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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans

That a lot of couples profiles have 101 photos of the female but no pictures of the male half or maybe just a few of his cock.

When they message you to see if you are interested in a MFF threesome and you ask them the male has no photos can I see them, they say something like what has his pictures got to do with it. So I'm thinking what arrogance, then also thinking the male must be ugly, fat and hiding behind his sexy wife in order to get to fuck other women cause he wouldn't stand a chance by himself.

What do you think? Any other reasons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat and ugly and it doesn't stop me

There is a serious point though. Obviously not everybody is comfortable showing their face, but a body shot doesn't hurt, and might save time if a third party doesn't find that person attractive.

OTOH horses for courses.

Mr B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That a lot of couples profiles have 101 photos of the female but no pictures of the male half or maybe just a few of his cock.

When they message you to see if you are interested in a MFF threesome and you ask them the male has no photos can I see them, they say something like what has his pictures got to do with it. So I'm thinking what arrogance, then also thinking the male must be ugly, fat and hiding behind his sexy wife in order to get to fuck other women cause he wouldn't stand a chance by himself.

What do you think? Any other reasons?"

The only thing wrong with that logic is, if he were ugly and fat, how has he got a sexy wife.

Unless, shes into ugly and fat of course

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"I'm fat and ugly and it doesn't stop me

There is a serious point though. Obviously not everybody is comfortable showing their face, but a body shot doesn't hurt, and might save time if a third party doesn't find that person attractive.

OTOH horses for courses.

Mr B"

Your profile is a perfect example of what woman want to see,even if you blanked out your faces,and just sent a couple facepic in private.Your showing pics of you both together

Couples who are seeking woman,for ffm do need to think like a woman,not like a man in order to attract woman

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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans


"That a lot of couples profiles have 101 photos of the female but no pictures of the male half or maybe just a few of his cock.

When they message you to see if you are interested in a MFF threesome and you ask them the male has no photos can I see them, they say something like what has his pictures got to do with it. So I'm thinking what arrogance, then also thinking the male must be ugly, fat and hiding behind his sexy wife in order to get to fuck other women cause he wouldn't stand a chance by himself.

What do you think? Any other reasons?

The only thing wrong with that logic is, if he were ugly and fat, how has he got a sexy wife.

Unless, shes into ugly and fat of course "
I think its quite logical, so why do they demand a threesome without a photo and as to having a sexy wife he must be rich and she only loves him for his money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah! The old "he must be rich"

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Not every ugly fat guy is rich same as not every good looking single guy is poor.

Some people are with others because they love each other and not because one is poorer than the other.

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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans


"Ah! The old "he must be rich"

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Not every ugly fat guy is rich same as not every good looking single guy is poor.

Some people are with others because they love each other and not because one is poorer than the other."
So you criticised my logic but yet to come up with a perfect reason to why some couples demand a threesome without wanting to show the males pictures. At least I come up with some reasons, would you meet anyone without showing them selves first or do you just meet up without knowing who you having sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're only really interested in a ff with the man watching and wanking, so they don't feel his looks are important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think the main reasons would be that the female doesnt exist except from a few pics of "any ramdom female on the net" or of a wife/gf who doesnt know they are on a swinging site.

Or even the male doesnt look like his profile text.

Weve lost count of the amount that say " athetic"

Since when did darts become an athetic sport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored who's about for some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mister is a minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That a lot of couples profiles have 101 photos of the female but no pictures of the male half or maybe just a few of his cock.

When they message you to see if you are interested in a MFF threesome and you ask them the male has no photos can I see them, they say something like what has his pictures got to do with it. So I'm thinking what arrogance, then also thinking the male must be ugly, fat and hiding behind his sexy wife in order to get to fuck other women cause he wouldn't stand a chance by himself.

What do you think? Any other reasons?"

We have more pics of me because hubby hates having his pic taken at the best of times not to mention he’s more the photographer of the two of us, I’m useless with a camera!

But he has reluctantly thrown a few of himself in the mix for the exact reasons you say, and there will be more to come eventually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a quite a few couples in real life where the wife is attractive and the husband isn't.

It's probably all make up and nice clothing.

