FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging site or sex site???

By *agermeister OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

It's what you make it

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't. "
It seems to be a combination of the two now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't. It seems to be a combination of the two now."

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

It certainly does

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Don't you need a partner to swing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I get messages regularly getting upset with me for having standards because "this is a sex site".

As if that makes it any more likely that I'm going to go running to anyone who sends me three words and a cock shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you need a partner to swing

That was my point wich is why im not a swinger just a motherfucker

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I get messages regularly getting upset with me for having standards because "this is a sex site".

As if that makes it any more likely that I'm going to go running to anyone who sends me three words and a cock shot. "
it's only guy's that drop standards for NSA sex. Never women!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I get messages regularly getting upset with me for having standards because "this is a sex site".

As if that makes it any more likely that I'm going to go running to anyone who sends me three words and a cock shot. it's only guy's that drop standards for NSA sex. Never women! "

I'd hope that no one does, tbh. But honestly, most of my standards revolve around safety and respect for me as a person. If I don't see that (mostly between the lines), nothing doing.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Don't you need a partner to swing

That was my point wich is why im not a swinger just a motherfucker

You said it not ME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you need a partner to swing

That was my point wich is why im not a swinger just a motherfucker

You said it not ME

Muhahahahaaaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a swinging site but rapidly becoming like those sex sites that I detest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m surprised many that just want nsa without the chat don’t use apps like PURE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is a swinging site but rapidly becoming like those sex sites that I detest. "

Agreed

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"It's what you make it"

Ooh how creepy, while reading this comment they’re playing life’s what you make it on radio 2.

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

"Don't you need a partner to swing

That was my point wich is why im not a swinger just a motherfucker

I'm a mother. Faf?

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"I’m surprised many that just want nsa without the chat don’t use apps like PURE. "

Does anyone actually want to have sex with someone they haven’t even chatted to?!

I would certainly hope not!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

What’s the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand the social side of it but I'm not really into it ...I like chatting etc on the night of the meet but I'm not into the whole club scene and socials...for me personally and this is just my view i can socialise with people at the gym,nights out,classes etc away from here....so for me all that doesn't bother me...I understand people going to socials for bdsm chat or s&m as it's a complete lifestyle thing but when people aren't in to those types of play and go to socials is it not the same as socialising away from the site.....I joined the site for something different but I'll be honest I have more luck away from here lol.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"What’s the difference?"

Until we joined this site our assumption was that swinging involved couples swapping partners. It is obviously a lot more diverse than that and open to much interpretation. It’s like a giant pick and mix on here!

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By *agermeister OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

So a sex site is Fuck and go?

A swinging site can be fuck and go but many are attracted to the social aspect?

I think I'm definitely attracted by the chance to make friends/connections but can a single guy be a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a sex site is Fuck and go?

A swinging site can be fuck and go but many are attracted to the social aspect?

I think I'm definitely attracted by the chance to make friends/connections but can a single guy be a swinger?"

Yes. Of course. Many go to clubs or meet couples for group stuff etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand the social side of it but I'm not really into it ...I like chatting etc on the night of the meet but I'm not into the whole club scene and socials...for me personally and this is just my view i can socialise with people at the gym,nights out,classes etc away from here....so for me all that doesn't bother me...I understand people going to socials for bdsm chat or s&m as it's a complete lifestyle thing but when people aren't in to those types of play and go to socials is it not the same as socialising away from the site.....I joined the site for something different but I'll be honest I have more luck away from here lol."

That’s because you are not interested in socials or getting to know someone and building a bit of a connection. There are many on here that are like you so you should be able to meet people who want the same. Doesn’t appeal to me though as I like the social aspect as much as the sexual side.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not entirely sure of the difference or where I fall on the spectrum, but I do find that those who identify as swingers tend to be more thoughtful/ have more manners. I'm aware it could be the unicorn thing, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m surprised many that just want nsa without the chat don’t use apps like PURE.

Does anyone actually want to have sex with someone they haven’t even chatted to?!

I would certainly hope not! "

Yes, there are more than you know if my messages are anything to go by. Also local updates state that. Come empty my balls for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you totally...I'm meeting a couple soon when our lives away from work align properly...we have been speaking over fab and obviously on the night in question we'll have a bit chat before fun but that suits me better the same way it suits you the other way...preferences isn't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging in my opinion is about mutual pleasures and lifestyle. Whether it be as a single or as a couple

Back in the day swinging you'd have mental images of car keys in a bowl and which ever the woman picked out she went off with that man. Whether she was attracted to him or not. More of a male dominated affair. It's come a long way from that and even considered more socially acceptable

These days it's a life style, part of a community. Being sexually liberated and open to non-monogamy and poly life.

For most this is making connections with another person or couple and enjoying sex and adult company.

For some it's enjoying someone different when ever they choose while maintaining a relationship with their partner. Never meeting that other person again.

Quite a few enjoy sharing partners with others regularly in group encounters.

Many types of swinging.

Most important part is respecting each other and having it remain mutually pleasurable.

I think swinging is more gratifying than alcohol fueled one night stands after going out for a night on the town.

This is a swingers site due to most wanting the social element. Freedom to be in the company of like-minded individuals and couples even if there's no sex involved.

Those who treat this site as a sex site will miss out on meeting great people and what the life style has to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So a sex site is Fuck and go?

A swinging site can be fuck and go but many are attracted to the social aspect?

I think I'm definitely attracted by the chance to make friends/connections but can a single guy be a swinger?"

Huge numbers of couples on here seek out single guys....as do some women......thankfully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging in my opinion is about mutual pleasures and lifestyle. Whether it be as a single or as a couple

These days it's a life style, part of a community. Being sexually liberated and open to non-monogamy and poly life.

