FabSwingers.com forum: Younger guys mid 30’s

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t watch Friends if you and your lovely curves were around.

Outside your age range, 31, but much prefer meeting mature women and do my utmost to ensure we both have a great time.

Not too far away from you either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No round 2 OP, that’s a poor effort ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t watch Friends if you and your lovely curves were around.

Outside your age range, 31, but much prefer meeting mature women and do my utmost to ensure we both have a great time.

Not too far away from you either xx

Thanks for your loverly comments xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No round 2 OP, that’s a poor effort ?!"

I think my confidence has took a beating after today x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do

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By *weetdreams18Woman
over a year ago

Cornwall

I would say that it depends on the man... Regardless of age. I met with a guy who was 26 and he certainly knew how to please and satisfy me, multiple times in fact. I guess some men are just more skilled than others and some need more guidance. It could also be that younger men are a little worried about whether they can please a lady who knows what she likes and potentially more experienced. I have no complaints about the younger men I have met at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would say that it depends on the man... Regardless of age. I met with a guy who was 26 and he certainly knew how to please and satisfy me, multiple times in fact. I guess some men are just more skilled than others and some need more guidance. It could also be that younger men are a little worried about whether they can please a lady who knows what she likes and potentially more experienced. I have no complaints about the younger men I have met at all. "

Thanks for feedback x

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By *weetdreams18Woman
over a year ago

Cornwall

Thanks for feedback x"

You're welcome. Such a shame you had that experience and your confidence was knocked. Mine was completely knocked recently but meeting with a guy I have met with previously really helped. You're gorgeous, just remember that. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for feedback x

Thank you so much xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I missing something here? So the lad wasn't the world's greatest lover, after sex he commmits the heinous crime of having a cuddle and wanting to watch Friends with you and you do one. Then it's all about your confidence being knocked......huh

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve never watched Friends in my life lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No round 2 OP, that’s a poor effort ?!

I think my confidence has took a beating after today x"

I was referring about him. He needs to up his game.

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By *xoticMermaidWoman
over a year ago

NORTH WEST

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

That is one of the reasons Ive stopped meeting private. Its like a box of chocolates, u never know wot ur going to get. They tell u I can go all night, Im a repeater, takes me ages to cum!! I love giving oral, can stay there for hours, I still stay hard after I cum!! Hmmmmm

Now I just meet at clubs...in fact I even host my own event specifically for mature women like us who enjoy pleasures from younger men. The idea of 1 or 2 or emore younger guys, all in one place...who needs a box when I could go to a sweet shop!! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I missing something here? So the lad wasn't the world's greatest lover, after sex he commmits the heinous crime of having a cuddle and wanting to watch Friends with you and you do one. Then it's all about your confidence being knocked......huh

There is more too it from the previous meet too which I wouldn’t bore people with but again a guy that’s all talk by messaging and no enough action on the day x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Yeah no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more too it from the previous meet too which I wouldn’t bore people with but again a guy that’s all talk by messaging and no enough action on the day x "

Fine, in your opinion he's clearly not up to the job, still don't understand why that's a knock to your confidence..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve never watched Friends in my life lol. "

Lol me neither from what I’ve seen today was enough x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

You’ve obviously got it right maybe I need a rethink x

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By *tuartlicksMan
over a year ago

reading

I’ve met many older ladies over the years and enjoyed having fun with them as they know what they like I love to give oral and please as they wish. If we had chatted and you expressed your interest in lots of oral and sex to be a certain way would remember that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is more too it from the previous meet too which I wouldn’t bore people with but again a guy that’s all talk by messaging and no enough action on the day x

Fine, in your opinion he's clearly not up to the job, still don't understand why that's a knock to your confidence.."

Just how the situation made me feel after made me feel un attractive x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No round 2 OP, that’s a poor effort ?!

I think my confidence has took a beating after today x

I was referring about him. He needs to up his game.

Lol thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

Maybe it was your name Pheobe it could of had him thinking of friends!!

Just joking!

I would move my age preference for you in a heartbeat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve met many older ladies over the years and enjoyed having fun with them as they know what they like I love to give oral and please as they wish. If we had chatted and you expressed your interest in lots of oral and sex to be a certain way would remember that. "

Oh well we live and learn I suppose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy of 35 on three occasions and I still smile every time I think about him

if you find the right guy, regardless of age, it can be marvellous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

Maybe it was your name Pheobe it could of had him thinking of friends!!

Just joking!

