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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "
Gold digger!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I'd think if someone wasn't interested in you, they wouldn't have met you for a second time, period. The fact she saw your car you talked about what you do is a side point. Knowing someone has gold faucets might stir the senses for an evening but keeping her entertained after that is down to more than heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be that she simply opened up more on your second date after getting to know you a bit.

Or she is just after your money.

Doesn’t seem like you’ll find out for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaving her sitting alone wasn't a very nice thing to do

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Leaving her sitting alone wasn't a very nice thing to do "

I was thinking that...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Some women are attracted to power and wealth.

I don't understand why you bought her a drink and then left her sitting alone though.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Some women are attracted to power and wealth.

I don't understand why you bought her a drink and then left her sitting alone though."

Look up goldigger on you tube .

They show a guy who is blanked by women until they see he has an expensive car , then they are all over him like a rash .

He then gets a gold shovel out of the boot and tells them to dig elsewhere . It’s a reflection of the reality that there are women out there that really do do this .

If the op really did leave her waiting in a bar , fair play to him . She deserved it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think. "

This may be SOME females... Not all!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Never blast - not even in a forum?

It always pays to develop good communication skills, so that all your assumptions about others interests are accurate and not inferred

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some women are attracted to power and wealth.

I don't understand why you bought her a drink and then left her sitting alone though.

Look up goldigger on you tube .

They show a guy who is blanked by women until they see he has an expensive car , then they are all over him like a rash .

He then gets a gold shovel out of the boot and tells them to dig elsewhere . It’s a reflection of the reality that there are women out there that really do do this .

If the op really did leave her waiting in a bar , fair play to him . She deserved it ."

She had two social meets with him though. She must have been at least slightly interested.

We used to live in a really tiny house in a very prestigious road, people's attitude towards us would noticeably change when they heard our address then rapidly revert when they came round . Maybe you're right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think. "

Not all women ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think.

Not all women ... "

Nah it’s rubbish. Couldn’t think of nothing worse than relying on a man to look after me financially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think.

Not all women ...

Nah it’s rubbish. Couldn’t think of nothing worse than relying on a man to look after me financially. "

Likewise ...

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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago

here, there & in your knickers

Not all women are the same but there are some who like you for your car, money and house..

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

Money can't make you a gentleman either so it seems

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Money can't make you a gentleman either so it seems "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this all the time - guys who think Im going to be their sugar mum

Drives me mental lol

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I get this all the time - guys who think Im going to be their sugar mum

Drives me mental lol "

Me too, it ain't happening

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think. "

And we (men) are programmed to look for women who are hot as fuck. What's the problem? It's just a matter of how far you push it. If she's only interested in financial security then that's as bad as a trophy wife. But i wouldn't date an unattractive woman any more than I'd expect an attractive woman to date a man that couldn't provide whilst she was with child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She wasn’t going to fuck your money or your car. Why did it bother you so? Or were you looking to date her?

What if she had her own money and saw you had some solvency so felt akin in that sense? Common ground etc. You made a lot of assumptions and left her in amongst your own prowess/insecurity.

Not cool.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Is this subliminal advertising OP? If so I would make sure the ending was a happy one otherwise people will see you for what you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think. "
That's harsh!! I'm very self-sufficient thank you, I don't need a man to look after me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

A bit of a cunts trick to leave her sitting there alone, you may have got her all wrong and you’ve left her there not knowing where the hell you’d gone. Sounds like at least one of you had a lucky escape, maybe you did too but you’ll never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think. "

Ahem.

Regan and Dryer (1999) discovered that status plays a bigger role in hooking up for men than it does for women (i.e., when a guy gets laid, his status goes up), at least from a motivation standpoint. Various other bits of research have found that status doesn’t play that big of a role in whom women choose to have sex with or date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart

A bit of a cunts trick to leave her sitting there alone, you may have got her all wrong and you’ve left her there not knowing where the hell you’d gone. Sounds like at least one of you had a lucky escape, maybe you did too but you’ll never know."

Yep definitely a cuntish thing to do - shame there’s not a rating system on fab - he would definitely get a yellow card at least

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Maybe she is just a secret petrol head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you left her sitting alone in a bar says more about you tha the female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact you left her sitting alone in a bar says more about you tha the female. "

It's ok, I spotted the lady, got chatting to her, she was so horny, we ended shagging like crazy on the back seat of my G reg Nissan Micra!

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart

A bit of a cunts trick to leave her sitting there alone, you may have got her all wrong and you’ve left her there not knowing where the hell you’d gone. Sounds like at least one of you had a lucky escape, maybe you did too but you’ll never know."

This reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not a nice thing to do, leaving her alone at the bar and just leaving.

And we wonder why single guys can have a difficult time on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

What high end car do you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say might just have a heart but leaving her alone seems heartless!! As others had said she’d had two meet with you so must of liked you, maybe cars was a passion of hers so she thought you had something in common and it exciting her! I must admit I prefer an affluent man as it show drive and a different character but that doesn’t mean I want their money. I never take money from a guy, in fact I’ve never even had a drink bought for me

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

Gold digger or not, if she had met the second time, there was something there and if you thought she was gold digging, why not just ask her? Leaving her somewhere, vulnerable and alone isnt exactly clever. At least take her home and tell her thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All seems a little odd . Doesn't make you sound "high end" though leaving her like that when you had no real idea of her motives .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact you left her sitting alone in a bar says more about you tha the female.

