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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks"

Because they don't like you.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks"
Because they aren't attracted to you and don't want you to bother them again the next day or a few months down the line. It's not always personal saves people coming up in searches aswell etc

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

For whatever reason they aren't interested in meeting you and if they block obviously it means you won't be able to contact them again.

Makes sense, doesn't it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block to save abusive messages, don’t take it personally OP. You can’t tell who’s going to be a twat about it and who isn’t, it’s easier to take a blanket approach

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"For whatever reason they aren't interested in meeting you and if they block obviously it means you won't be able to contact them again.

Makes sense, doesn't it?!"

i do this when i dont get a reply or they say they arnt interested...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All of that makes sense now thanks...it just baffled me as I'm not the needy type so if I'm not for certain members I respect that and I'm never abusive,I guess you win some you lose some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lord Lucan stop trying to put me down I do very well with 90% of women away from here so I'm very confident and comfortable in myself so don't be trying to knock me as it ain't gonna work because I'm a man not a boy so go back and play your teenage games with other people....pathetic.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

For us personally we would block because your name has bull in the title, which isn't something we are interested in and so to prevent an awkward messaging encounter, we block. Nothing personal.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lord Lucan stop trying to put me down I do very well with 90% of women away from here so I'm very confident and comfortable in myself so don't be trying to knock me as it ain't gonna work because I'm a man not a boy so go back and play your teenage games with other people....pathetic."

He didn’t say anything different to anyone else, and he’s not wrong. They blocked because they weren’t interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand that's not for some people..it's just basic preference that's all....we all like different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks

Because they don't like you."

this had me laughing out loud in the office!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To Lord lucan...I'm sorry I said that as I'm sure I seen you reposted that comment again further down the thread but if you didn't I apologise and I'm sorry....specsavers for me lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought he'd put it twice that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of men on here will send me a message, I will reply with a "not interest" message. and then a few days later they will message me again with exactly the same message they sent me in the first place, like they had forgotten they had messaged me. So I block to stop people messaging me even though I have told them I'm not interested. It just saves time in the future, nothing personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought he'd put it twice that's all."

Now there's someone else who doesn't like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I totally understand that as it's common sense...I'd do the same but I just didn't understand why but it all makes sense now lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was a genuine mistake as I thought you'd put it twice and was being funny that's all...I apologised if I offended you.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I got blocked the other time for taking too long to reply to a message from a couple that were interested in me! And by too long I mean 2 hours (I was out at the time)

So seriously don’t worry about it - it’s common on here

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Op you’ll soon get used to how it works and it’s not personal

The system is set up to enable people use the right filters for their own personal preferences so sometimes you’ll get a block just because of this reason

I block anyone who doesn’t return a message to prevent bothering them again and wasting my own time

Hope that helps and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha its funny that because I got talking well with a couple but one day I never messaged them whilst being online and I got a couple of negative messages...I had to tell them I didn't want to come across needy or pushy so that's why I never messaged them that day....I might do what whamboy mentioned and just block profiles who've read my messages but not replied so that is a good idea...no copyright intended whamboy lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a funny bunch online.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"They are a funny bunch online."

That’s exactly why I prefer clubs although it can be embarrassing when chatting to someone who looks at your profile and finds out you’ve blocked them it happened only last weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks"

Women tend to block almost anyone if they don't like, and they can justify with saying because they didnt like u, ur name ,ur dick pic or anything.

Your bad luck mate

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Don't worry, you may not be someone's cup of tea. We have been blocked by couples who have DM to us saying things like "come over now" no thanks your not for us. Been blocked. Just block them too as they will look at you again. Turn the tables lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry, you may not be someone's cup of tea. We have been blocked by couples who have DM to us saying things like "come over now" no thanks your not for us. Been blocked. Just block them too as they will look at you again. Turn the tables lol "

Thats something we never got it.

Some nutcases here who block ppl at drop of a hat.

Lack of social skills i guess. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got talking to a couple when I first joined and I would say maybe one message each way then they sent me a 2nd saying ask me where I'm from so I went to ask them in a message and I never got the chance as I was blocked....I think some ppl on here aren't normal lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got talking to a couple when I first joined and I would say maybe one message each way then they sent me a 2nd saying ask me where I'm from so I went to ask them in a message and I never got the chance as I was blocked....I think some ppl on here aren't normal lol."

FabEgo

Lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Any number of reasons.

"Bull" in your username, pics set to private, generic text to name but a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont take it personally OP. We all get blocked for one reason or another. I've been blocked few times when I've replied to a message " sorry no thank you " they wasn't being nasty it saves them messaging again, it just shortens their list which mads sense once it was explained.

