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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on ebay, and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on , and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven. "

How dare people enjoy the social side of swinging

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

do you expect people to fuck as soon as they enter the door then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so because we are swinging we have to talk sex........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i go to a club or party i talk about all kinds of crap, i know im at a sex club/party i dont need to sit talking about cocks and blow jobs, i know if i fancy someone by looking at them but the best way to know if you like they mentally is by talking and talking about every day stuff is the best way to get to know soemone

Not everyone sees other as lumps of meat, all because a lady has made the effort to dress up does not mean she should walk in and only stop fucking when shes talking about who shes going to suck next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven. "

jesus if thats what you think you have no idea.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a feeling all the ladies on here are going to be saying...how dare you suggest we cant talk about butter lol and all the guys are going to say, i agree mate women talk to much at clubs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I enjoy the social side and love having a chat and a laugh but im more likely to be flirting than discussing the price of butter

I would'nt do that in real life with anyone let alone at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes - its called socialising! dam these swingers who dare to have a conversation!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

I don't watch soaps, but I do like to chat with people. I don't just sit there with my mouth open waiting for the cock to be inserted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

I don't watch soaps, but I do like to chat with people. I don't just sit there with my mouth open waiting for the cock to be inserted. "

nor do i actually, i dont watch any soaps so have no idea if people do talk about them, nor do i buy butter lol but if im at a club and people are just talking general stuff i will join in with 'normal' chat, i wouldnt walk off because they are boring for having a conversation that didnt involve sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I attend social events held at swingers clubs to be sociable, and that include small talks of anything under the sun.

If I meet peeps that tickle my fancy while I am there, I would not say no to be a bit of sexy fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women chat to much full stop. club or no club

runs and hides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on ebay, and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven. "

Sainsbury's charge £1.19 for a 250g block of salted butter......did you catch how much it is in Lidl???

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

I don't watch soaps, but I do like to chat with people. I don't just sit there with my mouth open waiting for the cock to be inserted.

nor do i actually, i dont watch any soaps so have no idea if people do talk about them, nor do i buy butter lol but if im at a club and people are just talking general stuff i will join in with 'normal' chat, i wouldnt walk off because they are boring for having a conversation that didnt involve sex "

The only soap i follow i the Archers...but normal conversation tells you a lot about people.

There can be sex talk...normally when you are around people you are comfortable with...i imagine if the op was standing sneering people may have been deliberately making non sexual small talk.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Oh...and why can't women go to a club just to look nice, perhaps that was enough...many go to clubs for a good night out and nothing more

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"i imagine if the op was standing sneering people may have been deliberately making non sexual small talk."

That's my thought!

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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Op on a loser here

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Op on a loser here"

Well there's really no call to sneer at a womans conversation, is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£1.19? What in house brand? Mmmm..bet tescos do it cheaper

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"£1.19? What in house brand? Mmmm..bet tescos do it cheaper"

Aldi is less than £1!

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By *erkshireMan123Man
over a year ago

Devizes

Ive not had the balls to go to a club yet, but some useless small talk sounds like a mighty fine idea

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

fucking hell ..soaps????? how ridiculous.....now if we are talking footie.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres two types of people who do this, ones who are into swinging and ones just after a fuck, swinging covers more than just sex, like it or not there is a most definite social side to swinging, where lots of swingers like to meet up and just chat and have a drink and nothing more, or go to clubs and talk as well as play, people after just a fuck....well that speaks for itself lol

I personally do not class myself as a swingers, because i just feel im not, i use such sites to meet people for sex but that does not mean i dont treat people with respect nor does it mean i can not hold a conversation with them

If you go to a club and people are sat around talking and thats not what your after....get up and walk away, i mean its not rocket science is it?

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"Op on a loser here

Well there's really no call to sneer at a womans conversation, is there?

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thats what im saying. Its an attempt to sneer about something that sounds normal, people conversing, OMG

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on ebay, and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven. "

so moving on from the occasional single guy moaning about getting no emails, then no meets we now have a single guy moaning that at a club they did not get invited to join in on a conversation....

funny old game..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Op on a loser here

Well there's really no call to sneer at a womans conversation, is there?

thats what im saying. Its an attempt to sneer about something that sounds normal, people conversing, OMG"

Apologies then. I read your post wrong.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i went to chams one night and i was so busy yapping to everyone, i "forgot" to play until someone mentioned it lmao

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

So.... I believe the real question is what makes acceptable discussion points at swinger parties?

I was at a party with a friend years ago where a lady was beign seen to by 4 guys, and guy 5 turned to guy 6 (I imagine waiting for their turn) started a discussion how it reminded him about of a movie he worked on (educating his fellow gangbanger on his inside knowledge of the movie industry and how many directors he's worked with) and how the setting could be turned into a movie of academy award standard.

At some point the lady in question yelled "if you two are gonna prattle on and not shag, can you please go downstairs!", everyone else in the room couldn't help but laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i went to chams one night and i was so busy yapping to everyone, i "forgot" to play until someone mentioned it lmao"

ive done that many times

i never go with any expectations to play or not play, i go to see whos there, chat to old friends and new and if sex happens then great, but sometimes i spend that long yacking its the end of the night before i know it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect that what has rattled the OP is that he was waiting around, looking at the women, fiddling with his flaccid cock, whilst the women were dressed sexily but wasting valuable fucking time by talking, when they should have been getting through the single guys who had taken time and effort to pay their money to get into a club. And their hubby's, what the fuck were they doing, sitting alongside her, allowing her to talk and not forcing her to satisfy the other men there.

Huh women - waste of bloody time aren't they

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Huh women - waste of bloody time aren't they "

I do my best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye the social aspect gets in the way of all the fucking and general debauchery of swinging dont it lol xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on ebay, and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven. "

so what did you do.... did you...

a) join in with the banter, because it is a good way of networking and in future meet other people...

b) moan... and then bring it here so others could hear you moan....

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Butter in Norway is the most expensive ATM because it`s so scarce! You could have imported a truck full and made a huge killing before Xmas as it`s a huge part of Norwegian culture at Xmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect that what has rattled the OP is that he was waiting around, looking at the women, fiddling with his flaccid cock "

hahaha i neary choked on my kopparberg when i read that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, thats just showing off that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect that what has rattled the OP is that he was waiting around, looking at the women, fiddling with his flaccid cock

hahaha i neary choked on my kopparberg when i read that "

Your watterberg now?? xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I expect that what has rattled the OP is that he was waiting around, looking at the women, fiddling with his flaccid cock

hahaha i neary choked on my kopparberg when i read that

Your watterberg now?? xx "

It's posh cider, soapy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect that what has rattled the OP is that he was waiting around, looking at the women, fiddling with his flaccid cock

hahaha i neary choked on my kopparberg when i read that

Your watterberg now?? xx

It's posh cider, soapy. "

Oooh alcoholic apple juice

The only drink that can put me on me back after a pint of it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit because once I start talking I find it hard to stop Jet and I now have a code word which means a little less conversation and a little more action , works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect that what has rattled the OP is that he was waiting around, looking at the women, fiddling with his flaccid cock

hahaha i neary choked on my kopparberg when i read that

Your watterberg now?? xx

It's posh cider, soapy.

