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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are you renting?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there, never used a forum before but thought i would give it a go.

I’m really find it difficult to find a single woman to play with me and my partner or even a single woman who are bi or bi curious for me to play with ?

Can anyone help or give advice please ...

sam - (female) x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dam iPhones lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there, never used a forum before but thought i would give it a go.

I’m really find it difficult to find a single woman to play with me and my partner or even a single woman who are bi or bi curious for me to play with ?

Can anyone help or give advice please ...

sam - (female) x"

Can’t put it from a single fems prospective but we find it difficult to find couples on here as our female half wants to see pictures of both the male and female of the couple. Most profiles only have pics of the female - sometimes pages full of them and not one single picture of the male. If she can’t see them we have no idea if she’ll like them and so we move on to the next profile. Single fems are spoilt for choice, If they can’t see what they want straight away then perhaps it’s easier to look at the next profile then message and wait for a reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You and all the rest of us too.

We have been swinging for 12 years and they are notoriously hard to find. Unfortunately there is a reason they call them unicorns

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have spent hours and hours searching fab winking and messaging females with either little or no joy.

I even make it clear that this is the Female not the Male that’s messaging.

Some reply, brief chat and then nothing ... or make planing and get let down.

It’s sole wrenching to put all the effort in and get nothing back. They say one thing on their profile and in messages but then do the opposite x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above if I was meeting a couple I'd want to see them both beforehand.

Also I'd want to feel like I was something special, like they would both enjoy me and treat me with respect, not that I have to jump through hoops and meet their rules just to send a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I only found out what unicorns were a few weeks ago lol

And now I can see why they’re called that - for obvious reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I fully agree with you there.

On our profile we have pictures of each other and pictures together are I either send them before they ask or if they request I sent them

Our veris refer to both of us as well.

Even when I want to play with another girl alone without my partner, the same issue happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to put on the messages. ..happy to chat on the phone so I can prove I'm not just a single guy..as its not often you get messages from a wife offering out her hubby!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My partner hates fab with a passion for all the time wasters, game players and all talking people.

He’s never on here and it left me to put all the hard work in, But I do find I’m always talking to the males and conveniently the female is away busy, asleep etc

I always make myself very clear that this is the female messaging and talking from the outset x

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"My partner hates fab with a passion for all the time wasters, game players and all talking people.

He’s never on here and it left me to put all the hard work in, But I do find I’m always talking to the males and conveniently the female is away busy, asleep etc

I always make myself very clear that this is the female messaging and talking from the outset x"
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I agree with a lot of your points. We have a couples profile as well as my single profile and it’s very rare I ever chat with a female. Come on ladies! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think its best left to the women anyway the man haven’t got a clue and are rude plus blunt - sorry gents x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there, never used a forum before but thought i would give it a go.

I’m really find it difficult to find a single woman to play with me and my partner or even a single woman who are bi or bi curious for me to play with ?

Can anyone help or give advice please ...

sam - (female) x"

Hey x

Personally, when I was a single girl on here years a go- I would only meet with couples I had met at parties etc.

This was for a few reasons which included looking after my own safety and being able to see them without a screen/ phone. I personally preferred to be having sex with funny, kind and friendly couples rather than those that can just talk on a screen (even if your profile is damn fine).

So my advice is- go out and subtly find them. Chat and make friends with these hotties you want. Encourage finding out a bit about them rather than what you want ( they have so many people after the same). What can you add to their life? As trust me- if that’s what you’re after- they will no doubt add to yours

Good luck

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its best left to the women anyway the man haven’t got a clue and are rude plus blunt - sorry gents x "

Fair point.

Have you tried clubs?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I think its best left to the women anyway the man haven’t got a clue and are rude plus blunt - sorry gents x

Fair point.

Have you tried clubs? "

Yes they have according to veris.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Since you haven't asked for profile advice we can't give it. But I would start there.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Hi there, never used a forum before but thought i would give it a go.

I’m really find it difficult to find a single woman to play with me and my partner or even a single woman who are bi or bi curious for me to play with ?

Can anyone help or give advice please ...

sam - (female) x"

Oh they will play with you all right -just keep jabbering away on the forums -just think kitten and string.

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