FabSwingers.com forum: Couple profile

By *dam and slut OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I am part of a couples profile. I posted (a bit willy nilly as it turns out) about defending my honour in the only way I know how. (I am from Salford after all). I forgot to sign that I was the poster and then I went to work. My partner suffered for my slip.

My partner wants to punish me by barring me from posting I obviously (big time poster

) don't want that.

Where's the question .......it's coming.

How do you separate your posts in a couples profile ? Does only one partner post ? Do you have a second profile so you can post independently from each other ? Do you sign your name ?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I only post on the forums from this profile, but most couples I know sign which one of them it is x

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Central

I usually write mrs.

Tbf my mr doesn’t post but I think it’s better to sign it off anyways.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Always sign off with which one it is x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr never even looks at forms. So always me. I will refer to Mr if appropriate. But always just me posting. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's always me Mrs posting. However I don't think it matters who writes the posts, its not as if anybody would answer differently according to whether it was a man or a woman posting now, is it!?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

When I had a couple profile we just signed off as either V or A (him).

I’m not sure it was ever really noticed by anyone else to be honest although sometimes I’d come along and realise what trouble he’d just caused

V x

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By *dam and slut OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I tried signing and for the first two or three I remembered, but Sods law said that in the only post where it's important people know it's a girl posting I forgot. Doh!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think a couples profile represents both of you. Mr N sometimes says its time for me to step away. I do think each partner ought to bear in mind that they're representing the other in some way.

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By *dam and slut OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah, the representing the "partnership" wasn't something I considered. I just saw a thread with an interesting question and answered.

Ps loved the "step away" I added "from the keyboard."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yeah, the representing the "partnership" wasn't something I considered. I just saw a thread with an interesting question and answered.

Ps loved the "step away" I added "from the keyboard.""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just end the post with xslutx or Adam then everyone knows whos posted

Theres only me (mrs) who posts from our profile so i dont bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sign off C or K/Kitten. Yet I still get confused as being the female half somehow

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I think a couples profile represents both of you. Mr N sometimes says its time for me to step away. I do think each partner ought to bear in mind that they're representing the other in some way."

Yep, this. We have very similar views on most things so post from a couples perspective plus we are usually together when we post. Occasionally a post will be from a personal perspective and then we sign it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am part of a couples profile. I posted (a bit willy nilly as it turns out) about defending my honour in the only way I know how. (I am from Salford after all). I forgot to sign that I was the poster and then I went to work. My partner suffered for my slip.

My partner wants to punish me by barring me from posting I obviously (big time poster

) don't want that.

Where's the question .......it's coming.

How do you separate your posts in a couples profile ? Does only one partner post ? Do you have a second profile so you can post independently from each other ? Do you sign your name ? "

We have a separate mail profile for only that reason. But sadly admin still ban both profiles on some occasions, with the innocent party getting a week's ban for using another profile.

So in terms of site rules you can't win, but at least for any posters with an ounce of common sense it's obvious who is posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doh! Male

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Sometimes it’s me posting

Other times it’s me posting

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I usually use this one for posting and hubby mainly posts on our couples one although I do post from their at times and state it is me posting

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By *dam and slut OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Think I will try harder to remember to sign off.

xslutx

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By *dam and slut OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

This is the thing, I don't want him annoyed/bothered by something I did. When you have found "trouble" how did you deal with your partner ? If that's not a too invasive question ? Were you annoyed ? Defensive ? Supportive ?

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By *dam and slut OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Shut ! Forgot already.

xslutx

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By *dam and slut OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Didn't think having a second profile would be against the rules.

xslutx (getting better at remembering)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Didn't think having a second profile would be against the rules.

xslutx (getting better at remembering)"

Having a second profile isn't against the rules. Using that profile to get around a forum block is

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"This is the thing, I don't want him annoyed/bothered by something I did. When you have found "trouble" how did you deal with your partner ? If that's not a too invasive question ? Were you annoyed ? Defensive ? Supportive ?"

If I get "too involved" in a forum post Mr N just says "you're too involved in that ya daft woman" and if I agree I stop posting.

If I don't agree I carry on. This is a joint profile but we're individuals within it. If I said something that caused him trouble I'd try to correct it because I don't want to give the wrong impression of us as a couple.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

It's very rare that Jayne posts from this profile, she has one she uses if she cruises the forums etc, but if she does post she signs off with her name.

I think it's something that's passed me by tbh, I hadn't really given it any thought, but now its come up its given me something to think about.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We both run our profile on the main site but P has never posted in the forums though she does monitor my contributions. As we're so alike in our thinking I don't think she's ever got upset or annoyed by anything I've said though.

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

The way we seem to have developed (without really ever discussing it) is that I, Mr, am the one that posts in the forums. Probably because I used to use the forums a lot when I was on as a single. Mrs is the one who generally replies to or sends messages. Unless it's a "thanks but no thanks" in which case I get left to do that!!!!

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

I( Mrs) post from this profile and sign off Mrs. He posts from a singles profile. In theory should work as we even have different speech and posting styles. Doesn't always though and people still lump us as one sometimes.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just post your name then everyone lmliws. I don't get why your partner wants to punish you for it.

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By *dam and slut OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Partner? Implies equal status, we are in a BDSM relationship based on a D/s dynamic with your consensually agreed limits boundaries, protocols and have been for over 9 years...

You will sign off with your agreed fet name..

Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't think having a second profile would be against the rules.

xslutx (getting better at remembering)

Having a second profile isn't against the rules. Using that profile to get around a forum block is

Yes but unfortunately the admins make strange assumptions on that and refuse to respond to queries or explanations. Makes for a very frustrating experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this was aimed at me?

Nothing happened, it's funny, lol. It's only a sex forum, not something that matters. Normally when we used a couples profile only 95% of the time or more then it was my fault, so I started my own profile. We have very different posting styles, my wife tends to take the peaceful calming approach, whereas when confronted I tend to prefer the Israeli type response especially if responding to a clear idiot or bigot

But no nothing ever happens between us. Obviously we take the piss out of each other if we get banned

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