FabSwingers.com forum: what does it mean

By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean."

Prostitute.

Only joking. It means they have a job. Sadly, It doesn’t mean they’re professional at sex.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean.

Prostitute.

Only joking. It means they have a job. Sadly, It doesn’t mean they’re professional at sex.

Lou x "

I had a giggle at that. Thanks!

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By *arc1oneMan
over a year ago

oxford

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean.

Prostitute.

Only joking. It means they have a job. Sadly, It doesn’t mean they’re professional at sex.

Lou x "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, people who quote they are 'professional' come across as pretentious. It's a good indicator of their characters and we would probably not be compatible!

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"For us, people who quote they are 'professional' come across as pretentious. It's a good indicator of their characters and we would probably not be compatible!

Right there with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean.

Prostitute.

Only joking. It means they have a job. Sadly, It doesn’t mean they’re professional at sex.

Lou x

??"
qualified to perform , you know certified accountants , NVQ'd chippy, BSc barrister etc

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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago

where ever

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean.

Prostitute.

Only joking. It means they have a job. Sadly, It doesn’t mean they’re professional at sex.

Lou x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us, people who quote they are 'professional' come across as pretentious. It's a good indicator of their characters and we would probably not be compatible!

Right there with you!"

Same here

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean."
It means they are educated and don't associate with riff raff that could be on Jeremy Kyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why."

And what difference does that make on a swingers site?. I'm not looking to settle down with anyone,so what's it's showing me. That they have a job and rhin k it needs mentioning? Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean.

Prostitute.

Only joking. It means they have a job. Sadly, It doesn’t mean they’re professional at sex.

Lou x

??qualified to perform , you know certified accountants , NVQ'd chippy, BSc barrister etc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean. It means they are educated and don't associate with riff raff that could be on Jeremy Kyle.

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean.

Prostitute.

Only joking. It means they have a job. Sadly, It doesn’t mean they’re professional at sex.

Lou x

??qualified to perform , you know certified accountants , NVQ'd chippy, BSc barrister etc

Fare enough. And that prove a what on a swingers site?. I'm here for sex,socialising etc. Fact they may be qualified has no baring on if they'll be good in bed or be able to hold a decent conversation and have banter. Lexi"
that's true so why put it it's much like putting the university warning on profiles it means little

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

And what difference does that make on a swingers site?. I'm not looking to settle down with anyone,so what's it's showing me. That they have a job and rhin k it needs mentioning? Lexi"

It's showing you that you aren't compatible with that type of profile.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi"
They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi"
here really, do you know I've never watched it and never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or when they say Professional, it means it's an excuse to never show you a face photo...

I can't show my face because of my profession...

I've had that old chestnut

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It means they have a job. I'm guessing most of us do as well. They could also be "a genuine professional".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or when they say Professional, it means it's an excuse to never show you a face photo...

I can't show my face because of my profession...

I've had that old chestnut"
you're unemployed then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or when they say Professional, it means it's an excuse to never show you a face photo...

I can't show my face because of my profession...

I've had that old chestnutyou're unemployed then "

Self employed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean."

Its a crude hint that they don't see themselves as chavs and generally don't want to meet the dirty dishevelled scatter type of people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The purpose of profiles is to see if they're people you would meet.

if there's something you don't like, don't meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

And what difference does that make on a swingers site?. I'm not looking to settle down with anyone,so what's it's showing me. That they have a job and rhin k it needs mentioning? Lexi"

You may not but I live in London and most people I meet are professional people. It does show me that I will get a half decent conversation and these types don’t usually send creepy messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why."

I get confused as to why people get cross also. It’s a term widely used and I don’t see it as someone being up themselves. Most of my friends are in a profession that warrants that title.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

I get confused as to why people get cross also. It’s a term widely used and I don’t see it as someone being up themselves. Most of my friends are in a profession that warrants that title. "

If we got cross about all the terms on profiles that exclude us we'd spend all day angry

If it's not being excluded from meeting people that's the problem what exactly is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always assume it means, "We are superior and more educated than non professional members and we don't associate with lower class oiks"

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Or part of that well known MM couple, bodie and doyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most professionals worked hard to get their degrees.... just saying...

It’s just letting people know they are educated and sophisticated people.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Most professionals worked hard to get their degrees.... just saying...

It’s just letting people know they are educated and sophisticated people."
I hope you are BBCNYC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why."

