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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking for ideas/advice on how to set up a bi male mmf/mmmf - been a fantasy for some time now and hubby is cool with it, you will be able to tell I am straight by the stupid questions that I ask but hey ho if you don't ask you don't get as they say...

We are not interested in going to clubs so that one is out... we have browsed the mm couples but being up here there is not a lot of choice and can't travel very often due to life commitments.

I can advertise on our profile that is what we are looking for but how could you set it up so that the guys were interested/happy to play with each other? I know that I can't just assume that because they are bi they will play with just anyone, this is the bit that I am unsure about any help is much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for ideas/advice on how to set up a bi male mmf/mmmf - been a fantasy for some time now and hubby is cool with it, you will be able to tell I am straight by the stupid questions that I ask but hey ho if you don't ask you don't get as they say...

We are not interested in going to clubs so that one is out... we have browsed the mm couples but being up here there is not a lot of choice and can't travel very often due to life commitments.

I can advertise on our profile that is what we are looking for but how could you set it up so that the guys were interested/happy to play with each other? I know that I can't just assume that because they are bi they will play with just anyone, this is the bit that I am unsure about any help is much appreciated "

put a meet request on the meets & events section asking specifically for bi-sexual guys

take it from there !

good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good idea but how do you know if the guys will want to play/interested with each other? Do you give each other the profile names to see if they are interested in them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be specific cause you will get guys wanting to join you but wont play with your partner and will just play with you, specify that you want your partner and the other guy to play first before you join in, that should stop most straight guys contacting you, shame you dont live closer really, but good luck in your search.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hubby would not be joining in he would watch we are wanting two separate bi guys to play with me and each other of course...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good idea but how do you know if the guys will want to play/interested with each other? Do you give each other the profile names to see if they are interested in them?

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that won't matter !

did ya not know that bi sexual men will shag anyone and anything ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good idea but how do you know if the guys will want to play/interested with each other? Do you give each other the profile names to see if they are interested in them?

that won't matter !

did ya not know that bi sexual men will shag anyone and anything ? "

Lmao I had read that somewhere...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking for ideas/advice on how to set up a bi male mmf/mmmf - been a fantasy for some time now and hubby is cool with it, you will be able to tell I am straight by the stupid questions that I ask but hey ho if you don't ask you don't get as they say...

We are not interested in going to clubs so that one is out... we have browsed the mm couples but being up here there is not a lot of choice and can't travel very often due to life commitments.

I can advertise on our profile that is what we are looking for but how could you set it up so that the guys were interested/happy to play with each other? I know that I can't just assume that because they are bi they will play with just anyone, this is the bit that I am unsure about any help is much appreciated "

Or just ask me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking for ideas/advice on how to set up a bi male mmf/mmmf - been a fantasy for some time now and hubby is cool with it, you will be able to tell I am straight by the stupid questions that I ask but hey ho if you don't ask you don't get as they say...

We are not interested in going to clubs so that one is out... we have browsed the mm couples but being up here there is not a lot of choice and can't travel very often due to life commitments.

I can advertise on our profile that is what we are looking for but how could you set it up so that the guys were interested/happy to play with each other? I know that I can't just assume that because they are bi they will play with just anyone, this is the bit that I am unsure about any help is much appreciated

Or just ask me "

Mmmm checked out your profile - can you travel to Inverness & do you have a male friend???

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By *irtyleedsladMan
over a year ago

leeds

Advertise under the meet today section and arrange to go for a social drink so everybody meets everybody else, you can discuss limits likes dislikes etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should have put interested in Orally bi... but yep like the idea of going for a drink and a meet up to go over likes/dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advertise under the meet today section and arrange to go for a social drink so everybody meets everybody else, you can discuss limits likes dislikes etc."

+1

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Good idea but how do you know if the guys will want to play/interested with each other? Do you give each other the profile names to see if they are interested in them?

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you ask for a bi man...its not hard...if straight men reply u say no thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol yeh a no that... my question really was how do you know if two bi guys are interested in each other...

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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Hi

You should definitely give the guys each others profile names so that they can check that things are okay with each other and possibly have a chat etc.

The only other thing I would recommend is to get 2 guys who have been verified and are listed as 'bisexual' on their profile. I was supposed to have a bi 4some with with 2 fems who wanted to see guys playing together but unfortunately the other guy never turned up. It wasn't a wasted night though...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"lol yeh a no that... my question really was how do you know if two bi guys are interested in each other... "

sorry,id assumed hubby was one of them...have read more carefully this time

As others have said a social meet first...tho all the bi men know are right tarts who suck any cock put in front of them

(ducks )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol yeh a no that... my question really was how do you know if two bi guys are interested in each other...

sorry,id assumed hubby was one of them...have read more carefully this time

As others have said a social meet first...tho all the bi men know are right tarts who suck any cock put in front of them

(ducks )"

lol no worries prob should have said on my first post... anyways thanks for the advice, social is deff the way forward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol yeh a no that... my question really was how do you know if two bi guys are interested in each other...

sorry,id assumed hubby was one of them...have read more carefully this time

As others have said a social meet first...tho all the bi men know are right tarts who suck any cock put in front of them

I think that's pretty true lol x

(ducks )"

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By *uud 4-funMan
over a year ago

Dartford

All meet in a neutral location for a social first. Choose a venue that is roughly equal distances from all of you then chat about what you have in mind in general terms and get the two guys talking with each other aswell. -Might be the start of a beautiful relationship.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was up for a mmf and the people who i arranged it never turned up but was still in the chatroom

i think if ill doa mmf will be ina club now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy to meet single guys off here, i cant believe for a second your having problems finding a single bi guy

I only meet single guys and i arrange to meet 2 bi ones for bi mmf 3sums regular and ive never been short of offers, for either one on one meets or to join in the 3sum from single guys, the only real problem i have is sorting out the ones i dont fancy lol

Just mention it on your profile that yout looking for a bi male for a 3sum and the offers will just flood in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its easy to meet single guys off here, i cant believe for a second your having problems finding a single bi guy

I only meet single guys and i arrange to meet 2 bi ones for bi mmf 3sums regular and ive never been short of offers, for either one on one meets or to join in the 3sum from single guys, the only real problem i have is sorting out the ones i dont fancy lol

Just mention it on your profile that yout looking for a bi male for a 3sum and the offers will just flood in "

Hey xxx

No not struggling for guys - not sure how to set up a mmf/mmmf with two/three orally bi guys.

Hubby will not be involved we are looking for two/three orally bi guys for me to play with. Was not sure how to try to set it up ie: cant just assume that the guys would want to do have some fun with each other without meeting/knowing who would be in the room, like me there would have to be an attraction.

The best advice we got was to set up a social to see how we all get on, think that is the place to start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i was up for a mmf and the people who i arranged it never turned up but was still in the chatroom

i think if ill doa mmf will be ina club now"

Yeh that has happend to us with mmf before we tend to invite a few at least that way one or two will show lol

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