It's ok, I spotted the lady, got chatting to her, she was so horny, we ended shagging like crazy on the back seat of my G reg Nissan Micra!"
phew!! Thank the Lord there's some good guys about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moto here is never judge a person by car and a job.

As they may be comletely lacking in social skills and empathy.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"Maybe she is just a secret petrol head? "

This.

I adore cars, love chatting about them. Probably I would have got round to chatting about cars before seeing it...

But no fancy car or job or money would make me fuck a man I am not attracted to... ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

I mean....sounds like you’re bragging just now

Leaving her wasn’t nice. Not sure why you’d go out with her again if she wasn’t interested the first time

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart

I mean....sounds like you’re bragging just now

Leaving her wasn’t nice. Not sure why you’d go out with her again if she wasn’t interested the first time"
durrrrr for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think. "

Perhaps add 'Some', in your comment. Not all women are like that. I couldn't care less how much or little money someone had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart

I mean....sounds like you’re bragging just now

Leaving her wasn’t nice. Not sure why you’d go out with her again if she wasn’t interested the first time"

I actually think it was the female who had a lucky escape, not him.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Looks like she had a lucky escape tbh. Bad behaviour OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone told an almost identical story on here a while ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart

What high end car do you have?"

I believe the OP may have a red-turned-awful-shade-of-pink XR3i in a dubious state of maintainance? It's definitely high end though as the back end is higher than the front due to the 2 front tyres being flat as a pancake?

Just surmising obviously and as a disclaimer this post is fully intended as tongue in cheek and is in no way reflective of the OP or his character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP has mentioned his car on here before also. You seem to think it counts for something.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"The OP has mentioned his car on here before also. You seem to think it counts for something. "
of course it does it's an extension of a man's penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were single I’d be a gold digger. No point in struggling if you don’t have to.

I’m self sufficient anyhow but a guy who is too sounds lovely.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I've met quite a few people who drive around in cars they can't afford, they can be borrowed, they can be hired, and they can be just simply living above their means.

It's very easy to count somebody else's money, just because today somebody is behind the wheel of an expensive car, to me does not necessarily mean they are wealthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

Sorry but I am not buying it..

If she had zero interest in you then she would probably not have even met you for the first social and definitely would not have met you again..

Motto is be realistic

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart

Sorry but I am not buying it..

If she had zero interest in you then she would probably not have even met you for the first social and definitely would not have met you again..

Motto is be realistic "
Judging by this thread though, she might of already heard all about his wealth and was just waiting to see the proof

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By *any32Man
over a year ago

norwich

Why wouldn't she have a second date if she didn't find out his financial status on the first one.....typical gold digger...plenty of them about

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

If I had money like that I would pay for what I wanted and not wasted time on this awful sham of a site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had money like that I would pay for what I wanted and not wasted time on this awful sham of a site"

Why are you still here if this site is an awful sham?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had money like that I would pay for what I wanted and not wasted time on this awful sham of a site

Why are you still here if this site is an awful sham?"

Sounds like he's only here cos he can't afford escorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had money like that I would pay for what I wanted and not wasted time on this awful sham of a site

Why are you still here if this site is an awful sham?

Sounds like he's only here cos he can't afford escorts "

Ah...

Can’t be an awful sham of a site if he’s benefiting from it then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

Good story, wrong section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had money like that I would pay for what I wanted and not wasted time on this awful sham of a site"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

Thing is OP not everyone makes their mind up on an opening social, maybe it just gave her something to talk to you about if the conversation wasn't that thrilling....

Also I will add I am a petrol head I love cars but I have my own money and well paid job...:how do you know she wasnt the same?

Please enlighten me as to how your bank balance be it red or black affects how good your are at fucking?

Mrsk

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money talks, mmm-hmm-hmm, money talks

Dirty cash I want you, dirty cash I need you, woh-oh

Money talks, money talks

Dirty cash I want you, dirty cash I need you, woh-oh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had money like that I would pay for what I wanted and not wasted time on this awful sham of a site"

As if

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well all theses replys

But most say gold digger . Yes I left her sitting alone .why not all she is looking for is the easy life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well all theses replys

But most say gold digger . Yes I left her sitting alone .why not all she is looking for is the easy life . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't say that OP you left her alone before knowing what her intentions were !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't say that OP you left her alone before knowing what her intentions were !"