Exactly this.

I don't get why it bothers people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

I get confused as to why people get cross also. It’s a term widely used and I don’t see it as someone being up themselves. Most of my friends are in a profession that warrants that title. "

It’s great to pop a key word like that on your profile. Whether it’s true or not, it’s a great filter of those with sticks up their arses who get too easily offended over bollocks that doesn’t matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most professionals worked hard to get their degrees.... just saying...

It’s just letting people know they are educated and sophisticated people."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesn't bother me....though it's no indication of whether they are worth socialising with or shagging

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean."

They've probably got a NVQ for serving burgers at McDonalds

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

My wife is a Professional because she has a PHD. To any non professional people who need clarity on this, PHD stands for “Professional Head Doctor”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife is a Professional because she has a PHD. To any non professional people who need clarity on this, PHD stands for “Professional Head Doctor”"

or she has a pretty huge dick...that could mean two things though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

I get confused as to why people get cross also. It’s a term widely used and I don’t see it as someone being up themselves. Most of my friends are in a profession that warrants that title.

If we got cross about all the terms on profiles that exclude us we'd spend all day angry

If it's not being excluded from meeting people that's the problem what exactly is?"

Why does one word make so many feel inferior. Is it jealousy?

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

"Most professionals worked hard to get their degrees.... just saying...

It’s just letting people know they are educated and sophisticated people."

Educated doesn't automatically make someone a professional in either the working environment or act like a professional in the social environment.

The word professional is coming to its end and will end up in the bin with lords and serfs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most professionals worked hard to get their degrees.... just saying...

It’s just letting people know they are educated and sophisticated people.

Hey I flew with Emirates back from Australia/Japan . I swore one of the stewardess looked like you... I didn’t say anything to her... but if that was you , those hats they wear are seductive.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most professionals worked hard to get their degrees.... just saying...

It’s just letting people know they are educated and sophisticated people.

Educated doesn't automatically make someone a professional in either the working environment or act like a professional in the social environment.

The word professional is coming to its end and will end up in the bin with lords and serfs. "

Right..... so medical doctors will now be called witch doctors

And lawyers/barrister will now be called trail by combat participatants ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional to us means own house, car, teeth and job...So basically working middle class. It's just people advertising their social status, or at least how they view themselves. We always take 'professional' with a pinch of salt. It means very different things to many different people.

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Yeah I was just curious I’ve seen it on a few profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most professionals worked hard to get their degrees.... just saying...

It’s just letting people know they are educated and sophisticated people.

Hey I flew with Emirates back from Australia/Japan . I swore one of the stewardess looked like you... I didn’t say anything to her... but if that was you , those hats they wear are seductive....."

Not me as that would mean I have to live in Dubai and I didn’t want to do that. Thanks for thinking of me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I see profiles that state they are sexy, gym fit seeking the same and don't feel the need to get arsey, exhibit reverse snobbery to call them out because my fat arse doesn't meet their requirements.

People: get over yourselves. The profiles don't state "no DSS, shelf stackers or college dropouts". By the inferiority complex shown by some, they're simply describing themselves to allow others to exclude themselves.

How we choose "like minded" playmates is personal. It doesn't mean, if you're excluded that you're shit, just not compatible.

Grow up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see profiles that state they are sexy, gym fit seeking the same and don't feel the need to get arsey, exhibit reverse snobbery to call them out because my fat arse doesn't meet their requirements.

How we choose "like minded" playmates is personal. It doesn't mean, if you're excluded that you're shit, just not compatible.

Grow up!"

Keep going...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see profiles that state they are sexy, gym fit seeking the same and don't feel the need to get arsey, exhibit reverse snobbery to call them out because my fat arse doesn't meet their requirements.

How we choose "like minded" playmates is personal. It doesn't mean, if you're excluded that you're shit, just not compatible.

Grow up!"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I see profiles that state they are sexy, gym fit seeking the same and don't feel the need to get arsey, exhibit reverse snobbery to call them out because my fat arse doesn't meet their requirements.

How we choose "like minded" playmates is personal. It doesn't mean, if you're excluded that you're shit, just not compatible.

Grow up!

Keep going...

I'm taking deep breathes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We associate professional people as having a high level of education, a good well paid job (doctor, lawyer, teacher, etc) , probably living in a nice part of town who are very discreet about this part of their life due to judgement from employer and friends. Also tend to look after themselves in terms of exercise and diet. Generally don’t smoke.

