FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to meet /chat to people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello all, am looking for creative advice really am struggling at the moment chatting to females and couples on here. Is there a trick to it??

I read there profiles make sure I know what they are looking for, send pics they want then in the end they read with no reply. Fair enough if they have tonnes of messages, but at the moment its just wearing my confidence down.

Would it be easier to forget meets off here and just do cubs??

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

You are aware of the ratio of single men to everyone else here?

If you do nothing to make your profile stand out from the crowd, chances are slim you will see success here. Your profile doesn't say enough about you and you have no pics for public viewing. Your age I suppose isn't a factor, but not being able to accommodate might be. It might help to touch up your grammar a bit.

Your best bet would be to attend organised socials as you can meet many sexy, interesting women there. If you post regularly on the forums and don't rub people the wrong way, you might be able to strike up conversations with your intended audience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are aware of the ratio of single men to everyone else here?

Yeah you do have a good point, I think I need to have a good overall of my profile and sort it out completely really change it up and get it sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to repeat yourself about the hygiene procedures, also to say you would shower before meet.. is it necessary to add this? I always meet socially first so whilst I'm in the bar having a drink I can notice if they look after themselves, wear clean clothes, smell nice, don't have grubby nails etc.. if not there will be no fun and we both go home alone.

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Have a look at attending some socials in your area.

You can meet some fantastic people

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

People will look at a profile first before deciding whether to message you back or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a look at attending some socials in your area.

You can meet some fantastic people"

This lady is correct and she organises very popular socials which will introduce you to some nice people.

Better to go to one of these if your nervous about meeting on your own as the host will introduce you to folk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I think I need to sort my profile out get all the points down from you all and have another crack at it and make it simple. Plus update my pics as well tbh!

Plus once I get my profile sorted I might just head out for socials, meets, parties etc then look on here, rather meet people face to face then over a screen.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

From my own experience patience and perseverance are also key.

I’ve been on here a while and it’s only just recently that I’ve started to make progress.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not doing too badly as you already have 2 veris.

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