I would move my age preference for you in a heartbeat

Now you would of got me thinking now about that but met him on an old profile bugger I think that was the same name but different number lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met a guy of 35 on three occasions and I still smile every time I think about him

if you find the right guy, regardless of age, it can be marvellous."

Your totally right I had a younger f.b but he was hard to meet but perfect in the bedroom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn’t watch Friends if you and your lovely curves were around.

Outside your age range, 31, but much prefer meeting mature women and do my utmost to ensure we both have a great time.

Not too far away from you either xx

Thanks for your loverly comments xx"

No problem. I’d like to make you feel better if you’d like some company some time.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

There is more too it from the previous meet too which I wouldn’t bore people with but again a guy that’s all talk by messaging and no enough action on the day x

Fine, in your opinion he's clearly not up to the job, still don't understand why that's a knock to your confidence..

Just how the situation made me feel after made me feel un attractive x"

Don't knock yourself, the same way you should not knock the poor lad. I just think there was no chemistry between you two. It is one of those things. Don't be surprised there are women he had played with, that will not recognise your description of him, and tomorrow, you are going to bump into someone who will leave you wholly satisfied. Don't lose your confidence because of this one incident.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is more too it from the previous meet too which I wouldn’t bore people with but again a guy that’s all talk by messaging and no enough action on the day x

Fine, in your opinion he's clearly not up to the job, still don't understand why that's a knock to your confidence..

Just how the situation made me feel after made me feel un attractive x

Advice taken on board thanks x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I know it's your preference but your age range for people who you are looking for is very small.

Surely you only have yourself to blame if you cannot find guys upto your standard in the area and of the age range.

Then maybe broaden in a bit to include younger and older.

Also just because someone can bang away for hours does not mean that they are a great shag.

I have seen my wife with guys of all ages and tbh no one age group stands out as better lover's.

It's more about the individual rather than their age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know it's your preference but your age range for people who you are looking for is very small.

Surely you only have yourself to blame if you cannot find guys upto your standard in the area and of the age range.

Then maybe broaden in a bit to include younger and older.

Also just because someone can bang away for hours does not mean that they are a great shag.

I have seen my wife with guys of all ages and tbh no one age group stands out as better lover's.

It's more about the individual rather than their age."

Totally get what your saying but Ive had longer car sex plus I don’t fancy older guys hence my narrow age gap x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it's your preference but your age range for people who you are looking for is very small.

Surely you only have yourself to blame if you cannot find guys upto your standard in the area and of the age range.

Then maybe broaden in a bit to include younger and older.

Also just because someone can bang away for hours does not mean that they are a great shag.

I have seen my wife with guys of all ages and tbh no one age group stands out as better lover's.

It's more about the individual rather than their age.

Totally get what your saying but Ive had longer car sex plus I don’t fancy older guys hence my narrow age gap x"

older guys being guys younger than you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know it's your preference but your age range for people who you are looking for is very small.

Surely you only have yourself to blame if you cannot find guys upto your standard in the area and of the age range.

Then maybe broaden in a bit to include younger and older.

Also just because someone can bang away for hours does not mean that they are a great shag.

I have seen my wife with guys of all ages and tbh no one age group stands out as better lover's.

It's more about the individual rather than their age.

Totally get what your saying but Ive had longer car sex plus I don’t fancy older guys hence my narrow age gap x

older guys being guys younger than you

Ha ha exactly I know what I want at my age lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing about men younger than 40 in my opinion is that they take advantage of women's bodies. The older man feels more appreciative and takes his time mmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know it's your preference but your age range for people who you are looking for is very small.

Surely you only have yourself to blame if you cannot find guys upto your standard in the area and of the age range.

Then maybe broaden in a bit to include younger and older.

Also just because someone can bang away for hours does not mean that they are a great shag.

I have seen my wife with guys of all ages and tbh no one age group stands out as better lover's.

It's more about the individual rather than their age.

Totally get what your saying but Ive had longer car sex plus I don’t fancy older guys hence my narrow age gap x

older guys being guys younger than you

I did meet a guy that was 50’s but I was attracted to him and chemistry was there too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry, but how could he have put the tv on afterwards?! I’d want to be gearing up for round 2 whilst we cuddled!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m sorry, but how could he have put the tv on afterwards?! I’d want to be gearing up for round 2 whilst we cuddled! "

I obviously wasn’t as intresting lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sorry, but how could he have put the tv on afterwards?! I’d want to be gearing up for round 2 whilst we cuddled!

