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By *hil_SW19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Raynes Park

Hello they.

Is it me or has 2011 seen a dramatic rise in fake profiles?

I get chatting to someone and as soon as you mention webcam validation or charting on the phone, they disappear.

Also more msn'ers expect single guys to send lots of photos. Why not go onto xhamster or another site for porn.

Its enough to make you give up swinging. No wonder all the single guys left are idiots, us decent ones get fed up and leave.

Phil

Exp bull / mmf player

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I've noticed to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder all the single guys left are idiots, us decent ones get fed up and leave."

Really? I know loads of decent guys that have been on the site for a long time... and are successful in getting fun.

There are 'some' idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm finding a few 'couples' on here who are obviously single guys trying to get some sort of kick . One 'couple' , not mentioning any names, have registered on fab three times in the last three months, asking to meet guys. I've sent a few messages to this couple and have now been blocked! I'm verefied and have met people of here. Move on to a different site if you want to get your kicks you twats happy new year everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive come across 1 or 2. they were absolute knock outs so shouldve known

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder all the single guys left are idiots, us decent ones get fed up and leave.

Really? I know loads of decent guys that have been on the site for a long time... and are successful in getting fun.

There are 'some' idiots."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding a few 'couples' on here who are obviously single guys trying to get some sort of kick . One 'couple' , not mentioning any names, have registered on fab three times in the last three months, asking to meet guys. I've sent a few messages to this couple and have now been blocked! I'm verefied and have met people of here. Move on to a different site if you want to get your kicks you twats happy new year everyone x "

just as you sent them messages doesnt mean they are Fake. how about if you arent for them

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

we've only had one contact us today - they are so easy to work out though - well in most cases anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi jacqs, the couple have registered three times in three months. When we got down to messaging each other a few times he said his wife didn't know about the meet but he wanted me to mail picks . Sounds like he wanted to catch her out and not some horny game I first thought it was . I know I'm going to get plenty of replies saying no thanks your not for me but people like these need removing for good !!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If you think any profile is fake then report it saying why you think it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came across ( no not in that way ) a young lady on here age 23 that wanted to chat, meet, have some fun. Noticed over night her age changed to 24. Ok may have been her birthday, but it wasn't

Messaged a few times, got a number of her to meet over xmas. Number belonged to some asian company somewhere. Then I was blocked from her profile, but guessing it was flagged up as spam from someone else

As a single guy on here I've had rubbish response. Am I that fugly? haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came across ( no not in that way ) a young lady on here age 23 that wanted to chat, meet, have some fun. Noticed over night her age changed to 24. Ok may have been her birthday, but it wasn't

Messaged a few times, got a number of her to meet over xmas. Number belonged to some asian company somewhere. Then I was blocked from her profile, but guessing it was flagged up as spam from someone else

As a single guy on here I've had rubbish response. Am I that fugly? haha"
no but your profile is dreadful! Why on earth would you call people c**ts?

How to win friends and influence people . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came across ( no not in that way ) a young lady on here age 23 that wanted to chat, meet, have some fun. Noticed over night her age changed to 24. Ok may have been her birthday, but it wasn't

Messaged a few times, got a number of her to meet over xmas. Number belonged to some asian company somewhere. Then I was blocked from her profile, but guessing it was flagged up as spam from someone else

As a single guy on here I've had rubbish response. Am I that fugly? haha"

Not being funny but if I were a 40 something man I'd be suspicious of a 20 something wanting to meet.

Don't recall any complaints from men being let down by "age appropriate" fakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came across ( no not in that way ) a young lady on here age 23 that wanted to chat, meet, have some fun. Noticed over night her age changed to 24. Ok may have been her birthday, but it wasn't

Messaged a few times, got a number of her to meet over xmas. Number belonged to some asian company somewhere. Then I was blocked from her profile, but guessing it was flagged up as spam from someone else

As a single guy on here I've had rubbish response. Am I that fugly? hahano but your profile is dreadful! Why on earth would you call people c**ts?

How to win friends and influence people . . "

Some people can't see the woods for the trees!