He assumed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe OP, you weren’t really that interesting until you talked about your job and car. Sometimes people light up a bit when they talk about something passionate to them, so maybe you changed. Doesn’t mean she was a gold digger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

Nice car,solvent,you can take me out for dinner and drinks anytime op. Fed up of broke ass men

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By *inakiss64Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans

Trouble is some men like to show off their wealth in order to get attention especially from women & when they do they get paranoid that they are gold diggers, they usually are boring people to talk to and the only thing they do to impress is to show off their assets, take that away and they are nothing, small dicks and crap in bed, do they really think money is everything? Most rich men are arrogant, selfish, shallow narscistic know all's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart

Nice car,solvent,you can take me out for dinner and drinks anytime op. Fed up of broke ass men "

Even if he’s not black with a big cock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd gladly take anyone female for drink . Just not going to be used all I ask is decent girl with a brain and manners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ps just going back couple of comments . I'm not boasting I've got anything not are am I an as a some of yous ard saying . The point was .women are to quick to jjudge a book by its cover . I was married for 27yrs it only finished because it lacked any sort of sex and that was my choice. So if I'm that big headed as some of yous say then I'm doomed . Only in your eyes . But I'm an honest and trustworthy guy . With a wallet which I spend on the right lady or not

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas


"Leaving her sitting alone wasn't a very nice thing to do "

Yep, my thoughts exactly.

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Be honest.......

Is this just fantasy? Hmm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ps just going back couple of comments . I'm not boasting I've got anything not are am I an as a some of yous ard saying . The point was .women are to quick to jjudge a book by its cover . I was married for 27yrs it only finished because it lacked any sort of sex and that was my choice. So if I'm that big headed as some of yous say then I'm doomed . Only in your eyes . But I'm an honest and trustworthy guy . With a wallet which I spend on the right lady or not"

I wonder what that first part translates to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, I didn’t realise incels and MGTOW types existed outside of Reddit. How novel to see one in the wild.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Ps just going back couple of comments . I'm not boasting I've got anything not are am I an as a some of yous ard saying . The point was .women are to quick to jjudge a book by its cover . I was married for 27yrs it only finished because it lacked any sort of sex and that was my choice. So if I'm that big headed as some of yous say then I'm doomed . Only in your eyes . But I'm an honest and trustworthy guy . With a wallet which I spend on the right lady or not"

Ah! Well that's ok then? I wonder who judged who without proof and who has displayed his disregard for a woman's safety?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You left her there on her own?

Way to go..... Just because she learned more about you and was showing an interest doesn't mean to say she's a gold digger, but leaving her alone means you're a cock....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well all theses replys

But most say gold digger . Yes I left her sitting alone .why not all she is looking for is the easy life . "

Did you ask her that or did you just decide due to past shit experiences that you are now going to get "payback" on any woman you choose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You left her there on her own?

Way to go..... Just because she learned more about you and was showing an interest doesn't mean to say she's a gold digger, but leaving her alone means you're a cock.... "

Doesn’t think very highly of himself if he thinks all women are just after his money, or maybe the case is that’s all that’s interesting about him.

Assuming so quick without facts is a bit ridiculous.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"The fact you left her sitting alone in a bar says more about you tha the female. "

And she can report him to Admin.

Why would anyone care that she liked his car? It is still his car, not hers. He owes her nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You left her there on her own?

Way to go..... Just because she learned more about you and was showing an interest doesn't mean to say she's a gold digger, but leaving her alone means you're a cock....

Doesn’t think very highly of himself if he thinks all women are just after his money, or maybe the case is that’s all that’s interesting about him.

Assuming so quick without facts is a bit ridiculous. "

Spot on chuck

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

LOMBARD

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well all theses replys

But most say gold digger . Yes I left her sitting alone .why not all she is looking for is the easy life . "

Were you meeting her for a life together?

Wow. Just wow.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

Sounds like she was a real unplesent person reading your side of events (there are always two sides to a story mind) And in your own words you are as bad if now worse than her with that display of well putting it politely low life behaviour! Yes a personality but an unplesent one and an unhealthy heart! Talk about sinking low a real man would have just gone maintained some class but it goes to show some don't have any.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

She doesn't sound like a goldigger, but even if she was, no true gentleman would have left her on her own, he would have taken her home, or at least ordered her a cab, for her safety.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Trouble is some men like to show off their wealth in order to get attention especially from women & when they do they get paranoid that they are gold diggers, they usually are boring people to talk to and the only thing they do to impress is to show off their assets, take that away and they are nothing, small dicks and crap in bed, do they really think money is everything? Most rich men are arrogant, selfish, shallow narscistic know all's "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

How is that the motto? How do you have a personality and a heart? It was a dick move. The true motto is, if someone meets You, be prepared to be sitting like a tool for a man who may have money but that does not make him a gentleman

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

I could never have a second social with someone I wasn't attracted to!! And I pretty sure I have made conversation about the type of car I'm in. I believe in benefit of the doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this all the time - guys who think Im going to be their sugar mum

Drives me mental lol "

I’m not having a dig.... but if you dated a 20-25 year old man... would you expect him to be able to afford your lifestyle?

I’m just curious because the guys I know in there 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s that date women in there 20’s don’t expect them to pay for anything...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women are attracted to power and wealth.

I don't understand why you bought her a drink and then left her sitting alone though.

Look up goldigger on you tube .

They show a guy who is blanked by women until they see he has an expensive car , then they are all over him like a rash .

He then gets a gold shovel out of the boot and tells them to dig elsewhere . It’s a reflection of the reality that there are women out there that really do do this .