Oooh alcoholic apple juice

The only drink that can put me on me back after a pint of it xx "

its the mixed fruit one dont like the apple or pear one

i'll buy you a bottle next time i see you, get you d*unk so i can have another kiss lol

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By *inecrestMan
over a year ago

West Yorks

Perhaps the conversation about the price of butter developed into a discussion about the butter scene in "Last Tango in Paris"

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Perhaps the conversation about the price of butter developed into a discussion about the butter scene in "Last Tango in Paris""

Aaaaaarrrgggh.... spilt my relentless!

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"£1.19? What in house brand? Mmmm..bet tescos do it cheaper

Aldi is less than £1!"

Really!? It's Aldi for me from now on...no more Tesco/Morrisons for me when it comes to butter!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I think some of you fail to get the point of what I'm saying.

Of course no one is a sex machine robot who walks in and immediately starts performing like some over XXX rated circus act.

My point isn't that people shouldn't socialise and have a laugh before the action starts or doesn't . The point is that some people go to clubs just to sit talking nonsense. Sometimes quite loudly while people are having a naughty time. Which is a bit of a passion killer!

Imagine getting into the mood and getting down and horny while you're hearing people who only go there to chat, talking about a load of rubbish which seems totally out of context with the surroundings and the attire they happen to be wearing. Not only is it very surreal- its enough to want to make you get some clothes on and head out of there as soon as you can. lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No not at all.. no one expects you to be a performing X rated seal. Please see my comment which expands further.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on ebay, and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven.

Sainsbury's charge £1.19 for a 250g block of salted butter......did you catch how much it is in Lidl???"

Sure it's £1.15 for salted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"£1.19? What in house brand? Mmmm..bet tescos do it cheaper

Aldi is less than £1!"

Form an orderly queue, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm a swinger either, though the fact that i'm on a swinging website would suggest otherwise.

I'm into conversation - intelligent and small talk- both are good. I'm into getting to know people and the social side of life. I'm not one of those guys who walk around with my cock out as soon as I land, lol. Or a desperado, running after any sight of ' flesh' , be it ankle , legs or whatever.

And trust me - not being a rocket scientist, I did get up and leave for a good couple of hours - only to return to the same area later with the same conversation going on more or less.

At the end if the day I'm afraid, some people are sexy without doing very much at all, and without having to wear particularly sexy clothes, they just are sexy- and others think by wearing the clothes they consider to be sexy, they become sexy, when in fact they ooze about as much sex appeal as a dead badger. And conversationally are about as stimulating.

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"No I think some of you fail to get the point of what I'm saying.

Of course no one is a sex machine robot who walks in and immediately starts performing like some over XXX rated circus act.

My point isn't that people shouldn't socialise and have a laugh before the action starts or doesn't . The point is that some people go to clubs just to sit talking nonsense. Sometimes quite loudly while people are having a naughty time. Which is a bit of a passion killer!

Imagine getting into the mood and getting down and horny while you're hearing people who only go there to chat, talking about a load of rubbish which seems totally out of context with the surroundings and the attire they happen to be wearing. Not only is it very surreal- its enough to want to make you get some clothes on and head out of there as soon as you can. lol. "
keep digging, you will be in china soon enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on ebay, and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven.

so what did you do.... did you...

a) join in with the banter, because it is a good way of networking and in future meet other people...

b) moan... and then bring it here so others could hear you moan...."

I of course being a nice person , joined in the conversation, but really I'm not so desperate to network with people I had no chemistry with that I'd sit all night taking part in a mind numbingly boring conversation.

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. "
dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I think some of you fail to get the point of what I'm saying.

Of course no one is a sex machine robot who walks in and immediately starts performing like some over XXX rated circus act.

My point isn't that people shouldn't socialise and have a laugh before the action starts or doesn't . The point is that some people go to clubs just to sit talking nonsense. Sometimes quite loudly while people are having a naughty time. Which is a bit of a passion killer!

Imagine getting into the mood and getting down and horny while you're hearing people who only go there to chat, talking about a load of rubbish which seems totally out of context with the surroundings and the attire they happen to be wearing. Not only is it very surreal- its enough to want to make you get some clothes on and head out of there as soon as you can. lol. keep digging, you will be in china soon enough"

Plenty of china in my kitchen. No need to dig. Just have to open a door, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child"

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child"

I'll say this again, cos I may not have made this clear - my point isn't that people can't talk at parties/ clubs. My point is that in a room where people are having sex- other people talking very loudly about absolute rubbish is not helping to keep the vibe sexy. There is a time and a place for everything. I'd suggest doing this type of chat in the kitchen, not the bedroom, lol.

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. "
yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram"

Well it's funny how you're so quick to judge people, without knowing or meeting them, so I suggest that the mail is indeed the paper for you.

If you took the time to read what I actually wrote rather than trying to read between the lines for things I haven't said, and generally wasn't such a reactionary hater I might actually like you.

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram

Well it's funny how you're so quick to judge people, without knowing or meeting them, so I suggest that the mail is indeed the paper for you.

If you took the time to read what I actually wrote rather than trying to read between the lines for things I haven't said, and generally wasn't such a reactionary hater I might actually like you. "
again you are asking people who are happy with their conversation to regulate their speech, because its affecting your experience. Two words, wah and wah

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram

Well it's funny how you're so quick to judge people, without knowing or meeting them, so I suggest that the mail is indeed the paper for you.

If you took the time to read what I actually wrote rather than trying to read between the lines for things I haven't said, and generally wasn't such a reactionary hater I might actually like you. "
again you are asking people who are happy with their conversation to regulate their speech, because its affecting your experience. Two words, wah and wah

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over a year ago


"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram

Well it's funny how you're so quick to judge people, without knowing or meeting them, so I suggest that the mail is indeed the paper for you.

If you took the time to read what I actually wrote rather than trying to read between the lines for things I haven't said, and generally wasn't such a reactionary hater I might actually like you. again you are asking people who are happy with their conversation to regulate their speech, because its affecting your experience. Two words, wah and wah"

You clearly can write, so I'm assuming you also have no problem reading normally.

