it works for me! | |||
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"this site has got so backwards over the years. seeeing alot of people complaining on there status they dont get meets yet you message them and they either disregard your message or say your not there type. surely if they actually gave someone a chance theyd get meets and people need to stop judging people on face value and get to know people... e.g i have an allergy to razors therefore can only trim my genital hair which is well kept but then cheky fuckers say "shave your pubes and ill meet" like what is that about Rant over OP if you feel that not removing your pubic hair completely may be an issue then pop something about it in your profile. That way people will know before engaging in conversation and nobody will feel their time is being wasted talking to someone they aren't compatible with. I did and it works for me!" thanks ill update that and tbh i dont mind if people dont want to meet because of it. tbh i find the whole complete shaving of pubic hair especially on men wierd | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about " You posted a comment on another thread criticising people for having standards that are too high. Which is it?  | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about You posted a comment on another thread criticising people for having standards that are too high. Which is it? "this was just a general rant about what i see on here on a day to day basis not an attack on anyones standards or anything like that just wanted to see what people think | |||
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"Veet" tbh mate ifind the whole men shaving pubes a weird thing like i trim am keep them well kept but shaving it all off just horrible | |||
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"Maybe the statuses are about not being able to find people they don't find attractive enough to want to meet, not about just not getting meets?! "*they find attractive enough | |||
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"People make choices OP. If your not that choice there is not much you can do about it...." i love how everyone seems to think im complaing that im not getting meets when im just sharing an observation | |||
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"Maybe the statuses are about not being able to find people they don't find attractive enough to want to meet, not about just not getting meets?! "i dunno just sometimes feel like there being begs for a sympathy vote | |||
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"Veet tbh mate ifind the whole men shaving pubes a weird thing like i trim am keep them well kept but shaving it all off just horrible " If that's the choice you make, you have to accept that people may not find it acceptable. (my pubic hair is natural - no, I don't want positive or negative feedback on it please - and it certainly does mean I don't meet certain people. I have my reasons, I make my choices, I live with it) | |||
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"Maybe the statuses are about not being able to find people they don't find attractive enough to want to meet, not about just not getting meets?!
i dunno just sometimes feel like there being begs for a sympathy vote "Very possibly. | |||
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"Maybe the statuses are about not being able to find people they don't find attractive enough to want to meet, not about just not getting meets?!
i dunno just sometimes feel like there being begs for a sympathy vote
Very possibly. "I'd not choose to rant about it on my status myself, but it is a real problem. Water everywhere but difficult to work out if it's safe to drink, sort of thing. | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about " Nobody fucks a personality, maybe in Magical fantasy land. Anything online is superficial and hard to convey personality. Get out to clubs and socials where personality can go a long way. | |||
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"Veet tbh mate ifind the whole men shaving pubes a weird thing like i trim am keep them well kept but shaving it all off just horrible If that's the choice you make, you have to accept that people may not find it acceptable. (my pubic hair is natural - no, I don't want positive or negative feedback on it please - and it certainly does mean I don't meet certain people. I have my reasons, I make my choices, I live with it) " i totally understand that but being told that people will meet only if i shave down there is a bit rude imo | |||
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"Veet tbh mate ifind the whole men shaving pubes a weird thing like i trim am keep them well kept but shaving it all off just horrible If that's the choice you make, you have to accept that people may not find it acceptable. (my pubic hair is natural - no, I don't want positive or negative feedback on it please - and it certainly does mean I don't meet certain people. I have my reasons, I make my choices, I live with it) i totally understand that but being told that people will meet only if i shave down there is a bit rude imo " I get told all the time. It's just the way it is. | |||
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"Maybe the statuses are about not being able to find people they don't find attractive enough to want to meet, not about just not getting meets?!
i dunno just sometimes feel like there being begs for a sympathy vote
Very possibly.