If the op really did leave her waiting in a bar , fair play to him . She deserved it ."

Ha. Love it. I'd would of left her alone too!!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I get this all the time - guys who think Im going to be their sugar mum

Drives me mental lol

I’m not having a dig.... but if you dated a 20-25 year old man... would you expect him to be able to afford your lifestyle?

I’m just curious because the guys I know in there 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s that date women in there 20’s don’t expect them to pay for anything...

"

You Sir, make a very good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classy

"High end" or not has nothing to do with money, just how we treat our fellow man, or woman....

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By *ab_SparklesWoman
over a year ago

sparkle Surprised

I've never had wealth or really a desire for it. Or expected a man to have on a meet I meet a few in my time height of my swinging days and when they told me I just shrugged my shoulders least intrested in his bank balance. But a ride in the nice car be fine only cause I can't drive

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Classy

"High end" or not has nothing to do with money, just how we treat our fellow man, or woman...."

Yes it does, class has nothing to do with money

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Classy

"High end" or not has nothing to do with money, just how we treat our fellow man, or woman....

Yes it does, class has nothing to do with money "

That sounded wrong...Yes the important thing is how we treat others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I had money like that I would pay for what I wanted and not wasted time on this awful sham of a site"

And ironically hidden within this sentence Harry old bean, is the reason you are labouring under the misinterpretation that this site is an awful sham....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

"

You seem so lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ps just going back couple of comments . I'm not boasting I've got anything not are am I an as a some of yous ard saying . The point was .women are to quick to jjudge a book by its cover . I was married for 27yrs it only finished because it lacked any sort of sex and that was my choice. So if I'm that big headed as some of yous say then I'm doomed . Only in your eyes . But I'm an honest and trustworthy guy . With a wallet which I spend on the right lady or not"

You have mentioned your car etc before in previous threads. The green arrow showed me that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well all theses replys

But most say gold digger . Yes I left her sitting alone .why not all she is looking for is the easy life . "

Why do you have a high end car....because it is a pussy magnet, its why men buy them. No one needs an expensive car for it to be safe and reliable. They are status symbols.

Why did you take your high end car to the meet......to show it off. If you are worried women only want you for your money why take the car.....get a taxi instead.

Why tell her what you do for a living..... Because you were showing off. If your so worried women only want you for your money why tell someone you have only met twice what you do....

I will bet the £4.58 in my purse that had she turned up on the first date looking like a supermodel you would have been waving your car keys in her face instead of only putting them on the table at the second date.

You probably decided she wasn't attractive enough to sit her are in your high end car so you dumped her....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ps just going back couple of comments . I'm not boasting I've got anything not are am I an as a some of yous ard saying . The point was .women are to quick to jjudge a book by its cover . I was married for 27yrs it only finished because it lacked any sort of sex and that was my choice. So if I'm that big headed as some of yous say then I'm doomed . Only in your eyes . But I'm an honest and trustworthy guy . With a wallet which I spend on the right lady or not"

I am fascinated as to what this job is you have that earns you all this money because you cannot even string a sentence together.....I call bull shit!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf I know I'm one to talk, I never use one word when I believe fifty of them will put my point across more succinctly; it's a sometimes annoying habit of mine! But in this case I believe the OP could have saved himself a whole load of needless effort typing, had he thought about his original post for a second and just replaced it with the following instead;

"I'm rich."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Firstly yes I've got good money .cos I earn it cos I'm qualified too . Secondly I have a good high end car cos I can afford it and that's what I like . Do I want someone who skint .no I want someone who is honest enough not to be looking for a free lift in life . Call it what yous want I call them gold diggers . And again I say it's all women who love to comment bad .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "

You said she didn’t seam interested on the first meet .... so why would you meet again ?

Then when you met again, she seamed distant.... your words !

Come on ........

So after 2 meets an both not going mr loadeds way he lets her see his high end car !

Desperate to impress I feel

Obviously don’t want you for who you are reson she ( was distant) your words

So me loaded has got miss distant in his heigh end car, and she realised what job he has..... well how did she realise? Mr loaded was given it the big un ...... an even to have to let it out what you earn ... wow ! She made it clear mate from the get go.... u thought you would up your fucked up game tho ...

Sad !

Get her to a bar and leave her there ....

what a rich gentleman you are !

Left a woman on her own ....

hope she was safe an could get Home regardless of any motives she might of had ....

Decent thing to do would of been to drop her off somewhere safe ( in ya heigh end motor ) an leave it at that ....

Funny part is coming ....

Not yet

But you say don’t judge a person by looks .....

but judge them on there actions......

an u say they might have a personality......

Hahaahahahah

I bet you have ...... the reason she was not interested

An a heart

Hahahahahahaah

What kind of man with a heart would do that to a woman regardless!

What a advertisement for stay away from this man

You might have a few quid mate but it’s seams like you need a bit of something your money can’t buy .....

Work that out mr high end motor !