I'm saying people who sit in the bedroom where others are having sex, talking very loudly about rubbing, which in turn kills the vibe. I'm also saying those people should move out of the bedroom and perhaps into a different room, like the kitchen or front room or wherever , because their topic of loud conversation is incompatible with a sexy ambience and generally off putting. Sorry , but I fail to see where the words toy and pram come into this. Just common and sense.

And as for your profile saying you're a non judgemental type... I hope that's true.

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram

Well it's funny how you're so quick to judge people, without knowing or meeting them, so I suggest that the mail is indeed the paper for you.

If you took the time to read what I actually wrote rather than trying to read between the lines for things I haven't said, and generally wasn't such a reactionary hater I might actually like you. again you are asking people who are happy with their conversation to regulate their speech, because its affecting your experience. Two words, wah and wah

You clearly can write, so I'm assuming you also have no problem reading normally.

I'm saying people who sit in the bedroom where others are having sex, talking very loudly about rubbing, which in turn kills the vibe. I'm also saying those people should move out of the bedroom and perhaps into a different room, like the kitchen or front room or wherever , because their topic of loud conversation is incompatible with a sexy ambience and generally off putting. Sorry , but I fail to see where the words toy and pram come into this. Just common and sense.

And as for your profile saying you're a non judgemental type... I hope that's true."
whats wrong with talk about rubbing ?

You fail to grasp the simple fact. If they are happy to talk as they are and you have an issue, maybe the fault lies with you. People arent there to provide you with everything you want. If you cant accept that maybe dont go and go to one on one meets where you can dictate the conversation to the unlucky individual stuck listening to you

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over a year ago


"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram

Well it's funny how you're so quick to judge people, without knowing or meeting them, so I suggest that the mail is indeed the paper for you.

If you took the time to read what I actually wrote rather than trying to read between the lines for things I haven't said, and generally wasn't such a reactionary hater I might actually like you. again you are asking people who are happy with their conversation to regulate their speech, because its affecting your experience. Two words, wah and wah

You clearly can write, so I'm assuming you also have no problem reading normally.

I'm saying people who sit in the bedroom where others are having sex, talking very loudly about rubbing, which in turn kills the vibe. I'm also saying those people should move out of the bedroom and perhaps into a different room, like the kitchen or front room or wherever , because their topic of loud conversation is incompatible with a sexy ambience and generally off putting. Sorry , but I fail to see where the words toy and pram come into this. Just common and sense.

And as for your profile saying you're a non judgemental type... I hope that's true.whats wrong with talk about rubbing ?

You fail to grasp the simple fact. If they are happy to talk as they are and you have an issue, maybe the fault lies with you. People arent there to provide you with everything you want. If you cant accept that maybe dont go and go to one on one meets where you can dictate the conversation to the unlucky individual stuck listening to you"

Haha it was a misprint.. it is late after all. Of course with those inc your god self blessed with half an IQ I meant to say rubbish.

YOu clearly failed to see the funny side of this, the ridiculous surreality of it all, and to make matters worse, you seem hell bent on slinging insults at someone you know very little about, and have never even met .

If your life is so wanting that you take life so seriously, and only get joy from rubbishing someone because they've started a topic of conversation, on an internet chatroom then I suggest you get a hobby or do something useful because your days of being the Prized village idiot surely can't continue into 2012.

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram

Well it's funny how you're so quick to judge people, without knowing or meeting them, so I suggest that the mail is indeed the paper for you.

If you took the time to read what I actually wrote rather than trying to read between the lines for things I haven't said, and generally wasn't such a reactionary hater I might actually like you. again you are asking people who are happy with their conversation to regulate their speech, because its affecting your experience. Two words, wah and wah

You clearly can write, so I'm assuming you also have no problem reading normally.

I'm saying people who sit in the bedroom where others are having sex, talking very loudly about rubbing, which in turn kills the vibe. I'm also saying those people should move out of the bedroom and perhaps into a different room, like the kitchen or front room or wherever , because their topic of loud conversation is incompatible with a sexy ambience and generally off putting. Sorry , but I fail to see where the words toy and pram come into this. Just common and sense.

And as for your profile saying you're a non judgemental type... I hope that's true.whats wrong with talk about rubbing ?

You fail to grasp the simple fact. If they are happy to talk as they are and you have an issue, maybe the fault lies with you. People arent there to provide you with everything you want. If you cant accept that maybe dont go and go to one on one meets where you can dictate the conversation to the unlucky individual stuck listening to you

Haha it was a misprint.. it is late after all. Of course with those inc your god self blessed with half an IQ I meant to say rubbish.

YOu clearly failed to see the funny side of this, the ridiculous surreality of it all, and to make matters worse, you seem hell bent on slinging insults at someone you know very little about, and have never even met .

If your life is so wanting that you take life so seriously, and only get joy from rubbishing someone because they've started a topic of conversation, on an internet chatroom then I suggest you get a hobby or do something useful because your days of being the Prized village idiot surely can't continue into 2012.

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oh the ironing, i guess your rapier wit has eluded me and all those who have mocked your self indulgent ranting. Wound up much son !

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over a year ago


"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram

Well it's funny how you're so quick to judge people, without knowing or meeting them, so I suggest that the mail is indeed the paper for you.

If you took the time to read what I actually wrote rather than trying to read between the lines for things I haven't said, and generally wasn't such a reactionary hater I might actually like you. again you are asking people who are happy with their conversation to regulate their speech, because its affecting your experience. Two words, wah and wah

You clearly can write, so I'm assuming you also have no problem reading normally.

I'm saying people who sit in the bedroom where others are having sex, talking very loudly about rubbing, which in turn kills the vibe. I'm also saying those people should move out of the bedroom and perhaps into a different room, like the kitchen or front room or wherever , because their topic of loud conversation is incompatible with a sexy ambience and generally off putting. Sorry , but I fail to see where the words toy and pram come into this. Just common and sense.

And as for your profile saying you're a non judgemental type... I hope that's true.whats wrong with talk about rubbing ?

You fail to grasp the simple fact. If they are happy to talk as they are and you have an issue, maybe the fault lies with you. People arent there to provide you with everything you want. If you cant accept that maybe dont go and go to one on one meets where you can dictate the conversation to the unlucky individual stuck listening to you

Haha it was a misprint.. it is late after all. Of course with those inc your god self blessed with half an IQ I meant to say rubbish.

YOu clearly failed to see the funny side of this, the ridiculous surreality of it all, and to make matters worse, you seem hell bent on slinging insults at someone you know very little about, and have never even met .