For most this is making connections with another person or couple and enjoying sex and adult company.

For some it's enjoying someone different when ever they choose while maintaining a relationship with their partner. Never meeting that other person again.

Quite a few enjoy sharing partners with others regularly in group encounters.

Many types of swinging.

Most important part is respecting each other and having it remain mutually pleasurable.

I think swinging is more gratifying than alcohol fueled one night stands after going out for a night on the town.

This is a swingers site due to most wanting the social element. Freedom to be in the company of like-minded individuals and couples even if there's no sex involved.

Those who treat this site as a sex site will miss out on meeting great people and what the life style has to offer."

That was explained perfectly and just how I believe it to be.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"I’m surprised many that just want nsa without the chat don’t use apps like PURE.

Does anyone actually want to have sex with someone they haven’t even chatted to?!

I would certainly hope not!

Yes, there are more than you know if my messages are anything to go by. Also local updates state that. Come empty my balls for example. "

Now that you mention it I’ve seen a few profiles with similar to that in the status (or the female equivalent) - an absolute turn off for me.

I’d also far rather see a face pic than a pic of someone’s genitalia. Sadly clear face pics are rare to find on here as well (and your profile is commendable in that respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m surprised many that just want nsa without the chat don’t use apps like PURE.

Does anyone actually want to have sex with someone they haven’t even chatted to?!

I would certainly hope not!

Yes, there are more than you know if my messages are anything to go by. Also local updates state that. Come empty my balls for example.

Now that you mention it I’ve seen a few profiles with similar to that in the status (or the female equivalent) - an absolute turn off for me.

I’d also far rather see a face pic than a pic of someone’s genitalia. Sadly clear face pics are rare to find on here as well (and your profile is commendable in that respect

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You would have to be super special to ever see my genitalia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't. "

Years ago when i first joined it was very much a swingers site..

Singles were looked down on and married people looking for a bit on the side had abuse hurled at them (i know they still do but back then it was a lot worse)

Nowadays the boundaries of what a swinger is have broadened somewhat and the site is more inclusive of everyone which is how it should be imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m surprised many that just want nsa without the chat don’t use apps like PURE.

Does anyone actually want to have sex with someone they haven’t even chatted to?!

I would certainly hope not!

Yes, there are more than you know if my messages are anything to go by. Also local updates state that. Come empty my balls for example.

Now that you mention it I’ve seen a few profiles with similar to that in the status (or the female equivalent) - an absolute turn off for me.

I’d also far rather see a face pic than a pic of someone’s genitalia. Sadly clear face pics are rare to find on here as well (and your profile is commendable in that respect

). "

I totally agree mate...I'd always rather see a face pic than anything else...I'll be honest I love a woman's genital area but I don't feel anything when I see pics of them as once you've seen one you've seen them all lol.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

the site is what you make of it (although i think a clue to its original intent is in the title)

you can get as much into the site as you want to... if you like the community side and the socialising then for them it is a swinging site....

if you don't want to get into it.... then its a sex site

the thing that annoys me is those who are on one side an turn there noses up at the other... i use to think that was more the people who looked at it as a swinging site looking down on those who thought of it as a sex site...

the longer i have been here.... i actually think it is the other way round! those who look at it as a sex site are far more impatient than those who look at it as a swinging site.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m surprised many that just want nsa without the chat don’t use apps like PURE.

Does anyone actually want to have sex with someone they haven’t even chatted to?!

I would certainly hope not!

Yes, there are more than you know if my messages are anything to go by. Also local updates state that. Come empty my balls for example.

Now that you mention it I’ve seen a few profiles with similar to that in the status (or the female equivalent) - an absolute turn off for me.

I’d also far rather see a face pic than a pic of someone’s genitalia. Sadly clear face pics are rare to find on here as well (and your profile is commendable in that respect

Join the club, I think I’m immune to a picture of a cock now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the site is what you make of it (although i think a clue to its original intent is in the title)

you can get as much into the site as you want to... if you like the community side and the socialising then for them it is a swinging site....

if you don't want to get into it.... then its a sex site

the longer i have been here.... i actually think it is the other way round! those who look at it as a sex site are far more impatient than those who look at it as a swinging site....."

I can see that. People who like the social element etc are probably in no rush and more patient to the situation.

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

.....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos. "

Job site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos. "

Although I do feel like many women on here are treated like a free working girl.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Swingers are an endangered species on the forums. Swinging is part of ethical non monogamy. Singles hooking up are singles hooking up.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Swinging in my opinion is about mutual pleasures and lifestyle. Whether it be as a single or as a couple

These days it's a life style, part of a community. Being sexually liberated and open to non-monogamy and poly life.

For most this is making connections with another person or couple and enjoying sex and adult company.

For some it's enjoying someone different when ever they choose while maintaining a relationship with their partner. Never meeting that other person again.

Quite a few enjoy sharing partners with others regularly in group encounters.

Many types of swinging.

Most important part is respecting each other and having it remain mutually pleasurable.

I think swinging is more gratifying than alcohol fueled one night stands after going out for a night on the town.

This is a swingers site due to most wanting the social element. Freedom to be in the company of like-minded individuals and couples even if there's no sex involved.

Those who treat this site as a sex site will miss out on meeting great people and what the life style has to offer."

None of the above is incompatible with a ‘sex site’ (whatever that is!).

Just seems like another meaningless distinction.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I guess it depends on your definition of "sex site".

To me swinging is a subset of sex, so I do consider it a "sex site". I also consider porn to be a subset of sex and therefore also a "sex site".