While you bathe in £50 notes thinking that you do yourself proud that night !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ps just going back couple of comments . I'm not boasting I've got anything not are am I an as a some of yous ard saying . The point was .women are to quick to jjudge a book by its cover . I was married for 27yrs it only finished because it lacked any sort of sex and that was my choice. So if I'm that big headed as some of yous say then I'm doomed . Only in your eyes . But I'm an honest and trustworthy guy . With a wallet which I spend on the right lady or not

I am fascinated as to what this job is you have that earns you all this money because you cannot even string a sentence together.....I call bull shit!!!!"

I wouldn’t be surprised if it was all bullshit.

Plenty of people make up stories and riches they don’t have, to look interesting to strangers online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well all theses replys

But most say gold digger . Yes I left her sitting alone .why not all she is looking for is the easy life .

Did you ask her that or did you just decide due to past shit experiences that you are now going to get "payback" on any woman you choose? "

Seems prejudgmental and bitter. Clearly looking for a relationship not sex...otherwise why would it matter how they got their kicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly yes I've got good money .cos I earn it cos I'm qualified too . Secondly I have a good high end car cos I can afford it and that's what I like . Do I want someone who skint .no I want someone who is honest enough not to be looking for a free lift in life . Call it what yous want I call them gold diggers . And again I say it's all women who love to comment bad . "
so you've clearly got a bad attitude towards women. Are you actually after sex or a relationship cause why on earth would it matter how she got off if it was just a meet for sex? Take your bad attitude somewhere else.. AVOID

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

You do realise she could only get half if you married right, should've just bought a round then said your turn I don't think that route is a bad route to take rather than standing someone up. Also I'd take those two drinks as an opportunity to lead the conversation and see whats beneath the surface

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Firstly yes I've got good money .cos I earn it cos I'm qualified too . Secondly I have a good high end car cos I can afford it and that's what I like . Do I want someone who skint .no I want someone who is honest enough not to be looking for a free lift in life . Call it what yous want I call them gold diggers . And again I say it's all women who love to comment bad . "

You do not have to share your money with anyone you have not signed any contract with. What do you care if she likes your car? You do not want to continue with her, just say so. Why behave like a bitter old woman and put someone weaker than you in an uncomfortable and potentially unsafe situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leaving her sitting alone wasn't a very nice thing to do

I was thinking that..."

Awful thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "
Hey i judge by looks and personality, women rarely pay in my life so I'd never know if she was wealthy but I get your point lend us a tenner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well all theses replys

But most say gold digger . Yes I left her sitting alone .why not all she is looking for is the easy life . "

It's a sex site not a dating site , I reckon this is daydreaming rather than factual ?

No one can be that obsessed or tight with their money OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left."

Sounds like she is well rid of you, and a massive red flag to all the other ladies on here. Absolute dick of a move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well all theses replys

But most say gold digger . Yes I left her sitting alone .why not all she is looking for is the easy life .

It's a sex site not a dating site , I reckon this is daydreaming rather than factual ?

No one can be that obsessed or tight with their money OP "
it can be a dating site and its a ' swingers site' not a sex site it's a social environment as well as an opportunity to arrange sexual liaisons

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

You seem so lovely "
I am thanks for noticing lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Is this a classic case of short man syndrome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here "

And thank goodness for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here

And thank goodness for that "
What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here "

Do you mean those that disagreed with your actions? If that's the qualification then I think that most of the population of Fab appear to be "brainless" in this instance.

Including myself, which considering I topped my school year in Mathematics and came 2nd in English means that the depreciation of brain cells as we get older truly happens at a remarkable rate?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm far from rich, in fact I don't have a pot to piss in. However I'm prepared to share my last anything and everything, and I do it because I want to. I think that makes me a far more attractive person than any money I may have. Isn't it a shame that the OP wouldn't meet someone like me... oh.. hang on. No, no it's not!

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

I would love to know what car it is that has this man all twisted up in angst over all the dangerous gold digging women out to get him

Mrs

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london


"Some women are attracted to power and wealth.

I don't understand why you bought her a drink and then left her sitting alone though.

Look up goldigger on you tube .

They show a guy who is blanked by women until they see he has an expensive car , then they are all over him like a rash .

He then gets a gold shovel out of the boot and tells them to dig elsewhere . It’s a reflection of the reality that there are women out there that really do do this .

If the op really did leave her waiting in a bar , fair play to him . She deserved it ."

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By *VxrMan
over a year ago

Newton le Willows


"I'm far from rich, in fact I don't have a pot to piss in. However I'm prepared to share my last anything and everything, and I do it because I want to. I think that makes me a far more attractive person than any money I may have. Isn't it a shame that the OP wouldn't meet someone like me... oh.. hang on. No, no it's not! "

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By *VxrMan
over a year ago

Newton le Willows

Being as this is still going.....is it just me or does the thread title make about as much sense as leaving a lady who wanted a second social sat in a bar on her own??

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Being as this is still going.....is it just me or does the thread title make about as much sense as leaving a lady who wanted a second social sat in a bar on her own?? "

She's the wallet apparently

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

She was probably just being cautious .... not everyone wants to tell you their life story on a first or 2nd meet ....I am extremely carefull when I first meet what I disclose .... there are some unsavoury people on here .....she met you again because she liked you .... However leaving her at a table was very ungentlemanlly of you ....

