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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If there is one thing that annoys me on here, it’s people pretending to be a couple, when it is so obvious that they are just Fuck Buddies!

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By *letchMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"If there is one thing that annoys me on here, it’s people pretending to be a couple, when it is so obvious that they are just Fuck Buddies! "

why? Isn’t it all about meeting and playing?

Would you be ok with them if they stated straight up that they are buddies?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

How do you know that they are pretending to be a couple and not actually a couple if they don't state their FBs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, a huge difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know that these people are not realy couples? Unless they actually told you themselves, and why should it bother you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love one if its fuck buds playing as a couple cant see the harm as long as everyones happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it a problem. I have played with both FB couples and 'proper couples', and it's always the proper couples that have issues such as jealousy and cheating. FB couples are often more easy going and don't have the issues.

Just talking from my experience over the years.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Those who play together can be considered a couple. Those who are a couple may not play well together.

I’m poly. I may have someone who I’m in a relationship with, another who is significant but isn’t a relationship. Then other play partners who are friends. Which one of those is a “couple” and which can be legitimately challenged by others as not being so?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because you are sharing someone you love and have feelings for, and the others are just there for the fuck! If agreed before meet, no problem, it’s your choice, but too many try to pass off as a couple but are easily seen through! I’d like a “couples” view in this. Like I say, this is just my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you are sharing someone you love and have feelings for, and the others are just there for the fuck! If agreed before meet, no problem, it’s your choice, but too many try to pass off as a couple but are easily seen through! I’d like a “couples” view in this. Like I say, this is just my opinion x"

Fuck buddies can also have feelings, and can often show more consideration than married couples who can take each other for granted for instance, or where the wife is just swinging to please the husband, or vice versa. At least with fuck buddies you know they are both there because they've chosen to be.

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By *letchMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Because you are sharing someone you love and have feelings for, and the others are just there for the fuck! If agreed before meet, no problem, it’s your choice, but too many try to pass off as a couple but are easily seen through! I’d like a “couples” view in this. Like I say, this is just my opinion x

Fuck buddies can also have feelings, and can often show more consideration than married couples who can take each other for granted for instance, or where the wife is just swinging to please the husband, or vice versa. At least with fuck buddies you know they are both there because they've chosen to be."

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

if they can play together n actually show up on meet why bother you weather they are married in relationship or fb

this shouldn't be a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this one of those we are better than you because we are married post?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If there is one thing that annoys me on here, it’s people pretending to be a couple, when it is so obvious that they are just Fuck Buddies! "

What annoys me is a ‘holier than thou’ attitude. How about being grateful for what you have rather than expending negative energy on things that don’t matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a profile with my husband on here and I will say (due to experience) we are wary about meeting fuck buddies.

We enjoy the social aspect and fuck buddies don’t always have that element to them. There is also less of an element of sharing and more the actions - so I don’t get the sense they get off seeing each other having sex because they like seeing their partner having fun. This comes from the different way those we have met have interacted vs long term partners.

Additionally we have had an incident of things not going right and it was with a fb couple.

It’s not a hard and fast no, but it’s crrtainly our preference to meet couples not fb’s

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I agree with the op...

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Op -are you easily annoyed by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they can play together n actually show up on meet why bother you weather they are married in relationship or fb

this shouldn't be a question

"

Agree

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