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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

has anyone had a meet set up in the same town you live in only to be stood up because you may see them again and they get worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we were worried we were going to bump into someone after it's unlikely we would meet them in the first place.

It wouldn't bother us but we have had people have second thoughts in the past

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the main thing is i state that as soon as the meet is over i dont or wont spk to them unless on here

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

we've met several people from our town - not a problem for us or we hope them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has anyone had a meet set up in the same town you live in only to be stood up because you may see them again and they get worried "

no because if someone lives very close to me i wont arrange to meet them

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"has anyone had a meet set up in the same town you live in only to be stood up because you may see them again and they get worried "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

must just be here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the main thing is i state that as soon as the meet is over i dont or wont spk to them unless on here "

no offence but they dont know you all because you say you wont speak to them dont mean you wont, people will say anything to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the main thing is i state that as soon as the meet is over i dont or wont spk to them unless on here "

You see, if someone lived close to us it wouldn't overly bother us,on the other hand if they said " as soon as the meet is over i dont or wont spk to you unless on fabs" then we wouldn't meet them,

Actually that would apply if they lived miles away too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but its made clear from the start and not eferyone i know knows im on here so thats why i state it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you just have to accept some people just dont want to meet local people and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has anyone had a meet set up in the same town you live in only to be stood up because you may see them again and they get worried "

yh xmas eve and he cheek to block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a meet with a girl who lives very close to me. Was very convenient at the time but now really wish I hadn't. Wasn't the greatest meet with very little attraction. I knew from the start I should have made my excuses and left but I'm too nice a guy lol.Now I keep bumping into her everywhere!!!! Had to stand just behind her in the chippy a few weeks back and felt so uncomfortable. I prefer to keep my 'fab world' seperate from my real world. Wont be meeting any very locals anymore lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a meet with a girl who lives very close to me. Was very convenient at the time but now really wish I hadn't. Wasn't the greatest meet with very little attraction. I knew from the start I should have made my excuses and left but I'm too nice a guy lol.Now I keep bumping into her everywhere!!!! Had to stand just behind her in the chippy a few weeks back and felt so uncomfortable. I prefer to keep my 'fab world' seperate from my real world. Wont be meeting any very locals anymore lol."

That sounds really awkward. It can be quite stressful bumping into someone and having to explain , if you're with a new girlfriend or family who that person was. Sometimes I think its best to meet people from further afield, even though nearer ones are handy for last minute get togethers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a meet with a girl who lives very close to me. Was very convenient at the time but now really wish I hadn't. Wasn't the greatest meet with very little attraction. I knew from the start I should have made my excuses and left but I'm too nice a guy lol.Now I keep bumping into her everywhere!!!! Had to stand just behind her in the chippy a few weeks back and felt so uncomfortable. I prefer to keep my 'fab world' seperate from my real world. Wont be meeting any very locals anymore lol.

That sounds really awkward. It can be quite stressful bumping into someone and having to explain , if you're with a new girlfriend or family who that person was. Sometimes I think its best to meet people from further afield, even though nearer ones are handy for last minute get togethers. "

Yeah it was uncomfortable. Was such a crappy meet and it was obvious neither of us was enjoying it lol. Only myself to blame though as I knew it was likely our paths would cross at some point. Luckily I have always been on my own when I have seen her so I havn't had to explain how I know her. I'm sure she's equally as embarassed by me lol!!!!

We live and learn by our mistakes!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started meeting on here, I wouldn't meet anyone too local to me, just in case we knew each other. But one day I met someone from 20 miles away, when I opened the door we knew each other (played football in the same team)! He said he'd left his phone in the car (eh?), and I just shut the door. Knew he wasn't coming back! lol. Now I meet people from anywhere. It's a MAD (mutually assured discretion) scenario with M-M meets, you wouldn't acknowledge anyone in public, so it doesn't matter if they live local or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a small town but know very few people so meeting local people doesn't really bother me...we've even gone REALLY local and met people in our village...however, I would never meet anyone from close to where I work...it would be too difficult to encounter them in a professional capacity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats part of the fun surely, makes it more risque, knowing people you might know or bump into know what your up too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats part of the fun surely, makes it more risque, knowing people you might know or bump into know what your up too?"

not for me, i have kids and while im out shopping with them i dont want guys ive met off here coming over and talking to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a few local guys, works out better for me.

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"I have met a few local guys, works out better for me."
yes me 2, i always meet for a social nearby, but never give out my address

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i work with someone, who, with his wife wanted to start playing. we had a couple social meet at our houses. we took them to chams......the understanding right from the start was that we would never play......that way we can stay friends and not have any awkwardness.

Tess and Mike xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer not to meet anyone local myself.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

we never meet people living near us to risky in our oppinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That criteria...it does sound a little harsh, but i kinda understand the need 4 that sort of discretion

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