I do not consider the swinging and porn to be the same, although I enjoy both.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

I mean, you may as well ask, because people have social meets make friends through Fab, ‘is Fab a friendship site or a swinging site?’

Does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swingers are an endangered species on the forums. Swinging is part of ethical non monogamy. Singles hooking up are singles hooking up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos. "

I've seen this myself lol...I can't stand it when in the past I've sent a couple or female a nice opening message and the only reply I get is "face pics"...no hello or anything...I just reply with "first of all hello to you" and don't send them any as they not worth the effort as it's ignorant..thank god its only a small percentage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

You will be seen as a toy to some couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

You will be seen as a toy to some couples. "

I know it's sad lol...I'm not desperate or in a hurry to meet so a lot of men still would have sent face pics but not me I've got some dignity.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

I've seen this myself lol...I can't stand it when in the past I've sent a couple or female a nice opening message and the only reply I get is "face pics"..."

What they mean is "dance for me monkey"

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

Well, I have many female sisters and friends in my life I will always protect and respect women, I' have been lucky enough to meet some wonderful women here BUT please women shouldn't advertise a possible meet as "apply within" that doesn't sound right... Just my opinion

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

You will be seen as a toy to some couples.

I know it's sad lol...I'm not desperate or in a hurry to meet so a lot of men still would have sent face pics but not me I've got some dignity."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

You will be seen as a toy to some couples.

I know it's sad lol...I'm not desperate or in a hurry to meet so a lot of men still would have sent face pics but not me I've got some dignity."

I know but with the type of meets you are looking for with not much interaction, you will be treated as such. It’s like looking through a catalogue for them.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We find the site is both reassuring in that we feel like we are in a community of people with similar interests, but we haven’t come here to specifically make friends. We have found several people that we have really clicked with which has been great, but our main use of this site is to see who goes to particular Clubs and hopefully to meet with them and if all the planets line up, have fantastic sex with them.

We don’t go with just anyone, there has to be a connection, but we have had some lovely times, sometimes just in front of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, I have many female sisters and friends in my life I will always protect and respect women, I' have been lucky enough to meet some wonderful women here BUT please women shouldn't advertise a possible meet as "apply within" that doesn't sound right... Just my opinion "

Makes it sound too protocol or structured instead of relaxed....could actually make some people steer clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

I've seen this myself lol...I can't stand it when in the past I've sent a couple or female a nice opening message and the only reply I get is "face pics"...

I agree totally with you as it's a power trip for them but like I say not many are like that but when they are I just think your not for me as I'm not your lapdog.

What they mean is "dance for me monkey" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say no to both as it only for chatting nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess it depends on your definition of "sex site".

To me swinging is a subset of sex, so I do consider it a "sex site". I also consider porn to be a subset of sex and therefore also a "sex site".

I do not consider the swinging and porn to be the same, although I enjoy both."
Well at the end of the day people come on here for sex whatever way you look at it, so it is a type of sex site some might say a lifestyle. Yes and people make friends and enjoy the social side but the main reason is to have sex well mainly.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It's a fuck site.

Dress it up, dress it down, call it what you want if that makes you feel better but the top and bottom of it is most people on here are to get laid (or moan about not getting laid).

The couples who consider themselves "true swingers" I'm presuming can set their preferences so they meet only other like-minded couples and not have to come into contact with us terrible singles.

And for everybody else there's the forums.

Works for me.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"It's a fuck site.

Dress it up, dress it down, call it what you want if that makes you feel better but the top and bottom of it is most people on here are to get laid (or moan about not getting laid).

The couples who consider themselves "true swingers" I'm presuming can set their preferences so they meet only other like-minded couples and not have to come into contact with us terrible singles.

And for everybody else there's the forums.

Works for me.

Job jobbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fuck site.

Dress it up, dress it down, call it what you want if that makes you feel better but the top and bottom of it is most people on here are to get laid (or moan about not getting laid).

The couples who consider themselves "true swingers" I'm presuming can set their preferences so they meet only other like-minded couples and not have to come into contact with us terrible singles.

And for everybody else there's the forums.

Works for me.

Loving your comment. That was a class burn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll always look at this as a swingers site, that's been manipulated into something else, that's defo not swinging !

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

"It's a fuck site.

Dress it up, dress it down, call it what you want if that makes you feel better but the top and bottom of it is most people on here are to get laid (or moan about not getting laid).

The couples who consider themselves "true swingers" I'm presuming can set their preferences so they meet only other like-minded couples and not have to come into contact with us terrible singles.

And for everybody else there's the forums.

Works for me.

Thats the long and short of it though some may not want to see it that way ultimately thats what it is.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

it's really just a place where people congregate to disagree with each other -by way of example:

Q: "Wanna Fuk"

A: "No"

Q: Ok, what do gurlz like doin with their twat all day

A: "Telling him to Fuck Off and Get a life"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say no to both as it only for chatting nothing more."

For you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess it depends on your definition of "sex site".

To me swinging is a subset of sex, so I do consider it a "sex site". I also consider porn to be a subset of sex and therefore also a "sex site".

I do not consider the swinging and porn to be the same, although I enjoy both. Well at the end of the day people come on here for sex whatever way you look at it, so it is a type of sex site some might say a lifestyle. Yes and people make friends and enjoy the social side but the main reason is to have sex well mainly."

I see it as a lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say no to both as it only for chatting nothing more.

For you? "
I’ve noticed quite a good few say not meeting only here for the forums.....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I’m surprised many that just want nsa without the chat don’t use apps like PURE.

Does anyone actually want to have sex with someone they haven’t even chatted to?!

I would certainly hope not! "

Apparently we are expected to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say no to both as it only for chatting nothing more.

