FabSwingers.com forum: Primal Prey.

By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Thanks to a horsey mad gorgeous thing, I found out that I fall into this category (and one I'm happy to) but it probably means I don't get as much contact with men as I possibly could.

In other words, if a bloke doesn't grab the opportunity when we can both make it happen, I carry on and wait for him to catch up and never ask again. It's not deliberate.

You you find yourself in message ping pong waiting for someone else to make the move? To you make the move early? Will you chase if there's a chance? Do you give up easily?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks to a horsey mad gorgeous thing, I found out that I fall into this category (and one I'm happy to) but it probably means I don't get as much contact with men as I possibly could.

In other words, if a bloke doesn't grab the opportunity when we can both make it happen, I carry on and wait for him to catch up and never ask again. It's not deliberate.

You you find yourself in message ping pong waiting for someone else to make the move? To you make the move early? Will you chase if there's a chance? Do you give up easily?"

The lack of replies indicate that others are in the same boat as me.

What are you talking about?

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

I'm proactive in messaging people who I think might be interested in my profile, but respect the etiquette of 'no reply means not interested'

I might try again, as many folk say they receive too many messages to reply to. Persistence can pay, but a fine line between that and being a stalker.

But if you give a hint of interest, then I'll certainly keep trying ...

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Thanks to a horsey mad gorgeous thing, I found out that I fall into this category (and one I'm happy to) but it probably means I don't get as much contact with men as I possibly could.

In other words, if a bloke doesn't grab the opportunity when we can both make it happen, I carry on and wait for him to catch up and never ask again. It's not deliberate.

You you find yourself in message ping pong waiting for someone else to make the move? To you make the move early? Will you chase if there's a chance? Do you give up easily?

The lack of replies indicate that others are in the same boat as me.

What are you talking about?"

In a nutshell -if ya too slow ya don't get the show

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Thanks to a horsey mad gorgeous thing, I found out that I fall into this category (and one I'm happy to) but it probably means I don't get as much contact with men as I possibly could.

In other words, if a bloke doesn't grab the opportunity when we can both make it happen, I carry on and wait for him to catch up and never ask again. It's not deliberate.

You you find yourself in message ping pong waiting for someone else to make the move? To you make the move early? Will you chase if there's a chance? Do you give up easily?"

I never ask in the first place. As a (narcissistic male) friend once said 'I don't chase - I indicate!'.

I will let someone know I am interested, but after that it is up to them. That's partly a function of this site - female inboxes just get overcrowded and someone has to grab my attention and hold it to actually get me to meet them. Some people can do that in a day, others may have to take longer, and they have to show an interest in ME that goes beyond the size of my boobs!! (someone has just moved way down in my estimation by labouring the point of asking their size). 'I' do not reside in my boobs!!

I know it's tough enough already for guys on fabs who I feel are fighting like sperm to get to the eggs lol, but it is just an anathema to me to pursue a man, if he's not focusing on me like a hungry wolf, I have no interest.

A gentleman is just a patient wolf - my idea of heaven.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I tend to subtly let my interest be known but it's rare I chase - not through arrogance or laziness just because I don't want to be mithering someone who isn't interested!

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

As soon as feel I'd like to meet a woman in person I have no problem with nailing my colours to the mast and letting her know. I don't see it as chasing, I just don't see the point in game playing or beating about the bush.

I don't mind message ping pong, but there is only so much you can get to know about a person in a message, but all that said- we all lead busy lives and free times can't always coincide. So if I feel they'll give up easily then I'm just as likely to loose interest as well.

Fab can be a fickle place at the best if times

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Thanks to a horsey mad gorgeous thing, I found out that I fall into this category (and one I'm happy to) but it probably means I don't get as much contact with men as I possibly could.

In other words, if a bloke doesn't grab the opportunity when we can both make it happen, I carry on and wait for him to catch up and never ask again. It's not deliberate.

You you find yourself in message ping pong waiting for someone else to make the move? To you make the move early? Will you chase if there's a chance? Do you give up easily?"
The phone is used to set meets. I don't wanna talk to you like some gay best friend. Too much txting etc loses the attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The primal prey dynamic is very hard to play out simply through an online medium like Fab. It goes too much into territory of pestering on the part of the primal hunter against the prey, plus it totally cuts out the very physical aspect of a primal/prey sexual dynamic in bed whereby the physical cues are all there for both parties to see.

In real life though... I've been told I have been deceptively passive at the start or in new encounters, but that once I warm up and get to know a sexual partner better then my primal hunter side really comes into play, along with the aggressive but assertive sexual play in bed that often involves me taking someone over... and over... and over again... in the span of a night...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

As said above, you cannot feel the power of prime pray play. It is an energy that is not easily transmitted through the internet, only hinted at.

Until you hear the growl, how do you know you are the pray.

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