That’s the connotations of professional for us. Not all professionals are like this but we’ve met a few who have been amongst our best meets.

Don’t know why people get so upset about the term. If you don’t like professional people or people who label themselves with this then there’s plenty of other people to meet on the site.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Most professionals worked hard to get their degrees.... just saying...

It’s just letting people know they are educated and sophisticated people."

Some ‘professionals’ don’t have a degree but they have worked hard to succeed in their chosen career. Many with degrees end up in menial roles. Being ‘educated’ doesn’t necessarily make for a successful or interesting person.

And personally, I feel people who declare their professional/wealthy/intellectual status lack sophistication and are often stretching the truth.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless... "

Haha! I don’t have a degree but I am in a ‘professional’ career, live in a nice area and I don’t smoke...but I’m overweight and enjoy a kebab after a night out ... now I’m confused as to what I am!

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless... "

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seem to get people's noses out of joint at times but actually this is usually a pretty good indication of whether you would get on at a meet.

The fact is that there are compatibility complications in this game, we don't need a playmate to be a genius physicist, and we don't judge anyone for being a homemaker or anything like that. In fact we have played with both, but generally speaking we would prefer people to know what they are getting into by meeting us. We conduct ourselves a certain way and with a wide degree of wiggle room for sure we expect the same in return.

There is also the fact that swinging is a unique subject matter. There are a great many men that I could have a great laugh with down the pub but I wouldn't be happy with them fucking my partner. It needs to be someone you respect, or by viewing that you disrespect your partner by association. Them being a person who has a purpose and can conduct themselves in a civilised fashion is a large part of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

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By *hrobbermanMan
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Always remember the true mark of a professional is that they know the limits of their profession.

A Dentist will not claim to be a tree surgeon.

A French Teacher will not claim to be a Maths Teacher.

A Professional Footballer will not claim to be a Professional Landscape Gardener.

A Professional Mechanic will not claim to be a Professional Actress or Actor.

So, someone on this sex site, who claims to be a "professional" with no clarification as to the limits of their profession... well that kinda speaks for itself. Unless they are secretly a professional snake-oil salesperson.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure some come under the category for professional Dick Head on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional people aren’t looking for marriage on this site....

If someone put I like men with tattoos sleeves on their profile....

I don’t anything less of them.....

I just know I’m not their type........

Most people don’t have to type they’re professionals on their profiles....

You can tell when speaking to them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

Alright now settle down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful"

Come on, I’ve started counting lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful

Come on, I’ve started counting lovely

I'm off for a strop...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful

Come on, I’ve started counting lovely

I'm off for a strop...

Do you want some popcorn to cheer you up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful

Come on, I’ve started counting lovely

I'm off for a strop...

Do you want some popcorn to cheer you up? "

No I'm full up. I'm sad and depressed, I'm off to report people for their posts on Facebook now.

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over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful

Come on, I’ve started counting lovely

I'm off for a strop...

Do you want some popcorn to cheer you up?

No I'm full up. I'm sad and depressed, I'm off to report people for their posts on Facebook now."

Sending you big booby hugs

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean."

It means they are happy in the company of people who go to the same golf club as them.

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over a year ago

Not at all. We use the term professional to denote what we are, not who we're looking for.

As for its meaning - from our perspective, it means that we're working in fields that require us to belong to a register of professionals - (for example, doctor, lawyer, teacher etc.). Some people seem to consider the use of the word somehow arrogant or condescending - but we see it as being a literal description of a part of who we are.

We appreciate that some people don't like the term. Okay - so what? We don't like the terms 'heavy cummer' or 'rant over', but we certainly don't judge an entire profile by those things alone. Doing so would be myopic in the extreme.

TL,DR? We're professionals, we're unapologetic. It's not a big deal. Find a way to be okay with it, or don't.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean.

Prostitute.

Only joking. It means they have a job. Sadly, It doesn’t mean they’re professional at sex.

Lou x "

They maybe a professional at sex? To be fair one could argue FAB would be a bit of a busmans holiday for a sex worker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

means dont upset them

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By *oelDorian OP Man
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Not at all. We use the term professional to denote what we are, not who we're looking for.