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By *irtyleedsladMan
over a year ago

leeds

I struggle to get meets but I think that the marketplace is saturated with single guys and your not going to tick everyone's boxes. For me I hate sending that first message and being 'another single guy'. The meets I have had have been great though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, totally, they are everywhere in various guises, cpl's, solo fem and single guy format.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came across ( no not in that way ) a young lady on here age 23 that wanted to chat, meet, have some fun. Noticed over night her age changed to 24. Ok may have been her birthday, but it wasn't

Messaged a few times, got a number of her to meet over xmas. Number belonged to some asian company somewhere. Then I was blocked from her profile, but guessing it was flagged up as spam from someone else

As a single guy on here I've had rubbish response. Am I that fugly? hahano but your profile is dreadful! Why on earth would you call people c**ts?

How to win friends and influence people . . "

+1 (it may come as news to you but most women don't actually like the word "cunt" and those that do like it delivered with some panache)

To be honest I don't send many messages out, instead prefering to either receive them and make my own judgements, or get chatting to people over the forums. The ones I do send out usually get a response, but even if they didn't I wouldn't really be bothered or take it personally.

Put it this way, as discussed on another thread, the ratio of single men/couples/single women on site may well be around 50:10:1.

Now I get around a dozen messages a day, perfect for me to check through as time is not a luxury I often have. Now bearing that ratio in mind, therefore most couples would get over 100 messages a day, most single ladies would hit the thousand mark every day or two. Now think. If you got around 1000 messages every 36 hours, could YOU be arsed to reply to every single one of them? And even if you could, would you physically have enough time to?

Patience and understanding on this site is appreciated. Good luck mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops! I just realised I hadn't updated my profile in months. I think when that was written I had the raving hump with someone on here!

Edited now

Thanks for the heads up on it though

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hello they.

Is it me or has 2011 seen a dramatic rise in fake profiles?

I get chatting to someone and as soon as you mention webcam validation or charting on the phone, they disappear.

Also more msn'ers expect single guys to send lots of photos. Why not go onto xhamster or another site for porn.

Its enough to make you give up swinging. No wonder all the single guys left are idiots, us decent ones get fed up and leave.

Phil

Exp bull / mmf player"

Nope... But I there has been a rise in ppl complaining.. And ppl thinking that it is somehow the sites fault

Sometimes I do wonder if ppl swinging is some sort of easy alternative to a fri/sat night out.. That in effect they are owed just for being here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Sometimes I do wonder if ppl swinging is some sort of easy alternative to a fri/sat night out.. That in effect they are owed just for being here"

I do think a lot the people on here confuses fake with someone not wanting to play, or changing there mind and are on here because they think it is an easy place to get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people are on here mainly to chat and have no intention whatsoever to meet... they are probably bored with television and what a bit of a fantasy so log into this site haha

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"I think some people are on here mainly to chat and have no intention whatsoever to meet... they are probably bored with television and what a bit of a fantasy so log into this site haha"

Whats wrong with that?..providing they dont lead other people on?

Im wondering if compulsory photo validation by admin might be the answer?...we dont have the official validation as we dont meet, whats the point?..people will see us on cam, they will see we are real if they want to go that far with us..but we wouldnt mind getting it sorted if it was a requirement and we thought it helped everyone else out the fakes.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"If you think any profile is fake then report it saying why you think it is

"

Fake profile! We find it frustrating!

Yours MI5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the single guys are idiots hey? hmmm well I hope you are including your self amongst the pack!. Whats that saying then it takes one to no one?

Cheeky git!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I haven't seen any fake single guy profiles. If someone mysteriously stops messaging me then I reckon it's because they didn't want to meet, and move on.

But then I enjoy this site for what it is. I have a life outside Fab (shocking, I know!) and the sexy meets I get from here just smooth out lifes little humps and bumps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all fairness I can't ay that we've noticed any increase in fake profiles.

However we have seen an increase in moaning and whinging threads on the forums by people claiming that profiles are fake because they haven't managed to get the meet that they were expecting ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a life outside Fab (shocking, I know!)

HOW VERY DARE YOU MADAM

You have a life outside of this site! hmmmm shocking indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello they.

Is it me or has 2011 seen a dramatic rise in fake profiles?

I get chatting to someone and as soon as you mention webcam validation or charting on the phone, they disappear.

