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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really have a thing for attached women who are playing away without permission. Anybody else enjoy this? Or am I just horrible?

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Ahh well that rules me out good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh well that rules me out good luck though "

Being a single male usually rules me out !! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the main reason I’m on fab

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

So there's no bro code then?

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Yep just horrible

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"Ahh well that rules me out good luck though

Being a single male usually rules me out !! Lol"

Haha. Scouser too. Doubly damned.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"So there's no bro code then? "

Bro code has always been tell someone what you think they want to hear in order to try and get what you want. Why? because complete honesty will get you nowhere. Makes me laugh when people say they like fab because of the honesty. Half truths at best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All a bit trash in my opinion.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

It isn't sexy thinking that someone's relationship could be irrevocably harmed. I guess you reckon it's their problem not yours.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So there's no bro code then?

Bro code has always been tell someone what you think they want to hear in order to try and get what you want. Why? because complete honesty will get you nowhere. Makes me laugh when people say they like fab because of the honesty. Half truths at best."

That's not what Google told me.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Google says a lot of things. Told me last week to take a whacky route to avoid a road that wasn't closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope someone doesn’t do that to your wife one day OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it."

Agreed.

Twice today I got messages from two different guys I was interested in, until they dropped the “married” line.

No thanks!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I really have a thing for attached women who are playing away without permission. Anybody else enjoy this? Or am I just horrible?"

It's a shitty thing to do in my opinion. The fact that you want wives who don't have permission says it all really and that's not part of the swinging community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it.

Agreed.

Twice today I got messages from two different guys I was interested in, until they dropped the “married” line.

No thanks! "

Drives me mad. Happened way to many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it.

Agreed.

Twice today I got messages from two different guys I was interested in, until they dropped the “married” line.

No thanks! "

I'm beginning to wonder how many genuinely single guys are on here. Or If it's even worth the effort. I'm beginning to get suspicious of everyone now. Just be honest from the first message. Surely that's not too much to ask?

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm young free and single but probably the only male on here that is

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

No you're not the only one who is single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you're not the only one who is single."
Yes I’ll second that girls.....single guys your preference because your looking to meet Prince Charming?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I really have a thing for attached women who are playing away without permission. Anybody else enjoy this? Or am I just horrible?"

Yep horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's gross..my profile makes it very clear not to contact me if you are a liar, cheating/being dishonest with a partner.

Really hate it when some moron says don't judge me!

Put yourself in the position of the unaware partner....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet there are so many lady’s on here that say single but are married it’s untrue as I’ve come across loads and won’t entertain them but op like I said there’s plenty.good luck if that’s your thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't make you a horrible person. This is a hell of a lot of men's kink, you're just being honest by posting it in these forums.

So many people will meet 'cheats' on this site. Even those who say they wouldn't, still do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to be clear I don't prey on married women in real life. Just get an extra thrill when a woman's profile says she's married and playing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not here to judge anyone else's life, how can I if I haven't lived it.

But I am single, and it's the person I meet, or want to, that matters more to me.

The rest, if there ever is a rest, is solely between that person and me to work out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right to be suspicious but there are plenty of us genuinely single men on here. Think part of the problem is that it's incredibly difficult for single men to get meets (cue the responses saying they have no problems) so many will spin a line to get what they want. At least the guilt kicked in before they met you.


"I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it.

Agreed.

Twice today I got messages from two different guys I was interested in, until they dropped the “married” line.

No thanks!

I'm beginning to wonder how many genuinely single guys are on here. Or If it's even worth the effort. I'm beginning to get suspicious of everyone now. Just be honest from the first message. Surely that's not too much to ask? "

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley


"I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it.

Agreed.

Twice today I got messages from two different guys I was interested in, until they dropped the “married” line.

No thanks!

I'm beginning to wonder how many genuinely single guys are on here. Or If it's even worth the effort. I'm beginning to get suspicious of everyone now. Just be honest from the first message. Surely that's not too much to ask? "

Genuinely single guy here.. we do exist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it.

Agreed.

Twice today I got messages from two different guys I was interested in, until they dropped the “married” line.

No thanks!