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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans

Well as they message me for a MFF threesome first and Can't provide what I am asking for then there loss, they have there unreasonable excuses and I have mine.

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford


"Well as they message me for a MFF threesome first and Can't provide what I am asking for then there loss, they have there unreasonable excuses and I have mine."

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

My name hints at all i'm looking for on here, so i wouldn't message for an FFM anyway, but i reckon they mostly are after men on here and know their chances of an FFM is little to nothing already?

My guy won't even do dick pics but we have his face pic in private so people know who to look for for socials and he might also be watching or joining in, we dunno yet how we're doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That a lot of couples profiles have 101 photos of the female but no pictures of the male half or maybe just a few of his cock.

When they message you to see if you are interested in a MFF threesome and you ask them the male has no photos can I see them, they say something like what has his pictures got to do with it. So I'm thinking what arrogance, then also thinking the male must be ugly, fat and hiding behind his sexy wife in order to get to fuck other women cause he wouldn't stand a chance by himself.

What do you think? Any other reasons?"
you answered your own question he's probably not attractive that's why he's not included

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By *ittleKinksCouple
over a year ago

Reading

This annoys us too. We try and keep an equal mix and reserve the face pic for private messages.

We generally ignore messages from couples where it's all the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That a lot of couples profiles have 101 photos of the female but no pictures of the male half or maybe just a few of his cock.

When they message you to see if you are interested in a MFF threesome and you ask them the male has no photos can I see them, they say something like what has his pictures got to do with it. So I'm thinking what arrogance, then also thinking the male must be ugly, fat and hiding behind his sexy wife in order to get to fuck other women cause he wouldn't stand a chance by himself.

What do you think? Any other reasons?"

Don't want messages from bi guys or tv/ts x

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"That a lot of couples profiles have 101 photos of the female but no pictures of the male half or maybe just a few of his cock.

When they message you to see if you are interested in a MFF threesome and you ask them the male has no photos can I see them, they say something like what has his pictures got to do with it. So I'm thinking what arrogance, then also thinking the male must be ugly, fat and hiding behind his sexy wife in order to get to fuck other women cause he wouldn't stand a chance by himself.

What do you think? Any other reasons?"

Its because the guy doesn't play only the female does what other conclusion can there be.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"That a lot of couples profiles have 101 photos of the female but no pictures of the male half or maybe just a few of his cock.

When they message you to see if you are interested in a MFF threesome and you ask them the male has no photos can I see them, they say something like what has his pictures got to do with it. So I'm thinking what arrogance, then also thinking the male must be ugly, fat and hiding behind his sexy wife in order to get to fuck other women cause he wouldn't stand a chance by himself.

What do you think? Any other reasons?"

Our photos are pretty evenly split with some of myself, some of Mrs2 and some of both of us together.

Maybe others who don't have photos to view are ashamed of the lifestyle or scared that they'll lose their jobs.

Mr2

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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans


"That a lot of couples profiles have 101 photos of the female but no pictures of the male half or maybe just a few of his cock.

When they message you to see if you are interested in a MFF threesome and you ask them the male has no photos can I see them, they say something like what has his pictures got to do with it. So I'm thinking what arrogance, then also thinking the male must be ugly, fat and hiding behind his sexy wife in order to get to fuck other women cause he wouldn't stand a chance by himself.

What do you think? Any other reasons?

Its because the guy doesn't play only the female does what other conclusion can there be. "
so why don't they state that in their message and not waste anybody's time, do they really think all single women are desperate and stupid to fall for their stupid irrational excuses.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I assume that the guy doesn’t play so there only looking for fem on fem which does not interest me. When I advise of this I get mixed responses. I mean how dare a lowly single female question a couple. Do we not realize they are there to fulfill there fantasies and our preferences don’t matter?

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By *inakiss64 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans


"I assume that the guy doesn’t play so there only looking for fem on fem which does not interest me. When I advise of this I get mixed responses. I mean how dare a lowly single female question a couple. Do we not realize they are there to fulfill there fantasies and our preferences don’t matter?"
does seem that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have problems getting FFM meets, because we have pics of us both and our attitude is not as the OP and others have described, don’t tar every couple with the same brush

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