If your life is so wanting that you take life so seriously, and only get joy from rubbishing someone because they've started a topic of conversation, on an internet chatroom then I suggest you get a hobby or do something useful because your days of being the Prized village idiot surely can't continue into 2012.

oh the ironing, i guess your rapier wit has eluded me and all those who have mocked your self indulgent ranting. Wound up much son !"

No Daddy nothing winds me up v much, lol. I'm just grateful to have a chilled intelligent daddy like you, lol

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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Thats good, i know how you get annoyed when people dont talk about you want, wouldnt want to face a rant from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i'll buy you a bottle next time i see you, get you d*unk so i can have another kiss lol"

I dont need a drink ta kiss you again babe xx

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


"Must admit because once I start talking I find it hard to stop Jet and I now have a code word which means a little less conversation and a little more action , works for us "

Heh, so do we, it's "sex?" or if that doesn't work "SEX!".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as the OP has expanded on his original post.

People can go to clubs and sit in skimpy outfits and talk about whatever they like. There is no obligation to play with anyone. For some people its enough to wear something skimpy and chat all night. For some they may want to dress up and preen and flirt all night, for some its non stop sex. All is right.

If in a club I do believe people should chat in the social areas. that's not to say no talking anywhere else, but it is offputting and rude to talk loudly about nonsense when people are playing. If its a play room then the main focus is sex. Use good manners to ensure others are not put off and go to a social area if you don't want to play.

Similarly if its a social area but you decide to have sex, and it does happen, I've been sipping coffee at the bar at Chams and a woman was being spit roasted next to me, then expect to have conversation around you. Jacuzzis are a bit of both, used for chatting and sex.

Difficult at a party in someones home as space is usually limited. I've found that people do sit and talk a lot at house parties but it usually takes one person to start stroking and kissing for others to fall into place.

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over a year ago


"Must admit because once I start talking I find it hard to stop Jet and I now have a code word which means a little less conversation and a little more action , works for us

Heh, so do we, it's "sex?" or if that doesn't work "SEX!"."

Ours is Elvis

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"No I think some of you fail to get the point of what I'm saying.

Of course no one is a sex machine robot who walks in and immediately starts performing like some over XXX rated circus act.

My point isn't that people shouldn't socialise and have a laugh before the action starts or doesn't . The point is that some people go to clubs just to sit talking nonsense. Sometimes quite loudly while people are having a naughty time. Which is a bit of a passion killer!

Imagine getting into the mood and getting down and horny while you're hearing people who only go there to chat, talking about a load of rubbish which seems totally out of context with the surroundings and the attire they happen to be wearing. Not only is it very surreal- its enough to want to make you get some clothes on and head out of there as soon as you can. lol. "

This isnt what your first post said...own your words at least...

I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on ebay, and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

You mock those who want to talk, and suggest just going to socialise breaks some rule...many enjoy the dressing up, and do not go to clubs to fuck.You describe their conversation as banal.Simply because it did not interest you.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven.

Again,dressing up may have been enough, seems to me you assumed going in entitled you to something.

At no point did you mention ppl talking whilst others played.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Dear OP.... good god man, has no one taught you 'the code'?

It's no wonder you didn't enjoy yourself.

'Butter' is code for 'taken roughly up the arse'

'Betty's hotpot' is code for a spitroast with added jizzers wanking at the sides.

'Eastenders' means 'I am gagging for oral'

'Hollyoaks' just means they think you're a bit of a prick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dear OP.... good god man, has no one taught you 'the code'?

It's no wonder you didn't enjoy yourself.

'Butter' is code for 'taken roughly up the arse'

'Betty's hotpot' is code for a spitroast with added jizzers wanking at the sides.

Now that's both original , and funny. Like it. x

'Eastenders' means 'I am gagging for oral'

'Hollyoaks' just means they think you're a bit of a prick."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I think some of you fail to get the point of what I'm saying.

Of course no one is a sex machine robot who walks in and immediately starts performing like some over XXX rated circus act.

My point isn't that people shouldn't socialise and have a laugh before the action starts or doesn't . The point is that some people go to clubs just to sit talking nonsense. Sometimes quite loudly while people are having a naughty time. Which is a bit of a passion killer!

Imagine getting into the mood and getting down and horny while you're hearing people who only go there to chat, talking about a load of rubbish which seems totally out of context with the surroundings and the attire they happen to be wearing. Not only is it very surreal- its enough to want to make you get some clothes on and head out of there as soon as you can. lol.

This isnt what your first post said...own your words at least...

I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on ebay, and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

You mock those who want to talk, and suggest just going to socialise breaks some rule...many enjoy the dressing up, and do not go to clubs to fuck.You describe their conversation as banal.Simply because it did not interest you.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven.

Again,dressing up may have been enough, seems to me you assumed going in entitled you to something.

At no point did you mention ppl talking whilst others played. "

It's banal because its conversation out of context, not because I have no interest in saving money shopping at certain supermarkets. It just goes against the grain of what the general ambience is around them, and its as if they've been teleported into a room from say the kitchen and continue talking the same stuff without realising where they are and whats going on.

To talk about such matters in a sex club where people are trying to be naughty and are being naughty just seems like a comedy moment, but off putting for those trying to get into the mood. Sorry if this wasn't fully explained in first post.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

talk about backfire lol

in general when we socialise we talk of anything and everything, its part of getting to know you getting to know all about you lol

If we dont know you chances are we wont play with etc

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It's banal because its conversation out of context, not because I have no interest in saving money shopping at certain supermarkets. It just goes against the grain of what the general ambience is around them, and its as if they've been teleported into a room from say the kitchen and continue talking the same stuff without realising where they are and whats going on.

To talk about such matters in a sex club where people are trying to be naughty and are being naughty just seems like a comedy moment, but off putting for those trying to get into the mood. Sorry if this wasn't fully explained in first post. "

What sex clubs are you going to? Because nearly all the ones I've been to have a social area. The playrooms are completely separate. So in the social area surely people can chat about what they want. Some people actually just go to swingers clubs to socialise. Shocking, I know!

And if you struggle to get horny in a swinger club while surrounded by half naked people then just wander to the playrooms and get your mojo back. Simple!

It really bugs me when people come on here and start dictating how others behave because they think they are the expert in swinging. Why should I be at the bar thinking 'oh best not chat about that interesting programme I saw on TV. I might offend someone!' I'm afraid it looks like you're the only one who is getting upset about this, so maybe the problem is yours.

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over a year ago


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And if you struggle to get horny in a swinger club while surrounded by half naked people then just wander to the playrooms and get your mojo back. Simple!