TL,DR? We're professionals, we're unapologetic. It's not a big deal. Find a way to be okay with it, or don't. "

You said it’s not to sound arrogant but your final statement was by the pure definition arrogance

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over a year ago

"Not at all. We use the term professional to denote what we are, not who we're looking for.

TL,DR? We're professionals, we're unapologetic. It's not a big deal. Find a way to be okay with it, or don't.

You said it’s not to sound arrogant but your final statement was by the pure definition arrogance "

Untrue. I was summarising the post, hence "tl,dr".

However, if you consider that to be arrogance - okay, I'm not going to argue the point. Your view is your own. You're welcome to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This forum is a crazy place sometimes......

I have seen nothing on a profile that would put me off , besides no black guys....

I could care less what someone does for a living as long as they are clean and respect my boundaries during a meet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just immediately think of "Bodie and Doyle"

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"For us, people who quote they are 'professional' come across as pretentious. It's a good indicator of their characters and we would probably not be compatible!

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spot on

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over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

Exactly this.

I don't get why it bothers people. "

Same. Why get the panties in a bunch over it? How do people know that those profiles without it stated don't hold the same value as those who do state it?

It's bit of text on a profile. It could even be a lie

!! You know as no-one on here lies on profiles do they

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over a year ago

"This forum is a crazy place sometimes......

I have seen nothing on a profile that would put me off , besides no black guys....

I could care less what someone does for a living as long as they are clean and respect my boundaries during a meet.....

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us, people who quote they are 'professional' come across as pretentious. It's a good indicator of their characters and we would probably not be compatible!

spot on

And people who think that would not be compatible to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was hoping for a professional wrestler to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us, people who quote they are 'professional' come across as pretentious. It's a good indicator of their characters and we would probably not be compatible!

spot on

And people who think that would not be compatible to me. "

We profoundly agree.

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

we just wing it through life

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over a year ago

"For us, people who quote they are 'professional' come across as pretentious. It's a good indicator of their characters and we would probably not be compatible!

spot on

And people who think that

would not be compatible to me.

It's a win win....

We profoundly agree. "

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over a year ago

"For us, people who quote they are 'professional' come across as pretentious. It's a good indicator of their characters and we would probably not be compatible!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"For us, people who quote they are 'professional' come across as pretentious. It's a good indicator of their characters and we would probably not be compatible!

spot on

And people who think that would not be compatible to me. "

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"The purpose of profiles is to see if they're people you would meet.

if there's something you don't like, don't meet them

Spot on! We see too many complaints about other people's profiles - too many cock pics, not enough pictures of him, people who are pedantic about spelling....and, of course, being "professionals". Profiles are how you advertise yourselves to attract the people YOU want to meet, and if your advert works for you that's fine. If it doesn't work for someone reading it then they should simply move on to another profile that does appeal to them.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"The purpose of profiles is to see if they're people you would meet.

if there's something you don't like, don't meet them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there's an awful lot of inverted snobbery about. If someone came on to the forum saying "I'm working class and proud" nobody would bat an eyelid. The same would not apply to someone who wrote "I'm upper class and proud"

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over a year ago

"I think there's an awful lot of inverted snobbery about. If someone came on to the forum saying "I'm working class and proud" nobody would bat an eyelid. The same would not apply to someone who wrote "I'm upper class and proud""
or I have morals

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over a year ago

"Ok i have seen this on a few profiles but what does it mean on a profile when they are professional for an example they are a professional woman like what does that even mean.

Prostitute.

Only joking. It means they have a job. Sadly, It doesn’t mean they’re professional at sex.

Lou x

??qualified to perform , you know certified accountants , NVQ'd chippy, BSc barrister etc

Fare enough. And that prove a what on a swingers site?. I'm here for sex,socialising etc. Fact they may be qualified has no baring on if they'll be good in bed or be able to hold a decent conversation and have banter. Lexithat's true so why put it it's much like putting the university warning on profiles it means little "

I have no idea sweet

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over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

And what difference does that make on a swingers site?. I'm not looking to settle down with anyone,so what's it's showing me. That they have a job and rhin k it needs mentioning? Lexi

It's showing you that you aren't compatible with that type of profile.

How. Please explain?. I've met professional people before. They didn't mention it on their profile. We got on very well. Better than others who weren't professional. Lexi

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over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

And what difference does that make on a swingers site?. I'm not looking to settle down with anyone,so what's it's showing me. That they have a job and rhin k it needs mentioning? Lexi

It's showing you that you aren't compatible with that type of profile.

