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How did you get into this scene ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My x girlfriend bought me into it 3 years ago and now i love it x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

How much did she have to pay out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrM did it in a previous life, through PO boxes, when we got together told me from the off ( 2nd date i think it was) I was more than game for bi sex and then things moved on from there .. Polaroid cameraswhere a life saver M says lol

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

boredom, computers, adult chat rooms link to a site boxing day 2004

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Innocent old me was corrupted by a lovely couple some 10yrs ago... And look at me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we talked about bringing someone else into our sex life, went dogging a few times and someone we met dogging told us about this site, that was 4 years ago, and still loving it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

From the first time i had sex i was doing what are classed as swinging lifestyle activities. Although it took about another 20 years to know that swingers existed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got into the swinging scene thru naturisium ! We soon found out that we weren't the only exhibitionistic nudists at public venues that felt horny and not shy abt showing it ! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was 22 loved sex an ex brought me to a gangbang where i had my 1st threesome and more cocks and loved it

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By *irtyleedsladMan
over a year ago

leeds


"How much did she have to pay out? "

You always make me chuckle bobby!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

18,both me and kev fancied same bloke...the rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Via Desire Magazine. And the desire to try something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been bi from a teenager

Then when I was 17 I started using a normal sauna

Where you got ta know who ya could and couldn't play with in the quiet times

I got invited back ta play with couples and through that got to know more and more people

Three long term swinging relationships and nearly thirty years later I'm still here lol xx

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Using the old MSN chatrooms planted the seed for us, it got us talking about it..we got chatting to a nice couple, had a lot in common, swapped numbers met socially a few times and it progressed from there.

But the sex aspect also came to a halt completely after we played with them. some 10 years ago now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met couples and women on net before fab,think one of them told me about fab ?

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Through the old MSN chatrooms - remember those?

I use to be a host in an inter-racial chat room, and occasionally I would log into the wrong room which was below ours in the list, and it was frequented by people who use to go to clubs, I didn't even realise it was a swingers chat room until about my fourth visit into it, thinking wow everyone here is so friendly, then me and my then partner thought we would goto one of the clubs, and we went to skinnydippers in Brighton.. the rest is history....

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

someone i met on a dating site,he told me he was on here ,i looked and was hooked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

long story but started of as a dare!

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"Via Desire Magazine. And the desire to try something different."

Same as me only it was sister magazine, experience mag, oh god do you remember the letters and polaroids.

Still it was and is fun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was after being seduced and corrupted by a dominant bi couple who took great pleasure in corrupting me into their bi plaything! Never considered playing with cock prior to that night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fate destiny......natural inclination in other words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was introduced to it by some friends a few years ago.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"18,both me and kev fancied same bloke...the rest is history "

Really, do tell more.........please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When 1st marraige fell apart i still needed the sex side of it so ended up on a swing site as a single female.

I was also on a dating site for fun... ended up with more sex off the dating one

Met hubby was honest from the start what i did and we have just carried the fun on xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

caught a couple in a layby one early morning wasnt with a crew mate spur of moment guess liked uniform lol hey ho still here o m g isnt this alt reality haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

split from ex hubby after 18 years .friend give me this link for fab,and meet my partner on here ,

sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no time for boring relationships, nor do I want to trawl the pubs looking for someone to 'hook up' with and then can't get rid of afterwards!

Swinging is perfect for me

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

After acid/house/rave clubs using parks and forests to chill out in cars. All still a tad e'd up and sharing a jazz fag some got horny and the knock on effect caused a stir.

Other couples could be found dogging too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The life cycle of single men on swinger sites:

1) Masturbate furiously to porn for a number of years.

2) Stumble across this site.

3) Masturbate furiously about this site for number of years

4) Pluck up the courage to join.

5) Masturbate furiously whilst sending messages and looking at the little profile pictures.

6) Maybe eventually go to a club.

7) Stand around and Masturbate furiously whilst other swingers do it.

7) Go home, delete account, it wasn't what they thought it was.

anyway I'm off for a wank......

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I was at Erotica either 2004 or 5 and was attracted by a lady selling a DVD which happened to be about swingers clubs. Through checking the club`s websites I found A.N.Other swinger`s forum and eventually this place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband had a secret life on here, I found out hit the roof...calmed down and offered to join him to spice up the sex (oddly it had dropped off since he was getting it without the "wife" effort) and he did'nt want to share me and I kept catching him out, so I kicked him out.

Needless to say I did not want another relationship but a girl has needs, so I set up a profile and ive had my eyes opened and its been lots of fun and met some wonderful people, and the sex is even better haha

So it was the best thing all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, we just lay there in bed, talking one night. I turned to Leon and said "what do you think of a threesome?". We had one with a close mate [well, a few with him] and decided we wanted more. We talked a while after about having a couple, and we both agreed on it. Searched google for the appropriate website to meet people, and hey presto! Fab came up :D Never left the site since :D

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Innocent old me was corrupted by a lovely couple some 10yrs ago... And look at me now

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ive heard you called some names _abio but i think innocent must be a first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I got into scene after finding out my ex girlfriend was cheating on me.

I was on the internet looking for sex sites came across swingers heaven and adult contacts and the adult hub.