I'm beginning to wonder how many genuinely single guys are on here. Or If it's even worth the effort. I'm beginning to get suspicious of everyone now. Just be honest from the first message. Surely that's not too much to ask? "

I mean no disrespect....

But any successful attractive guy on Fab is not truly single....

I’m basing this on the fact ...... he is getting attention from women in the real world...

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I just don't see the point in playing away if your married or in a relationship and your not happy end it rather than going behind there back simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to be clear I don't prey on married women in real life. Just get an extra thrill when a woman's profile says she's married and playing away. "
Ahhh the fantasy not the reality I get you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really have a thing for attached women who are playing away without permission. Anybody else enjoy this? Or am I just horrible?"

Nothing wrong with it. I like married men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm it's a tough one as honest play is more relaxed but I am sure there are ladies out there who love their partner but just need a little more. FAB can be a very judgemental place but there are two sides of any argument.

I did once play with a lady who said her husband was fine with it but when he came home early he wasn't too pleased!! Just proves both sexes lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn't sexy thinking that someone's relationship could be irrevocably harmed. I guess you reckon it's their problem not yours. "

If they were not playing away with you...it would be with someone else. The relationship is already harmed (or not) with or without your participation.

Personally I have played with lots of attached women .... With partners knowledge/participation. (And a few without). However....just as many, many of the single guys here are actually not, then I'm sure it's also true of a number of single women. What was said about half truths at best??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn't sexy thinking that someone's relationship could be irrevocably harmed. I guess you reckon it's their problem not yours. "

If they were not playing away with you...it would be with someone else. The relationship is already harmed (or not) with or without your participation.

Personally I have played with lots of attached women .... With partners knowledge/participation. (And a few without). However....just as many, many of the single guys here are actually not, then I'm sure it's also true of a number of single women. What was said about half truths at best??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom line is they're a woman and an adult and if they're sexy and they're here they've made a decision, one that we are not aware of, they're adults and sexy women and they need sex and some would say that's what we're here for, wouldn’t they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it.

Agreed.

Twice today I got messages from two different guys I was interested in, until they dropped the “married” line.

No thanks!

I'm beginning to wonder how many genuinely single guys are on here. Or If it's even worth the effort. I'm beginning to get suspicious of everyone now. Just be honest from the first message. Surely that's not too much to ask?

I mean no disrespect....

But any successful attractive guy on Fab is not truly single....

I’m basing this on the fact ...... he is getting attention from women in the real world...

"

I disagree, I’ve met a couple of lovely guys on here and spent lots of time with them and they are definitely single. Both successful and attractive.

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Yes definitely, I love the idea she's married and playing away it's a massive turn on! Can't explain why am sure the armchair fab shrinks could analyse it but for me if she's married it's a plus not a negative.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've had meet offers from attached women, I won't meet them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any attached women I play with I much prefer to do so with full knowledge and approval of their partner. Even better if they watch

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

We wouldn’t meet a married woman playing without her husbands knowledge, we wouldn’t like it to happen to ourselves, however I do see where you are coming from based on a purely fantasy scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. "

Double standards lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men.

Double standards lol"

Its the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm it's a tough one as honest play is more relaxed but I am sure there are ladies out there who love their partner but just need a little more. FAB can be a very judgemental place but there are two sides of any argument.

I did once play with a lady who said her husband was fine with it but when he came home early he wasn't too pleased!! Just proves both sexes lie."

I think pretty much everyone knows both sexes lie.

Some on here think some only condemn cheats when they have a penis, and praise cheats who have a vagina.

I condemn all. I don’t care or need to know the reasons for someone’s cheating, I simply don’t want to be involved in it.

It does make me laugh though when others claim that those who choose not to meet cheats are “horrible, nasty” etc, yet they are okay with a woman/man going behind their partners back and fucking others, I’d say that’s far more horrible than choosing not to meet certain people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm it's a tough one as honest play is more relaxed but I am sure there are ladies out there who love their partner but just need a little more. FAB can be a very judgemental place but there are two sides of any argument.

I did once play with a lady who said her husband was fine with it but when he came home early he wasn't too pleased!! Just proves both sexes lie.

I think pretty much everyone knows both sexes lie.

