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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand that this is a swinging site but when did everyone become so down right rude?

my partner isn't playing at the moment so have placed all her pics in private but this now automatically means that I am a single guy and can just be not answered when I mail anyone or when I explain, even when it's on the profile, I'm a lier cos I'm not a couple.

I know there are fake profiles on here but I just pissed me off when genuine people are put down for being honest.

it doesn't take alot to say no thanks if you think someone is not telling you the truth.

rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAQ-There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

The fact your partner isn't playing means you ARE a single guy.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Your last 3 veris are as a single guy. Bet your profile gets changed to that now you've complained in the forums.

And nobody has to reply to you.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Your last 3 veris are as a single guy. Bet your profile gets changed to that now you've complained in the forums.

And nobody has to reply to you."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you both for your comments but I try to reply to all messages even from single guys and yes I know couples and women get alot of messages.

but it's more when I message someone and start talking then explain why that my partner isn't playing then they stop talking.

yes the whole not replying to people is shit, but worst when you don't read a profile and then stop talking.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"thank you both for your comments but I try to reply to all messages even from single guys and yes I know couples and women get alot of messages.

but it's more when I message someone and start talking then explain why that my partner isn't playing then they stop talking.

yes the whole not replying to people is shit, but worst when you don't read a profile and then stop talking. "

think about what this is?? really mate, its no big deal and its not the real world... if your friends are rude or family then get tour knickers in a twist all day long.... here? brush it off and move on

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

explain in your first message then? sounds like people are expecting to meet a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"explain in your first message then? sounds like people are expecting to meet a couple."

my profile says partner isn't playing only me. I am 100% honest about it. unlike some guys on here i tell the truth and it must be a down side of mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thank you both for your comments but I try to reply to all messages even from single guys and yes I know couples and women get alot of messages.

but it's more when I message someone and start talking then explain why that my partner isn't playing then they stop talking.

yes the whole not replying to people is shit, but worst when you don't read a profile and then stop talking.

think about what this is?? really mate, its no big deal and its not the real world... if your friends are rude or family then get tour knickers in a twist all day long.... here? brush it off and move on "

I know mate it just got under my skin tonight

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"explain in your first message then? sounds like people are expecting to meet a couple.

my profile says partner isn't playing only me. I am 100% honest about it. unlike some guys on here i tell the truth and it must be a down side of mine "

when they search for couples you will come up in that search. this is why you'll be changed to a single guy.

goodnight, i'm off.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"thank you both for your comments but I try to reply to all messages even from single guys and yes I know couples and women get alot of messages.

but it's more when I message someone and start talking then explain why that my partner isn't playing then they stop talking.

yes the whole not replying to people is shit, but worst when you don't read a profile and then stop talking.

think about what this is?? really mate, its no big deal and its not the real world... if your friends are rude or family then get tour knickers in a twist all day long.... here? brush it off and move on

I know mate it just got under my skin tonight "

honestly grow thicker skin! haha its frustrating at times but i found 1st time around here its best to not let it bother you

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am in a couple. But only I play, I think single guys do have a harder life. So it is what it is on this site

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I am in a couple. But only I play, I think single guys do have a harder life. So it is what it is on this site "

definitely. people need thicker skins!! hows Stirling these days? iv friends near in Tillicoultry... Alloa... not too far from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"explain in your first message then? sounds like people are expecting to meet a couple.

my profile says partner isn't playing only me. I am 100% honest about it. unlike some guys on here i tell the truth and it must be a down side of mine "

Perhaps out the explanation of your wife not playing at the top of your profile instead of the bottom

Maybe people will read it and take notice more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that this is a swinging site but when did everyone become so down right rude?

my partner isn't playing at the moment so have placed all her pics in private but this now automatically means that I am a single guy and can just be not answered when I mail anyone or when I explain, even when it's on the profile, I'm a lier cos I'm not a couple.

I know there are fake profiles on here but I just pissed me off when genuine people are put down for being honest.

it doesn't take alot to say no thanks if you think someone is not telling you the truth.

rant over "

Basically by reading part of your profile, you only have a fuck buddy.... so not exactly a couple, especially seeing as she’s not playing anymore?

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