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By *rnmrsrk1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hello every body we have been on fab for a few months just chatting to see how we get on with the hole swinging scene and if it is something for us. We haven’t had any meets as of yet but we have been to a club a few times and socialised. Our question is what was it like the first time you and your partner played for the first time with others and how where you as a couple afterwards I (hubby) like the idea of watching the wife enjoy herself and I think she dose to but we find it nervy/scary lol. Please let us know about your first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For is it was as you’d expect. Great thril, loved every minute. No issues watching each other have sex with others.

After we had great sex when they left too.

The only thing was the wife had to process how she felt about it all having done it. As for her having sex with someone else meant her relationship was over (from past relationships) so she had to get her head around that she could do that and stay married lol.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

We have only been to a club once and didn't play as we were just checking out how we felt about it, there's no pressure to do anything. I did have fun and snogged one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose its not going to be for everyone, and an interest/the thought of swinging is a turn on, the only way to truly know is to take the plunge, defiantly soft at first take it easy and see how you both feel make sure you guys talk about it, so long as you are coming from a strong place its massive thrill and you do meet some amazing people we loved our first time and our sex life want though the roof

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By *rnmrsrk1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

We where the same we went to a club but didn’t play were just interested to see everyone views and encounters

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I've been as a single but didn't really like watching, my fella loves that and it was more fun having someone to watch with (for me anyway).

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By *rnmrsrk1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Did you both play or just watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first time was meeting a single guy for a soft swap mfm.

We thought if it wasn't for us, it was just a little bit of fun and worse case scenario was me giving him a BJ. (I could overcome that if there was jealousy)

We didn't know how we would feel about it tbh so thought soft was best.

4 years on ... We have indulged in two gangbangs, FMFM, orgies, and loads of scenarios... We love the flith.

XX Mrs Badcherry xX

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By *rnmrsrk1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Wow sounds like a good way to start and also sounds like you guys have a lot of fun

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Just watched. There was nobody i was interested in on the night and as it was our first time i wasn't sure how he'd react anyway. Couple of months later and he is up for me fucking other people now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all love the idea of sharing or we wouldnt be here.

Society or life conditioning frowns upon those who enjoy lots of sexy fun. Singles get labelled as “a bike” or “a player”

Married couples who want to share have the step of actual sharing to get over.

However once the pure pleasure guilt free sexy fun has been experienced and enjoyed there’s no going back.

Most enjoy a time swinging and some leave, those that leave almost always come back.

Guilt free sharing sexy fun for me is just awesome pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Roxannabelle) have experience with threesomes and a foursome but I’ve bever done it whilst in a relationship only as the single girl. I love the idea of sharing Rossi with another woman but I am slightly concerned I may not like it in reality but you won’t know until you try it. Good luck ??

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By *rnmrsrk1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

That’s like us I (rich) love the idea of Kerry enjoying herself and she dose to but finds it all a little nervy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We discussed it beforehand and agreed that it was just sex and as such would have no impact on our emotional relationship.

If you can't separate sex from love you will struggle.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"That’s like us I (rich) love the idea of Kerry enjoying herself and she dose to but finds it all a little nervy"
A soft swap meet might be a good play to start. Meet someone who understands what you want and understands that if either of you is uncomfortable or wants the meet to end, then it ends. Good luck.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I think we visited clubs 5 or 6 times before we did anything more than just play with each other. And then that was 'only' sharing a private room with another couple. We've been at it for over 3 years and the furthest we've gone is some very soft play with couples, women and guys.

We've spent a lot of time talking through various scenarios that could crop up and we've come to the realisation that I'm happy to watch Steph doing pretty much anything with others whereas she doesn't think she'd be as open to it. That works fine for me because all of my dream scenarios revolve around showing her off and seeing her enjoy herself

Ultimately it's not something you'll know until you try it. We have an agreement that either one of us can call stop at any time and we'll just take ourselves out of the situation regardless of how far in we are or how potentially awkward it might be. We know we can talk through what happened without feeling attacked or blamed. Having that safety net has really helped us try new things

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