For you? I’ve noticed quite a good few say not meeting only here for the forums....."

Because I’m already meeting someone on here and want to get to know him better. We both want a swinging relationship but want to see if we are compatible first. If not, I will be back to meeting. Also my mum has cancer and recovering from surgery so also don’t need to be meeting random people. Thanks for making a point though.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos. "

So they aren't allowed preferences then?!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

So they aren't allowed preferences then?! "

of course they are not! arent us females only here to pleasure the men that want it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or is that how they see it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's really just a place where people congregate to disagree with each other -by way of example:

Q: "Wanna Fuk"

A: "No"

Q: Ok, what do gurlz like doin with their twat all day

A: "Telling him to Fuck Off and Get a life""

Lmao!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's only singles seeking other singles, then it's a sex site .... for them.

If it's singles seeking couples and other singles then it's a swinging site.

If it's couples seeking couples and singles, then it's a swinging site.

I think there is too much of the first paragraph.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's only singles seeking other singles, then it's a sex site .... for them.

If it's singles seeking couples and other singles then it's a swinging site.

If it's couples seeking couples and singles, then it's a swinging site.

I think there is too much of the first paragraph."
But....what if the “couples are fuck buddies” like a lot on here? Then are they a couple or singles?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Depends what you want out of it i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a swingers site due to most wanting the social element."

Really, where did you get this 'fact' from?

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

Is it not a case of 'it is what two parties agree it is to them?'

If two couples call it 'swinging' and they have a social approach then that is what it is.

If a male and a female agree to have 'nsa' sex based on two messages and a meet then that is what it Is, for them.

Surely compatibility will determine the motive and then satisfaction achieved, the label is unimportant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't. "

There is no definitive answer because people use it in lots of different ways.

It can be whatever you want it to be.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Is it not a case of 'it is what two parties agree it is to them?'

If two couples call it 'swinging' and they have a social approach then that is what it is.

If a male and a female agree to have 'nsa' sex based on two messages and a meet then that is what it Is, for them.

Surely compatibility will determine the motive and then satisfaction achieved, the label is unimportant."

Swinging is nothing to do with socials

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over a year ago

"Is it not a case of 'it is what two parties agree it is to them?'

If two couples call it 'swinging' and they have a social approach then that is what it is.

If a male and a female agree to have 'nsa' sex based on two messages and a meet then that is what it Is, for them.

Surely compatibility will determine the motive and then satisfaction achieved, the label is unimportant.

Swinging is nothing to do with socials

Originally it had a social element to it. Dinner parties etc.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Is it not a case of 'it is what two parties agree it is to them?'

If two couples call it 'swinging' and they have a social approach then that is what it is.

If a male and a female agree to have 'nsa' sex based on two messages and a meet then that is what it Is, for them.

Surely compatibility will determine the motive and then satisfaction achieved, the label is unimportant.

Swinging is nothing to do with socials

Originally it had a social element to it. Dinner parties etc. "

Originally it was American world war two pilots swapping wives as a bonding experience because they wanted someone who had a vested interest in taking care of the old girl if they didn't come back. No dinner parties or cocktails.

The criteria is ethical non monogamy. Probably the most prolific swingers on the forums don't do socials at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it not a case of 'it is what two parties agree it is to them?'

If two couples call it 'swinging' and they have a social approach then that is what it is.

If a male and a female agree to have 'nsa' sex based on two messages and a meet then that is what it Is, for them.

Surely compatibility will determine the motive and then satisfaction achieved, the label is unimportant.

Swinging is nothing to do with socials

Originally it had a social element to it. Dinner parties etc.

The criteria is ethical non monogamy. Probably the most prolific swingers on the forums don't do socials at all. "

The couples I have met with a partner wanted a very social element at their house. Drinks and see how we get on. I wouldn’t go to meet another couple and get straight to it without warming up first.

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over a year ago

"Is it not a case of 'it is what two parties agree it is to them?'

If two couples call it 'swinging' and they have a social approach then that is what it is.

If a male and a female agree to have 'nsa' sex based on two messages and a meet then that is what it Is, for them.

Surely compatibility will determine the motive and then satisfaction achieved, the label is unimportant.

Swinging is nothing to do with socials

Originally it had a social element to it. Dinner parties etc.

The criteria is ethical non monogamy. Probably the most prolific swingers on the forums don't do socials at all. "

Someone explained the origin of swinging and it was to do with the swinging 60s. Not sure if it’s back on this thread or another.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I also have the problem determining the difference between the two. Some people say it's not a sex site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

We think its a sex site in the main, the question is why so many don't admit to it when they probably know in their minds that's why they are on this site..

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

We use it as a swingers site, we use other sites for sex sites. The clue is in the name I guess.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I also have the problem determining the difference between the two. Some people say it's not a sex site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either."

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

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over a year ago

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is? "

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few."

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

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over a year ago

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night. "

The difference between what happens in Chameleons and universities up and down the country on a typical weekend night is that at Chams you don't generally see people need to get all sloshed up on alcohol or using recreational narcotics before they get the guts to try to hook up with someone else. The biggest difference between swinging/ENM and plain old pulling-hooking-up sex is that the former is very much more of a sober conscious decision than the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, why is there this debate about whether Fab is a swinging or sex site? The way I see it they're one and the same. Fab is for people who choose to lead a swinging lifestyle, which centres round swapping partners with other couples for the primary purpose of sex (if you were to really go back to the roots of swinging), or individuals who want to lead a hedonistic lifestyle that has threesomes and gangbangs thrown in for good measure. Again, all sexual things. If sex wasn't a main objective for people on here, Fab would be more akin to a dating site than anything else!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then...

