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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Hi all

So I think there’s many hidden pleasures for ladies that a submissive man can bring, many of which womeni believe miss when they evaluate the messages for these men.

Given that many women generally want a man to love and adore them how can not owning a submissive be possible.

This is before all of the added benefits of free house cleaning, massages and a general dogs body!

So it’s good to see what everyone thinks on this subject, why don’t more ladies take up these offerings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it doesn't meet their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it doesn't meet their preferences. "

Exactly this, have no interest in this. Although I’m sure there are plenty of women who this would appeal to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and I don’t. Always depends on the person I’m with how a play. Im very much a switch person x

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove

Sure I understand preferences however I’ve talked to so many ladies that have never tried this? Is there a general reason why ladies steer away from this or is it only opportunity based I wonder?

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Most women tend to be submissive or enjoy the control of doing everything themselves.

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"I do and I don’t. Always depends on the person I’m with how a play. Im very much a switch person x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really for me. But neither is a really dominant man. I like it just to be pretty equal.

I’ll get me coat and bore off now

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"Not really for me. But neither is a really dominant man. I like it just to be pretty equal.

I’ll get me coat and bore off now "

Not boring, everyone is different, and I’m only wondering what the general consensous is!

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Hi all

So I think there’s many hidden pleasures for ladies that a submissive man can bring, many of which womeni believe miss when they evaluate the messages for these men.

Given that many women generally want a man to love and adore them how can not owning a submissive be possible.

This is before all of the added benefits of free house cleaning, massages and a general dogs body!

So it’s good to see what everyone thinks on this subject, why don’t more ladies take up these offerings? "
you do know a submissive tends to control the proceedings and not the domme

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By *ub Male Exhibitionist OP   Man
over a year ago

bromsgrove


"Hi all

So I think there’s many hidden pleasures for ladies that a submissive man can bring, many of which womeni believe miss when they evaluate the messages for these men.

Given that many women generally want a man to love and adore them how can not owning a submissive be possible.

This is before all of the added benefits of free house cleaning, massages and a general dogs body!

So it’s good to see what everyone thinks on this subject, why don’t more ladies take up these offerings? you do know a submissive tends to control the proceedings and not the domme "

Sorry you’re quite correct!

I apologise as I normally correct people on this as well!

I meant slave!

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Not really for me. But neither is a really dominant man. I like it just to be pretty equal.

I’ll get me coat and bore off now "

I wouldn't say bore off. My fb is very sub but so am I. We talk to each other so we realised this. Now when we meet we take turns to be the sub. I usually dom her for 3 or 4 sessions before she does 1 for me. Women are mostly sub. Men forget this cos they o d on femdom porn & forget that's being directed by a man so the femdom is in fact still submitting herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really for me. But neither is a really dominant man. I like it just to be pretty equal.

I’ll get me coat and bore off now

I wouldn't say bore off. My fb is very sub but so am I. We talk to each other so we realised this. Now when we meet we take turns to be the sub. I usually dom her for 3 or 4 sessions before she does 1 for me. Women are mostly sub. Men forget this cos they o d on femdom porn & forget that's being directed by a man so the femdom is in fact still submitting herself."

Most probably you’re right from what I’ve seen on here. If I had to choose I definitely wouldn’t be leaning toward the submissive side at all. That’s definitely not me.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Hello, female Domme here. - 2 pics on profile. I love sounding and cbt.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Hi all

So I think there’s many hidden pleasures for ladies that a submissive man can bring, many of which womeni believe miss when they evaluate the messages for these men.

Given that many women generally want a man to love and adore them how can not owning a submissive be possible.

This is before all of the added benefits of free house cleaning, massages and a general dogs body!

So it’s good to see what everyone thinks on this subject, why don’t more ladies take up these offerings?

you do know a submissive tends to control the proceedings and not the domme "

Not always. My partner is open to just about anything and so i can suggest anything i want and he will try it. He's not running things sexually here. I won't do anything he won't consent to but like i said he has been up for anything i've suggested so far so that hasn't even happened yet.