Some on here think some only condemn cheats when they have a penis, and praise cheats who have a vagina.

I condemn all. I don’t care or need to know the reasons for someone’s cheating, I simply don’t want to be involved in it.

It does make me laugh though when others claim that those who choose not to meet cheats are “horrible, nasty” etc, yet they are okay with a woman/man going behind their partners back and fucking others, I’d say that’s far more horrible than choosing not to meet certain people. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the opposite. It's so hard to find someone who isn't attached. So tired of getting chatting to someone only for them to drop the bomb when you are getting on. It's lime they try to lure you in first. Sorry for the rant. It's just been that type of day. I'm over it.

Agreed.

Twice today I got messages from two different guys I was interested in, until they dropped the “married” line.

No thanks!

I'm beginning to wonder how many genuinely single guys are on here. Or If it's even worth the effort. I'm beginning to get suspicious of everyone now. Just be honest from the first message. Surely that's not too much to ask?

I mean no disrespect....

But any successful attractive guy on Fab is not truly single....

I’m basing this on the fact ...... he is getting attention from women in the real world...

I disagree, I’ve met a couple of lovely guys on here and spent lots of time with them and they are definitely single. Both successful and attractive. "

Yes but I’m sure these guys have other women they are dating.....

I’m not doubting you , I just want people to stop thinking irrationally....

Everyone comes with some baggage...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single women or married women, couples or groups. It’s about what takes my fancy or if I take theirs.

And honesty is the best policy. My wife always knows who I’m playing with and when the mood takes her we go to clubs (her choice).

I also find the honesty works against me as people have been let down that much and had trouble they think all married men will bring trouble with them.

Hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s their choice I’m not here to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it doesn't make you a horrible person. This is a hell of a lot of men's kink, you're just being honest by posting it in these forums.

So many people will meet 'cheats' on this site. Even those who say they wouldn't, still do."
POW! You said it.

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By *illy big bolloxMan
over a year ago

Newark

Do you ladies ask if guys in a club if they are married i bet not..

Everyone has a choice on here and the reasons for being on fab.

I state on my profile i am married so people can make their own mind up to contact me or not

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"I'm young free and single but probably the only male on here that is"

Oo oo me too.

Thing is, as a swingers site, we're a bit of a scourge. Cluttering up the place. All those pesky married guys just muddy the water.

They dont admit to it, as they know it will be an instant block.

Bit of a cynical way to behave though.

May be the best ones are taken? What's the experience here? Are hotty M's likely to be married, or broken shells of their former selves?

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Oh sorry guys didnt see the young bit.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I really have a thing for attached women who are playing away without permission. Anybody else enjoy this? Or am I just horrible?

Nothing wrong with it. I like married men! "

My kind of woman! If only I were 10 years younger, a lot fitter, and lived 150 miles or so closer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ladies ask if guys in a club if they are married i bet not..

Everyone has a choice on here and the reasons for being on fab.

I state on my profile i am married so people can make their own mind up to contact me or not "

I’m yet to pop my club cherry, but when I do l will be asking and looking. If I found out they’ve lied that’s the last time they’ll meet me, and it will be their own doing. I will have done my bit by asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. "
that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them. "
though not those ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them. "

Some of us are very much capable of keeping our morals and putting them before pleasure thanks, I’m not going to be in orgasm mode unless I’m being pleasured and before that happens I will be getting to know the person a little.

When I do visit a club I don’t intend to go in all guns blazing without any chat as I find that incredibly dull & a little desperate for me.

Everyone has a choice, and different levels of self control. To assume that all people would throw their morals out the window, for pleasure is stupid.

Not all of us are about adding knotches to the bed post, there’s plenty of us who like quality and can easily walk away from a meet that doesn’t suit us 100%.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"No you're not the only one who is single. Yes I’ll second that girls.....single guys your preference because your looking to meet Prince Charming? "

Maybe ..... theres a lot of frogs on here , so until he comes along ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you're not the only one who is single. Yes I’ll second that girls.....single guys your preference because your looking to meet Prince Charming?

Maybe ..... theres a lot of frogs on here , so until he comes along ..."

Plenty!