It really bugs me when people come on here and start dictating how others behave because they think they are the expert in swinging. Why should I be at the bar thinking 'oh best not chat about that interesting programme I saw on TV. I might offend someone!' I'm afraid it looks like you're the only one who is getting upset about this, so maybe the problem is yours."

i agree with this

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"I'm afraid you've drawn the wrong conclusion, so yes it is a funny old game.

I was invited to join the discussion, and being a sociable type who communicated beyond grunting, I duly obliged. But I'm sharing an observation. And for the record -LIDL's do great popcorn. dig dig dig.

If people are talking about soaps when you do it, maybe you are dull

and why should you regulate what people say. If they are enjoying the chat, then why stop to accommodate a foot stomping petulant man child

You sound like a typical Daily mail reader. yes, the mail is the bastion of free speech and expression. I hope this isnt the level of wit and ignorance you exhibit at socials, if so i dont blame people yapping about soaps, beats chatting to the wee boy who threw his toys out of the pram

Well it's funny how you're so quick to judge people, without knowing or meeting them, so I suggest that the mail is indeed the paper for you.

If you took the time to read what I actually wrote rather than trying to read between the lines for things I haven't said, and generally wasn't such a reactionary hater I might actually like you. again you are asking people who are happy with their conversation to regulate their speech, because its affecting your experience. Two words, wah and wah

You clearly can write, so I'm assuming you also have no problem reading normally.

I'm saying people who sit in the bedroom where others are having sex, talking very loudly about rubbing, which in turn kills the vibe. I'm also saying those people should move out of the bedroom and perhaps into a different room, like the kitchen or front room or wherever , because their topic of loud conversation is incompatible with a sexy ambience and generally off putting. Sorry , but I fail to see where the words toy and pram come into this. Just common and sense.

And as for your profile saying you're a non judgemental type... I hope that's true."

Actually agree with this. There is a time and place for everything. And As much as people are entitled to talk about whatever, it is nice to spare a thought for those having fun around you and do the soap talk somewhere appropriate like the corridor or at the bar in a club and not in the very room that people are having sex. Come on ppl, we are human beings and we get turned on and off, and that would turn anyone off if they were at the receiving end of it.

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Well as the OP has expanded on his original post.

People can go to clubs and sit in skimpy outfits and talk about whatever they like. There is no obligation to play with anyone. For some people its enough to wear something skimpy and chat all night. For some they may want to dress up and preen and flirt all night, for some its non stop sex. All is right.

If in a club I do believe people should chat in the social areas. that's not to say no talking anywhere else, but it is offputting and rude to talk loudly about nonsense when people are playing. If its a play room then the main focus is sex. Use good manners to ensure others are not put off and go to a social area if you don't want to play.

Similarly if its a social area but you decide to have sex, and it does happen, I've been sipping coffee at the bar at Chams and a woman was being spit roasted next to me, then expect to have conversation around you. Jacuzzis are a bit of both, used for chatting and sex.

Difficult at a party in someones home as space is usually limited. I've found that people do sit and talk a lot at house parties but it usually takes one person to start stroking and kissing for others to fall into place. "

Couldn't have put it better myself. Women are so articulate at getting these sort of things across than men. I am hoping everyone understands the OP now and we can all head towards the New Year without being at each other's throats??

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"No I think some of you fail to get the point of what I'm saying.

Of course no one is a sex machine robot who walks in and immediately starts performing like some over XXX rated circus act.

My point isn't that people shouldn't socialise and have a laugh before the action starts or doesn't . The point is that some people go to clubs just to sit talking nonsense. Sometimes quite loudly while people are having a naughty time. Which is a bit of a passion killer!

Imagine getting into the mood and getting down and horny while you're hearing people who only go there to chat, talking about a load of rubbish which seems totally out of context with the surroundings and the attire they happen to be wearing. Not only is it very surreal- its enough to want to make you get some clothes on and head out of there as soon as you can. lol. "

Ok...must agree on this point. We have been to parties and drawn a large crowd or just had people directly outside the open doorway talking about all sorts and it can be annoying and a bit of a mood killer. However in opening post it didn't make it clear he was referring to play areas.

Just like to say I never buy cheap butter. It just ain't the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes at chams i have to move into a private room to carry on if the people watching ate talking about stuff

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Actually agree with this. There is a time and place for everything. And As much as people are entitled to talk about whatever, it is nice to spare a thought for those having fun around you and do the soap talk somewhere appropriate like the corridor or at the bar in a club and not in the very room that people are having sex."

I also agree with this point, but the OP has stated again and again that he thinks that social rooms at clubs are no place for chitchat either, and people should use those rooms for 'getting horny', whatever that means.

Yes, I have read all the OPs responses on here. Yes, my eyes are bleeding. But its all there - he's not just talking about private parties. He states that people shouldn't banter at clubs either.

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over a year ago


"Actually agree with this. There is a time and place for everything. And As much as people are entitled to talk about whatever, it is nice to spare a thought for those having fun around you and do the soap talk somewhere appropriate like the corridor or at the bar in a club and not in the very room that people are having sex.

I also agree with this point, but the OP has stated again and again that he thinks that social rooms at clubs are no place for chitchat either, and people should use those rooms for 'getting horny', whatever that means.

Yes, I have read all the OPs responses on here. Yes, my eyes are bleeding. But its all there - he's not just talking about private parties. He states that people shouldn't banter at clubs either. "

You saved me typing a response

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over a year ago


"Actually agree with this. There is a time and place for everything. And As much as people are entitled to talk about whatever, it is nice to spare a thought for those having fun around you and do the soap talk somewhere appropriate like the corridor or at the bar in a club and not in the very room that people are having sex.

I also agree with this point, but the OP has stated again and again that he thinks that social rooms at clubs are no place for chitchat either, and people should use those rooms for 'getting horny', whatever that means.

Yes, I have read all the OPs responses on here. Yes, my eyes are bleeding. But its all there - he's not just talking about private parties. He states that people shouldn't banter at clubs either. "

I think I've expanded and written loads enough for people to understand what i'm saying by now.

Once and for all..

1) I am not saying that people don't have the right to talk at clubs.

2)I am not saying that women should only open their mouths when a cock approaches.

3) I am not saying that people shouldn't discuss the goings on in East Enders.

4) I am not saying that I'm Billy no mates and no one wants to chat to me

5) I am saying there is a time and place for everything.

6) I am saying that time and place to discuss banalities isn't in a room where people are getting horny or trying to get horny.