You could have just said you didnt feel a connection .

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By *VxrMan
over a year ago

Newton le Willows


"Being as this is still going.....is it just me or does the thread title make about as much sense as leaving a lady who wanted a second social sat in a bar on her own??

She's the wallet apparently "

Riiiiight...damn all this confusing Internet lingo

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"She was probably just being cautious .... not everyone wants to tell you their life story on a first or 2nd meet ....I am extremely carefull when I first meet what I disclose .... there are some unsavoury people on here .....she met you again because she liked you .... However leaving her at a table was very ungentlemanlly of you ....

You could have just said you didnt feel a connection ."

I think it was very childish to leave her there,just tell her you've changed your mind and see she gets home safely.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Being as this is still going.....is it just me or does the thread title make about as much sense as leaving a lady who wanted a second social sat in a bar on her own??

She's the wallet apparently

Riiiiight...damn all this confusing Internet lingo "

Haha

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Good thread this.

Brings reality out to be opinionated on.

A lot of years ago when I was single and not even a year into having my own independence I was very fortunate to work for a high end and very reputable company which saw me take ownership of a Mercedes 3 days a week (Companies car,not mine and not registered to me as company benefit. I just drove it to a destination 3 days a week) and a lady of who I became friendly with at one of the destinations (contract workforce, not employed WITH the company) assumed the car belonged to me, having to wear a suit under company contract stipulation added further to the illusion of "wealth and power" and she became increasingly more interested in a get together, suggesting high end bars and restaurants.

Only after I openly told her I drove a Renault clio, lived in rented accommodation and earned the minimum pay rate for the time did she completely ignore my presence and treat me the same as other visitors to the building I was obliged to visit 3 days a week.

Does money and power attract women over honest and basic personality?

You decide.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Good thread this.

Brings reality out to be opinionated on.

A lot of years ago when I was single and not even a year into having my own independence I was very fortunate to work for a high end and very reputable company which saw me take ownership of a Mercedes 3 days a week (Companies car,not mine and not registered to me as company benefit. I just drove it to a destination 3 days a week) and a lady of who I became friendly with at one of the destinations (contract workforce, not employed WITH the company) assumed the car belonged to me, having to wear a suit under company contract stipulation added further to the illusion of "wealth and power" and she became increasingly more interested in a get together, suggesting high end bars and restaurants.

Only after I openly told her I drove a Renault clio, lived in rented accommodation and earned the minimum pay rate for the time did she completely ignore my presence and treat me the same as other visitors to the building I was obliged to visit 3 days a week.

Does money and power attract women over honest and basic personality?

You decide."

It does some, but not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think. "

Not this woman! Maybe because I am totally lacking the maternal instinct? Never judge a person by their job or car either.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Firstly yes I've got good money .cos I earn it cos I'm qualified too . Secondly I have a good high end car cos I can afford it and that's what I like . Do I want someone who skint .no I want someone who is honest enough not to be looking for a free lift in life . Call it what yous want I call them gold diggers . And again I say it's all women who love to comment bad . "

Sure you are that's why you are so eloquent and your grammar is perfect! All I smell is bullshit but then any guy who abandons someone else is......... well lets just say unplesent.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The bitterness from the OP is strong!!

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"The bitterness from the OP is strong!! "

You'd think he'd just take her back to his house, if she's only coming for a shag but she's brought her toothbrush and shampoo then she's moving in

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

People that are doing well generally wouldn’t post a thread like this unless they were using it to brag.

To brag about what you have is an awful way to go about life.

You should be thank full you have been lucky in life and appreciate that some people may be looking for help and stability from others .

Good people don’t always have to chances or opportunity’s to afford nice things and sometimes the dream of having a stable life my make someone appear more interested in you. Even though they already perhaps were.

You were a fool to both her and yourself if you did leave her there.

A gentleman rich or poor would never leave a woman on her own regardless. And at your age you should know better .

Ps I own a high end car and have an amazing job. But I’m not a dick .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bitterness from the OP is strong!! "

Do you blame him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw this exact same post last time i was on here copy/pasted comes to mind (bragger) not all are attracted to money i'm certainly not i earn my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here "

You're catching yourself out here.

One, so you've already got a woman you presumably cheat on, therefore get what you deserve.

Two, you don't have a great job, you're English and grammar is terrible, if you'd just said you had lots of money I might believe you but you don't hold down a good job.

Three it isn't only women complaining, even if your fantasy story was true I think your behaviours was dickish.

Four, as she wasn't at all interested before seeing your car and wallet you should be grateful that you have them as you must be awful company if she was as bored as you claim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here

You're catching yourself out here.

One, so you've already got a woman you presumably cheat on, therefore get what you deserve.

Two, you don't have a great job, you're English and grammar is terrible, if you'd just said you had lots of money I might believe you but you don't hold down a good job.

Three it isn't only women complaining, even if your fantasy story was true I think your behaviours was dickish.

Four, as she wasn't at all interested before seeing your car and wallet you should be grateful that you have them as you must be awful company if she was as bored as you claim."