Not looking for my Prince Charming, just a Mr Right Now will do me fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them.

Some of us are very much capable of keeping our morals and putting them before pleasure thanks, I’m not going to be in orgasm mode unless I’m being pleasured and before that happens I will be getting to know the person a little.

When I do visit a club I don’t intend to go in all guns blazing without any chat as I find that incredibly dull & a little desperate for me.

Everyone has a choice, and different levels of self control. To assume that all people would throw their morals out the window, for pleasure is stupid.

Not all of us are about adding knotches to the bed post, there’s plenty of us who like quality and can easily walk away from a meet that doesn’t suit us 100%. "
you're not about notches but you go to clubs that seems a bit of a contradiction in terms, surely you're more likely to have play meets in clubs than in any other situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's gross..my profile makes it very clear not to contact me if you are a liar, cheating/being dishonest with a partner.

Really hate it when some moron says don't judge me!

Put yourself in the position of the unaware partner...."

We have had 3 guys this week message us & they are attached. Everyone of them said : “yeah but at least I am being honest, unlike most on here”. that sentence justifies what they are doing apparently......

One even said our refusal of him was ‘shortsighted’.

Hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them.

Some of us are very much capable of keeping our morals and putting them before pleasure thanks, I’m not going to be in orgasm mode unless I’m being pleasured and before that happens I will be getting to know the person a little.

When I do visit a club I don’t intend to go in all guns blazing without any chat as I find that incredibly dull & a little desperate for me.

Everyone has a choice, and different levels of self control. To assume that all people would throw their morals out the window, for pleasure is stupid.

Not all of us are about adding knotches to the bed post, there’s plenty of us who like quality and can easily walk away from a meet that doesn’t suit us 100%. you're not about notches but you go to clubs that seems a bit of a contradiction in terms, surely you're more likely to have play meets in clubs than in any other situation? "

Did you actually read my post?

“When I do visit a club”, also my previous post which states I haven’t popped my club cherry yet, and I’m in no rush to.

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"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them.

Some of us are very much capable of keeping our morals and putting them before pleasure thanks, I’m not going to be in orgasm mode unless I’m being pleasured and before that happens I will be getting to know the person a little.

When I do visit a club I don’t intend to go in all guns blazing without any chat as I find that incredibly dull & a little desperate for me.

Everyone has a choice, and different levels of self control. To assume that all people would throw their morals out the window, for pleasure is stupid.

Not all of us are about adding knotches to the bed post, there’s plenty of us who like quality and can easily walk away from a meet that doesn’t suit us 100%. "
oh and orgasm mode is when you are being pleasured

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"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them.

Some of us are very much capable of keeping our morals and putting them before pleasure thanks, I’m not going to be in orgasm mode unless I’m being pleasured and before that happens I will be getting to know the person a little.

When I do visit a club I don’t intend to go in all guns blazing without any chat as I find that incredibly dull & a little desperate for me.

Everyone has a choice, and different levels of self control. To assume that all people would throw their morals out the window, for pleasure is stupid.

Not all of us are about adding knotches to the bed post, there’s plenty of us who like quality and can easily walk away from a meet that doesn’t suit us 100%. oh and orgasm mode is when you are being pleasured "

And I wouldn’t be being pleasured until I’ve had a chat with someone to break the ice first.

My post seems to have confused you somewhat.

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"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them.

Some of us are very much capable of keeping our morals and putting them before pleasure thanks, I’m not going to be in orgasm mode unless I’m being pleasured and before that happens I will be getting to know the person a little.

When I do visit a club I don’t intend to go in all guns blazing without any chat as I find that incredibly dull & a little desperate for me.

Everyone has a choice, and different levels of self control. To assume that all people would throw their morals out the window, for pleasure is stupid.

Not all of us are about adding knotches to the bed post, there’s plenty of us who like quality and can easily walk away from a meet that doesn’t suit us 100%. oh and orgasm mode is when you are being pleasured

And I wouldn’t be being pleasured until I’ve had a chat with someone to break the ice first.

My post seems to have confused you somewhat. "
No I think mine confused you

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"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them.