I only ever go with compatible guys, hey want what i want but they aren't running anything. I used to think this myself btw until i realised a lot of 'submissives' are actually just expecting women to fulfil their needs for them. In fact i stopped looking for submissive sand changed that to lady pleasers because they actually do submit to women.

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By *DKinkyJenTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I’m a Bi Switch Crossdresser and have enjoyed both being sub and dom whilst dressed (but for whatever reason I prefer being dom with males and sub with females, however with the right person i’ll do whatever the other person prefers).

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera


"Most women tend to be submissive..."

As with us girls too.

Personally I love it but that's just my preference.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

I love sub Dom games and play, but am a true switch. I can really get into being sub. But oh the fun of being in control and Dom! All just great fun and so horny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and I don’t. Always depends on the person I’m with how a play. Im very much a switch person x"

I'm the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, female Domme here. - 2 pics on profile. I love sounding and cbt. "

I'd love to visit to discover more about my as yet unreleased sub side. I know it is my natural demeanor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, female Domme here. - 2 pics on profile. I love sounding and cbt. "

I would love to find someone who enjoyed CBT - never really have had it done properly.

I don't consider myself sub as such, but I do love it when a lady takes charge

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Hello, female Domme here. - 2 pics on profile. I love sounding and cbt. "

Oh wow a woman who knows how to sound. I'm starting that journey so could use more practice.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

I contemplated getting one to do the cleaning and household things but they all want to sexualise things when I am more bothered about a clean cooker and bath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be niice to have a sub to do all the mundane tasks around the house

Any offers ?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I consider myself submissive within the realms of BDSM play but would never for a minute expect to offer "free house cleaning, massages and a general dogs body" as part of that - in fact if anyone suggested that I was a general dogsbody in that respect I'd tell them where to get off!!

BDSM goes so much deeper than that and is more about a state of mind than anything - Dom/mes and subs are actually two sides of the same coin, and equals as far as I'm concerned - neither of them ultimately holding more power and control than the other - and any one that doesn't see it that way wouldn't be the right Dom/me for me.

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"I contemplated getting one to do the cleaning and household things but they all want to sexualise things when I am more bothered about a clean cooker and bath. "

Have you tried a servant based website. None sexual and service orientated. Obviously I can't the website up here. My old domme found a few sevants on there. Still some time wasters but a lot less than the general fetish sites.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I love the pleasure from a good submissive masculine guy but fewer on here are open to their needs to serve and service us, than really exist.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

One, it's not my thing. The idea doesn't make sense to me as a thing I could engage in.

Two, I'd say guys claiming to be subs/ slaves here often send me awful messages (some of the more memorable awful ones, and I'd guess a higher ratio than from other groups).

I hope these guys find a person or people who they can enjoy (niche fetish) with. But (niche fetish), when described in detail, makes me dry heave. I don't want to know and it's incredibly unpleasant. It's never "I'm into X as a sub, I like women to do it to me for (aim)", it's almost always graphic. Maybe talking about it in the abstract would get a more favourable response from those so inclined?

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Not really for me. But neither is a really dominant man. I like it just to be pretty equal.

I’ll get me coat and bore off now "

I like it to be equal as well

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By *riendlychap1212Man
over a year ago

Laxey


"Hi all

So I think there’s many hidden pleasures for ladies that a submissive man can bring, many of which womeni believe miss when they evaluate the messages for these men.

Given that many women generally want a man to love and adore them how can not owning a submissive be possible.

This is before all of the added benefits of free house cleaning, massages and a general dogs body!

So it’s good to see what everyone thinks on this subject, why don’t more ladies take up these offerings? you do know a submissive tends to control the proceedings and not the domme "

Absolutely true , topping from the bottom I think it is known as !!

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