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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I was chatting with a couple yesterday all going well and then they drop the bombshell they don’t kiss on meets! I was totally shocked because to me kissing is the biggest turn on especially kissing another woman!

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you??

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

To each their own and all that, but no kissing would be no meeting for us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I totally agree! I said to this couple I didn’t think we would be compatible then and politely ended our chat.

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By *uriousnewbies37Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Absolutely yes! Like you say, kissing another woman is beautiful and watching my husband kiss another man is really hot! B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I was chatting with a couple yesterday all going well and then they drop the bombshell they don’t kiss on meets! I was totally shocked because to me kissing is the biggest turn on especially kissing another woman!

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you?? "

Kissing is the biggest turn on for sure!! It’s a no from me if kissing isn’t part of the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, usually, but I had a couple of men who didn't kiss me.

One of them I met twice cos he's sexy

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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Kissing is essential xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be too bothered if a couple didn't want to kiss me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I totally agree kissing is a huge part of build up

You can tell so much from a kiss too!

I can’t understand people who don’t. I get it but it just takes away from that intimacy.

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Kissing is a big part of things for both myself and Sean.

Would feel strange without it.

Donna x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you?? "
It's a common question here and 81% of forumites agree with you kissing is integral with great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The big thing for me is kissing. If they good it's just wow and I'm holding you there till I'm done.

It's amazing when done right

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The big thing for me is kissing. If they good it's just wow and I'm holding you there till I'm done.

It's amazing when done right "

Yes please hah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The big thing for me is kissing. If they good it's just wow and I'm holding you there till I'm done.

It's amazing when done right

Yes please hah! "

Deal, your not leaving till morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The big thing for me is kissing. If they good it's just wow and I'm holding you there till I'm done.

It's amazing when done right

Yes please hah!

Deal, your not leaving till morning

No objections here. Mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing then I'm not meeting.

It's the same with crap kissers. If they can't kiss then there's going to be no sex.

I tried having sex with a guy who was awful at kissing (purely because I fancied him) and it was terrible. Never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be kissing involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a non kisser too

I understand why it's a deal breaker for some but it's never hindered me getting meets.

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By *hil153Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Kissing is a MUST

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can tell a lot about the way someone kisses. No kisses= no passion. No point in meeting. For me anyway. I’ve met couples In the past where mrs was all over me with kisses but wouldn’t when mr was there. I respect that but was a bit awkward

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Where do you start without kissing?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Where do you start without kissing?!"

Exactly!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried a no kissing rule once.

It lasted as long as sitting chatting. Once the play started Mrs MP was kissing.

It's a natural part of the play and for us without it, it's all a bit clinical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule no I don’t look to, always turns out to be rubbish with someone new and just turns me off as someone tries to go fishing with their tongue in ya gob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a yes please from me

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I avoid those who have a no kissing rule. I’ve found myself at a club with a couple who, at the stage of getting into a room, dropped the “no kissing” bombshell. I did try to get involved but ended up excusing myself, as it just didn’t feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing and cuddling is a huge thing for me but I have met couples that don’t kiss. I guess kissing introduces more emotion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kissing then I'm not meeting.

It's the same with crap kissers. If they can't kiss then there's going to be no sex.

I tried having sex with a guy who was awful at kissing (purely because I fancied him) and it was terrible. Never again "

I sucked a guys cock, even though he was a crap kisser...but then I am a great lover of glory holes...but when he asked to meet again for maybe more it was a polite no from me

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Kissing is my biggest turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where do you start without kissing?!"

True!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

It's essential for me and I won't compromise. No kissing = no meet

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s their choice obviously but I wouldn’t meet someone if they didn’t want to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is my biggest turn on!

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

sensual kissing a must for us x

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Kissing gets me big time! But have found on meeting couples that its only between them, which i think you got to respect.

But one on one i could kiss for ages and a added coudle

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes, of course. I wouldn't meet anyone that didn't want to kiss me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you?? "
women yes men no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see some of you ladies like it as much as I do.

Some see it too personal but it really does get me going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would just feel robotic without kissing. Just wouldn't feel that connection without it imo

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Where do you start without kissing?!

True!"

Shake hands then straight to genitals lol seems odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where do you start without kissing?!

True!

Shake hands then straight to genitals lol seems odd"

What about the rest of the time. Can’t imagine it. Definitely not for me!

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

Got to have kissing

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By *henightstagMan
over a year ago

London

I can understand if people have that rule. Kissing is the most intimate thing you can do. However its exactly that which tells you immediately if theres any sexual connection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't kiss me.

How anyone can expect to have sex with me if they won't even kiss me.....sorry, but that just ain't gonna happen.

