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How to organise an annonymous threesome?

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By *ovingkiki OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alfred

Me and my bofriend want to find another man for a discreet MMF threesome. It would be our first time however, but the idea turns us both on loads. My boyfriend is straight but I told him I'd like a guy that is bisexual as it turns me on to think of a guy sucking my boyfriend. He said he'd do that, as long as he didnt do it back.

I love the idea of a 'love triangle'. Me sucking the other guy as he sucks my boyfriend as my boyfriend eats and fingers me out, and occasionaly changing to DP of me.

Theres a few conditions we'd like during it though since it is our first time. I'd prefer if both my boyfriend and the other guy had some kind of mask on, and i'd like the other guy to be in good shape. By that I don't mean he has to be ripped, but I'd like him not to be fat, thin and fit/athletic.

Now, how do we do this!? Are there any adult clubs around which do all male annonymous meets so me and my boyfriend could come, all the men would be annonymous and masked, whilst I get pampered to! Is there such a thing? Or how would I go about organising it?

We're both shy about it, but really want to explore our fantasies safely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried contacting guys or putting this on your profile. A club is a safe way to explore your bounderies. Also posting it on meets and events may help.

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By *ovingkiki OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alfred

The only problem we have about going to a club is the lack of control and we are both a shy couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could go just socially and have a look and play with each other until you felt comfortable and places like chameleons have private lockable rooms. Or if your not comfortable just maybe leaving it as a fantasy. Or book a male escort.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

why not have a browse of profiles and if someone takes your eye, right and fully explain to them what it is you are looking for. Check that they are bi first obviously

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

you do realise you are on a swinging site...where ppl advertise for meets dont you

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By *evonTallGuyMan
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Sounds like an interesting meet. I'd certainly be up for it!

Why not update your profile to reflect your wishes and see what response you get. You should be able to tell from the quality of the messages received which guys are sympathetic to your situation and worth exploring a bit further.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

seems to me u know exactly what u want, and ur here so u know how to get it, i am somewhat baffled as to u sayin ur shy u dont sound it though that means nothing, this site is full of bi guys, young like u, and with ur pix i doubt u will have trouble finding and getting ur pick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing your profile is very specific. All about your needs. What would the meet get out of it. And are the photos all you it looks like a different person in the photos sorry to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my bofriend want to find another man for a discreet MMF threesome. It would be our first time however, but the idea turns us both on loads. My boyfriend is straight but I told him I'd like a guy that is bisexual as it turns me on to think of a guy sucking my boyfriend. He said he'd do that, as long as he didnt do it back.

I love the idea of a 'love triangle'. Me sucking the other guy as he sucks my boyfriend as my boyfriend eats and fingers me out, and occasionaly changing to DP of me.

Theres a few conditions we'd like during it though since it is our first time. I'd prefer if both my boyfriend and the other guy had some kind of mask on, and i'd like the other guy to be in good shape. By that I don't mean he has to be ripped, but I'd like him not to be fat, thin and fit/athletic.

Now, how do we do this!? Are there any adult clubs around which do all male annonymous meets so me and my boyfriend could come, all the men would be annonymous and masked, whilst I get pampered to! Is there such a thing? Or how would I go about organising it?

We're both shy about it, but really want to explore our fantasies safely."

You have very a very specific fantasy and the moment you involve another person in that fantasy to make it reality things change. The third party is also a person with wants and needs and things might not go exactly as you hoped. Saying that, if you're sure that you want to turn fantasy into reality and you find the right person, it can be a wonderful experience. My only thoughts are that you need to be totally sure you are ready for the step to reality from fantasy. None of my thoughts are meant as criticism of you or your ideas, just a reminder that you need to be 100% sure. Good luck in whatever you decide

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By *ovingkiki OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alfred

Yes the photos are all me, who else would they be, and thankyou for the compliments.

We can talk openly online about sex but the real world is different.

We arent really interested in the idea of an escourt.

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By *ovingkiki OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alfred

Thankyou, this is true. I do want to make it into reality but I didn't really tihnk much that the other person may have their own intentions/fantasies too! Hmm, I'll have to talk to my boyfriend and rethink it a bit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i love this idea too, is actually a fantasy of mine your not alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i love this idea too, is actually a fantasy of mine your not alone!"

also i am the same i can talk fine in here, but i am shy in a meet to start with!

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By *ovingkiki OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alfred

yes! We really want to do it. But we're trying to work out a way so we're not terrified lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my bofriend want to find another man for a discreet MMF threesome. It would be our first time however, but the idea turns us both on loads. My boyfriend is straight but I told him I'd like a guy that is bisexual as it turns me on to think of a guy sucking my boyfriend. He said he'd do that, as long as he didnt do it back.

I love the idea of a 'love triangle'. Me sucking the other guy as he sucks my boyfriend as my boyfriend eats and fingers me out, and occasionaly changing to DP of me.

Theres a few conditions we'd like during it though since it is our first time. I'd prefer if both my boyfriend and the other guy had some kind of mask on, and i'd like the other guy to be in good shape. By that I don't mean he has to be ripped, but I'd like him not to be fat, thin and fit/athletic.

Now, how do we do this!? Are there any adult clubs around which do all male annonymous meets so me and my boyfriend could come, all the men would be annonymous and masked, whilst I get pampered to! Is there such a thing? Or how would I go about organising it?

We're both shy about it, but really want to explore our fantasies safely."

i would imagine by now you must have already had more offers than you can cope with in reply to this post lol

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