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By *VxrMan
over a year ago

Newton le Willows


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here

You're catching yourself out here.

One, so you've already got a woman you presumably cheat on, therefore get what you deserve.

Two, you don't have a great job, you're English and grammar is terrible, if you'd just said you had lots of money I might believe you but you don't hold down a good job.

Three it isn't only women complaining, even if your fantasy story was true I think your behaviours was dickish.

Four, as she wasn't at all interested before seeing your car and wallet you should be grateful that you have them as you must be awful company if she was as bored as you claim."

Five - He shouldn't go setting up other threads mentioning his money & car

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Firstly yes I've got good money .cos I earn it cos I'm qualified too . Secondly I have a good high end car cos I can afford it and that's what I like . Do I want someone who skint .no I want someone who is honest enough not to be looking for a free lift in life . Call it what yous want I call them gold diggers . And again I say it's all women who love to comment bad . "

I wouldn’t worry about the holier than thou brigade . They love to gang up and attack on the forum , which is exactly what I see is happening here .

You described a very typical situation and I’m totally with you on it . Anyone , whether female or male who changes their whole attitude to someone because they have a few quid and a nice car isn’t worth investing any time or effort in , and it seems that’s exactly what she did .

So you left her in a bar with a drink on her own ? So what , she will have soon found another mug to latch onto , it’s what they do .

You’re better off without people like that in your life , and you’re better off not looking for any support from the baying pack on here .

Take care mate , and keep away from those goldiggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly yes I've got good money .cos I earn it cos I'm qualified too . Secondly I have a good high end car cos I can afford it and that's what I like . Do I want someone who skint .no I want someone who is honest enough not to be looking for a free lift in life . Call it what yous want I call them gold diggers . And again I say it's all women who love to comment bad .

I wouldn’t worry about the holier than thou brigade . They love to gang up and attack on the forum , which is exactly what I see is happening here .

You described a very typical situation and I’m totally with you on it . Anyone , whether female or male who changes their whole attitude to someone because they have a few quid and a nice car isn’t worth investing any time or effort in , and it seems that’s exactly what she did .

So you left her in a bar with a drink on her own ? So what , she will have soon found another mug to latch onto , it’s what they do .

You’re better off without people like that in your life , and you’re better off not looking for any support from the baying pack on here .

Take care mate , and keep away from those goldiggers "

That’s if his story is real.

It probably isn’t if you use the green arrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here

You're catching yourself out here.

One, so you've already got a woman you presumably cheat on, therefore get what you deserve.

Two, you don't have a great job, you're English and grammar is terrible, if you'd just said you had lots of money I might believe you but you don't hold down a good job.

Three it isn't only women complaining, even if your fantasy story was true I think your behaviours was dickish.

Four, as she wasn't at all interested before seeing your car and wallet you should be grateful that you have them as you must be awful company if she was as bored as you claim.

Five - He shouldn't go setting up other threads mentioning his money & car "

Oh my god, be has literally just started a thread boasting about his fake job and car, that's brilliant.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'd gladly take anyone female for drink . Just not going to be used all I ask is decent girl with a brain and manners

"

And in what way was she rude or unintelligent? You know what? We are damned if we don't turn up and damned if we do. Let's also not forget, there are MALE gold diggers as well. I know, I've experienced them as I'm solvent and own a 4 bedroom house outright since the age of 46. Not surprising if a lot of men don't get meets really is it?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Some women are attracted to power and wealth.

I don't understand why you bought her a drink and then left her sitting alone though.

Look up goldigger on you tube .

They show a guy who is blanked by women until they see he has an expensive car , then they are all over him like a rash .

He then gets a gold shovel out of the boot and tells them to dig elsewhere . It’s a reflection of the reality that there are women out there that really do do this .

If the op really did leave her waiting in a bar , fair play to him . She deserved it .

Ha. Love it. I'd would of left her alone too!!

"

Nasty thing to do. This thread is such a great filter for who not to meet.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

"

Oh right so the men women and couples who meet socially more than once are all gold diggers then?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

Oh right so the men women and couples who meet socially more than once are all gold diggers then? "
no they are time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IF the opening scenario is true and the OP's hunch was correct, then I have no issue with what he did - absolutely dump her sorry arse - gold diggers of either gender are, quite simply, scum

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

Oh right so the men women and couples who meet socially more than once are all gold diggers then? no they are time wasters "

Ahhhh, so that's where I go wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd gladly take anyone female for drink . Just not going to be used all I ask is decent girl with a brain and manners

And in what way was she rude or unintelligent? You know what? We are damned if we don't turn up and damned if we do. Let's also not forget, there are MALE gold diggers as well. I know, I've experienced them as I'm solvent and own a 4 bedroom house outright since the age of 46. Not surprising if a lot of men don't get meets really is it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a social meet with female

Went ok but she didnt seem that interested . We met again socialy she seemed distant just about to leave them she noticed my car . High end . So I was taking her for another drink .we got chatting in car . When she realized what I did as a job and what kind of money I earned. She soon changed her attitude to me . I dont boast about my job nor show off my car . So I took her to a bar got her a drink and left her sitting alone as I left . Moto here is never judge a person by looks they just might have a personality and a heart "
nice one would love to have seen her face when she realized unless she's still Sat there waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