7) I am saying move yourself to a place where people are not trying to get horny if you're just going to sit in a room all night talking rubbish and putting people off

Lastly, and more controversially this post raises the prospect of negative stereotyping when it comes to a single guy posting on here. Subconsciously or otherwise, there is a hierarchy in swinging it seems, with the single guy at the bottom of the food chain, and all there is a danger in people jumping to assumptions that the single guy in this case me, is waling around aimlessly hoping to get a shag, and being frustrated cos people are having a chat, so i leave desperate and hungry, lol and have a rant about it on a chatroom. WRONG!

It was a light hearted post summing up the surreality of being in a room with horny people, getting laid and the vibe being killed by people sat around talking nonsense very loudly seemingly unaware of their surroundings.

Hope that puts this to bed and there aren't any more negative or nasty comments . Its the season of goodwill after all. x

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

... still trying to figure out how I'd slip "Elvis" into a conversation about Coronation Street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory? "

What's wrong with Proust and String Theory?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

What's wrong with Proust and String Theory?

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Trying to find other people to talk about it with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... still trying to figure out how I'd slip "Elvis" into a conversation about Coronation Street."

think he must have worked at the chippy

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

well i think this is the 1st time i have ever been called a daily mail reader.... should i be flattered or insulted??? ooooh... i'll take that as an insult!!!

I knew the single guys being bottom of the pile/being the victim point was coming....

and about turn 180......... oh woe is you!!!

please... you do true victims a disservice!

you wrote something that people objected to, you tried to do an about turn, and people didn't let you get away with it... so so much for saving face

if people want to play.. they have play areas for that....

if people want to chat... they have social areas for that.... if you don't want to hear that, or socialise.. don't go into them..... however if people don't want to play with you because you thought there chat was "Banal" (your word... no one elses!) then that is on you......

the lovely thing now is that people want to see a more realistic side to you, all they now need to do is hit that lovely green arrow...... your words and your actions don't tally......

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


"... still trying to figure out how I'd slip "Elvis" into a conversation about Coronation Street.

think he must have worked at the chippy

"

.... remember when Ena first did karaoke in the Rovers?, think she did " I'm all shook up "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are we on the same planet here?

I'm not calling you a daily mail reader it was someone else.

Re read the post, where I call him a daily mail reader. You have a different name, profile picture and everything else, so I fail to see how you could have gotten confused.

As to any other confusion you may have, i suggest you spend some time reading all these words again, and not trying to sight read cos it clearly isn't a gift you possess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if thay was having a lovely time so what xx Its not all about shagging its about getting on with people and mixing and having fun .

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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Im the mail reader for judging him on the words what he wrote, apparently we should judge him on his well hidden depth and charm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"... still trying to figure out how I'd slip "Elvis" into a conversation about Coronation Street."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone watch the game last nite.... i said that while i was getting a bj...dunno why she stopped tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we go to a party or a club, I'm pretty good at blocking out stuff I don't want to hear or see.

If someones got my attention, they've got it

And if I'm nuts deep in my playmate you can be assured that I wont get distracted by other peoples smalltalk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"anyone watch the game last nite.... i said that while i was getting a bj...dunno why she stopped tho"

Lol hope that was because it was half time, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im the mail reader for judging him on the words what he wrote, apparently we should judge him on his well hidden depth and charm"

I think the op has tried to explain his point quite well.

On the other hand..........you just troll as many threads as possible

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Actually agree with this. There is a time and place for everything. And As much as people are entitled to talk about whatever, it is nice to spare a thought for those having fun around you and do the soap talk somewhere appropriate like the corridor or at the bar in a club and not in the very room that people are having sex.

I also agree with this point, but the OP has stated again and again that he thinks that social rooms at clubs are no place for chitchat either, and people should use those rooms for 'getting horny', whatever that means.

Yes, I have read all the OPs responses on here. Yes, my eyes are bleeding. But its all there - he's not just talking about private parties. He states that people shouldn't banter at clubs either.

You saved me typing a response "

Saved me too, the op only brought up parties when he saw his original post about clubs had gone down like a lead balloon...social areas at clubs are to socialize,not titillate the OP

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

What's wrong with Proust and String Theory?

Trying to find other people to talk about it with! "

waves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually agree with this. There is a time and place for everything. And As much as people are entitled to talk about whatever, it is nice to spare a thought for those having fun around you and do the soap talk somewhere appropriate like the corridor or at the bar in a club and not in the very room that people are having sex.

I also agree with this point, but the OP has stated again and again that he thinks that social rooms at clubs are no place for chitchat either, and people should use those rooms for 'getting horny', whatever that means.

Yes, I have read all the OPs responses on here. Yes, my eyes are bleeding. But its all there - he's not just talking about private parties. He states that people shouldn't banter at clubs either.

You saved me typing a response

Saved me too, the op only brought up parties when he saw his original post about clubs had gone down like a lead balloon...social areas at clubs are to socialize,not titillate the OP "

I think I'm about to give on on this site. Why is everyone so flippin negative? Parties clubs its all the same thing to me.. sorry if I'm not more pedantic. Why can't you guys not take yourself and this scene less seriously and just see the comedy aspect of what I'm saying? I thought this whole scene was supposed to be about hedonism and having fun, not getting your teeth extracted, lol Lighten up people.. for fucks sakes, lol x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

What's wrong with Proust and String Theory?

Trying to find other people to talk about it with!

waves "

I'll get to Club F in 2012, I promise. Must keep an eye out for the disapproving guys who don't like us chatting though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im the mail reader for judging him on the words what he wrote, apparently we should judge him on his well hidden depth and charm

I thin kits a sad state of affairs when someone can't have the courage to start a thread on here without others feeling that this gives them the right to try to shoot them down for daring to take the podium.

Its tantamount to cyber bullying and the people doing it are sad little fucks with a poor self esteem who derive pleasure in doing so. THis negativity is sadly catching.

I'll say this again for the stupid and those who can't read well or poorly sighted.. IT WAS MEANT TO BE A LIGHT HEARTED LOOK AT WHAT HAPPENS SOMETIMES AT CLUBS OR MAYBE PARTIES PEOPLE TALKING LOUDLY ABOUT STUFF THAT CAN KILL THE VIBE! IT WAS NOT A RANT LOL ALL THOSE WHO TAKE THIS AND THEMSELVES SO SERIOUSLY LIGHTEN UP! LOL

Own your words...stop whinning because you didnt get the agreement u wanted...basically. MUFF "

LOL for the record I played quite a few times so don't jump to conclusions.. and the person doing all the inappropriate talking I wouldn't touch with yours lol so no loss there lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, what would you like to talk about at clubs or parties???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, what would you like to talk about at clubs or parties???"

me? I talk about anything - just don't walk into a room where people are shagging , sit on a chair and talk about things very loudly that could put them off, lol. x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"So, what would you like to talk about at clubs or parties???

me? I talk about anything - just don't walk into a room where people are shagging , sit on a chair and talk about things very loudly that could put them off, lol. x"

And if your original post had been about that you would have got universal agreement...but it wasnt..