I'd not choose to rant about it on my status myself, but it is a real problem. Water everywhere but difficult to work out if it's safe to drink, sort of thing. "yeah exactly im not saying that everyone is the same but no need to tell everyone your not getting meets an abundance of people on here who dont get meets and just get on with it | |||
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"Veet tbh mate ifind the whole men shaving pubes a weird thing like i trim am keep them well kept but shaving it all off just horrible If that's the choice you make, you have to accept that people may not find it acceptable. (my pubic hair is natural - no, I don't want positive or negative feedback on it please - and it certainly does mean I don't meet certain people. I have my reasons, I make my choices, I live with it) i totally understand that but being told that people will meet only if i shave down there is a bit rude imo I get told all the time. It's just the way it is. " everyone is constantly trying to funnel each other in to little boxes when this community shouldnt be like it at all and dont let anyone tell you what to do with your body | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about Nobody fucks a personality, maybe in Magical fantasy land. Anything online is superficial and hard to convey personality. Get out to clubs and socials where personality can go a long way." i get totally get that bro but im not talking about me personally | |||
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"Veet tbh mate ifind the whole men shaving pubes a weird thing like i trim am keep them well kept but shaving it all off just horrible If that's the choice you make, you have to accept that people may not find it acceptable. (my pubic hair is natural - no, I don't want positive or negative feedback on it please - and it certainly does mean I don't meet certain people. I have my reasons, I make my choices, I live with it) i totally understand that but being told that people will meet only if i shave down there is a bit rude imo I get told all the time. It's just the way it is. everyone is constantly trying to funnel each other in to little boxes when this community shouldnt be like it at all and dont let anyone tell you what to do with your body " People ultimately can choose who they want or what they're looking for, though. I don't let anyone dictate to me in that way. But anyone who expects me to be bald apart from my scalp and eyebrows... Sorry, I'm not for you, happy Fabbing. | |||
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"Veet tbh mate ifind the whole men shaving pubes a weird thing like i trim am keep them well kept but shaving it all off just horrible If that's the choice you make, you have to accept that people may not find it acceptable. (my pubic hair is natural - no, I don't want positive or negative feedback on it please - and it certainly does mean I don't meet certain people. I have my reasons, I make my choices, I live with it) i totally understand that but being told that people will meet only if i shave down there is a bit rude imo I get told all the time. It's just the way it is. everyone is constantly trying to funnel each other in to little boxes when this community shouldnt be like it at all and dont let anyone tell you what to do with your body People ultimately can choose who they want or what they're looking for, though. I don't let anyone dictate to me in that way. But anyone who expects me to be bald apart from my scalp and eyebrows... Sorry, I'm not for you, happy Fabbing. " thats how i am if you dont like it your problem | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about Nobody fucks a personality, maybe in Magical fantasy land. Anything online is superficial and hard to convey personality. Get out to clubs and socials where personality can go a long way. i get totally get that bro but im not talking about me personally " Well there is not enough women or couples on here for everybody to get their fair share unfortunately. It's competitive there's winners & losers. | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about Nobody fucks a personality, maybe in Magical fantasy land. Anything online is superficial and hard to convey personality. Get out to clubs and socials where personality can go a long way. i get totally get that bro but im not talking about me personally Well there is not enough women or couples on here for everybody to get their fair share unfortunately. It's competitive there's winners & losers." i get that but dont you think its actually off putting seeing people whine about not getting meets makes them sound desperate | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about Nobody fucks a personality, maybe in Magical fantasy land. Anything online is superficial and hard to convey personality. Get out to clubs and socials where personality can go a long way. i get totally get that bro but im not talking about me personally Well there is not enough women or couples on here for everybody to get their fair share unfortunately. It's competitive there's winners & losers. i get that but dont you think its actually off putting seeing people whine about not getting meets makes them sound desperate " I personally wouldn’t do it, but it’s their choice I guess. Maybe they are frustrated, although it does look negative posting it. | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about Nobody fucks a personality, maybe in Magical fantasy land. Anything online is superficial and hard to convey personality. Get out to clubs and socials where personality can go a long way. i get totally get that bro but im not talking about me personally Well there is not enough women or couples on here for everybody to get their fair share unfortunately. It's competitive there's winners & losers. i get that but dont you think its actually off putting seeing people whine about not getting meets makes them sound desperate " I don't care about other men on here. There is a lot of desperate men on here no doubt but they do themselves no favours by moaning. It might increase my chances so I like letting them fuck up  | |||
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"So you’re complaining about people complaining? Just because they are complaining about not getting any meets, that doesn’t mean they should have to lower their standards or meet someone they consider isn’t their type. If you’re not someone’s time, that’s that. Move onto the next one. i'm not talking about people lowering there standards just people taking the time to actually get to know each other before dismissing someone i thought thats what swinging was about " When your profile states webcam only and no kik or Skype and you get messages asking to Skype kik or meet. Why do you think some people complain. It's so hard to not look like a moaner but you get driven to it. Men message saying they are horny. I honestly couldn't care less. Get an escort. I have a life and a family and that comes first. I do think the single men sit at home thinking women and couples do nothing but fuck and look for sex.thats so opposite to reality | |||
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