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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have a certain time before you take a new arrival seriously? Whilst there maybe some benefit to 'getting in first' I often wonder whether chatting to newcomers (less than a week) is a lot of effort that often gets rewarded by 'user no longer on website' what do you think?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Do you have a certain time before you take a new arrival seriously? Whilst there maybe some benefit to 'getting in first' I often wonder whether chatting to newcomers (less than a week) is a lot of effort that often gets rewarded by 'user no longer on website' what do you think?"
Only chat with verified users too many fakes if they have at least a photo verification then that's fine.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I see a sexy newbie I pop them on my hotlist because I think it looks bad if you message them straight away. Then I usually forget about them until they put a status up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I see a sexy newbie I pop them on my hotlist because I think it looks bad if you message them straight away. Then I usually forget about them until they put a status up "

I do this but as the hotlist gets longer and longer I forget why I put them on! (looks obviously but normally it is to do with an interest / status as well!) By the way that is seriously impressive halloween make-up!

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Do you have a certain time before you take a new arrival seriously? Whilst there maybe some benefit to 'getting in first' I often wonder whether chatting to newcomers (less than a week) is a lot of effort that often gets rewarded by 'user no longer on website' what do you think?"

New female profiles get the shit pestered out of them so its pretty pointless mailing for at least 3 weeks. New people are fare more likley to cancel, disappear or block out of the blue.

The male brain thinks 'Grunt' newbie lets get cock in there first!

Its not clever its not effective.

But if you like to be shoulder to shoulder with 1000 other guys all cocks out go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have a certain time before you take a new arrival seriously? Whilst there maybe some benefit to 'getting in first' I often wonder whether chatting to newcomers (less than a week) is a lot of effort that often gets rewarded by 'user no longer on website' what do you think?"
Depends if the newbie has been here before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have a certain time before you take a new arrival seriously? Whilst there maybe some benefit to 'getting in first' I often wonder whether chatting to newcomers (less than a week) is a lot of effort that often gets rewarded by 'user no longer on website' what do you think?

New female profiles get the shit pestered out of them so its pretty pointless mailing for at least 3 weeks. New people are fare more likley to cancel, disappear or block out of the blue.

The male brain thinks 'Grunt' newbie lets get cock in there first!

Its not clever its not effective.

But if you like to be shoulder to shoulder with 1000 other guys all cocks out go for it.

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That very much depends on my mood. Sometimes standing with 1000 guys cocks out doesnt seem like a terrible idea!

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Do you have a certain time before you take a new arrival seriously? Whilst there maybe some benefit to 'getting in first' I often wonder whether chatting to newcomers (less than a week) is a lot of effort that often gets rewarded by 'user no longer on website' what do you think?

New female profiles get the shit pestered out of them so its pretty pointless mailing for at least 3 weeks. New people are fare more likley to cancel, disappear or block out of the blue.

The male brain thinks 'Grunt' newbie lets get cock in there first!

Its not clever its not effective.

But if you like to be shoulder to shoulder with 1000 other guys all cocks out go for it.

That very much depends on my mood. Sometimes standing with 1000 guys cocks out doesnt seem like a terrible idea! "

Well go for it though but don't get fooled like many do that first in wins as that's your libido kicking in.

New profiles will either give up and delete or stay so take your time well thats what I would suggest anyway. It sounds as though its specific interest in one profile here.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Never approach a new profile or an unverified profile. Will speak to new profiles if they contact us but to be perfectly honest like you said 90% of them go UNLOS soon after joining so not worth the effort.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

All of us were new to start though

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