I obviously wasn’t as intresting lol x"

Then your guy didn’t recognise what a great girl you are while he was with you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m sorry, but how could he have put the tv on afterwards?! I’d want to be gearing up for round 2 whilst we cuddled!

I obviously wasn’t as intresting lol x

Then your guy didn’t recognise what a great girl you are while he was with you! "

Well he won’t be getting round 3 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sorry, but how could he have put the tv on afterwards?! I’d want to be gearing up for round 2 whilst we cuddled!

I obviously wasn’t as intresting lol x

Then your guy didn’t recognise what a great girl you are while he was with you!

Well he won’t be getting round 3 x"

Quite right too, save that for a chap who appreciates you and wants to leave you with a big smile on your face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m sorry, but how could he have put the tv on afterwards?! I’d want to be gearing up for round 2 whilst we cuddled!

I obviously wasn’t as intresting lol x

Then your guy didn’t recognise what a great girl you are while he was with you!

Well he won’t be getting round 3 x

Quite right too, save that for a chap who appreciates you and wants to leave you with a big smile on your face "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe you may have just met the wrong guy, sorry it's knocked your confidence. The norm would be to get things going again and go for round 2.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I believe you may have just met the wrong guy, sorry it's knocked your confidence. The norm would be to get things going again and go for round 2.

Tbh I’m gonna take some time out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more too it from the previous meet too which I wouldn’t bore people with but again a guy that’s all talk by messaging and no enough action on the day x

Fine, in your opinion he's clearly not up to the job, still don't understand why that's a knock to your confidence..

Just how the situation made me feel after made me feel un attractive x"

Hon, if he cums too quickly then it's because you are turning him on so much.

You can't control what happens, but you can control your approach to how it makes you feel, and how you react to it.

If you are meeting regularly, have an honest yet diplomatic conversation, tell him what you like and what turns you on. Take control, they love it. At least you are getting the cuddles, cuddling after is amazing.

My fwb is 32, I'm 44 he loves me telling him what to do and taking control...Not that he has any trouble making me cum.

I do like younger guys, generally I have found them to be a lot more sensual, respectful and more willing to please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is no indication. I've had 22 year olds who really know what they're doing, and men in their 50s who don't. The 30s age-group I've always found to be pretty reliable satisfaction-wise, old enough to know what they're doing, young enough to still have lots of energy, adventurous and not yet jaded. But so much depends on chemistry. Without that and mutual attraction, I don't believe it's worth the effort whatever their age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is more too it from the previous meet too which I wouldn’t bore people with but again a guy that’s all talk by messaging and no enough action on the day x

Fine, in your opinion he's clearly not up to the job, still don't understand why that's a knock to your confidence..

Just how the situation made me feel after made me feel un attractive x

Hon, if he cums too quickly then it's because you are turning him on so much.

You can't control what happens, but you can control your approach to how it makes you feel, and how you react to it.

My fwb is 32, I'm 44 he loves me telling him what to do and taking control...Not that he has any trouble making me cum.

I do like younger guys, generally I have found them to be a lot more sensual, respectful and more willing to please."

I think it was just the whole situation not his performance x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Age is no indication. I've had 22 year olds who really know what they're doing, and men in their 50s who don't. The 30s age-group I've always found to be pretty reliable satisfaction-wise, old enough to know what they're doing, young enough to still have lots of energy, adventurous and not yet jaded. But so much depends on chemistry. Without that and mutual attraction, I don't believe it's worth the effort whatever their age"

Yes I do ageee x

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

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That is indeed a good set of points - we meet at clubs like Hellfire - where you get a choice of men who are keen to pleasure a woman versus the hit and miss of a direct meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

That is indeed a good set of points - we meet at clubs like Hellfire - where you get a choice of men who are keen to pleasure a woman versus the hit and miss of a direct meet "

Yep maybe time to rethink x

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

Leaves you feeling shit!!!

I do wonder about the girls on this website.

So despite the fact you’ve spent some time with some (undoubtedly steroid induced musclebound meathead) dude 20 years younger than you’re still complaining about it.

I feel sorry for the guy, and I feel sorry for the fact that you couldn’t find the confidence to give the young fella a bit of guidance as to how to pleasure an old lady.

In fact I feel sorry for all the 20 year old fittties he will mistakenly be applying his flawed techniques to as well.

Sorry you had to hang around while he tried to make you feel better. Sorry he picked one of the most popular TV programmes of your generation to watch.