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over a year ago


"So, what would you like to talk about at clubs or parties???

me? I talk about anything - just don't walk into a room where people are shagging , sit on a chair and talk about things very loudly that could put them off, lol. x

And if your original post had been about that you would have got universal agreement...but it wasnt.. "

Point taken . Well this has been a bit of a cage rattler hasn't it? Lol. xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Im the mail reader for judging him on the words what he wrote, apparently we should judge him on his well hidden depth and charm

I thin kits a sad state of affairs when someone can't have the courage to start a thread on here without others feeling that this gives them the right to try to shoot them down for daring to take the podium.

Its tantamount to cyber bullying and the people doing it are sad little fucks with a poor self esteem who derive pleasure in doing so. THis negativity is sadly catching.

I'll say this again for the stupid and those who can't read well or poorly sighted.. IT WAS MEANT TO BE A LIGHT HEARTED LOOK AT WHAT HAPPENS SOMETIMES AT CLUBS OR MAYBE PARTIES PEOPLE TALKING LOUDLY ABOUT STUFF THAT CAN KILL THE VIBE! IT WAS NOT A RANT LOL ALL THOSE WHO TAKE THIS AND THEMSELVES SO SERIOUSLY LIGHTEN UP! LOL

Own your words...stop whinning because you didnt get the agreement u wanted...basically. MUFF

LOL for the record I played quite a few times so don't jump to conclusions.. and the person doing all the inappropriate talking I wouldn't touch with yours lol so no loss there lol x"

Who said you didnt play

Nice touch of misogyny though...and last time i looked it i ddnt have one to touch anyone with

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

What's wrong with Proust and String Theory?

Trying to find other people to talk about it with!

waves

I'll get to Club F in 2012, I promise. Must keep an eye out for the disapproving guys who don't like us chatting though!"

Shall i bring the butter

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

What's wrong with Proust and String Theory?

Trying to find other people to talk about it with!

waves

I'll get to Club F in 2012, I promise. Must keep an eye out for the disapproving guys who don't like us chatting though!

Shall i bring the butter "

Make sure it's Lidl!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im the mail reader for judging him on the words what he wrote, apparently we should judge him on his well hidden depth and charm

I thin kits a sad state of affairs when someone can't have the courage to start a thread on here without others feeling that this gives them the right to try to shoot them down for daring to take the podium.

Its tantamount to cyber bullying and the people doing it are sad little fucks with a poor self esteem who derive pleasure in doing so. THis negativity is sadly catching.

I'll say this again for the stupid and those who can't read well or poorly sighted.. IT WAS MEANT TO BE A LIGHT HEARTED LOOK AT WHAT HAPPENS SOMETIMES AT CLUBS OR MAYBE PARTIES PEOPLE TALKING LOUDLY ABOUT STUFF THAT CAN KILL THE VIBE! IT WAS NOT A RANT LOL ALL THOSE WHO TAKE THIS AND THEMSELVES SO SERIOUSLY LIGHTEN UP! LOL

Own your words...stop whinning because you didnt get the agreement u wanted...basically. MUFF

LOL for the record I played quite a few times so don't jump to conclusions.. and the person doing all the inappropriate talking I wouldn't touch with yours lol so no loss there lol x

Who said you didnt play

Nice touch of misogyny though...and last time i looked it i ddnt have one to touch anyone with "

There's nothing at all misogynistic about deciding that someone isn't attractive or there's no chemistry - or explaining that in the way I did, lol. I know we live in a Pc world, but lets not get too sensitive. In the same way that I wouldn't be a racist if I didn't fancy a lady who just happened to be chinese. x

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over a year ago


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

What's wrong with Proust and String Theory?

Trying to find other people to talk about it with!

waves

I'll get to Club F in 2012, I promise. Must keep an eye out for the disapproving guys who don't like us chatting though!

Shall i bring the butter

Make sure it's Lidl!"

The salted variety naturally lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are we supposed to talk about then? Proust? String Theory?

What's wrong with Proust and String Theory?

Trying to find other people to talk about it with!

waves

I'll get to Club F in 2012, I promise. Must keep an eye out for the disapproving guys who don't like us chatting though!

Shall i bring the butter

Make sure it's Lidl!"

The salted variety naturally lol x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

This has been an 'intresting' read! when we go to clubs we chat to loads of people about a wide variety of topics - banal or otherwise! It's a social thing that we're doing. I hate it when people chat in an orgy room when others are playing - that's inappropriate - but in social areas that's what you should do! I don't think it's conducive however to slag off people for their topic of conversation - move along if it's too banal for you! Z

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over a year ago


"This has been an 'intresting' read! when we go to clubs we chat to loads of people about a wide variety of topics - banal or otherwise! It's a social thing that we're doing. I hate it when people chat in an orgy room when others are playing - that's inappropriate - but in social areas that's what you should do! I don't think it's conducive however to slag off people for their topic of conversation - move along if it's too banal for you! Z"

Agreed, but what if the banal move into a room that is already playing, and watch whats going on but continue to chat banalities? lol x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"This has been an 'intresting' read! when we go to clubs we chat to loads of people about a wide variety of topics - banal or otherwise! It's a social thing that we're doing. I hate it when people chat in an orgy room when others are playing - that's inappropriate - but in social areas that's what you should do! I don't think it's conducive however to slag off people for their topic of conversation - move along if it's too banal for you! Z

Agreed, but what if the banal move into a room that is already playing, and watch whats going on but continue to chat banalities? lol x"

If you're in the same room, ask them politely to stop chatting - I've done it myself - you'd be surprised that being polite actually does work - in most cases! Z

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"No I think some of you fail to get the point of what I'm saying.

Of course no one is a sex machine robot who walks in and immediately starts performing like some over XXX rated circus act.

My point isn't that people shouldn't socialise and have a laugh before the action starts or doesn't . The point is that some people go to clubs just to sit talking nonsense. Sometimes quite loudly while people are having a naughty time. Which is a bit of a passion killer!

Imagine getting into the mood and getting down and horny while you're hearing people who only go there to chat, talking about a load of rubbish which seems totally out of context with the surroundings and the attire they happen to be wearing. Not only is it very surreal- its enough to want to make you get some clothes on and head out of there as soon as you can. lol.

Ok...must agree on this point. We have been to parties and drawn a large crowd or just had people directly outside the open doorway talking about all sorts and it can be annoying and a bit of a mood killer. However in opening post it didn't make it clear he was referring to play areas. "

+1

We have had this too and it can be quite off putting while in the middle of playing.