Oh right so the men women and couples who meet socially more than once are all gold diggers then? no they are time wasters

Ahhhh, so that's where I go wrong... "
superwood do you have money?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

Oh right so the men women and couples who meet socially more than once are all gold diggers then? no they are time wasters

Ahhhh, so that's where I go wrong... "
That's a Bingo!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

Oh right so the men women and couples who meet socially more than once are all gold diggers then? no they are time wasters

Ahhhh, so that's where I go wrong... superwood do you have money? "

I have enough to live on from a part time job. I don't feel the need to have flash cars etc to prove what I'm worth. Take me or leave me, simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

Oh right so the men women and couples who meet socially more than once are all gold diggers then? no they are time wasters

Ahhhh, so that's where I go wrong... superwood do you have money?

I have enough to live on from a part time job. I don't feel the need to have flash cars etc to prove what I'm worth. Take me or leave me, simple really. "
Can I take you

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

Oh right so the men women and couples who meet socially more than once are all gold diggers then? no they are time wasters

Ahhhh, so that's where I go wrong... superwood do you have money?

I have enough to live on from a part time job. I don't feel the need to have flash cars etc to prove what I'm worth. Take me or leave me, simple really. Can I take you"

Too far away lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she's a gold digger

and I am glad u left here alone

stupid cow

why meet twice for social unless you want relationship

Oh right so the men women and couples who meet socially more than once are all gold diggers then? no they are time wasters

Ahhhh, so that's where I go wrong... superwood do you have money?

I have enough to live on from a part time job. I don't feel the need to have flash cars etc to prove what I'm worth. Take me or leave me, simple really. Can I take you

Too far away lol. X"
but I fly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd gladly take anyone female for drink . Just not going to be used all I ask is decent girl with a brain and manners

And in what way was she rude or unintelligent? You know what? We are damned if we don't turn up and damned if we do. Let's also not forget, there are MALE gold diggers as well. I know, I've experienced them as I'm solvent and own a 4 bedroom house outright since the age of 46. Not surprising if a lot of men don't get meets really is it? "

Would you be happy if a man who was previously disinterested suddenly became interested when he learned what you had?

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

It seems you use what you have as a way to attract woman,I nearly left this post on your other thread lol

Some woman in the swinging scene don't care

I've met guys with no job,minimum wage jobs to real good earners

I've met guys with no car,an old banger to a posh car

I don't care about material things, I want their body and great company,fun times

Ps a gentleman would never leave a lady stranded due to an assumption

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By *VxrMan
over a year ago

Newton le Willows


"It seems you use what you have as a way to attract woman,I nearly left this post on your other thread lol

Some woman in the swinging scene don't care

I've met guys with no job,minimum wage jobs to real good earners

I've met guys with no car,an old banger to a posh car

I don't care about material things, I want their body and great company,fun times

Ps a gentleman would never leave a lady stranded due to an assumption"

This ^^^

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Ps a gentleman would never leave a lady stranded due to an assumption

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ps a gentleman would never leave a lady stranded due to an assumption

Definitely this "

It wasn't an assumption. The OP stated she was about to LEAVE saw his car and didn't. Yes, it's not nice to leave someone at a bar but it's also not nice to not really like someone and go out with them for some sort of gain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many liars on here and hypocrtits

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Well we only have one side of the story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here "

You are now digging an even bigger hole. Wtf.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

No idea if the OP is true or not.

But one amusing thing I’ve found on dates where the lady demonstrates a “sense of entitlement” is to humour her and order expensively - “that £80 Merlot looks great, why the hell not, the sea bass and the fillet steak? - it would be rude not to”...

Then when the £200+ bill drops and she makes no effort to reach for her bag you say to the waiter “thanks, we are splitting the bill”.

Never fails .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called hypergamy. Women can't help themselves. They are programmed to look for men, who can look after them and any prospective children. You will notice that women will never date down, but men will as well. Fascinating subject, Google it and red pill. It makes you think.

Not this woman! Maybe because I am totally lacking the maternal instinct? Never judge a person by their job or car either."

Me neither. I’m the same as you.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here

You are now digging an even bigger hole. Wtf. "

Yes,the plot thickens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No idea if the OP is true or not.

But one amusing thing I’ve found on dates where the lady demonstrates a “sense of entitlement” is to humour her and order expensively - “that £80 Merlot looks great, why the hell not, the sea bass and the fillet steak? - it would be rude not to”...

Then when the £200+ bill drops and she makes no effort to reach for her bag you say to the waiter “thanks, we are splitting the bill”.

Never fails . "

I wouldn’t allow someone to order an expensive bottle unless I could afford to pay half in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again only women moan . Thank God I've got one who has a brain not like some who replied on here

You are now digging an even bigger hole. Wtf.

Yes,the plot thickens "

The story is just BS

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

(Assuming you don’t want to see them again, of course, which I never do when they come across like that ).

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m a widow .,.. imagine what that brings up

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