FabSwingers.com forum: Average length

By *ikilovesC OP Couple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Was reading an article which stated the average length of a marriage in Uk is 11.5 years,

So how long have you couples been together and have you or do you think you'll outlast that average

Just so you know, married 23 years and together for over 25 here lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I managed 35 before I escaped

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

The stats I've seen say that divorce peaks are at 2

, 5 and 8 years. If you get past 8 years then the 42% overall divorce rates drops below 10%.

5 years here and plain sailing with the wind behind our backs.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nearly made 14.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been together as married almost 22years. We've been married now a couple of years. And very happy with each other!

Jo.Xx

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

Married 17 years and together over 18 years..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were together 22 years and married for 19 of those. Now free.

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By *ikilovesC OP Couple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"The stats I've seen say that divorce peaks are at 2

, 5 and 8 years. If you get past 8 years then the 42% overall divorce rates drops below 10%.

5 years here and plain sailing with the wind behind our backs. "

Yes the article we were reading was saying something similar (seven year itch and all that lol)

And, You guys'll have 8 under your belt before you know it

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown

We all seem to be bucking the trend so far.

We've been Married for 20 years.

Righty

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've been married 31 years and living together since 1981.

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By *ikilovesC OP Couple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"We all seem to be bucking the trend so far.

We've been Married for 20 years.

Righty"

Yup, the Fabsters are above average so far lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long.

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By *awtynath88Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Was together for 9 years got married and separated 1 year later lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 10 years she gets half my pension, so 9 years will be stick or twist for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

44 years married, been together 47 years.

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Managed 38 befor I met mrs diamond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 years for me and Mrs marmite in a few days time

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Together for almost 20, married for slightly less.

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

11 and a half yrs married and 12 yrs together. Hes the love of my life and soul mate xx

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By *veragecouple321Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

My wife & I got together 22 years ago and have been married 16 years, so yeah we beat the uk average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 years together and 23 years married, so we are doing well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been together seven and a half years, been married one year and eight and a half months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't marry him but my only significant relationship was 11.5 believe it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I managed 7 yrs and 364 days

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

36 years.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

22 years+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

managed 19

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By *uckaroo BanzaiCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere nice

Together 11 and married for 7..

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Together 33 years, married for 20. Still going strong and still having amazing sex...

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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago

Headington, Oxford

24 years, but having had the freedom to play with whoever I like for several years now and taking full advantage of it has probably helped avoid getting bored.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Been married 35, together 37, not quite love at first sight. But we did hit it off pretty quick lol.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I left after 21 yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We on 10 1/2 years ??????

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Married 27yrs, been together since school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was with my ex 22 years,married for 15 of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married 7yrs, been together 19yrs

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By *tokeukcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on trent

we have been married for 20 years and together for 23

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s been 17 years so far and I really hope we don’t make it to 18

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

Was married 21years together 27years

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By *havenbabe01Couple
over a year ago

bedfordshire

Been together for 31yrs and married for 28yrs and he took my virginity xx love him to bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were married in 1969 so its a big one for us next year

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By *4tCouple
over a year ago

warrington

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Together 32, married 24 years.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

37 happy years of marriage and swinging together

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

5 years together and a little over 3 years married - most of it miserable - before I got out.

I look at my parents' 43 years and do feel sad but it's more acceptable for people to leave an unhappy situation these days. It's not lightly taken, whatever people may think.

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By *mazon750Couple
over a year ago

Perth

Been together 40 years, married 37. Both still happy (I think) Just had our very first swap, just wished we had done it years ago. Not that there is anything wrong with our marriage, just found more fun to make us even happier.