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over a year ago

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then... "

The majority of people where...?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then...

The majority of people where...? "

In this country. The average Joe and Jane rank their partner having sex with someone else as one of the worst things that can happen to their relationship

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over a year ago

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then...

The majority of people where...?

In this country. The average Joe and Jane rank their partner having sex with someone else as one of the worst things that can happen to their relationship"

You'd probably get that same result anywhere else in the world really.

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over a year ago

"Swingers are an endangered species on the forums. Swinging is part of ethical non monogamy. Singles hooking up are singles hooking up. "

I’ve noticed this too. I see a sex site as everything sexual but swinging as mainly couples looking to include others in their sex life (a division). I may be a single on here but I see myself as a swinger because I want to be in the middle of that

I’m not here for 1:1 meets which 99% of my messages are requesting. I often say SWingle.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then...

The majority of people where...?

In this country. The average Joe and Jane rank their partner having sex with someone else as one of the worst things that can happen to their relationship

You'd probably get that same result anywhere else in the world really. "

Technically ethical non monogamy thrives in the middle east due to polygamy... but not swinging.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Swingers are an endangered species on the forums. Swinging is part of ethical non monogamy. Singles hooking up are singles hooking up.

I’m not here for 1:1 meets which 99% of my messages are requesting. I often say SWingle."

Swingle

I'm stealing that

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over a year ago

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then...

The majority of people where...?

In this country. The average Joe and Jane rank their partner having sex with someone else as one of the worst things that can happen to their relationship

You'd probably get that same result anywhere else in the world really. "

I disagree with the biggest difference being alcohol. Swinging and one night hooks are different in the quality and quantity of the sex. One nighters, in my humble opinion, are all about the male getting off. Nothing in it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then...

The majority of people where...?

In this country. The average Joe and Jane rank their partner having sex with someone else as one of the worst things that can happen to their relationship

You'd probably get that same result anywhere else in the world really.

Technically ethical non monogamy thrives in the middle east due to polygamy... but not swinging. "

Polygamy in the Middle East isn't ETHICAL. It's just LAWFUL.

Personally, I am only willing to stretch my acceptance as far as polyamory, but when it comes to actual marriage, sorry, there's no space for officially more than two people in a marriage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then...

The majority of people where...?

In this country. The average Joe and Jane rank their partner having sex with someone else as one of the worst things that can happen to their relationship

You'd probably get that same result anywhere else in the world really.

Technically ethical non monogamy thrives in the middle east due to polygamy... but not swinging.

Polygamy in the Middle East isn't ETHICAL. It's just LAWFUL.

Personally, I am only willing to stretch my acceptance as far as polyamory, but when it comes to actual marriage, sorry, there's no space for officially more than two people in a marriage! "

Not even the mother-in-law

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over a year ago

"I disagree with the biggest difference being alcohol. Swinging and one night hooks are different in the quality and quantity of the sex. One nighters, in my humble opinion, are all about the male getting off. Nothing in it for me.

You've obviously been hooking up with the wrong men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by that logic there wouldn't be any females up for one night stands then, if they didn't have even a bit of an intention to get themselves off with a one night stand's cock!

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over a year ago

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then...

The majority of people where...?

In this country. The average Joe and Jane rank their partner having sex with someone else as one of the worst things that can happen to their relationship

You'd probably get that same result anywhere else in the world really.

Technically ethical non monogamy thrives in the middle east due to polygamy... but not swinging.

Polygamy in the Middle East isn't ETHICAL. It's just LAWFUL.

Personally, I am only willing to stretch my acceptance as far as polyamory, but when it comes to actual marriage, sorry, there's no space for officially more than two people in a marriage!

Not even the mother-in-law

Damn straight there isn't space in a marriage for a MIL! If one has a partner who seems overly hamstrung by what would be your future MIL, run a hundred miles because you will NEVER have a successful happy marriage of two equals. The MIL would just be a constant helicopter presence in the marriage.

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over a year ago

Going by that logic there wouldn't be any females up for one night stands then, if they didn't have even a bit of an intention to get themselves off with a one night stand's cock! "

Drinking all night can lead to people doing all kinds of things they wouldn’t normally and performing very differently too. Never heard a female say how good a one nighter was, also never heard one say she was going out looking for it either (maybe it’s my company!). Maybe start a thread and find out - I’m sure there’s a good tale out there.

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over a year ago

Others will say it's a swinging site although all their pics are naked and their verifications are about how many they've fucked and in what position.

So i'm none the wiser either.

Do you understand what ethical non monogamy is?

You may need to explain the different varieties of ethical non monogamy as there are a few.

Sure so I'm just saying that swinging is one of them. ENM being a larger group that also includes the likes of polyamory.

I'm really baffled if people can't tell the difference between what goes on in chameleons and universities up and down the country, on a Saturday night.

That's one difference but if you if you think the majority of people would be willing to share their lover then...

The majority of people where...?

In this country. The average Joe and Jane rank their partner having sex with someone else as one of the worst things that can happen to their relationship

You'd probably get that same result anywhere else in the world really.

Technically ethical non monogamy thrives in the middle east due to polygamy... but not swinging.

Polygamy in the Middle East isn't ETHICAL. It's just LAWFUL.

Personally, I am only willing to stretch my acceptance as far as polyamory, but when it comes to actual marriage, sorry, there's no space for officially more than two people in a marriage!

Not even the mother-in-law

Mother-in-law is out!

Children? Family? Friends? Out, out, out

Can I bring the rugby team though

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over a year ago

Going by that logic there wouldn't be any females up for one night stands then, if they didn't have even a bit of an intention to get themselves off with a one night stand's cock!