Sorry that this will be a grossly unpopularly received post on this forum where normalisation of this type of ridiculous attitude towards guys is propagated by the white knights you will undoubtedly be along in a second to blow some sunshine up your arse.

Just an alternative (possibly realistic) view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwwww personally the last thing on my mind would be to watch friends if you were in the room, you lovely body and very sexy curves, I guess it’s the same in everything some men know what they’re doing some don’t regardless of their age

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

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"Awwwwww personally the last thing on my mind would be to watch friends if you were in the room, you lovely body and very sexy curves, I guess it’s the same in everything some men know what they’re doing some don’t regardless of their age

How can you say that?

The op has zero pictures other than the profile one, zero text on profile no information on anything that she wants.

If this thread was by a chap the women and some guys would be lambasting him for having a crap profile.

Honestly the sycophantic nature of this place makes me sick at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

Leaves you feeling shit!!!

I do wonder about the girls on this website.

So despite the fact you’ve spent some time with some (undoubtedly steroid induced musclebound meathead) dude 20 years younger than you’re still complaining about it.

I feel sorry for the guy, and I feel sorry for the fact that you couldn’t find the confidence to give the young fella a bit of guidance as to how to pleasure an old lady.

In fact I feel sorry for all the 20 year old fittties he will mistakenly be applying his flawed techniques to as well.

Sorry you had to hang around while he tried to make you feel better. Sorry he picked one of the most popular TV programmes of your generation to watch.

Just an alternative (possibly realistic) view."

Yawn !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How can you say that?

The op has zero pictures other than the profile one, zero text on profile no information on anything that she wants.

If this thread was by a chap the women and some guys would be lambasting him for having a crap profile.

Honestly the sycophantic nature of this place makes me sick at times."
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Just to clarify I have removed my pics and profile today so hope that answers your question/moan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

Was he hungover or tired? How long is not long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

Leaves you feeling shit!!!

I do wonder about the girls on this website.

So despite the fact you’ve spent some time with some (undoubtedly steroid induced musclebound meathead) dude 20 years younger than you’re still complaining about it.

I feel sorry for the guy, and I feel sorry for the fact that you couldn’t find the confidence to give the young fella a bit of guidance as to how to pleasure an old lady.

In fact I feel sorry for all the 20 year old fittties he will mistakenly be applying his flawed techniques to as well.

Sorry you had to hang around while he tried to make you feel better. Sorry he picked one of the most popular TV programmes of your generation to watch.

Just an alternative (possibly realistic) view."

And breath

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's not an age thing, definitely depends on the person.

The best weekend I've ever had was with a young guy who just knew exactly what and how to do the perfect things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe you may have just met the wrong guy, sorry it's knocked your confidence. The norm would be to get things going again and go for round 2.

I don’t always want round 2 straight away, sometimes I like to chill in the company of someone interesting.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The reality is that having sex with a total stranger is unlikely to be great unless you are lucky that time or have spent a lot of time beforehand discussing each others tastes.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Snuggling after is awesome too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Snuggling after is awesome too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t get it either. "

I didn’t meet him to watch tv and be ignored even tho I said I didn’t even like the programme either !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The reality is that having sex with a total stranger is unlikely to be great unless you are lucky that time or have spent a lot of time beforehand discussing each others tastes."

I’ve known him a while lots of messaging since first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get it either.

I didn’t meet him to watch tv and be ignored even tho I said I didn’t even like the programme either ! "

Maybe he had had enough. I don’t like friends either but I would have just put up with it if I liked the person or left. Did you not communicate with him?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"The reality is that having sex with a total stranger is unlikely to be great unless you are lucky that time or have spent a lot of time beforehand discussing each others tastes.

I’ve known him a while lots of messaging since first meet "

Perhaps you both have different ideas of what's good. Not all men can go again anyway, regardless of how much they fancy you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have expectations, you only get disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s about not being selfish & looking after your ladies needs, lots of kissing, licking & sucking your pussy! Mmmm X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet younger guys as they usually have more stamina(and can actually get it up!)

My fuck buddy is 14 years younger than me(not even in his 30s yet

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Sometimes they require a little bit of training though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t get it either.

I didn’t meet him to watch tv and be ignored even tho I said I didn’t even like the programme either !

Maybe he had had enough. I don’t like friends either but I would have just put up with it if I liked the person or left. Did you not communicate with him? "

Yes I kept chatting his eyes were fixed on tv lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer to meet younger guys as they usually have more stamina(and can actually get it up!)

