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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

SO generally how much communication do we have before we meet people. i'm away at the moment so been chatting to folks a lot ready for when im home. but how soon do we meet in normal circumstances?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years! I've tried many different messeges etc, changed profile few times too, still no bites!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends on how the chat goes that you have had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SO generally how much communication do we have before we meet people. i'm away at the moment so been chatting to folks a lot ready for when im home. but how soon do we meet in normal circumstances?"

often we put up a meet of.. Who can be at ours in the next 30 mins..

cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SO generally how much communication do we have before we meet people. i'm away at the moment so been chatting to folks a lot ready for when im home. but how soon do we meet in normal circumstances?"

your already doing better than some on meets and by the looks of your pics profile i would imagine you'll do very well indeed

I don't think there is a standard length of time

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

There are no rules,cos everyone i looking for what fits their needs and circumstances...

If we are looking to meet someone new, we message back,arrange date , exchange numbers...quickest ever 6 hours, usually we plan 4 or 5 days in advance.

If i am meeting alone it takes more planning,as i prefer to meet somewhere neutral first.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Anything between 1 hour and 1 year, depending on the guy.

usually I do like to swap about two or three messages before meeting though. Too long and I begin to lose interest.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Nothing is set in stone, I take each situation as it comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on how quickly i click with them via here and text....normally about a week, sometimes longer.

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

replies from now and sometimes a couple of months particularly wit a couple who may only meet infrequently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends really, on how busy i am, on how long it takes for me to decide to meet them, on if ive been let down and want a last min meet lol

i have no set time zone before i meet someone

I have spoken to some for months before i have met, i have hardly spoken at all to others

I had a hotel book once and the guy text me a hour before the meet saying he wasnt coming now, so i went in chat room, asked if any local guys wanted to meet in a hotel, ask a guy who replied to put his cam on, he looked nice so invited him over, he was in the room within a hour of me going in the room asking

But then sometimes im so busy with work, kids, people ive already arranged to meet it can take weeks beofore i can agree to meet someone

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Anything between 1 hour and 1 year, depending on the guy.

usually I do like to swap about two or three messages before meeting though. Too long and I begin to lose interest."

Or how long the queue is.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Anything between 1 hour and 1 year, depending on the guy.

usually I do like to swap about two or three messages before meeting though. Too long and I begin to lose interest.

Or how long the queue is. "

Ooooh cheeky! You can go right to the back of it now!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Depends on how long it takes for me to feel comfortable with the people I am meeting... Has been known to take minutes, has been known to take months....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the people and time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just take my time...but I dont sit and wait for ppl Ive approached a long time ago..I enjoy being busy with my sex so am afraid anyone that thinks they will get 100% attention from me online when im getting offered a shag will be disappointed .I dont wait around for answers about meeting up at weekend and them being unsure("we'll get back to u")(expecting me to wait days n days???!-Nahhhhhh!),I go with who gives me the meet there and then.

I have to organize myself just as much as anyone else does...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be months, and it can be just a few hours from initial contact, depending on the person and schedules etc...

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By *oournsMan
over a year ago

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No hard and fast rules. Couples, havent met any, but it would take weeks before i agree a meet for them. Singles, quickest was 24 hours, but i bide my time.

If i get someone who keeps mentioning meeting but is patchy i will after a few weeks ask concretely for a meet. If i get wishy washy answer i wont ask again and take everything they say with a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the two meets ive had off here (i dont generally meet off the site preferring socials and house parties fa meeting)

I was mailing fa 9 months before we met

I marry her in 2013 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes weeks sometiimes days or hours. Depending if I get a connection.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

As a single female, I need to know someone pretty well first, so on average it's about 4 weeks

But obviously only if there is an attraction for both, must be why I haven't met anyone new for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most new meets, generally take place within an hour or so. A few messages, to make sure we're wanting what the other is offering, then exchange mobile no's & text address. I find meets arranged for a future date rarely happen.

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