Come down to York Uni. I'd gladly bring you on a night out and show you the error of your ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mother-in-law is out!

Children? Family? Friends? Out, out, out

Can I bring the rugby team though

A marriage is primarily between two people. Everyone else revolves around the married couple. Yes, even kids and extended family.

Bringing the rugby team? Only if you let me bring the netball team too!

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over a year ago

Going by that logic there wouldn't be any females up for one night stands then, if they didn't have even a bit of an intention to get themselves off with a one night stand's cock!

Come down to York Uni. I'd gladly bring you on a night out and show you the error of your ways.

My ways aren’t the error. D*unken men and shit sex are

swinging clubs are my heavan

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over a year ago

Mother-in-law is out!

Children? Family? Friends? Out, out, out

Can I bring the rugby team though

A marriage is primarily between two people. Everyone else revolves around the married couple. Yes, even kids and extended family.

Bringing the rugby team? Only if you let me bring the netball team too! "

Already done them

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over a year ago

Going by that logic there wouldn't be any females up for one night stands then, if they didn't have even a bit of an intention to get themselves off with a one night stand's cock!

Come down to York Uni. I'd gladly bring you on a night out and show you the error of your ways.

My ways aren’t the error. D*unken men and shit sex are

swinging clubs are my heavan

Hahaha!

Here's to d*unken men and shit sex. May you never meet them both!

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over a year ago

Going by that logic there wouldn't be any females up for one night stands then, if they didn't have even a bit of an intention to get themselves off with a one night stand's cock!

Come down to York Uni. I'd gladly bring you on a night out and show you the error of your ways.

My ways aren’t the error. D*unken men and shit sex are

swinging clubs are my heavan

Hahaha!

Here's to d*unken men and shit sex. May you never meet them both! "

#raiseatoast

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

As a single person on here I’ve met lovely people. I’ve had threesums, foursums and moresums.

It’s very much a swinging site for me but I can only do that if I’m on here and meet other singles to play with so that I feel comfortable meeting and playing with others.

A sex site is for people looking for sex 24/7 like ordering take away in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m surprised many that just want nsa without the chat don’t use apps like PURE. "

Because we like it here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fuck site.

Dress it up, dress it down, call it what you want if that makes you feel better but the top and bottom of it is most people on here are to get laid (or moan about not getting laid).

The couples who consider themselves "true swingers" I'm presuming can set their preferences so they meet only other like-minded couples and not have to come into contact with us terrible singles.

And for everybody else there's the forums.

Works for me.

THIS!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't. "

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site "

This. Absolutely this.

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

So they aren't allowed preferences then?! "

Sure everyone is allowed to their own opinion but "apply within" in a swingers site doesn't do it for me sorry love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men seem to think they can send a message when horny and women will come running

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Mother-in-law is out!

Children? Family? Friends? Out, out, out

Can I bring the rugby team though

A marriage is primarily between two people. Everyone else revolves around the married couple. Yes, even kids and extended family.

Bringing the rugby team? Only if you let me bring the netball team too! "

You need to brush up on your history bro. Monogamous marriage is the new kid on the block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

So they aren't allowed preferences then?!

Sure everyone is allowed to their own opinion but "apply within" in a swingers site doesn't do it for me sorry love "

Then just move on to another profile. I’m sure they will be doing ok.

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By *axxonBlackMan
over a year ago

north

".....and some pple think it's a job site they ask you to apply within lol weirdos.

So they aren't allowed preferences then?!

Sure everyone is allowed to their own opinion but "apply within" in a swingers site doesn't do it for me sorry love

Then just move on to another profile. I’m sure they will be doing ok. "

I did long time ago

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

For some it’s a dating site. Lots of different things for lots of different people.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

The dynamics of our swinging changes very often, sometimes we look for socials with couple's before we play, other times we just like to meet for a good sex, other times we meet single guys/girls, go to parties, go to clubs all with the intention of having sex.

So we guess everyone is entitled to there own perception of what this site really is, but we think it's a sex site, and that suits us perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site "

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

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over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

Well at least you’re honest....

Most women on Fab shout from the rooftops they are not swingers and if they found the right guy .. they’re done with swinging....

Now if signed up for Slimming world website and stated emphatically on my profile and in the forums... I’m not here to lose weight or give support to people trying to lose weight...I’m just here to perv on the ladies weight loss before and after pics... people would run me off that site for being a creep....

Now before you moral crusaders come with the it’s your profile do what you want on Fab... I agree with you... I just find it odd to be on a swinging site and protest you’re not a swinger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some it’s a dating site. Lots of different things for lots of different people. "

I just want to date a filthy fucker. I don’t think there is a filthy fucker dating app

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over a year ago

"For some it’s a dating site. Lots of different things for lots of different people.

I just want to date a filthy fucker. I don’t think there is a filthy fucker dating app

Have you tried those fetish sites or apps?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

"
You're not meant to tell them before you have sex with them.

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over a year ago

"For some it’s a dating site. Lots of different things for lots of different people.

I just want to date a filthy fucker. I don’t think there is a filthy fucker dating app

Have you tried those fetish sites or apps?"

I’m on a few other sites. I’ve got my options open in a few places.

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over a year ago

"For some it’s a dating site. Lots of different things for lots of different people.

I just want to date a filthy fucker. I don’t think there is a filthy fucker dating app

Have you tried those fetish sites or apps?"

But I want to meet a swinger as that’s what I’m into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some it’s a dating site. Lots of different things for lots of different people.

I just want to date a filthy fucker. I don’t think there is a filthy fucker dating app

Have you tried those fetish sites or apps?

But I want to meet a swinger as that’s what I’m into. "

Ok the term swinger has become so generic now...

