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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "Because the site has been compromised to a degree unfortunately. | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "Because if they make you value yourself more you will fuck them. | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "don't read it with a negative bias then it is | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here" I don't think any men think women can't get laid and they certainly wouldn’t think that of you | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "As a guess, they say it by way of compliment, hoping your reply will be along following lines; "oh thank you kind sir, I am flattered, do you want to come and fuck me " Lots of men and women on here are "chancers" and always on the pull - tactics come into play Now this gives me idea for new topic to post ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,  | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here" I think some women can attract guy's on here that they couldn't in real life though. | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here" They say things like that because they think that you will be flattered that they think you aren't like the rest of us dreadful old harpies. They hope you will fall swooning in to their arms. If they're saying it to you, they're saying it to every woman they message. I don't know if they think we're stupid or if some women fall for it. | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women hereI don't think any men think women can't get laid and they certainly wouldn’t think that of you " I periodically get told by men that they're not desperate, therefore I have to do what they say. They're most offended to find that I'm not either, and, well, no. | |||
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"Its the 'try every trick in the book to snap your knicker elastic' approach, their perceptions of what a woman wants to hear. Thankfully (hopefully) they are in the minority" They're a majority of messages I receive. Alas. | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here I think some women can attract guy's on here that they couldn't in real life though. " And I am eternally grateful for desperate hot men | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here I think some women can attract guy's on here that they couldn't in real life though. " That's true. I'm well aware that the young men who contact us wouldn't approach me in a bar. Swinging/casual sex has different rules to real life | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here I think some women can attract guy's on here that they couldn't in real life though. And I am eternally grateful for desperate hot men "yeah you can't blame them, if it was the other way around men would do the same. | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "because its a non passive aggressive way of running over every other single bloke whilst making themselves look different without them looking what they really are which is smarmy!!! 
other than that... its territory marking, i am good enough for you but no one else is!!!
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here I think some women can attract guy's on here that they couldn't in real life though. " I personally don't meet anyone that I know wouldn't give me a second glance in real life I guess everyone's here for their own reasons but feeling judged/low is a big turn off for me | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here I think some women can attract guy's on here that they couldn't in real life though. I personally don't meet anyone that I know wouldn't give me a second glance in real life I guess everyone's here for their own reasons but feeling judged/low is a big turn off for me " Yeah you don't wanna feel used. It is a society thing aswell a man is considered a player and a woman is considered a slut. | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here I think some women can attract guy's on here that they couldn't in real life though. I personally don't meet anyone that I know wouldn't give me a second glance in real life I guess everyone's here for their own reasons but feeling judged/low is a big turn off for me Yeah you don't wanna feel used. It is a society thing aswell a man is considered a player and a woman is considered a slut. " I don't mind feeling used in the bedroom but respect me Before and after god damn it | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here I think some women can attract guy's on here that they couldn't in real life though. I personally don't meet anyone that I know wouldn't give me a second glance in real life I guess everyone's here for their own reasons but feeling judged/low is a big turn off for me Yeah you don't wanna feel used. It is a society thing aswell a man is considered a player and a woman is considered a slut. I don't mind feeling used in the bedroom but respect me Before and after god damn it "noted  | |||
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here" Only the guys who send you the message can answer why they do..everyone else is guessing... have you asked them ? If the messages you and others are receiving aren't what you'd like inappropriate or whatever else.. Block those genders, no stress from said leakages, then if you'd like to chat with those genders search yourself and initiate contact.. simple as that no more you're too good messages .
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women here Only the guys who send you the message can answer why they do..everyone else is guessing... have you asked them ? If the messages you and others are receiving aren't what you'd like inappropriate or whatever else.. Block those genders, no stress from said leakages, then if you'd like to chat with those genders search yourself and initiate contact.. simple as that no more you're too good messages .
Or just like in real life you have to accept you'll receive mail you'd prefer not to. "Oh I know they get blocked Just having a little rant
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women hereI don't think any men think women can't get laid and they certainly wouldn’t think that of you I periodically get told by men that they're not desperate, therefore I have to do what they say. They're most offended to find that I'm not either, and, well, no. " but why would anyone mention desperation? Do people actually come here because they are desperate for sex, if they do they learn pretty quickly it's not the way to cure that problem | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "I think you are over thinking it !! It’s just a compliment try and get in your knicks | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab
I think you are over thinking it !! It’s just a compliment try and get in your knicks "I know Think the mindset of some men(via statuses and the standard 'this is a sex site' response to refusals) is getting old lately Think I need to raise my minimum age to 40 
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"Just giving another perspective. Perhaps what he/they meant is that there are an awful lot of erhm let's say 'rotund' swingers abound ...perhaps all he meant is that you're looking good in comparison?" I'm just being a grumpy bitch today(11 days without sex) Next one with the attitude I'm going to meet and take a strap on Turn the tables  | |||
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"Just giving another perspective. Perhaps what he/they meant is that there are an awful lot of erhm let's say 'rotund' swingers abound ...perhaps all he meant is that you're looking good in comparison?" he did mean that but unfortunately women get a lot of I wanna get in your knickers compliments and in the Ops case it's worn thin | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "Well said! | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab
I think you are over thinking it !! It’s just a compliment try and get in your knicks
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Think the mindset of some men(via statuses and the standard 'this is a sex site' response to refusals) is getting old lately
Think I need to raise my minimum age to 40
