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Fab vs dating sites(mainly aimed at singles on fab)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, im idealy looking for long term lover play partner and play together, however as single use dating sites too, noticed a few lovely ladies frm here there too,my question is are you looking for hook ups no strings, regular friends with benefits or can you find love on fab? Im sure some people have found happiness here? As if on regular date sure it would be awkward bringing up the subject of swinging or would you fancy clubs etc and being unsure of the girls reaction? Any way thanks have fun folks

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Hi, im idealy looking for long term lover play partner and play together, however as single use dating sites too, noticed a few lovely ladies frm here there too,my question is are you looking for hook ups no strings, regular friends with benefits or can you find love on fab? Im sure some people have found happiness here? As if on regular date sure it would be awkward bringing up the subject of swinging or would you fancy clubs etc and being unsure of the girls reaction? Any way thanks have fun folks "
People have found love in a hopeless place on this site yes. Yeah a lot of single women on here are looking for more. I believe some can't attract the type of men they want for a relationship on dating sites but on here with the offer of easy sex could possibly lure them. No don't mention swinging on a vanilla date unless you don't want to see the woman again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a relationship with a swinging partner. I swung as part of a married couple for over 5 years and also had an open relationship. I always wonder why people want to give it up when they get into a relationship. If you both enjoy swinging and more partners then why would you want to stop. I am of course open to offers!

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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

This question has been asked a lot on here. I have had a number of relationships from Fab as well as the normal mainstream sites, if a relationship is going to work then it doesn't matter where you meet. The big question is finding someone that likes you and wants the same as you and ultimately in your geographical location. Each one of those points limits your target audience.

It's not impossible but not without trial and error and takes time

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I think it’s bloody dangerous to be using this site and dating sites at the same time.

Surely that indicates either confusion over what it is that you actually want or that you are not ready to fully commit to either a single, or attached life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people have found love on here so it can happen.

I find that most men just say whatever they think the woman wants so they can get a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does happen on here.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, im idealy looking for long term lover play partner and play together, however as single use dating sites too, noticed a few lovely ladies frm here there too,my question is are you looking for hook ups no strings, regular friends with benefits or can you find love on fab? Im sure some people have found happiness here? As if on regular date sure it would be awkward bringing up the subject of swinging or would you fancy clubs etc and being unsure of the girls reaction? Any way thanks have fun folks "

I came of pof purely because I found explaining what I want made me feel like a massive hoe

I prefer here because I can be more open and honest

I want someone who meets my sexual needs but understands there is no 'next steps' I won't be living with a man or moving in

Am happy to meet the same person for months/years even but they can only be in my life sexually

This is due to personal circumstance not that I'm a cold heartless cow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab there is less bullshit around the whole sex issue. People say theyre on dating sites to find a relationship, however deep down they want sex and if they get a relationship too then bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love too find someone like the two lovely ladies above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people have found love on here so it can happen.

I find that most men just say whatever they think the woman wants so they can get a shag."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people have found love on here so it can happen.

I find that most men just say whatever they think the woman wants so they can get a shag."

I really must be doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s bloody dangerous to be using this site and dating sites at the same time.

Surely that indicates either confusion over what it is that you actually want or that you are not ready to fully commit to either a single, or attached life.

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Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, im idealy looking for long term lover play partner and play together, however as single use dating sites too, noticed a few lovely ladies frm here there too,my question is are you looking for hook ups no strings, regular friends with benefits or can you find love on fab? Im sure some people have found happiness here? As if on regular date sure it would be awkward bringing up the subject of swinging or would you fancy clubs etc and being unsure of the girls reaction? Any way thanks have fun folks "

My best relationship started off through fab, it's amazing when you find someone you can share this bold side with.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Lots of people have found love on here so it can happen.

I find that most men just say whatever they think the woman wants so they can get a shag."

Anything's possible anywhere probably when you've least looking for it.

Honestly there are some awfully disceetful guys on here that will go to the ultimate in discretion.

Some think they can cross the line bordering on criminal but the truth always shines though in the end one way or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people have found love on here so it can happen.

I find that most men just say whatever they think the woman wants so they can get a shag.

Anything's possible anywhere probably when you've least looking for it.

Honestly there are some awfully disceetful guys on here that will go to the ultimate in discretion.

Some think they can cross the line bordering on criminal but the truth always shines though in the end one way or another.

"

You probably mean deceitful guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, im idealy looking for long term lover play partner and play together, however as single use dating sites too, noticed a few lovely ladies frm here there too,my question is are you looking for hook ups no strings, regular friends with benefits or can you find love on fab? Im sure some people have found happiness here? As if on regular date sure it would be awkward bringing up the subject of swinging or would you fancy clubs etc and being unsure of the girls reaction? Any way thanks have fun folks

My best relationship started off through fab, it's amazing when you find someone you can share this bold side with."

Had relationship with woman from here a while back now, was great no complaints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people have found love on here so it can happen.

I find that most men just say whatever they think the woman wants so they can get a shag.

Anything's possible anywhere probably when you've least looking for it.

Hey your right about guys on here just wanting a shag ,you are right about people finding love x

Honestly there are some awfully disceetful guys on here that will go to the ultimate in discretion.

Some think they can cross the line bordering on criminal but the truth always shines though in the end one way or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question I ask myself is.

Could I get into a relationship again.

That I don't know. Depend on a lot of things. Think finding someone nice to meet fairly regularly and enjoy the company of would be more suitable.

But I say that and as you know things change and before you know it.....

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By *ust chilled out meMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Good friends of mine met on hear theyv now been together for about 5 year I don't think it matters what sort of site or how you meet someone iff it's going to happen it will

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Lots of people have found love on here so it can happen.

I find that most men just say whatever they think the woman wants so they can get a shag.

Anything's possible anywhere probably when you've least looking for it.

Honestly there are some awfully disceetful guys on here that will go to the ultimate in discretion.

Some think they can cross the line bordering on criminal but the truth always shines though in the end one way or another.

You probably mean deceitful guys... "

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I met my partner on another swinging site ... fell madly in love and he proposed etc etc but 2yrs ago Cancer had other ideas .... and we just couldn’t defeat it .... so I’m back on here don’t do dating sites ... to be honest at the moment I just don’t think I will ever find anything like what I had ever again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here as a couple And once I became single I tried the conventional dating sites but just like them . Fab is familiar and comfortable so I came back as a single

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I met my partner on another swinging site ... fell madly in love and he proposed etc etc but 2yrs ago Cancer had other ideas .... and we just couldn’t defeat it .... so I’m back on here don’t do dating sites ... to be honest at the moment I just don’t think I will ever find anything like what I had ever again "

Sending you a hug..can't imagine feeling like that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my partner on another swinging site ... fell madly in love and he proposed etc etc but 2yrs ago Cancer had other ideas .... and we just couldn’t defeat it .... so I’m back on here don’t do dating sites ... to be honest at the moment I just don’t think I will ever find anything like what I had ever again "

Remember him well. He made you happy as you were always smiling.

Speak soon x

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I came off here coz most guys think you are up for sex on dating sites also, and they use those sites to get round your filters on here (i only want hot younger guys for casual sex, am less fussy for a relationship about age/looks/ etc). I expected to use this site for sex and dating sites for dating and it's not confusing to be looking for either on different sites from different guys. Well it's confusing for men it seems.

My thing is kink anyway so i found my partner on a kink site, not a popular one either. I think it's better to look for relationships on niche sites where you can find something more specific.

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