My fuck buddy is 14 years younger than me(not even in his 30s yet

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Sometimes they require a little bit of training though. "

Never mind lesson learnt don’t think he was a good student x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im still considered a newbie but I bet I could still suprise one or two cougars out there

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"I prefer to meet younger guys as they usually have more stamina(and can actually get it up!)

My fuck buddy is 14 years younger than me(not even in his 30s yet

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Sometimes they require a little bit of training though.

Never mind lesson learnt don’t think he was a good student x"

That’s right darling, it was all his fault.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer to meet younger guys as they usually have more stamina(and can actually get it up!)

My fuck buddy is 14 years younger than me(not even in his 30s yet

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Sometimes they require a little bit of training though.

Never mind lesson learnt don’t think he was a good student x

Ha ha got to love the forums

That’s right darling, it was all his fault. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get it either.

I didn’t meet him to watch tv and be ignored even tho I said I didn’t even like the programme either !

Maybe he had had enough. I don’t like friends either but I would have just put up with it if I liked the person or left. Did you not communicate with him?

Yes I kept chatting his eyes were fixed on tv lol "

That just tells me he was only after a quick fuck and that’s it. I tend to avoid guys like that. I won’t do anything less than an all night stay and with someone I know much better. Find someone that is less FAF and wants to explore your needs also. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t get it either.

I didn’t meet him to watch tv and be ignored even tho I said I didn’t even like the programme either !

Maybe he had had enough. I don’t like friends either but I would have just put up with it if I liked the person or left. Did you not communicate with him?

Yes I kept chatting his eyes were fixed on tv lol

Thanks for your advice

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Find someone that is less FAF and wants to explore your needs also. x"

The Holy Grail you mean?

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over a year ago

"Find someone that is less FAF and wants to explore your needs also. x

The Holy Grail you mean?

They are out there kinky but you have to sift through the rubble first.

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over a year ago

Also, today is hangover horn Sunday for many.

I used to get so many text messages from guys I’ve not spoken to for ages. They now know my feelings on this and don’t bother me anymore. If I wanted a quickie then I will just get my toys out, saves on spending ages getting ready for disappointment.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Find someone that is less FAF and wants to explore your needs also. x

The Holy Grail you mean?

They are out there kinky but you have to sift through the rubble first. "

I have and I do, the rubble has me beaten atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No round 2 OP, that’s a poor effort ?!

I think my confidence has took a beating after today x"

Don't let that happen to you.

Its his loss and good riddance.

This is the reason we try not to meet someone more than once.

You are truly divine hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No round 2 OP, that’s a poor effort ?!

I think my confidence has took a beating after today x

Don't let that happen to you.

Its his loss and good riddance.

This is the reason we try not to meet someone more than once.

You are truly divine hun."

I find it gets better the more you meet someone but it has to be the right one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find someone that is less FAF and wants to explore your needs also. x

The Holy Grail you mean?

They are out there kinky but you have to sift through the rubble first.

I have and I do, the rubble has me beaten atm

No...that can’t be happening you lovely lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No round 2 OP, that’s a poor effort ?!

I think my confidence has took a beating after today x

Don't let that happen to you.

Its his loss and good riddance.

This is the reason we try not to meet someone more than once.

You are truly divine hun."

Thanks I’m sure I will be back to meet others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing that makes me sick in my own mouth is blokes swamping it up to women on the basis of a one pic of a pair of tits and a whingey whiney 'woe is me' post

Good Grief !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had a single profile the average age of my meets was around 33, prime age as they have gained experience and were more open minded but not too old to be set in their ways. I met some great guys and they even taught me a few things!

You’ve just had one unsatisfactory guy don’t let it put you off

Inked x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One thing that makes me sick in my own mouth is blokes swamping it up to women on the basis of a one pic of a pair of tits and a whingey whiney 'woe is me' post

Good Grief !"

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I had a single profile the average age of my meets was around 33, prime age as they have gained experience and were more open minded but not too old to be set in their ways. I met some great guys and they even taught me a few things!

You’ve just had one unsatisfactory guy don’t let it put you off

Inked x"

Thanks x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"One thing that makes me sick in my own mouth is blokes swamping it up to women on the basis of a one pic of a pair of tits and a whingey whiney 'woe is me' post

Good Grief !"

If they got their wish , and met someone like this , they would be the next one being lambasted for their lack of prowess on a public forum too . So like you I can’t understand it either .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find someone that is less FAF and wants to explore your needs also. x

The Holy Grail you mean?

They are out there kinky but you have to sift through the rubble first.