How. Please explain?. I've met professional people before. They didn't mention it on their profile. We got on very well. Better than others who weren't professional. Lexi"
so youre saying it doesn't actually mean anything? And if you are saying that I agree

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over a year ago

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

Oh okay cool. So they wanna compare careers or have great sex? Lol. So what you're saying is that one professional will seek another,just because they're both professional in the hope that they will get along because of that fact?. Each to their own i guess

. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or when they say Professional, it means it's an excuse to never show you a face photo...

I can't show my face because of my profession...

I've had that old chestnut"

Haha. I've had this said to me soo many times. I just say okay and delete them. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The purpose of profiles is to see if they're people you would meet.

if there's something you don't like, don't meet them

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi"
Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

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over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

And what difference does that make on a swingers site?. I'm not looking to settle down with anyone,so what's it's showing me. That they have a job and rhin k it needs mentioning? Lexi

It's showing you that you aren't compatible with that type of profile.

How. Please explain?. I've met professional people before. They didn't mention it on their profile. We got on very well. Better than others who weren't professional. Lexiso youre saying it doesn't actually mean anything? And if you are saying that I agree"

Guess it does to some and not to others

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"The purpose of profiles is to see if they're people you would meet.

if there's something you don't like, don't meet them

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over a year ago

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

. That's all I mean. Does it make some stuck up,or posh you think?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi"

No different to "gym fit and sexy" in my opinion. Not all "gym fit and sexy" people are going to attracted to each other are they, but it excludes the oompah loompahs from contacting them.

Likewise, if you feel "out of someone's league" for whatever reason, why not accept you're not compatible rather than make snide remarks?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

. That's all I mean. Does it make some stuck up,or posh you think?"
I think some people believe it is an attribute and makes them more desirable. Some will like it and some won't. I have met people who described themselves as 'professional' and they have been humble so it's not like they are all arrogant and feel superior.

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over a year ago

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

And what difference does that make on a swingers site?. I'm not looking to settle down with anyone,so what's it's showing me. That they have a job and rhin k it needs mentioning? Lexi

You may not but I live in London and most people I meet are professional people. It does show me that I will get a half decent conversation and these types don’t usually send creepy messages. "

Oh London lol. I'm from London too. Most i met were professional also. Some were boring as hell and had the banter of a uneducated child. Don't get me started on how soul draining the messaged were. Maybe i wasn't ment to be around "professionals". Hence why i moved last year and the people i meet now are way more interesting. Each our own i guess. Oh and to think that people are jealous is probably why i didn't get along with people like you very much. That's not a dig. It's a fact in my experience

. Lexi

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over a year ago

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi

No different to "gym fit and sexy" in my opinion. Not all "gym fit and sexy" people are going to attracted to each other are they, but it excludes the oompah loompahs from contacting them.

Likewise, if you feel "out of someone's league" for whatever reason, why not accept you're not compatible rather than make snide remarks?"

That is very true and partly my point ive just made about professionals. Don't know. Who made snide remarks?.

I thought all just had opinions which all are entitled to,no?

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over a year ago

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

. That's all I mean. Does it make some stuck up,or posh you think? I think some people believe it is an attribute and makes them more desirable. Some will like it and some won't. I have met people who described themselves as 'professional' and they have been humble so it's not like they are all arrogant and feel superior. "

Oh right. Fare enough then

. I see both sides. So I know some are stuck up,and some aren't always the exception to the rule. Thanks sweet

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By *laytimetwoCouple
over a year ago

Staines

So if your “professional” dose that mean you’ll arrive, unlike the rest of us who just cum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what i'm seeing. The professionals are the ones with their thongs in a bunch. #JustSaying

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over a year ago

"So if your “professional” dose that mean you’ll arrive, unlike the rest of us who just cum ?

Yes. 100%. Cum is such a disgusting word lmfao

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

I'm genuinely curious how you correlate "professional" to arrogance and superiority.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

I'm genuinely curious how you correlate "professional" to arrogance and superiority."
The opinions of some on this thread give me that impression and common sense.

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over a year ago

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

I'm genuinely curious how you correlate "professional" to arrogance and superiority."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi

No different to "gym fit and sexy" in my opinion. Not all "gym fit and sexy" people are going to attracted to each other are they, but it excludes the oompah loompahs from contacting them.