You seem ok so carry on being yourself x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pics aren't in private mistress...for friends only...but I'll take your comments on board...thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks"

Some people block to stop abusive emails after saying no thanks. Some block to stop you emailing again in a few days, weeks, or months because you forgot you have already emailed them. Some block because they realise they know you in real life. Some block becuse they don't fancy you. Some block because your message or profile was crap and didn't interest them.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Pics aren't in private mistress...for friends only...but I'll take your comments on board...thank you."

Same difference really.

Most people look at the profile before opening the message. If there's nothing there to entice, they'll delete/block.

Look at it this way: would you open a shop, stock it with goodies, send out "grand opening" leaflets then black out the windows so no one can see inside?

Get my point?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got your point before mistress like I said I took your comment on board....the reason I keep my pics in my friends gallery is because if I'm ever to make friends with anyone with the potential of a meet i want them to like me for my personality foremost then see the physical side of me when we become friends through pics...it has worked as I have friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful what you say in the forums....

People could block you because they don’t like your opinions....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be careful what you say in the forums....

People could block you because they don’t like your opinions...."

We experienced that. Lol

But they dont know that you can still interact with them in forums

Silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks

Some people block to stop abusive emails after saying no thanks. Some block to stop you emailing again in a few days, weeks, or months because you forgot you have already emailed them. Some block because they realise they know you in real life. Some block becuse they don't fancy you. Some block because your message or profile was crap and didn't interest them. "

And also it could be because some ppl are scared to meet someone, they like playing online but may not be confident enough for a social meet. It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are afraid of the truth

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Be careful what you say in the forums....

People could block you because they don’t like your opinions....

We experienced that. Lol

But they dont know that you can still interact with them in forums

Silly "

No you can't, it's against the site rules to get round a block by interacting on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be careful what you say in the forums....

People could block you because they don’t like your opinions....

We experienced that. Lol

But they dont know that you can still interact with them in forums

Silly

No you can't, it's against the site rules to get round a block by interacting on the forums. "

Depends what you mean by interact. Fundamentally it is impossible to enforce blocking 'rules'on the forum. Do you check to see if you are blocked by anyone before you reply to their post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be careful what you say in the forums....

People could block you because they don’t like your opinions....

We experienced that. Lol

But they dont know that you can still interact with them in forums

Silly

No you can't, it's against the site rules to get round a block by interacting on the forums.

Depends what you mean by interact. Fundamentally it is impossible to enforce blocking 'rules'on the forum. Do you check to see if you are blocked by anyone before you reply to their post?"

I dont check but when they have different opinion than us, then it means they have blocked us, we do check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most people say it’s nothing personal just another filter

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Be careful what you say in the forums....

People could block you because they don’t like your opinions...."

Why care? If you're opinion differs to theirs to the extent they block you, see it as a filter, you're not compatible.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks"

BULL ...

Get you blocked by us...

Its code for dickhead...

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Be careful what you say in the forums....

People could block you because they don’t like your opinions....

We experienced that. Lol

But they dont know that you can still interact with them in forums

Silly

No you can't, it's against the site rules to get round a block by interacting on the forums. "

Getting salty about being blocked is against the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As most people say it’s nothing personal just another filter "

Cute justification ,isnt?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's a filter. They don't come up in searches and can't message again.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"As most people say it’s nothing personal just another filter

Cute justification ,isnt?"

Nobody needs to justify who they block and why they do it. For example, if I block you, why do I need to justify it to you or anyone else? I block for many reasons, not being compatible is one of them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Don't worry, you may not be someone's cup of tea. We have been blocked by couples who have DM to us saying things like "come over now" no thanks your not for us. Been blocked. Just block them too as they will look at you again. Turn the tables lol

Thats something we never got it.

Some nutcases here who block ppl at drop of a hat.

Lack of social skills i guess. Lol"

No, it's to stop unwanted communication. Lack of social skills include not reading profiles, not taking no for an answer, being abusive and many more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of whinging about getting blocked just get on with your life and enjoy having fun with the people who do talk to you, life is too short.

Nobody likes a whinger, its very unattractive.

People have different tastes and you might not float their boat.

If you get blocked, so what, there are plenty of people on here that will talk to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks

BULL ...

Get you blocked by us...

Its code for dickhead..."