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By *ouble featureCouple
over a year ago

Crowthorne

When we first tried we said no kissing as we thought it was too intimate. Since then we've changed our minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a must for us; in fact be kinda weird not kissing ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and I wouldn’t meet if I couldn’t. I have met couples in clubs that don’t but i have said very tongue in cheek to them, so you’ll let him put his cock in my mouth but not his tongue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would def want kissing lots and lots of lovely kissing

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you?? "

Without kissing it’s just recreational fucking. You might as well be a prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the kissing queen ....it's my biggest turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual sex partners. We wouldn't meet anyone for who it was vital.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Definitely a major part of the package....fun without kissing is pointless.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you??

Without kissing it’s just recreational fucking. You might as well be a prostitute."

I don't have anything against sex workers but I really am not one just because I can enjoy "recreational fucking" differently to the majority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand if people have that rule. Kissing is the most intimate thing you can do. However its exactly that which tells you immediately if theres any sexual connection! "

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

That is why you get to know each other first, kissing important for us but there are other hurdles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is why you get to know each other first, kissing important for us but there are other hurdles"
exactly beds, wardrobes and cars

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We’ve turned down meets who say they don’t kiss , and walked away from meets who drop it on us when we start .

There is no compromise , no kissing ,no meet .

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you?? It's a common question here and 81% of forumites agree with you kissing is integral with great sex "

I Think 95% would be nearer the mark .

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you?? "

Absolutely must do....can't beat a good snog to warm me up.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you?? It's a common question here and 81% of forumites agree with you kissing is integral with great sex

I Think 95% would be nearer the mark ."

Yeah I'd agree that its nearer to 95%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kiss for me is essential as it gets the passion flowing and without would be naff and would refuse the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is such a turn on, especially when it’s done with passion and lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't kiss I don't meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a huge part to sex .. I love to kiss especially after I've been down on a lady with her juices all round my face ... That's the best time to kiss for me. You can't beat a good old fashioned snog ... Absolutely love it. I'm afraid if the lady doesn't kiss I wouldn't be meeting them .. However fit they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing with his wife then there aint going to be big random guys cock for the lady

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Yes why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must agree ,kissing is very important and a must for a good meet ,find it very cold not doing it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely yes! Like you say, kissing another woman is beautiful and watching my husband kiss another man is really hot! B x"

Never kissed a bloke as yet but love the idea of your current status looking for a man to tie and use. I'm a little over your age limit and this Friday is too close for me to arrange time off work but would love to join you if you're doing it again

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Definitely yes, everyone wants for something different I suppose but for me kissing is part of the sensual side. A lot can be established a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had this too with a couple we were chatting for some time and then they said oh you say you don't meet couples that don't kiss? well sadly we don't kiss so I guess it ends here

we were so thrown by this ?

Won't kiss other couples but will happily put your genitals in the mouth it's so bizarre

Kissing makes me WET alone. I'm big on kissing mmmm!! X

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you?? "

Kissing is essential for us it is what helps raise the heat and passion and make the meet memorable. No kissing is a deal breaker and besides if we did meet a couple with a no kissing rule we would almost certainly forget ourselves and attempt to break it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing better than a nice big kiss especially after licking her soaking wet pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I guess what I’m saying is kissing on meets do you or don’t you?? "
if not id not bother with anyth8ng other than a howd ya do social

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Rarely kiss ...but generally I am attracted to guys who identify as straight so I don't expect kissing to be involved..

Every now and then I am pleasantly surprised and kissing precedes the sucking.

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

" We had this too with a couple we were chatting for some time and then they said oh you say you don't meet couples that don't kiss? well sadly we don't kiss so I guess it ends here

we were so thrown by this ?

Won't kiss other couples but will happily put your genitals in the mouth it's so bizarre

Kissing makes me WET alone. I'm big on kissing mmmm!! X"

Absolutely with you on that. Kissing is essential for the best experience xx

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By *anya1974Woman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I once saw a guy for a long time.

Once he stopped kissing me I didn't see him again.

It didn't feel the same anymore.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

No kisses? No way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't kiss me.

How anyone can expect to have sex with me if they won't even kiss me.....sorry, but that just ain't gonna happen."

Totally agree with what your saying...;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once saw a guy for a long time.

Once he stopped kissing me I didn't see him again.

It didn't feel the same anymore.

Wow he must have been a crazy man to ever stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few meets with couples where they didn't want kissing, I did feel it was for the male halves benefit. With one couple she loves sitting on my face, so it makes up for it where the turn on of kissing isn't there. At least there's one set of lips on mine......

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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Maybe some people/couples don't like it coz it's intimate , it's face to face eye to eye and other issues come into place ......I couldn't meet anyone without kissing , it's the the best form of connection , to me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is like my superpower - I'm not sure how I'd feel about having one of the best weapons in my bedroom arsenal taken away...

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By *dontknowMan
over a year ago

North Devon

I just couldn’t imagine a meet without it. It build the anticipation and desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. If you don’t I’m not interested.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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I've got the best lips to kiss btw ...first thing peeps want to do ....Jagger got nowt

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