Likewise, if you feel "out of someone's league" for whatever reason, why not accept you're not compatible rather than make snide remarks?

That is very true and partly my point ive just made about professionals. Don't know. Who made snide remarks?.

I thought all just had opinions which all are entitled to,no?"

Of course we're entitled to our opinion, equally people are entitled to describe themselves as professional without being described as arrogant, pretentious etc...or did I read those comments out of context?

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By *laytimetwoCouple
over a year ago

Staines

"So if your “professional” dose that mean you’ll arrive, unlike the rest of us who just cum ?

Yes. 100%. Cum is such a disgusting word lmfao

Oh dear, mind you don’t loose control in the throws of passion next time you arrive and blurt that disgusting word out by mistake

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's quite straightforward, it means they consider themselves to have a profession.

For some reason this makes some people really cross, I've no idea why.

And what difference does that make on a swingers site?. I'm not looking to settle down with anyone,so what's it's showing me. That they have a job and rhin k it needs mentioning? Lexi

It's showing you that you aren't compatible with that type of profile.

How. Please explain?. I've met professional people before. They didn't mention it on their profile. We got on very well. Better than others who weren't professional. Lexi"

Because you don't seem too keen on people who write the word on their profile.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

I'm genuinely curious how you correlate "professional" to arrogance and superiority.

Agreed and also how does ‘professional’ mean posh and snobby? My half sister is a ‘city professional’ she works in investments but she grew up in a council flat. She has just worked hard to get to where she is and is not a snob in any way. "
It doesn't that's not what I'm saying it's just what some might think. I know it isn't the case at all.

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over a year ago

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

I'm genuinely curious how you correlate "professional" to arrogance and superiority.

Agreed and also how does ‘professional’ mean posh and snobby? My half sister is a ‘city professional’ she works in investments but she grew up in a council flat. She has just worked hard to get to where she is and is not a snob in any way. It doesn't that's not what I'm saying it's just what some might think. I know it isn't the case at all."

It wasn’t aimed at you and I know you are not the one that is complaining about it. I just don’t understand why people need to moan about it, just move on to another profile if it makes them uncomfortable.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I think the big differentiator, for me and my understanding of the use of professional on profiles, is that people either have "just" a job or a profession / career.

If that makes sense.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

I'm genuinely curious how you correlate "professional" to arrogance and superiority.

I wouldn't describe my self as professional or stunning etc but I have no problems with those that do. I'm struggling with the inability of some to accept the right of others to describe themselves as they wish without taking personal offence if they feel it excludes them.

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over a year ago

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

I'm genuinely curious how you correlate "professional" to arrogance and superiority.

And that’s what I’m struggling with. There are many things on profiles that irk me but I would just pass on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hasn't this bottomed out yet?

They're a funny bunch...

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over a year ago

"Hasn't this bottomed out yet?

They're a funny bunch..."

You still hiding?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think the big differentiator, for me and my understanding of the use of professional on profiles, is that people either have "just" a job or a profession / career.

If that makes sense.

Does it matter?

If someone has "stunning" as a descriptor for example I wouldn't wonder if it's "mirror, mirror on the wall, you're the fairest of them all" stunning, or stunning enough not to frighten young children.

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over a year ago

"Hasn't this bottomed out yet?

They're a funny bunch...

You still hiding?"

I'm still creeping about...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

I'm genuinely curious how you correlate "professional" to arrogance and superiority.

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Well that some of these so called "liberals" for you who think communism is a good idea.

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over a year ago

Why they here then. Have you seen some of the people on here. I swear some have been on Jeremy Kyle lol. Lexi They wanna attract like for like, yes I'm sure some probably have

. Lexi Yeah generally so they will have some common ground. Could day it's elitism or being posh. Known a few posh women who like a bit of rough though

Oh okay. I get you. I'm just here for a good time. I could put professional on mine but i don't. Does that say more about me as a person or those who feel the need to add it in their profile

I'm genuinely curious how you correlate "professional" to arrogance and superiority.

Well that some of these so called "liberals" for you who think communism is a good idea.

Oii, I’m a liberal and I don’t think that.

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over a year ago

Professional is usually used just before they ask or give a reason for needing discretion. It isn't pretentious at all, it's protecting the things you class as important, professions such as a doctor or a teacher you can see why they need discretion.