I would say open relationship....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some it’s a dating site. Lots of different things for lots of different people.

I just want to date a filthy fucker. I don’t think there is a filthy fucker dating app

Have you tried those fetish sites or apps?

But I want to meet a swinger as that’s what I’m into.

Ok the term swinger has become so generic now...

I would say open relationship...."

I don’t want an open thing. Only one where we play together. Clubs, parties or at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For some it’s a dating site. Lots of different things for lots of different people.

I just want to date a filthy fucker. I don’t think there is a filthy fucker dating app

Have you tried those fetish sites or apps?

But I want to meet a swinger as that’s what I’m into.

Ok the term swinger has become so generic now...

I would say open relationship....

I don’t want an open thing. Only one where we play together. Clubs, parties or at home. "

Ok ... I know you will find him... just make sure you feed him well , when you die find him ...you can’t keep a man with just good sex alone...

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over a year ago

"For some it’s a dating site. Lots of different things for lots of different people.

I just want to date a filthy fucker. I don’t think there is a filthy fucker dating app

Have you tried those fetish sites or apps?

But I want to meet a swinger as that’s what I’m into.

Ok the term swinger has become so generic now...

I would say open relationship....

I don’t want an open thing. Only one where we play together. Clubs, parties or at home.

Ok ... I know you will find him... just make sure you feed him well , when you die find him ...you can’t keep a man with just good sex alone..."

I don’t have a high sex drive so I know that. I may have found someone

I never base my relationship on sex anyway and swinging would only be an occasional thing anyway.

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over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

Well at least you’re honest....

Most women on Fab shout from the rooftops they are not swingers and if they found the right guy .. they’re done with swinging....

Now before you moral crusaders come with the it’s your profile do what you want on Fab... I agree with you... I just find it odd to be on a swinging site and protest you’re not a swinger..."

There was definitely a tongue in my cheek when I wrote that

100% real deal dirty-sod of a swinger here. I only play if there’s more than two

I do sing ‘... if you like, then you should have put a ring on it...’ as I bounce out the club room

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over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

You're not meant to tell them before you have sex with them.

I do! I also remind them that I’m contraceptive free, available to meet the parents and have cleared a bed-side drawer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swinging sex site for us

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

You're not meant to tell them before you have sex with them.

I do! I also remind them that I’m contraceptive free, available to meet the parents and have cleared a bed-side drawer

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Right you can still turn this around! Promise this list 1- No nagging. 2- Make sure the house is tidy, do all the household chores. 3- Be or become a good cook. 4- Sex whenever he wants. 5- He has control of the TV. 6- if he wants to swing you only meet single women.

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over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't. "

We always say swingers site those that like the social side as well as the fun side

The sex site are people who just want a hole to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can somebody tell me the definition of a swinger please so I can answer the question ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

You're not meant to tell them before you have sex with them.

I do! I also remind them that I’m contraceptive free, available to meet the parents and have cleared a bed-side drawer

Right you can still turn this around! Promise this list 1- No nagging. 2- Make sure the house is tidy, do all the household chores. 3- Be or become a good cook. 4- Sex whenever he wants. 5- He has control of the TV. 6- if he wants to swing you only meet single women. "

No 4 - tick

No 1, 2, 5 - covered

No 3 and 6 - not a bloody chance

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

You're not meant to tell them before you have sex with them.

I do! I also remind them that I’m contraceptive free, available to meet the parents and have cleared a bed-side drawer

No 4 - tick

No 1, 2, 5 - covered

No 3 and 6 - not a bloody chance

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Close but no Cigar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an inane and ridiculous question....

There is no answer people use the site however they want

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"What an inane and ridiculous question....

There is no answer people use the site however they want "

Any red blooded single male using this site as a sex site must be pretty bloody frustrated. There are far richer pickings to be had elsewhere.

I enjoy the forums and that’s about it. My dating/sex life reliably comes from elsewhere*... with the occasional fab meet interspersed here and there.

*dating 25-35yo professional women certainly puts this place into perspective. They’d be weirded out/disgusted if they knew I was on here, so I don’t tell them about it

I guess it’s the pursuit of something new and different that keeps me here.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

There’s nothing like remembering how the 30 something, size 6 GP, whose toes you love sucking, who gives incredible head, who you met at a singles’ event, doesn’t give a shite about your “veris”

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"What an inane and ridiculous question....

There is no answer people use the site however they want

Any red blooded single male using this site as a sex site must be pretty bloody frustrated. There are far richer pickings to be had elsewhere.

I enjoy the forums and that’s about it. My dating/sex life reliably comes from elsewhere*... with the occasional fab meet interspersed here and there.

*dating 25-35yo professional women certainly puts this place into perspective. They’d be weirded out/disgusted if they knew I was on here, so I don’t tell them about it

I guess it’s the pursuit of something new and different that keeps me here. "

So you don’t want to meet me then...I’m older than 35!

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"What an inane and ridiculous question....

There is no answer people use the site however they want

Any red blooded single male using this site as a sex site must be pretty bloody frustrated. There are far richer pickings to be had elsewhere.

I enjoy the forums and that’s about it. My dating/sex life reliably comes from elsewhere*... with the occasional fab meet interspersed here and there.

*dating 25-35yo professional women certainly puts this place into perspective. They’d be weirded out/disgusted if they knew I was on here, so I don’t tell them about it

I guess it’s the pursuit of something new and different that keeps me here.

So you don’t want to meet me then...I’m older than 35! "

Don’t make silly assumptions like that.

30yos get boring with their constant need for texting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What an inane and ridiculous question....

There is no answer people use the site however they want

Any red blooded single male using this site as a sex site must be pretty bloody frustrated. There are far richer pickings to be had elsewhere.