But fab was far the best I've never looked back. This is my second time on here left for a while when I had a bad meet once. But came back and enjoy it even more

Rob x

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By *irtygirl11Couple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

A magazine called Rendezvous in the late 70's. Polaroids and sending film to be developed by 'specialists'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say its natural inclination with me. Have been enjoying what can be classed as swinging for years, just never called it swinging. Had fab recommended to me off someone I was in contact with on another site. Joined and never looked back, met my OH on here too. Xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"18,both me and kev fancied same bloke...the rest is history

Really, do tell more.........please!"

lol it was kevs best mate...got d*unk in the student bar one night and invited him back...i still remember the excitement of the tube ride home, sitting between them in mini skirt ,thigh high boots ,i couldn't stop smiling...had dp for the first time and we all decided this was something we wanted to do again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Via Desire Magazine. And the desire to try something different."

I too first dipped my toes in the water via Desire Magazine

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

Fancied trying out the scene for years but my ex wouldn't take it further. I got divorced, didn't want a relationship, so I joined a number of adult sites. That was three years ago.

Eventually got bored with the other sites and then found FAB. Joined over a year ago, met my other half on here, and am now having the time of my life.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

nearly ten years ago an older couple i knew decided i was a 'likely' sort and invited me to some parties. They were fun for a while but i often felt like the poor relation - i was tolerated as a young single fem as bait for the young single guys, but they didn't want their husbands playing with me! And tbh the hubbys were a bit old for me... So i dropped out of the parties. I wasn't keen on clubs, and they all still used mags and their own networks of peeps so i had no 'in'. Then my life got complicated for a few years. Earlier this year a gay friend who was fed up with me whingeing about my raging libido suggested a site she'd used. I had fun on there and a friend suggested here. Now i'm a club regular and sometimes arrange my own gangbangs!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We'd only known one another for a few weeks, and one night put a porn DVD shot in La Chambre on the bedroom TV to accompany our fun and games. We thought it looked like good fun and went to the club the following Saturday (it's not far away). It was truly mind-expanding and good fun too, and we've been regular swingers since that day, nearly 10 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

left my ex hubby after 18 years ,friend i known for a while passed me the link for here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 5 years ago i told Red (d*unkenly) that i fancied girls so we looked onto playing with one. We had been together for 6 years by then and i had only ever been with Red sexually so was super nervous! After a few funtimes with a girl we met a couple which was an awful experience, put us right off swinging.

Now we have met a fair few girls, single guys and i have met girls alone for fun. We have developed a real liking for threesomes but Still a bit nervous about couples though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 7 years ago I was single and had a cancer scare. For a while I was really poorly. However, I got well and realised that I was still single, ALIVE and not getting any!!

Had always been turned on when ever i read the taboo stories in the papers, the ones about people dogging, and how disgusting it was!! (It made me feel wet!)

So, joined another site and started to go dogging as a single gal. I realised I may be a fat, unattractive bint but someguys wanted to fuck me!

I became addicted, I had jumped in the deep end, took massive risks (didnt think about those at the time), and had some very horny pervy fun in some very dark lanes in Lincolnshire. In those early days I was a very bad girl, and god I loved it.

I had some photographs taken buy a guy off here (sorry cant remeber his name), and they gave me a boost. I just needed to feel sexy and wanted again, I have always had a high sex drive and this gave me that. I have met some lovely guys and gals, and now a wonderful man.

Happy days LP xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my fuck buddie has been on here for a few years, didnt know at first then gradually he introduced it to me after id told him a couple of things that i had already done when i was d*unk now he cant keep me off it!! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was 22 loved sex an ex brought me to a gangbang where i had my 1st threesome and more cocks and loved it

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That would be last year then Jacqs.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate introduced me to doing it just over 2 yrs ago but got told about the site about a month after at a club. Kept hearing good things about it so signed up around begining of last year

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By *ldestswingerintownMan
over a year ago

Lancaster

I overheard a manager at work talking about the parties he and his wife held, and how people contacted them through magazines - I used the mags for some years with very little success - then when I moved to North-west England and computers came on the scene I found the club scene in Amsterdam, paris and manchester.

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By *rPandSlutCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

When me and Paul met about 4 years ago, we were really into having fun in the car. I didn't know anything about dogging and things like that. Anyhow we ended up being the masters of getting caught and one night in a car park full of strangers decided that we could have fun with said strangers.

Anyway, since we began dogging so much and having so much fun together, we decided to look for other people like us. Once we moved in together we looked for stuff over the internet, and we were initially on another site full of everyone from around the world. Then we found fab, and we think it's one of the best sites out there and haven't looked back since... Every meet makes us love this lifestyle more.

xx Bonny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What scene why what have I stumbled upon here then? are we making a film or something? Im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had been single and celibate for 6yrs and met a guy, we started going out and he took me dogging, I loved it. We split over a year ago, I left and have just come back as a single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What scene why what have I stumbled upon here then? are we making a film or something? Im in"

Move along, nothing for you to see here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What scene why what have I stumbled upon here then? are we making a film or something? Im in

Move along, nothing for you to see here "

But I have to get through the tape officer as shop shuts in a min and mi mam will go mad if I dont get her a loaf for morning on mi dads butties

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