FabSwingers.com forum: Secret bi ladies

By *anonal523 OP Couple
over a year ago

eastwood

We were at Libs Saturday and once again it was noticeable that no Bi ladies were wearing the yellow arm bands that indicate there preferences. Straight ladies have to be very cautious to avoid unexpected/unwelcome approaches. Is this why fewer people are using the large play bed. Also it is quite apparent Most of the bi ladies are soft swing only and try to cut out the male half of couples they approach. May we suggest a coloured arm band for straight couples if the yellow band systen isnt working

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m bi and never use the wrist bands at Liberty, have no intention of playing with people who can’t communicate with us and would rely on a wrist band as an effective tool for communication, find it pretty pathetic the amount of people who can’t look you in the eye, acknowledge us or chat to us but once we are on the big bed, try to join us with little or no communication.

As for us bi ladies swerving the guys that’s not us at all, equal way dynamics with EVERYONE involved, otherwise no play

By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

No one should join in without asking. Ever.

But as for labelling bi women, I’m not sure I’d like that unless everyone had wristbands.

By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Is it compulsory to wear the bands?

By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Is it compulsory to wear the bands? "

Not at all, just a prop that’s there should you wish to use it.