FabSwingers.com forum: Guys who meet CD's

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if the cd is fully done up ie wig make up etc do you expect a fake girlie voice aswell. I have considered trying it but got too nervous and spoke in my own male voice. It 100% put one guy off. Should I be practicing my girl voice

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

why..did you sound like rab c nesbitt..

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

..but seriously..what is it with guys expecting a girly voice...because they want some elusion that there fucking a woman ?..i think the cock would be a giveaway that there not..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol well I am not far off that tbh haha

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By *lana Honey-LingusTV/TS
over a year ago

bolton

I just talk a bit softer and quieter that normally works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think the site can cater for the divergent 'groups' that exist these days- There are fully transitioned trans, people in between (genderfluid etc) and those who maybe wear female clothing to masturbate in- unfortunately a lot of people have stereotypical ideas about how people 'ought' to or 'should' be.

The site doesn't reflect modern experiences and could do with a bit of a category update really- especially with regard to sexual identity.

But that's my two pennorth..

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By *erriAnneTV/TS
over a year ago

The shire

If a guy is coming to meet you knowing fully what's what then he can't be out off by a voice. I'm higher pitched than a regular male as it is so I just aim to replicate the sounds and words my gf made when speaking to her. It worked on a kikvoice call and video call so all on all I would say aim higher and softer

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Just be yourself. You don’t have to play feminine at all. The only difference between you and whomever you meet is your wearing women’s clothes and are freely open with your sexuality and your date is just expecting one thing.

Some guys will want you as you are. Some will want you to purr and whine and some will want you to tuck your man bits away as they get freaked out

Do whatever your comfortable with

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"I don't think the site can cater for the divergent 'groups' that exist these days- There are fully transitioned trans, people in between (genderfluid etc) and those who maybe wear female clothing to masturbate in- unfortunately a lot of people have stereotypical ideas about how people 'ought' to or 'should' be.

The site doesn't reflect modern experiences and could do with a bit of a category update really- especially with regard to sexual identity.

But that's my two pennorth.."

I agree as we are miles apart from a CD.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Just be yourself x. The yourself that wears stockings and knickers and wants my hard cock. ')

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Ok in the dark here but do guys really put on a girlie "im a lady" voice on when dressed meeting others?

Really curious now!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

"Ok in the dark here but do guys really put on a girlie "im a lady" voice on when dressed meeting others?

Really curious now! "

Not in my experience x

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I struggle to talk with a cock in my mouth. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use your normal voice, if a lad is put off because of the voice he doesn’t know what he wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I definitely wouldn't want a put on girly voice it would just make me laugh.

The Catherine Tate character " I'm a lady " Was surely a piss take off such a situation.

Like many males it's the visual aspect and the kinkiness that interests me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just talk a bit softer and quieter that normally works

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Plenty of tutorials on You Tube if you want to learn how to change the pitch of your voice.

Generally speaking, males speak from the base of the throat and females speak from the top.

So, for a male, it is about learning to lift the voice from the bottom of the throat to the top. And vice versa for a female.

If it matters to you, that is. If it doesn't, it doesn't.

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, Not in

Not yet met a guy that was worried or concerned about me using my standard male voice.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Definitely not, I try my best to look convincing but as soon as I open my mouth my Somerset tones come out its obvious that I'm a guy.

It takes me ages to get ready if I had to learn to speak differently it would take me all evening to get ready for a meet.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"Ok in the dark here but do guys really put on a girlie "im a lady" voice on when dressed meeting others?

Really curious now! "

I don't, I use my voice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle to talk with a cock in my mouth. X

Ha ha love this x

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I always tell people befor hand that I can't do a female voice so don't expect one. It sounds so much worse someone doing an awful female impression rather than just speaking normally, unless it's something you have practiced over and over for years. The most I do is try to speak more quietly and slightly softer

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Marlow

Its very difficult, but if you're out in public and you need to speak, sounding like Barry White will definitly blow your cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I struggle to talk with a cock in my mouth. X

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Never been a problem for Katie, same with not being able to be smooth every time, men know what they are meeting they know we are trying to be as feminine as possible for them and everyone has been understanding, Katie just talks softer and tries to put a higher pitch to the voice, and the moans, men usually want any moans to be feminine as possible and not a blokes grunt. If the guy can’t get over it then it’s not your fault there will be a guy who will get what he wants from you so just go with it and have fun.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

apparently to some i sound australian..so with that and all my tattoos..it must be like meeting rose tattoos...angry anderson in drag..

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"No I definitely wouldn't want a put on girly voice it would just make me laugh.

The Catherine Tate character " I'm a lady " Was surely a piss take off such a situation.

Like many males it's the visual aspect and the kinkiness that interests me."

It's Little Britain

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By *iercedyvonneTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Its very difficult, but if you're out in public and you need to speak, sounding like Barry White will definitely blow your cover."

I just speak in my male voice even when out in public - I'm not ashamed of what I am and feel it is good for our community for others to know we are out there. I hope people who encounter me say things like "I met this trans something girl today - she was really nice and looked amazing"

We need the public to have positive encounters with us.

Also, it's not just voice but also vocabulary. Women say things like "I've got a sore tummy" men "My gut's sore"

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I went out a few times in my younger days, and to be honest I sounded more like barry white on helium, so decided to use my normal voice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The option to put cd isn't there, so I am on here classed as a TV

I don't do wigs makeup, just dressing, I do it for me and the feeling, I don't change my voice and still a male except with stockings etc on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slower. Softer. Seductive. But not ott!

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

When I'm out and about, I change my voice very slightly so that it's just a bit lighter. That seems to work fine.

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By *ime for fun guyMan
over a year ago

Wherever you want

No, just be yourself.

A Barry White voice might actually make it even sexier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my suggestion is DONT speak,,use the art of mime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met lots of lovely TV/TS's over the years(never for sex, just at clubs n parties/socials)...I just find it weird that someone would want them to be more 'feminine', to the point they are deluding themselves that they'd rather have a woman that was born a female.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

"I've met lots of lovely TV/TS's over the years(never for sex, just at clubs n parties/socials)...I just find it weird that someone would want them to be more 'feminine', to the point they are deluding themselves that they'd rather have a woman that was born a female."

I think you have missed the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try helium

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By *DKinkyJenTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I’m quite clear on my profile that I don’t have a convincing voice, so i’d be up front about it

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I tend to act more feminine around a guy and I think my voice becomes slightly campier (if that makes sense) because of my behaviour. But I would never try to put on a girly voice, take me as you find me.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Wear really tight knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get yer date ta kick ya in the bollocks really hard

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

"try helium

Then they'd think it was Joe Pasquale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"try helium

Then they'd think it was Joe Pasquale "

oh yea,,fair nuff

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