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By *tarlord6969Man
over a year ago

stockport

Managed 10, but together 16, been separated 10 years now and she's still doing my head in on a regular basis (regarding our kids usually!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married for seven years(Mike)..them met Diane taxi driving,whilst married..been with her now 28 years although not married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been together 17 years will be 10 years happily married on 10th november

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made it 5 years before divorce. We had been together 8. I seem to hit all the stereo types hahah

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By *orty-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Leyland

Together for 13, married for 11

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been together 26, married 23 and swinging for 6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

served 16 years for my sins and did 10 of those as a virtual monk. Now free, the amazingness of Fab and another site is helping towards making up for all those lost years!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

married 29 years , together 33 years and still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 years with first wife until she died of breast cancer and now 26 years with the present wife and still going strong.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Celebrated 20 years this year. Been together since 1994.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

44 yars until my wife died. Would have been 51 if she was still alive. Still miss her every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 years together, 26 married and life is awesome

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By *oxy2004Couple
over a year ago

South Coast, Hampshire

Married 13years and together 17 years

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Interesting, the highest divorce rate from a demographic is women 25-29. I found that surprising since the average age for marriage is 30 for women and 32 for men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

54 very happy kinky years

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Married 20yrs, together 24yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been together 34 years and married for 33 years.

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Managed just over 9 yrs I think then met J been together 11 years but not married

Unfortunately marriage / divorce doesn’t favour the Male in the equation of assets

I understand many won’t agree but that’s my personal opinion

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Managed just over 9 yrs I think then met J been together 11 years but not married

Unfortunately marriage / divorce doesn’t favour the Male in the equation of assets

I understand many won’t agree but that’s my personal opinion "

My personal opinion is that men are insane if they get married without a prenup these days

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By *art time deviantsCouple
over a year ago

The mighty fax

Been together 22 married 16

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Seems to be a lot of long term relationships here. Guess swinging helps lol.

13 years here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33yrs for us

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By *orth South DivideCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

24 years together, 14 years married. Swinging for 3 years and loving life and each other.

N x

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Newton Stewart

30 years together for us, married for 24 years

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

28 yrs

Lol

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Managed just over 9 yrs I think then met J been together 11 years but not married

Unfortunately marriage / divorce doesn’t favour the Male in the equation of assets

I understand many won’t agree but that’s my personal opinion "

Doesn't favour women in the responsibility for the kids stakes either believe me

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Managed just over 9 yrs I think then met J been together 11 years but not married

Unfortunately marriage / divorce doesn’t favour the Male in the equation of assets

I understand many won’t agree but that’s my personal opinion

My personal opinion is that men are insane if they get married without a prenup these days "

Why do men always presume the money is there's ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so average.

11 and a half years married.

Divorced in 2009.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Managed just over 9 yrs I think then met J been together 11 years but not married

Unfortunately marriage / divorce doesn’t favour the Male in the equation of assets

I understand many won’t agree but that’s my personal opinion "

It depends entirely on who earns the most, who stays in the marital home, who has responsibility for the kids. In my case, all three; so I had to pay the bastard thousands to be rid of him. Unfair, as the divorce was his fault!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Together for 32 years, married for 25

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

My first marriage lasted 5 years and my second 9 months.....we were together for 11 years before we got married though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are together 33 years married 32 years of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got together Jan 03 got married in aug same year and still married so 15 years xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Together 25 years, married 16.

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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago

Headington, Oxford

Probably like the average length of the average penis, shorter than you first hoped for.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Managed just over 9 yrs I think then met J been together 11 years but not married

Unfortunately marriage / divorce doesn’t favour the Male in the equation of assets

I understand many won’t agree but that’s my personal opinion "

Not always.

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

"Managed just over 9 yrs I think then met J been together 11 years but not married

Unfortunately marriage / divorce doesn’t favour the Male in the equation of assets

I understand many won’t agree but that’s my personal opinion

My personal opinion is that men are insane if they get married without a prenup these days "

Totally agree although pre nups are not totally legal in the eyes of the Judge they do hold more weight nowadays from my understanding that is of course

I the Male half put down a considerable deposit on our new home and whilst J contributed as well

I was adamant that we had a deed of trust drawn up showing both of our interests / percentages in our new home so god forbid our relationship ends I know my original contribution will come back to me then the balance / equity split 50/50

I friend didn’t do the above and 3 months after adding his partner onto the morgatge their relationship ended and he’s out of pocket by £80 k

Not a great thing for him

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

"I'm so average.