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By *ariahCouple
over a year ago

Whitchurch

"I see profiles that state they are sexy, gym fit seeking the same and don't feel the need to get arsey, exhibit reverse snobbery to call them out because my fat arse doesn't meet their requirements.

How we choose "like minded" playmates is personal. It doesn't mean, if you're excluded that you're shit, just not compatible.

Grow up!"

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over a year ago

"I think the big differentiator, for me and my understanding of the use of professional on profiles, is that people either have "just" a job or a profession / career.

If that makes sense.

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Ahhh I get it yes coz if you're unemployed you are a lesser person, yes with you on that omg I couldn't go there

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over a year ago

"I think the big differentiator, for me and my understanding of the use of professional on profiles, is that people either have "just" a job or a profession / career.

If that makes sense.

Ahhh I get it yes coz if you're unemployed you are a lesser person, yes with you on that omg I couldn't go there "

Taken completely wrong AGAIN!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we should use white/blue collar instead. Would people understand that better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe we should use white/blue collar instead. Would people understand that better? "

No, because the IQ's are below 70...

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"I think the big differentiator, for me and my understanding of the use of professional on profiles, is that people either have "just" a job or a profession / career.

If that makes sense.

Ahhh I get it yes coz if you're unemployed you are a lesser person, yes with you on that omg I couldn't go there "

I didn't say *I* think that and I didn't mention unemployed.

I said it was my understanding of the way people use it.

I also never said whether I agree with it or not.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"I think the big differentiator, for me and my understanding of the use of professional on profiles, is that people either have "just" a job or a profession / career.

If that makes sense.

Does it matter?

Doesn't matter to me, it was merely the way I explained my understanding of why / how people use it.

There's a clear differentiator for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zzzzz.....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think the big differentiator, for me and my understanding of the use of professional on profiles, is that people either have "just" a job or a profession / career.

If that makes sense.

Ahhh I get it yes coz if you're unemployed you are a lesser person, yes with you on that omg I couldn't go there

Taken completely wrong AGAIN!! "

Sigh...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful"

BYC...there's a new one

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over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful

BYC...there's a new one"

I wonder if you'll dress up for Halloween?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful

BYC...there's a new one

I wonder if you'll dress up for Halloween?

Me? Yes, I've got a scary clown tshirt. If Puff Daddy knocks, he'll shit.

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over a year ago

"Well... I don't have an opinion...

So my post is totally pointless...

Yes!

Just like most of the monotonous tripe that's been posted time and time again boring everyone to death.

Off to hide now before I get picked on..

Go and hide and I will count to 100000 and then come and find you

I'm a bit dumb, I can't count past a couple of hundred...

That’s why I said that I would count. All you have to do is hide. Can Ralph Wiggum manage that?

Maybe I could if I was yellow and look like I'm suffering from Jaundice...

You look a bit yellow in your pic. Come on now, go hide. It’s going to take me ages to count in French.

I'm yellow? That's very hurtful

BYC...there's a new one

I wonder if you'll dress up for Halloween?

Me? Yes, I've got a scary clown tshirt. If Puff Daddy knocks, he'll shit."

Will you need face paint?

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I think the intention is to project to people that you are educated and have a socially responsible career as opposed to someone who may be highly qualified but works in a manual trade or as an artist etc... I don't look down on anyone but just as friends of mine take pride in their plumbing business (that earns far more than I do) I take pride in my work as it took me four years to qualify and I help change lives (I hope).

By saying I'm a working professional I'm letting people know I need discretion because I would compromise my ability to work if anyone knew about my profile.

I think those who are offended by this have a bit of a complex about their own pathway in life and work/financial situation and see anyone who puts "professional" as a snob who is looking down rather than someone projecting a particular image to attract what they want to attract - like minded people who they will connect with, or someone who finds "professional" people a turn on.

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"I think the intention is to project to people that you are educated and have a socially responsible career as opposed to someone who may be highly qualified but works in a manual trade or as an artist etc... I don't look down on anyone but just as friends of mine take pride in their plumbing business (that earns far more than I do) I take pride in my work as it took me four years to qualify and I help change lives (I hope).

By saying I'm a working professional I'm letting people know I need discretion because I would compromise my ability to work if anyone knew about my profile.

Well said.

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over a year ago

By saying I'm a working professional I'm letting people know I need discretion because I would compromise my ability to work if anyone knew about my profile.

This makes a lot of sense!

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