FabSwingers.com forum: Husband has said I can..do I?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.

He has said I can meet alone if I want.

He asked what I would do

1st single guy

2 couple

3rd single girl

Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.

Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the only people who can answer this are you and your husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go for it if he's 100% fine with it but maybe do a social meet first with them where mr is their and he can then say yes or no if he thinks somethings not right with that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.

He has said I can meet alone if I want.

He asked what I would do

1st single guy

2 couple

3rd single girl

Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.

Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?

Unsure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.

He has said I can meet alone if I want.

He asked what I would do

1st single guy

2 couple

3rd single girl

Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.

Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?

Unsure

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if you are going to do it you may as well do it proper, all night job I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think u need to secure boundaries and work from there, but enjoy xx

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

Try one hour and see how you both feel. Big difference between fantasy and reality xx

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.

He has said I can meet alone if I want.

He asked what I would do

1st single guy

2 couple

3rd single girl

Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.

Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?

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You only live once

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

You should only do what you feel comfortable with.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

"I think u need to secure boundaries and work from there, but enjoy xx"

Not everything is about Brexit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do overnight for a first meet...

An hour would be sufficient if new to that scene x

You have reasons to be unsure. Talk them through with your partner.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.

He has said I can meet alone if I want.

He asked what I would do

1st single guy

2 couple

3rd single girl

Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.

Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?

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Would this be happening before or after you give birth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your asking on here, you have doubts, if you have doubts don't do it, simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.

He has said I can meet alone if I want.

He asked what I would do

1st single guy

2 couple

3rd single girl

Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.

Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?

Unsure

If this is something you'd like to do then do it, will he be meeting others on his own too? If so will you be comfortable with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be safe. Most important thing.

Talk to the people that you like and see what develop.

Then once your comfortable, and your husband has also spoken to the guy arrange what is right for you.

If you do the over night thing I'd recommend speaking to hubby on the phone while awsy so he knows your fine.

Guy shouldn't have a problem with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your asking on here, you have doubts, if you have doubts don't do it, simple "

Generally this. Talk it over some more, sleep on it and see if your subconscious gives it up. Brains being what they are (unreliable!) it might not in which case you'll either have to find out by trying or play it safe and possibly never know. Apparently making a list before your go to sleep is a good prompt for you brain to work on the subject overnight so maybe try listing your concerns (actually write them down) and see how you feel in the morning

Mike xx

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Tell you have.... When you havnt

See how the reaction goes

Sometimes these things are a better idea at the time than they realy are..... Before you know it it'll be OK for Mr to sleep around because you did.

Sounds pretty unhealthy for the relationship to me tbh.

All for what?.. Sake of a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a club trip; you have the social side where you can meet like minded people in a pressure free environment and you have play areas should you wish.

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025

"Try one hour and see how you both feel. Big difference between fantasy and reality xx"

This

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

OP are you pregnant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.

He has said I can meet alone if I want.

He asked what I would do

1st single guy

2 couple

3rd single girl

Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.

Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?

Unsure

This is how we do it OP, we don’t really play much with couples but we do have 3sums.

We both play alone and it works well for us.

Took us a while to realise this is how we like to play, but I can tell you we haven’t looked back.

Mrsk x

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I play solo, and hubby loves to hear how naughty I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find what works for both of you...do you want to meet a single guy/girl and then take pics/videos and send them? Or show him afterwards or tell him all about it.

Talk about what you want from it...and if you both agree then do it.

Your pics are stunning, I’m sure you’ll be able to take your pick from guys...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.

He has said I can meet alone if I want.

He asked what I would do

1st single guy

2 couple

3rd single girl

Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.

Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?

Unsure

Anita doesn't need my permission to do anything, and if she wanted to meet someone without me that would be fine... it's completely up to her.

In your case, it's just a matter of whether you want to or not.

Cal

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"OP are you pregnant?"

That's a good question

it could change people's replies

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For us most of the joy of swinging comes from sharing the experience, so we can't really imagine wanting to play on our own. Why not choose w half way house: go to a club, play with whoever you want and let him watch from a distance?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I just want to visit lake Ariel

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP are you pregnant?

That's a good question

it could change people's replies

Yes I am

That's not a permanent thing though

Although I have been to clubs and meets while pregnant as the hormones are intense

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"OP are you pregnant?

That's a good question

it could change people's replies

Yes I am

That's not a permanent thing though

Although I have been to clubs and meets while pregnant as the hormones are intense "

So you're ok meeting strangers whilst pregnant?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I am. What's your issue?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Yes I am. What's your issue? "

I have no issue, just wondered if that was safe for you and your baby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the only people who can answer this are you and your husband. "

This

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Yes I am. What's your issue? "

Why ask a bunch of strangers, just do what's right for you two

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By *woPlusMore69Couple
over a year ago

Birstall

"I swingbwith my husband and cam on this profile.

He has said I can meet alone if I want.

He asked what I would do

1st single guy

2 couple

3rd single girl

Question is should I do it. I know it would turn him on and I would like it. Not sure though.

Would you do an hour or 2 or arrange an over night in a hotel?

Unsure

If you decide yes then make it a one off with someone you know to test the water so to speak , only an hour or so and not too far from home, take pictures if able to share with other half ( get permission of course) enjoy yourself xx

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By *istress MazeWoman
over a year ago

chatham

Make sure you feel safe with whatever you decide to do. I always have a social in public first then play where I know I have help around if I need it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I am. What's your issue?

I have no issue, just wondered if that was safe for you and your baby?"

Totally safe. We don't do anything silly.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Yes I am. What's your issue?

I have no issue, just wondered if that was safe for you and your baby?

Totally safe. We don't do anything silly."

So what would you do at this meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I am. What's your issue? "
if your husband is up for it go for it ,hotel would be the best thing x meet for a social 1st in the bar

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Could you meet a guy girl or couple you have met as a couple, sans hubby. Then at least you already know them?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Yes I am. What's your issue? if your husband is up for it go for it ,hotel would be the best thing x meet for a social 1st in the bar

I would be concerned about my heavily pregnant wife meeting anyone on her own....

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By *thletic Fella!!Man
over a year ago

Wigan

I would suggest meeting alone, but husband downstairs but not allowed to join in. Safety covered and if he's uncomfortable he could always tell you, sooner rather than later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm capable as an adult to look after myself.

When we do this I won't be pregnant but I was left alone in Chams in a room with a guy when pregnant a few months back.

Being a woman and pregnant doesn't mean I need him there to protect me.

I've done numerous photo shoots when pregnant without him there. One of them an adult toy shoot

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I'm capable as an adult to look after myself.

When we do this I won't be pregnant but I was left alone in Chams in a room with a guy when pregnant a few months back.

Being a woman and pregnant doesn't mean I need him there to protect me.

I've done numerous photo shoots when pregnant without him there. One of them an adult toy shoot "

I'm sure you are, have fun and stay safe

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