Also more msn'ers expect single guys to send lots of photos. Why not go onto xhamster or another site for porn.

Its enough to make you give up swinging. No wonder all the single guys left are idiots, us decent ones get fed up and leave.

Phil

Exp bull / mmf player

Nope... But I there has been a rise in ppl complaining.. And ppl thinking that it is somehow the sites fault

Sometimes I do wonder if ppl swinging is some sort of easy alternative to a fri/sat night out.. That in effect they are owed just for being here"

I think there's a certain mentality amongst some men that join sites like this. Thankfully, they're so dumb they out themselves by moaning and whining making them easy to spot and avoid.

On another site a 68 year old was complaining that he'd been on the site three days and couldn't believe he hadn't emptied his sacs.

On what planet would a man think that would attract women to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" No wonder all the single guys left are idiots, us decent ones get fed up and leave.

"

I dunno about the fake profiles as I've not been here all that long.

As to all the single guys being idiots, that's nonsense! I have plenty of lovely regular meets from this site. And just by searching around, I see plenty more, there are some great profiles out there... just not enough time to get round them all

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

The problem is hardly a new one - I reckon there's probably cave paintings of some caveman's imaginary wife out there somewhere.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Came across ( no not in that way ) a young lady on here age 23 that wanted to chat, meet, have some fun. Noticed over night her age changed to 24. Ok may have been her birthday, but it wasn't

Messaged a few times, got a number of her to meet over xmas. Number belonged to some asian company somewhere. Then I was blocked from her profile, but guessing it was flagged up as spam from someone else

As a single guy on here I've had rubbish response. Am I that fugly? hahano but your profile is dreadful! Why on earth would you call people c**ts?

How to win friends and influence people . .

+1 (it may come as news to you but most women don't actually like the word "cunt" and those that do like it delivered with some panache)

To be honest I don't send many messages out, instead prefering to either receive them and make my own judgements, or get chatting to people over the forums. The ones I do send out usually get a response, but even if they didn't I wouldn't really be bothered or take it personally.

Put it this way, as discussed on another thread, the ratio of single men/couples/single women on site may well be around 50:10:1.

Now I get around a dozen messages a day, perfect for me to check through as time is not a luxury I often have. Now bearing that ratio in mind, therefore most couples would get over 100 messages a day, most single ladies would hit the thousand mark every day or two. Now think. If you got around 1000 messages every 36 hours, could YOU be arsed to reply to every single one of them? And even if you could, would you physically have enough time to?

Patience and understanding on this site is appreciated. Good luck mate!"
that many messages a day think the most we got here was about 40 but when i went to newcastle i put there as my location i did get over 100 didnt count but god it was mad, sorry to digress but needed to get that out lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that many messages a day think the most we got here was about 40 but when i went to newcastle i put there as my location i did get over 100 didnt count but god it was mad, sorry to digress but needed to get that out lol x"

Yeah i think i actually contributed to that hefty amound of messages when you were up here, sorry about that lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rise of the Planet of the Fakes s a great film

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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Its enough to make you give up swinging. No wonder all the single guys left are idiots, us decent ones get fed up and leave.

"

So you are saying the only guys left are idiots... "all the single guys left are idiots".... yet you are still here. You claim to be one of the decent ones who get fed up and leave... yet you are still here.... and by your own words "all the single guys left are idiots"..... are you trying to tell us you are an idiot?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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Its enough to make you give up swinging. No wonder all the single guys left are idiots, us decent ones get fed up and leave.

So you are saying the only guys left are idiots... "all the single guys left are idiots".... yet you are still here. You claim to be one of the decent ones who get fed up and leave... yet you are still here.... and by your own words "all the single guys left are idiots"..... are you trying to tell us you are an idiot?"

nah... he just didn't think about that while he was just trying to run over the other single guys in the big old bus of his and whilst trying to make himself look good....

oh by the way.. the good guys are out there having fun and making the best of it.. why... they just get on with it! they just put there best foot forward as they can!

see... the problem is that blaming others is the easy way out and the easy thing to do.... its all them and not you, you are mr "innocent victim"... none of it is you at all.....

whereas negativity breeds negativity..

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