I enjoy the forums and that’s about it. My dating/sex life reliably comes from elsewhere*... with the occasional fab meet interspersed here and there.

*dating 25-35yo professional women certainly puts this place into perspective. They’d be weirded out/disgusted if they knew I was on here, so I don’t tell them about it

I guess it’s the pursuit of something new and different that keeps me here.

So you don’t want to meet me then...I’m older than 35!

Don’t make silly assumptions like that.

30yos get boring with their constant need for texting! "

I’m worse than a 30 yr old then. I have too much time on my hands. You would hate it.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"What an inane and ridiculous question....

There is no answer people use the site however they want

Any red blooded single male using this site as a sex site must be pretty bloody frustrated. There are far richer pickings to be had elsewhere.

I enjoy the forums and that’s about it. My dating/sex life reliably comes from elsewhere*... with the occasional fab meet interspersed here and there.

*dating 25-35yo professional women certainly puts this place into perspective. They’d be weirded out/disgusted if they knew I was on here, so I don’t tell them about it

I guess it’s the pursuit of something new and different that keeps me here.

So you don’t want to meet me then...I’m older than 35!

Don’t make silly assumptions like that.

30yos get boring with their constant need for texting!

I’m worse than a 30 yr old then. I have too much time on my hands. You would hate it.

Quite possibly.

You sound like an utter nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

Well at least you’re honest....

Most women on Fab shout from the rooftops they are not swingers and if they found the right guy .. they’re done with swinging....

Now before you moral crusaders come with the it’s your profile do what you want on Fab... I agree with you... I just find it odd to be on a swinging site and protest you’re not a swinger..."

Probably just because the term 'Swinger' has a bad reputation.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't. "

I blame all the non swingers.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

You're not meant to tell them before you have sex with them.

I do! I also remind them that I’m contraceptive free, available to meet the parents and have cleared a bed-side drawer

Rule number 5,no way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it almost impossible to quantify what this site is as it means/represents something different to every user. One person's sex site is another person's social site, is another person's dating site, is another person's amalgamation of all the above! The way we see it, as long as respect, politeness and dignity are the main tenets when instigating contact, then it works for us whatever we decide to use it for at that moment.

And hey, there's always the block button...probably the best way to tailor the site to meet your specific requirements at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a platform I use to chat to and meet women i fancy.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Don't you need a partner to swing

No, that is a very popular misconception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Just want a super hot guy with a great cock who has the ability to hold a conversation and go out and do things with. Not the complications of labels or a relationship as I don't want commitment, I need a guy who knows it won't go any further then good quality sex and social time together.

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over a year ago

"We find it almost impossible to quantify what this site is as it means/represents something different to every user. One person's sex site is another person's social site, is another person's dating site, is another person's amalgamation of all the above! The way we see it, as long as respect, politeness and dignity are the main tenets when instigating contact, then it works for us whatever we decide to use it for at that moment.

And hey, there's always the block button...probably the best way to tailor the site to meet your specific requirements at times!

Respect, politeness and dignity.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"I saw someone on Fab that this is a swinging site and not a sex site.

I'm confused. Could someome point out the difference? I appreciate that swinging has a strong social aspect whilst I guess sex sites (whatever they are) don't.

For single men this a sex site

For couples this is a sex and swinging site

For single women this is a dating site

I must be the exception: I’m looking for marriage, kids, mortgage and a dog (labradoodle)

You're not meant to tell them before you have sex with them.

I do! I also remind them that I’m contraceptive free, available to meet the parents and have cleared a bed-side drawer

Rule number 5,no way.

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Oh 5 is a deal breaker!

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over a year ago

"What an inane and ridiculous question....

There is no answer people use the site however they want

Any red blooded single male using this site as a sex site must be pretty bloody frustrated. There are far richer pickings to be had elsewhere.

I enjoy the forums and that’s about it. My dating/sex life reliably comes from elsewhere*... with the occasional fab meet interspersed here and there.

*dating 25-35yo professional women certainly puts this place into perspective. They’d be weirded out/disgusted if they knew I was on here, so I don’t tell them about it

I guess it’s the pursuit of something new and different that keeps me here.

So you don’t want to meet me then...I’m older than 35!

Don’t make silly assumptions like that.

30yos get boring with their constant need for texting!

I’m worse than a 30 yr old then. I have too much time on my hands. You would hate it.

Quite possibly.

You sound like an utter nightmare

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Oh absolutely, I’m very proud of my nightmarish ways

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I think that originally the founders probably set it up for the swingers who love the lifestyle in mind.

Slowly it's becoming more of a sex site and eventually I can see swingers leaving for a more lifestyle orientated site or the founders trying to be stricter with people joining.

Guess we're all free to get what we want from it

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"What an inane and ridiculous question....

There is no answer people use the site however they want

Any red blooded single male using this site as a sex site must be pretty bloody frustrated. There are far richer pickings to be had elsewhere.

I enjoy the forums and that’s about it. My dating/sex life reliably comes from elsewhere*... with the occasional fab meet interspersed here and there.

*dating 25-35yo professional women certainly puts this place into perspective. They’d be weirded out/disgusted if they knew I was on here, so I don’t tell them about it

I guess it’s the pursuit of something new and different that keeps me here.

So you don’t want to meet me then...I’m older than 35!

Don’t make silly assumptions like that.

30yos get boring with their constant need for texting!

I’m worse than a 30 yr old then. I have too much time on my hands. You would hate it.

Quite possibly.

You sound like an utter nightmare

Oh absolutely, I’m very proud of my nightmarish ways

There’s a rather nice bottle of wine with your name on it

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