That's very judgemental as you don't know me to say im a dickhead but ok....I'm actually not a bull and that was one of the username suggestions that came up when I joined.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks"
It's your arse pic I reckon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wasn't whinging just asking lol and I know now why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't whinging just asking lol and I know now why."
omg you know what women want, tell me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanksIt's your arse pic I reckon"

You could be right mark....never had any negative comments yet though all positive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wasn't whinging just asking lol and I know now why.omg you know what women want, tell me "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanksIt's your arse pic I reckon

You could be right mark....never had any negative comments yet though all positive."
pic or it ain't true

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I wasn't whinging just asking lol and I know now why.omg you know what women want, tell me "

Great! Can you tell me as well lol?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn't whinging just asking lol and I know now why.omg you know what women want, tell me

Great! Can you tell me as well lol?! "
exactly you keep moving the goal posts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep moving the goalposts mark....what you on about?

And saying I know what women want?....I never said anything like that...and what do you mean pic or it ain't true?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks Because they aren't attracted to you and don't want you to bother them again the next day or a few months down the line. It's not always personal saves people coming up in searches aswell etc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanksIt's your arse pic I reckon"

Well it beats a bloody cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They most likely aren't interested so block to avoid further contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... .Most people look at the profile before opening the message. If there's nothing there to entice, they'll delete/block......"

Do they? I'd have said no more than 50% in our case and I think that's being generous.

Mike xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep moving the goalposts mark....what you on about?

And saying I know what women want?....I never said anything like that...and what do you mean pic or it ain't true?."

I think he is talking about proof of your positive comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah I see...well I'm not one for keeping many messages just the people I'm in contact with regularly but I'm not going to justify myself by putting comments up I've received as surely that's vane and egotistical of me to keep all messages regarding that.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I keep all my messages. I just thought that's because I'm lazy, not vain and egotistical.

Maybe people block you because you dont have any verifications.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep all my messages. I just thought that's because I'm lazy, not vain and egotistical.

Maybe people block you because you dont have any verifications. "

I said in the above comment that it would be vane and egotistical of me to put comments from people up on here...I never said keeping messages is vane or egotistical.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do have no verifications but like most men say on here it takes a while to establish a meet....I'm supposed to be meeting a couple in about 3 weeks but there's also potential for a meet with a couple in early December so fingers crossed.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you post comments from messages people have sent you, you will get a forum ban.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Hope your meets go well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all my time on here, I don't think I've blocked someone because they'd messaged and I wasn't interested in getting to know them further. I get why some do it though. I wouldn't take it personally OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all my time on here, I don't think I've blocked someone because they'd messaged and I wasn't interested in getting to know them further. I get why some do it though. I wouldn't take it personally OP "
me neither I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all my time on here, I don't think I've blocked someone because they'd messaged and I wasn't interested in getting to know them further. I get why some do it though. I wouldn't take it personally OP me neither I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to mind "

I've had that and done that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all my time on here, I don't think I've blocked someone because they'd messaged and I wasn't interested in getting to know them further. I get why some do it though. I wouldn't take it personally OP me neither I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to mind

I've had that and done that too "
why burn bridges we don't know anyone until we meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all my time on here, I don't think I've blocked someone because they'd messaged and I wasn't interested in getting to know them further. I get why some do it though. I wouldn't take it personally OP me neither I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to mind

I've had that and done that too why burn bridges we don't know anyone until we meet them "

I block those I don't want to communicate with further on the forums. I know not to reply to their comments then. It's not about the potential to meet. Just a filter not to engage

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Seriously

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks

Because they don't like you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks"

Prob because all the idiots on here spoil it so they block b4 someone turns as 90% of guys can not take a "No thank you" and then have to give them abuse. I do feel sorry for the women in here as I know they get hundreds of messages a day and some really nasty. No need. Xx

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"For whatever reason they aren't interested in meeting you and if they block obviously it means you won't be able to contact them again.

Makes sense, doesn't it?!"

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I block loads - mainly because I either dont want them coming up in searches, because I am not attracted to them so will never meet them, or to stop them appearing in the 'updates' - even if I like the look of them, some update simply put me off.

Filtering this way means I am generally only seeing those I might be interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all my time on here, I don't think I've blocked someone because they'd messaged and I wasn't interested in getting to know them further. I get why some do it though. I wouldn't take it personally OP me neither I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to mind

I've had that and done that too why burn bridges we don't know anyone until we meet them

I block those I don't want to communicate with further on the forums. I know not to reply to their comments then. It's not about the potential to meet. Just a filter not to engage "
ahhhh yes but that's really very judgemental, I understand why but as I said you really don't know a person until you meet them, whats said here doesn't give an accurate picture of a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are afraid of the truth "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all my time on here, I don't think I've blocked someone because they'd messaged and I wasn't interested in getting to know them further. I get why some do it though. I wouldn't take it personally OP me neither I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to mind

I've had that and done that too why burn bridges we don't know anyone until we meet them