I have and I do, the rubble has me beaten atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No round 2 OP, that’s a poor effort ?!

I think my confidence has took a beating after today x

Don't let that happen to you.

Its his loss and good riddance.

This is the reason we try not to meet someone more than once.

You are truly divine hun.

Thanks I’m sure I will be back to meet others x"

Thats the spirit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I prefer older never had really good sex with the 20 to 30 year olds never been satisfied like with a 40 plus man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had some great meets with men younger than me and the same with men older, I don’t think the age matters, sometimes there is chemistry sometimes there isn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing that makes me sick in my own mouth is blokes swamping it up to women on the basis of a one pic of a pair of tits and a whingey whiney 'woe is me' post

Good Grief !

If they got their wish , and met someone like this , they would be the next one being lambasted for their lack of prowess on a public forum too . So like you I can’t understand it either . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had alot of amazing times with guys 35 and under

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was just the whole situation not his performance x"

Why though? If he performed well and gave cuddles after he's a keeper imho.

He's not going to know how you feel unless you tell him... He probably thought he was being nice, and he was being nice. Ge could of pushed you out of the door as soon as you were done, but he didn't.

Tbh I'd be quite hurt if someone I'd been meeting regularly told the forums how I'd made them feel rather than me and I would question whether I really wanted to meet again if I'm that hard to communicate with.

Talking is easy, it seems communication is a lost art.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

It could of been worse ... he could of started playing on his x box

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think it was just the whole situation not his performance x

Why though? If he performed well and gave cuddles after he's a keeper imho.

Talking is easy, it seems communication is a lost art.

It was more he was watching TV than cuddling me and yes I have spoke to him since and said we aren’t compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer meeting older women. I seem to get on better with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

Leaves you feeling shit!!!

I do wonder about the girls on this website.

So despite the fact you’ve spent some time with some (undoubtedly steroid induced musclebound meathead) dude 20 years younger than you’re still complaining about it.

I feel sorry for the guy, and I feel sorry for the fact that you couldn’t find the confidence to give the young fella a bit of guidance as to how to pleasure an old lady.

In fact I feel sorry for all the 20 year old fittties he will mistakenly be applying his flawed techniques to as well.

Sorry you had to hang around while he tried to make you feel better. Sorry he picked one of the most popular TV programmes of your generation to watch.

Just an alternative (possibly realistic) view."

*applauds*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It could of been worse ... he could of started playing on his x box

I am a PC gamer so I woulda just taken the piss out of the graphics tbh

probably why I get on with the younger guys when the sex is done too

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't meet younger guys anymore for the simple reason that the ones I did weren't really interested in spending time on foreplay they just wanted to shag!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was just the whole situation not his performance x

Why though? If he performed well and gave cuddles after he's a keeper imho.

Talking is easy, it seems communication is a lost art.

It was more he was watching TV than cuddling me and yes I have spoke to him since and said we aren’t compatible "

You should of said I don’t like Friends and definitely don’t like the Walking Dead type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the guy in question was in his 30’s is this considered young now? I’d of thought that would be considered fully grown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need some feed back from our fab ladies do younger guys really know how to satisfy an older lady or am I meeting the wrong guys.

Today I met a guy I’ve met once before we had sex wasnt as long as I would of liked but hey hoe had a snuggle after and he began watching friends wtf I hate the programme too ! Made my excuse to leave feeling a bit s**t x"
always found the older ones are the clingers, had a couple of meets in their 40’s that just wouldn’t leave they ask for a shower ok fair enough, then go down stairs plonk themselves on the sofa wanna watch tv cup of tea etc had one bring a bottle of wine 4 hrs later they still sat there. Now I make it quite clear once we’re done, thanks very much but off you go. Have found younger ones aren’t interested so much in talking they just want to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have been wanting round two or 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the guy in question was in his 30’s is this considered young now? I’d of thought that would be considered fully grown "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps he was feeling a bit tired or uninspired. Did you do anything to try to liven him up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the guy in question was in his 30’s is this considered young now? I’d of thought that would be considered fully grown "

Shhhh! I'm happy to still be considered young.

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over a year ago

"So the guy in question was in his 30’s is this considered young now? I’d of thought that would be considered fully grown

Shhhh! I'm happy to still be considered young."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would gladly snuggle with an older lady and massage her

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Did she mention she was married?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

if you allow the fuck and go type in, that's what you will get..you chose him no doubt..your responsibility.cant blame his style, you didn't ask for any

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