Also agree about the opening post not making it clear.

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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"Im the mail reader for judging him on the words what he wrote, apparently we should judge him on his well hidden depth and charm

I thin kits a sad state of affairs when someone can't have the courage to start a thread on here without others feeling that this gives them the right to try to shoot them down for daring to take the podium.

Its tantamount to cyber bullying and the people doing it are sad little fucks with a poor self esteem who derive pleasure in doing so. THis negativity is sadly catching.

I'll say this again for the stupid and those who can't read well or poorly sighted.. IT WAS MEANT TO BE A LIGHT HEARTED LOOK AT WHAT HAPPENS SOMETIMES AT CLUBS OR MAYBE PARTIES PEOPLE TALKING LOUDLY ABOUT STUFF THAT CAN KILL THE VIBE! IT WAS NOT A RANT LOL ALL THOSE WHO TAKE THIS AND THEMSELVES SO SERIOUSLY LIGHTEN UP! LOL

Own your words...stop whinning because you didnt get the agreement u wanted...basically. MUFF

LOL for the record I played quite a few times so don't jump to conclusions.. and the person doing all the inappropriate talking I wouldn't touch with yours lol so no loss there lol x

Who said you didnt play

Nice touch of misogyny though...and last time i looked it i ddnt have one to touch anyone with

There's nothing at all misogynistic about deciding that someone isn't attractive or there's no chemistry - or explaining that in the way I did, lol. I know we live in a Pc world, but lets not get too sensitive. In the same way that I wouldn't be a racist if I didn't fancy a lady who just happened to be chinese. x "
its the childishness of the post, which shouldnt surprise by now, "i didnt like her anyway", if you heard it in the school yard you would raise an eyebrow and think, little boys will be little boys. At this point its a mare you are having, sometimes its best to keep your mouth shut and have the world think you a fool, then open it and remove all doubt.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

PS £1.10 is the cost of butter in Asda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopped watching ALL the crap soaps when I broke with ex.

So I say good riddence to bad rubbish...

And I don't have to watch those soul destroying excuses for tv programmes anymore either...BONUS lol!

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over a year ago

Stopped watching ALL the crap soaps when I broke with ex.

So I say good riddence to bad rubbish...

And I don't have to watch those soul destroying excuses for tv programmes anymore either...BONUS lol!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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me? I talk about anything - just don't walk into a room where people are shagging , sit on a chair and talk about things very loudly that could put them off, lol. x"

i owe you an apology.... I don't mindread...

how did i not get that from

"I find it hilarious the amount of couples/ ladies who go through the effort of getting their hair done, wearing the sexiest, skimpiest outfits they possess, go to a swinging club or party, only to then sit around all night discussing some banal episode of Coronation street, or what they're currently hoping to buy on ebay, and the cost of salted butter in LIDL as opposed to Sainsbury's.

I witnessed this last a few weeks ago on a non pleasurable night at a club in Kent. Lady dressed in stockings, suspenders, mini skirt, high heels. It was as if by putting on the clothes and going to a club was enough.

Mind you, Hubby looked very fascinated and genuinely surprised by the price of butter., so clearly a marriage made in heaven."

my god... its staring me in the face and I never saw it...

thank you for putting me right!!!!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

obviously my post about was taken in about the same context as your first post... but it gets the point across...

as Jem says.... at least have the decency to own your words.....

rather than:

run away,

play the victim,

play the single man card

now threaten to leave the site....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stopped watching ALL the crap soaps when I broke with ex.

So I say good riddence to bad rubbish...

And I don't have to watch those soul destroying excuses for tv programmes anymore either...BONUS lol! "

I can still remember the days when I used to be forced to watch them - before the days of video recorders lol

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over a year ago


"PS £1.10 is the cost of butter in Asda "

Bloddy hell-- every little helps, lol. Or is it ' It as to be asda? lol. I'm off to Iceland, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the op think she should not be chating but shagging him as she was dressed for sex , lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Did the op think she should not be chating but shagging him as she was dressed for sex , lol "

Yep - I think you encapsulated that very well! You see loads of people - couples as well as singles just not mingling at parties or in clubs, can't for the life of me understand that! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you here, I wouldn't want to go out all dressed to the nines and chat about some incredibly dull tv programmes, that's not that I want to discuss sex but there are a whole lot more interesting things to talk about than ultra boring soaps and the cost of butter. But then I'm not a fan of soaps so would be totally pointless discussing them with me around

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over a year ago


"I'm with you here, I wouldn't want to go out all dressed to the nines and chat about some incredibly dull tv programmes, that's not that I want to discuss sex but there are a whole lot more interesting things to talk about than ultra boring soaps and the cost of butter. But then I'm not a fan of soaps so would be totally pointless discussing them with me around "

Thank you K. At last some sanity. Seasons Greetings xx

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over a year ago


"I'm with you here, I wouldn't want to go out all dressed to the nines and chat about some incredibly dull tv programmes, that's not that I want to discuss sex but there are a whole lot more interesting things to talk about than ultra boring soaps and the cost of butter. But then I'm not a fan of soaps so would be totally pointless discussing them with me around "
well if people was chating to you about things you did like ..... i am sure you would be ok ... I have been going to clubs like chams years and we chat about everything at times .. no telling , lol

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over a year ago


"I'm with you here, I wouldn't want to go out all dressed to the nines and chat about some incredibly dull tv programmes, that's not that I want to discuss sex but there are a whole lot more interesting things to talk about than ultra boring soaps and the cost of butter. But then I'm not a fan of soaps so would be totally pointless discussing them with me around well if people was chating to you about things you did like ..... i am sure you would be ok ... I have been going to clubs like chams years and we chat about everything at times .. no telling , lol "

I promise not to tell a soul

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over a year ago


"I'm with you here, I wouldn't want to go out all dressed to the nines and chat about some incredibly dull tv programmes, that's not that I want to discuss sex but there are a whole lot more interesting things to talk about than ultra boring soaps and the cost of butter. But then I'm not a fan of soaps so would be totally pointless discussing them with me around

Thank you K. At last some sanity. Seasons Greetings xx"

Same to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a meet a few years ago I did the polite thing and nodded along as the hubby of a couple started to talk about his hobbies.

Two hours later and I knew the market value of a 1983 Ford Escort better than Parkers and could probably re-assemble one blindfolded.

Turned out to be a good night in the end but I was tempted to 'break for the border'.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Wow.

Abuse isn't allowed on the forums no matter how clever you think it is hidden. Abuse isn't allowed in defence either.

If anyone is abusing you REPORT the post and that person will be banned, retaliate and you will end up banned too.

I Think this has run it's course now.

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