I block those I don't want to communicate with further on the forums. I know not to reply to their comments then. It's not about the potential to meet. Just a filter not to engage ahhhh yes but that's really very judgemental, I understand why but as I said you really don't know a person until you meet them, whats said here doesn't give an accurate picture of a person "

Everybody judges on some level. If I read things from someone that I don't think I would get along with, then I'll block. I have no care to meet them anyway, to find out if they are more likeminded. To me it's just filtering. If you think I'm a very judgemental person, I have no control over that. We are just different People, with different outlooks on how we manage our profiles. Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you post comments from messages people have sent you, you will get a forum ban. "

I never knew that but I wouldn't do it anyways as I respect people's privacy...thanks slinky I hope they go ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks

Because they don't like you."

and dont match what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some women I have got speaking to on here have told me absolute ridiculous messages some men send and they come across very needy and pushy so like a member said further up in the thread "90% of men spoilt".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women I have got speaking to on here have told me absolute ridiculous messages some men send and they come across very needy and pushy so like a member said further up in the thread "90% of men spoilt"."

not just men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m starting to think people have gone mad.....

The days of taking a hint and better judgement have gone the way of the dinosaurs....

People need to have a explicit explanation of why someone is not interested in them.....

Just this morning someone I have blocked on my cell phone , called me at work to find out if I was alive.....

If I haven’t spoken to you in 2 months, why do you need me to tell you I’m not interested.....

This post asking for explanation of why someone blocked is the same thing.....

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks"

Because this isn't "Instashag.com", people have the right to choose who they want to interact with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lord Lucan stop trying to put me down I do very well with 90% of women away from here so I'm very confident and comfortable in myself so don't be trying to knock me as it ain't gonna work because I'm a man not a boy so go back and play your teenage games with other people....pathetic.

He didn’t say anything different to anyone else, and he’s not wrong. They blocked because they weren’t interested"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry, you may not be someone's cup of tea. We have been blocked by couples who have DM to us saying things like "come over now" no thanks your not for us. Been blocked. Just block them too as they will look at you again. Turn the tables lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry, you may not be someone's cup of tea. We have been blocked by couples who have DM to us saying things like "come over now" no thanks your not for us. Been blocked. Just block them too as they will look at you again. Turn the tables lol

Thats something we never got it.

Some nutcases here who block ppl at drop of a hat.

Lack of social skills i guess. Lol"

Seriously? Bit an assumption...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just curious why sometimes I get blocked even though I've sent a polite and respectful message....it's mostly females not couples...anyone got views on this..thanks"
it because there so many men and not eough women to go around so they are very pick i would say so they block those who they do not want talk too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block loads - mainly because I either dont want them coming up in searches, because I am not attracted to them so will never meet them, or to stop them appearing in the 'updates' - even if I like the look of them, some update simply put me off.

Filtering this way means I am generally only seeing those I might be interested in "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I messaged back it's only to say ok thanks for the reply like I always do as I'm not the pushy type and that's how I find out I'm blocked....no means no and I respect that...I only was curious not complaining but it seems to have spiralled out of control on here lol.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"If I messaged back it's only to say ok thanks for the reply like I always do as I'm not the pushy type and that's how I find out I'm blocked....no means no and I respect that...I only was curious not complaining but it seems to have spiralled out of control on here lol."
No you don't message back thanking for the reply the dialogue should end there and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is bloody bee's knees if you want my take on it ! 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I messaged back it's only to say ok thanks for the reply like I always do as I'm not the pushy type and that's how I find out I'm blocked....no means no and I respect that...I only was curious not complaining but it seems to have spiralled out of control on here lol. No you don't message back thanking for the reply the dialogue should end there and then "

I get what your saying mate but it's just the way I am..I'm polite that's all.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"If I messaged back it's only to say ok thanks for the reply like I always do as I'm not the pushy type and that's how I find out I'm blocked....no means no and I respect that...I only was curious not complaining but it seems to have spiralled out of control on here lol. No you don't message back thanking for the reply the dialogue should end there and then

I get what your saying mate but it's just the way I am..I'm polite that's all."
I know what you are saying too but it isn't necessary to be polite in them circumstances. That's why you are probably getting blocked aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I messaged back it's only to say ok thanks for the reply like I always do as I'm not the pushy type and that's how I find out I'm blocked....no means no and I respect that...I only was curious not complaining but it seems to have spiralled out of control on here lol. No you don't message back thanking for the reply the dialogue should end there and then

I get what your saying mate but it's just the way I am..I'm polite that's all."

How is thanking someone for replying to you...

Being polite?

I can understand thanking someone for not leading you on after you messaged them and decided you were not compatible to meet....

But the act of just thanking someone for replying to your message, just seems odd...

I’m not having a dig at you , it just seems like wasted effort

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