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Risk play, would you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Suppose you saw this statement on a married but playing away profile on this site:-

'I do meet a man / couple bareback only, not on pill love risk play'

Would any men here actually consider that?

I couldn't help but read that line without the Kanye West song 'Gold Digger' playing through my head

And before anyone asks, no it's wasn't MrsPS that wrote it

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

No, value my health and certainly won't risk a child not wanted into this world.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Once again I have to ask the same question . It’s all very well having a kink , but what about the child that may be born from the kink . Who speaks for the child ?

It’s just another example of how we as human beings seem to keep finding lower levels of deoravity to sink to . Then call it a kink and when anyone says anything negative about it , that person is judgemental . Yeah right , I may be judgemental in this case , but I’d rather be that than part of a kink that involves getting pregnant from random strangers on a swinging site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be an instant block of that profile

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East


"No, value my health and certainly won't risk a child not wanted into this world. "
This......and a block.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I would just avoid its just not worth it so why put yourself at greater risk than you need to.

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By *hris55555Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"I would just avoid its just not worth it so why put yourself at greater risk than you need to. "

Agreed !!

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"Once again I have to ask the same question . It’s all very well having a kink , but what about the child that may be born from the kink . Who speaks for the child ?

It’s just another example of how we as human beings seem to keep finding lower levels of deoravity to sink to . Then call it a kink and when anyone says anything negative about it , that person is judgemental . Yeah right , I may be judgemental in this case , but I’d rather be that than part of a kink that involves getting pregnant from random strangers on a swinging site ."
Agreed - on so many levels warranting serious rethinking.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Once again I have to ask the same question . It’s all very well having a kink , but what about the child that may be born from the kink . Who speaks for the child ?

It’s just another example of how we as human beings seem to keep finding lower levels of deoravity to sink to . Then call it a kink and when anyone says anything negative about it , that person is judgemental . Yeah right , I may be judgemental in this case , but I’d rather be that than part of a kink that involves getting pregnant from random strangers on a swinging site ."

Totally agree - I shudder whenever I read about this particular kink and don't give a flying fuck if that makes me judgemental because even though, so far as I'm concerned, anything goes with consenting *adults*, when this fantasy turns real, it drags completely innocent *children* into the picture as well. It's NOT judgemental to care about the welfare of others - and especially children!

Regardless of those children being loved (you'd hope), it doesn't alter the fact that they could unknowingly be carrying any number of hereditary conditions inherited from whoever their father was with potentially life changing/limiting implications. I've also read that some parents see fit to inform their kids *exactly* how and why they were conceived, the irresponsibility and selfishness of which astounds me as they can't possibly know (no-one would) how this knowledge might affect their self esteem and emotional health. Not everyone's going to cope very well with the realisation they're an end product of someone else's kink.

I *do* get that people enjoy all sorts of fantasies and role play scenarios, and therefore understand why this one exists. But it should stay within the parameters of play acting - with the emphasis firmly on acting.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Wouldn’t see my arse for dust... scary stuff if that’s real......

HG

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh it's real

We like kinky play as many do, but we would never consider anything like risk play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck. That.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Oh it's real

We like kinky play as many do, but we would never consider anything like risk play."

Holy fuck... really? Someone from fab??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Holy fuck... really? Someone from fab??"

Yes

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Been there, done that - knowingly, and at least once unknowingly - and would again...

*Ducks and runs for cover*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been there, done that - knowingly, and at least once unknowingly - and would again...

*Ducks and runs for cover*"

Lol always good to get another opinion

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By *ackardMan
over a year ago

North West & beyond

I saw a vid recently on a porn website. When I read the discription it said something along the lines of “my wife gets fucked bareback by 16 men, one of them got her pregnant”. Imagine you where that child and years down the line you come across that video online somewhere, it’s going to mess your mind up!

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

We know of a case where swingers close to us played bareback and now preggers. No joke but it must be a very stressful time thinking is the baby going to come out someone eles.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Having had a vasectomy Id take the chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having had a vasectomy Id take the chance"

So have I, but I wouldn't anyhow because safe sex for me.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

No chance of pregnancy from Mr. but the answer is still "No Chance". Anyone who risks their own health certainly wouldn't give a fuck about risking anyone elses.

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