Some of us are very much capable of keeping our morals and putting them before pleasure thanks, I’m not going to be in orgasm mode unless I’m being pleasured and before that happens I will be getting to know the person a little.

When I do visit a club I don’t intend to go in all guns blazing without any chat as I find that incredibly dull & a little desperate for me.

Everyone has a choice, and different levels of self control. To assume that all people would throw their morals out the window, for pleasure is stupid.

Not all of us are about adding knotches to the bed post, there’s plenty of us who like quality and can easily walk away from a meet that doesn’t suit us 100%. oh and orgasm mode is when you are being pleasured

And I wouldn’t be being pleasured until I’ve had a chat with someone to break the ice first.

My post seems to have confused you somewhat. No I think mine confused you"

Nah I got it.

Your comment about my post in regards to bed knotches being contradictory because I go to clubs, makes you seem confused, since I’ve stated I haven’t been in a club yet.

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"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them.

Some of us are very much capable of keeping our morals and putting them before pleasure thanks, I’m not going to be in orgasm mode unless I’m being pleasured and before that happens I will be getting to know the person a little.

When I do visit a club I don’t intend to go in all guns blazing without any chat as I find that incredibly dull & a little desperate for me.

Everyone has a choice, and different levels of self control. To assume that all people would throw their morals out the window, for pleasure is stupid.

Not all of us are about adding knotches to the bed post, there’s plenty of us who like quality and can easily walk away from a meet that doesn’t suit us 100%. oh and orgasm mode is when you are being pleasured

And I wouldn’t be being pleasured until I’ve had a chat with someone to break the ice first.

My post seems to have confused you somewhat. "
I meant although perhaps I worded it wrongly that going to clubs is more likely to produce notches and orgasm mode is when you're on the slab being pleasured and then beckoning someone over

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"A lot of couples have wouldn't played with married or attached on their profiles. Yet they mail to ask if I'd be interested in meeting. I'd always point out that it's says on their profile that they do not meet married. I'd usually get a reply that says oh that's just married men. that's because women fullstop who would consider meeting couples are like gold dust, they can't afford to have morals where you're concerned, the main area where these moralists fall down those is in the clubs, theirs hardly any talking, you're either an object of desire or not and I defy even the most defensive of moralists in a sexy lustful situation where they are in orgasm mode to ask that question when they are beckoning a guy or woman over to join them.

Some of us are very much capable of keeping our morals and putting them before pleasure thanks, I’m not going to be in orgasm mode unless I’m being pleasured and before that happens I will be getting to know the person a little.

When I do visit a club I don’t intend to go in all guns blazing without any chat as I find that incredibly dull & a little desperate for me.

Everyone has a choice, and different levels of self control. To assume that all people would throw their morals out the window, for pleasure is stupid.

Not all of us are about adding knotches to the bed post, there’s plenty of us who like quality and can easily walk away from a meet that doesn’t suit us 100%. oh and orgasm mode is when you are being pleasured

And I wouldn’t be being pleasured until I’ve had a chat with someone to break the ice first.

My post seems to have confused you somewhat. I meant although perhaps I worded it wrongly that going to clubs is more likely to produce notches and orgasm mode is when you're on the slab being pleasured and then beckoning someone over "

Definitely worded wrong then.

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over a year ago

I do love to plant my flag in occupied territory like a good invading darkie and insert my seed deep into the fertile soil only for the residential owner to do all the hard work caring for the land only for me when their back is turned or the land opens up for me to enter and pillage it.

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over a year ago


"Do you ladies ask if guys in a club if they are married i bet not..

Everyone has a choice on here and the reasons for being on fab.

I state on my profile i am married so people can make their own mind up to contact me or not

I’m yet to pop my club cherry, but when I do l will be asking and looking. If I found out they’ve lied that’s the last time they’ll meet me, and it will be their own doing. I will have done my bit by asking. "

Do you really expect everyone who you ask will he honest?

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"Do you ladies ask if guys in a club if they are married i bet not..

Everyone has a choice on here and the reasons for being on fab.

I state on my profile i am married so people can make their own mind up to contact me or not "

I have only played with one at a club. Yes he's married. But he's playing with permission and I am close to both him and his wife. They are both on here

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