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"Iv often had it said Or what are you doing on a site that this(negatively) Maybe because I'm single and its generally single men that contact me Not digging at all men but there are lots on fab that think women are here because they can't get laid in real life which isn't the case for most women hereI don't think any men think women can't get laid and they certainly wouldn’t think that of you I periodically get told by men that they're not desperate, therefore I have to do what they say. They're most offended to find that I'm not either, and, well, no. but why would anyone mention desperation? Do people actually come here because they are desperate for sex, if they do they learn pretty quickly it's not the way to cure that problem " Don't know. I don't start that conversation and they never like what I do with it. | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "Along with those "just here for the forums" or doesn't your objections go that far? | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "Because they are stuck to think of any other bullshit line! If you ask friends you find its the same guy pasting the same message to every woman on line. | |||
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"Because they want to get their dick wet so blow you some smoke. They also show they are here for an easy lay and possibly not here for the lifestyle aspects. Would probably get the hump about sharing etc " The number of times I see profiles about guys wanting fun nsa but not wanting a girl who sleeps around... | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab
Because they are stuck to think of any other bullshit line! If you ask friends you find its the same guy pasting the same message to every woman on line. "ffs women cockblocking me again  | |||
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"Because they want to get their dick wet so blow you some smoke. They also show they are here for an easy lay and possibly not here for the lifestyle aspects. Would probably get the hump about sharing etc " This exactly Iv met 6 men so far only one out if those truthfully had a swinger mind set and didn't get the hump if a new veri went up (all were happy enough to carry on 'swinging' themselves tho ) | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab
Well said! "Nobody has the right to tell other members to get off fab. | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "Probably because in recent years there's been a large influx of people who see fab as just another hook up site rather than a swingers site. The one's saying this probably just use it for vanilla 1-1 meets and make the assumption you're doing the same as them. | |||
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"Because they want to get their dick wet so blow you some smoke. They also show they are here for an easy lay and possibly not here for the lifestyle aspects. Would probably get the hump about sharing etc This exactly Iv met 6 men so far only one out if those truthfully had a swinger mind set and didn't get the hump if a new veri went up (all were happy enough to carry on 'swinging' themselves tho )"The true essence of "swinging" is the fact that you and your partner/s are happy in sharing - no room for jealous fickle minded people of either sex - also swinging is about ultimate trust My ex wife and I where swinging together for 8/9 years, both Bisexual and we met separately on odd occasions, trust was the key that made it work | |||
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"Is the OP an authority on how men think.? Just wondering......." Well no, but she's an authority on her experience of her inbox, which (by my authority on my inbox) isn't unique. | |||
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"Is the OP an authority on how men think.? Just wondering......." It was a simple, straightforward question. Based on her experiences. She didnt claim to be an authority on anything. | |||
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"Is the OP an authority on how men think.? Just wondering....... It was a simple, straightforward question. Based on her experiences. She didnt claim to be an authority on anything." since when has that stopped anyone in forums | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "Because some of them seem to think us ladies are on here because we are desperate and have to be What they don’t seem to understand is we chose to be on here lol | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab
Because some of them seem to think us ladies are on here because we are desperate and have to be
What they don’t seem to understand is we chose to be on here lol "Scarlettx surely nobody treats you like that, if they do tell me and I'll dye their hair green | |||
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"I get them too. Doesn't say much for them really, if they were prepared to join a site thinking it was gonna be full of mingers, yet they joined anyway." theirs always a princess in the haystack | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab
Because some of them seem to think us ladies are on here because we are desperate and have to be
What they don’t seem to understand is we chose to be on here lol Scarlettx surely nobody treats you like that, if they do tell me and I'll dye their hair green"Haha I will send em your way | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab
Because some of them seem to think us ladies are on here because we are desperate and have to be
What they don’t seem to understand is we chose to be on here lol Scarlettx surely nobody treats you like that, if they do tell me and I'll dye their hair green
Haha I will send em your way "you're welcome I've got dye and peroxide ready it's envy green | |||
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"It is a vanilla way of thinking but I don't really blame the guys that think like that, it is not their fault. Vanilla ladies do the same thing when I tell them immediately I meet them that I am not interested in any kind of relationship beyond having fun. I think it is the way the culture of the society has structured people to think." What's ice cream got to do with it? Are you better at sex because you are here? | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab
Well said!
Nobody has the right to tell other members to get off fab."Its their right to say what they like! | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "First world problems | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "I don't think they are doing it out of malice. Some may be trying to ingratiate themselves, others might just be trying to be nice. The question really should be why do some people react badly to other peoples attempts to be nice to them. | |||
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"You're too good for this site and things along those lines it's not a compliment you are not a swinger Get off fab "I agree. I’ve had it a lot and I usually say something like “Shall I leave the ?” Their answer is always no... | |||
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"Just giving another perspective. Perhaps what he/they meant is that there are an awful lot of erhm let's say 'rotund' swingers abound ...perhaps all he meant is that you're looking good in comparison?" As a “rotund” female, I have had the same comments the OP has countless times. What could be my reason for such messages from men? | |||
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"I get them too. Doesn't say much for them really, if they were prepared to join a site thinking it was gonna be full of mingers, yet they joined anyway." Brilliant!! | |||
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"It is a vanilla way of thinking but I don't really blame the guys that think like that, it is not their fault. Vanilla ladies do the same thing when I tell them immediately I meet them that I am not interested in any kind of relationship beyond having fun. I think it is the way the culture of the society has structured people to think." Random | |||
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"It's quite interesting the ones who think you're God's gift in the first message, and shortly after you delete the message you become the opposite. "  | |||
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"It's quite interesting the ones who think you're God's gift in the first message, and shortly after you delete the message you become the opposite. "oh bold I get it now | |||
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