11 and a half years married.

Divorced in 2009. "

Yes but would you re marry without a pre nup ?

Interested to see from a females point of view

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

My marriage lasted 5 years. Five long, tedious, stagnant years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Managed just over 9 yrs I think then met J been together 11 years but not married

Unfortunately marriage / divorce doesn’t favour the Male in the equation of assets

I understand many won’t agree but that’s my personal opinion

My personal opinion is that men are insane if they get married without a prenup these days "

Funny how its only men have these ridiculous opinions...

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By *ammskiMan
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

My marriage lasted 5 years,second relationship lasted 7 years and my third relationship lasted 11 years,so i am a shit husband and boyfriend but i am an excellent father to my 5 children

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We’ve been together for 12 years and married for 12 years in May.

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

"Managed just over 9 yrs I think then met J been together 11 years but not married

Unfortunately marriage / divorce doesn’t favour the Male in the equation of assets

I understand many won’t agree but that’s my personal opinion

My personal opinion is that men are insane if they get married without a prenup these days

Funny how its only men have these ridiculous opinions...

Not looking for an argument but can I ask why you think that ?

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By *ockatwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

32 yrs married together 38 where's that medal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so average.

11 and a half years married.

Divorced in 2009.

Yes but would you re marry without a pre nup ?

Interested to see from a females point of view "

No. Divorce cost me dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been togther for 11 years and married for 7

Adam.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"I'm so average.

11 and a half years married.

Divorced in 2009.

Yes but would you re marry without a pre nup ?

Interested to see from a females point of view

No. Divorce cost me dear. "

Me too and it's not over yet. He's not paid a penny so far.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

dunno...never been married

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Was reading an article which stated the average length of a marriage in Uk is 11.5 years,

So how long have you couples been together and have you or do you think you'll outlast that average

Just so you know, married 23 years and together for over 25 here lol

Hey same here, 23 married & 25 together

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By *cedGemsWoman
over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)

34 years

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By *ikilovesC OP Couple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Was reading an article which stated the average length of a marriage in Uk is 11.5 years,

So how long have you couples been together and have you or do you think you'll outlast that average

Just so you know, married 23 years and together for over 25 here lol

Hey same here, 23 married & 25 together "

lol first quarter century down and another to go then

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By *ikilovesC OP Couple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Great posts everyone, some fantastically long relationships, some obviously still in the honeymoon phase lol, some sad ones too and there's a story behind every post I'm sure

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Did 15 years on the first sentence Now 38 years on the second sentence.

The shit will hit the fan if the wife ever gets to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

together 35 married 33

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Together 22yrs n married 21yrs wk on thursday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been married 27 years but been together 34..Childhood sweethearts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married 37 1/2 years, together 43 years, separated 6 months ago.

That should help the average.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

25 yrs. Prob still be together and not on here if he hadn't died on me but....thanks to fab and clubs there is time for me n del to pass 25 yrs .kaz

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By *aucy sausageMan
over a year ago

Gentleshaw

First wife 9years 51 weeks

Second wife 9years 40 weeks

Inconsiderate buggers decided to leave before their 10 year long service awards!!

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By *aucy sausageMan
over a year ago

Gentleshaw

First divorce cost 230k. Even though she had the affair and decided to move lover in. (She turned gay!)

Second one is at 120k and rising..

No kids together, but wants over a grand a month in spousal maintenance.

So barristers will have a field day, im sure

She isn’t happy with a mortgage free house (worth 100k) a car worth 12k and circa 10k in cash.

I still have my health and sense of humour

Dont get me started on the cost of divorces...

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By *everbeenhappierCouple
over a year ago

West Norfolk

Together 23 years and married 15

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