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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda tried to make this point earlier on another thread but somehow ended up seeming desperate for attention and my point was missed. Damn my lack of vocabulary!

But yeah I totally agree, for me as an average sized women I get attention in general but not to the same levels where certain aspects of my body are "idolised" and singled out.

I know what the site is and I know that superficial attraction is important but surely it's not the be all and end all and people should be taken individually not just for what they have. I can only imagine how it would feel to be somewhat of a "fetish" for some, like they're removing your identity as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please dont be ofended but 99.9% of people go by looks face and body..i know that cause im polite genuine and alwais respect women still dont geys nowhere.but i get what you mean people forget bout if you can seduce a mind the rest i guess its amazing ..oritsjust me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I kinda tried to make this point earlier on another thread but somehow ended up seeming desperate for attention and my point was missed. Damn my lack of vocabulary!

But yeah I totally agree, for me as an average sized women I get attention in general but not to the same levels where certain aspects of my body are "idolised" and singled out.

I know what the site is and I know that superficial attraction is important but surely it's not the be all and end all and people should be taken individually not just for what they have. I can only imagine how it would feel to be somewhat of a "fetish" for some, like they're removing your identity as a person. "

That last sentence is absolutely spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please dont be ofended but 99.9% of people go by looks face and body..i know that cause im polite genuine and alwais respect women still dont geys nowhere.but i get what you mean people forget bout if you can seduce a mind the rest i guess its amazing ..oritsjust me."

But it's not about being physically attracted to someone, everyone needs that. It's about being physically attracted to them because of certain aspects and then focusing solely on that instead of seeing them as a whole package.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. "
A lot of guy's won't give a shit about being objectified if they're getting sex believe me. It's women who are more prone to this kind of thinking.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I have a lot of tattoos and get fetishized for them a lot. Means i can get fucked whenever i want so not too arsed about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. A lot of guy's won't give a shit about being objectified if they're getting sex believe me. It's women who are more prone to this kind of thinking. "

Yes and don’t forget couples.....

I’ve had meets were the husband just says whip out your cock the minute I walk through the door....

I’m always thinking ... damn can I have drink first? Can I get comfortable?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. A lot of guy's won't give a shit about being objectified if they're getting sex believe me. It's women who are more prone to this kind of thinking.

Yes and don’t forget couples.....

I’ve had meets were the husband just says whip out your cock the minute I walk through the door....

I’m always thinking ... damn can I have drink first? Can I get comfortable?

"

awww poor sex toy

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. A lot of guy's won't give a shit about being objectified if they're getting sex believe me. It's women who are more prone to this kind of thinking. "

Yup, the woman of an oriental couple we meet likes me because i am "hairy like a monkey" in contrast to her husband who shaves about once a year. She doesn't even know my favourite movie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. A lot of guy's won't give a shit about being objectified if they're getting sex believe me. It's women who are more prone to this kind of thinking.

Yes and don’t forget couples.....

I’ve had meets were the husband just says whip out your cock the minute I walk through the door....

I’m always thinking ... damn can I have drink first? Can I get comfortable?

awww poor sex toy "

It’s not a joke.... I’ve had to tell more than one husband to put his camera away....

I’m tired of being treated like a free porn star

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Honestly, I’ve never felt ‘fetishised’ for my size. I guess I don’t engage with the sort of people that might.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I'm an amputee and a SSBbW and attract a fair few who openly admit that my missing piece or my padding is the main attraction.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. A lot of guy's won't give a shit about being objectified if they're getting sex believe me. It's women who are more prone to this kind of thinking.

Yes and don’t forget couples.....

I’ve had meets were the husband just says whip out your cock the minute I walk through the door....

I’m always thinking ... damn can I have drink first? Can I get comfortable?

awww poor sex toy

It’s not a joke.... I’ve had to tell more than one husband to put his camera away....

I’m tired of being treated like a free porn star"

you know the risks if it rains you get wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. A lot of guy's won't give a shit about being objectified if they're getting sex believe me. It's women who are more prone to this kind of thinking.

Yes and don’t forget couples.....

I’ve had meets were the husband just says whip out your cock the minute I walk through the door....

I’m always thinking ... damn can I have drink first? Can I get comfortable?

awww poor sex toy

It’s not a joke.... I’ve had to tell more than one husband to put his camera away....

I’m tired of being treated like a free porn star you know the risks if it rains you get wet"

Yes but couples on this site need to realize I’m a person and I should be treated with respect...

Some couples on this site treat single men like they are free prostitutes or worse free porn stars...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. A lot of guy's won't give a shit about being objectified if they're getting sex believe me. It's women who are more prone to this kind of thinking.

Yes and don’t forget couples.....

I’ve had meets were the husband just says whip out your cock the minute I walk through the door....

I’m always thinking ... damn can I have drink first? Can I get comfortable?

awww poor sex toy

It’s not a joke.... I’ve had to tell more than one husband to put his camera away....

I’m tired of being treated like a free porn star you know the risks if it rains you get wet

Yes but couples on this site need to realize I’m a person and I should be treated with respect...

Some couples on this site treat single men like they are free prostitutes or worse free porn stars..."

well I know you're more than just a BBC and some are very respectful you just have to choose the right 1's if you care enough about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. "

He's only done what 99% of women do already x

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I'm woman who happens to be dress size 22. I have big boobs, and a big arse. However, that doesn't define me. I also have face, a personality, a sense of humour, a career and a very feisty streak. For some reason I find it a real turn off when I think a guy is only interested in me because I have excess fat. Do any other fabsters, of any body type, feel the same when they think someone is only into them because of one of their attributes, whether that be a big cock, big boobs, BBW etc. A lot of guy's won't give a shit about being objectified if they're getting sex believe me. It's women who are more prone to this kind of thinking.

Yes and don’t forget couples.....

I’ve had meets were the husband just says whip out your cock the minute I walk through the door....

I’m always thinking ... damn can I have drink first? Can I get comfortable?

awww poor sex toy

It’s not a joke.... I’ve had to tell more than one husband to put his camera away....

I’m tired of being treated like a free porn star you know the risks if it rains you get wet

Yes but couples on this site need to realize I’m a person and I should be treated with respect...

Some couples on this site treat single men like they are free prostitutes or worse free porn stars..."

Speak for yourself. I'll take what i can get, I'll grovel if there's fanny in it for me

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