FabSwingers.com forum: Timewasters!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

????????????????????"

Without knowing what you or they said (and don't post it! Against the rules) I have no way of knowing if they wasted time, but perhaps they just didn't want to meet you.

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By *un and fortyCouple
over a year ago

a town near you

and by your attitude in your previous post . bi advice im not surprised lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

????????????????????"

Why are they timewasters? They've blocked you, not wanting further contact with you... if they'd set a meet and not turned up, then freely call them timewasters.

Have you ever changed your mind about anything?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

????????????????????"

They blocked you...therefore they are not timewasters,since you are clearly incompatible ,so carrying on any contact would have been a waste of everyones time.

You clearly asked them something ,in their view ,worthy of blocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did they leave you waiting somewhere for them to show up, but never did, if so then yes they are time wasters.

but the whole timewaster thing is brought on to oneself by beeing to eager and not noticing the signs.

so if any one is to blame for encountering a time waster then look in a mirror

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

????????????????????"
doesnt sound like they wasted ur time!! u ask someting that going by what u say may have offended them if they then have a go, and they blocked u so ending any further contact so no wasted time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bifemme and always say that I will meet a couple so long as I can bring a male friend with me... I do this to protect myself as we are on the internet and all this is merely virtual reality....

It is most certain that women who are prepared to meet with a couple could find themselves in danger?? surely with all the fake profiles on here and the fake photos too

some photos are at least 10 and 12 years old... I should know... I have met at least 4 people who looked nothing like their photographs

My photos are all very current taken in November 2011....

I always update my profile and tell people on here the truth

couples should understand the need for safety on here.... I would never meet a couple alone no chance at all

only if I had a man friend with me

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

have to agree with op twice recentlty couple have agreed to meet on 2 separate occassions then suddenly blocked me for no apparent reason - if they werent interested why not just say so and not chat for a few days - one in particular seemed to be getting off at the thought of seeing his wife with another guy but when it came to the push he blocked me Thank god there are some decent couples on here to make up for the timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well precisely..... but i can tell now a mile off if these people are genuine or merely chatting whilst they have an ebay window open

haha

loads of major losers on here

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

????????????????????doesnt sound like they wasted ur time!! u ask someting that going by what u say may have offended them if they then have a go, and they blocked u so ending any further contact so no wasted time.

Agree totally - sometimes initial contact may intimate that a meet would be on the cards but further communication could prove that to be not the case. Either say thanks but no thanks and prepare for the abuse or use the block function.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It said " we can accom, travel or play outdoors" so i said i can travel or play outdoors, they asked if i could accom i said no so i asked if they could and they sent a snotty message saying NO then blocked me.

was i being out of order?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"and by your attitude in your previous post . bi advice im not surprised lol"

whats that supposed to mean? please explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no of course you weren't "out of order"

don't worry about being blocked... some people have very short fuses on here and cannot be bothered to explain what they are really looking for

as i said previously

a lot on here are simply major losers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i'm sorry for putting timewasters as the title but didn't know what was best to put. i put hands up that that wasn't best thing to put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It said " we can accom, travel or play outdoors" so i said i can travel or play outdoors, they asked if i could accom i said no so i asked if they could and they sent a snotty message saying NO then blocked me.

was i being out of order?"

Lot of people see a single bloke won't accomodate as maybe cheating many other reasons.

They have not been interested so blocked you and moved on to other people answering their add so you don't waste your time. Therefore i don't see them as the timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what you wrote was good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A timewaster in my opinion could be someone who says is straight on their profile and starts a thread saying he is bi !

Pot - kettle - black

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha I thought you'd written put the kettle on hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" the whole timewaster thing is brought on to oneself by beeing to eager and not noticing the signs.

so if any one is to blame for encountering a time waster then look in a mirror"

Very wise words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and by your attitude in your previous post . bi advice im not surprised lol

whats that supposed to mean? please explain"

guessing its ado with your previous thread

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/81285

Bearing this in mind i see no reason what it has to do with timewasters.

Nether straight or bi, makes no relevance to this thread from what I have read.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Well a bit rude maybe. I'm afraid the male half of couples is sometimes a lot less patient and polite to to single guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"and by your attitude in your previous post . bi advice im not surprised lol

whats that supposed to mean? please explain

guessing its ado with your previous thread

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/81285

Bearing this in mind i see no reason what it has to do with timewasters.

Nether straight or bi, makes no relevance to this thread from what I have read.

i apologised for the term i used in the title it was the wrong thing to put.

i do understand the difference.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

????????????????????"

Takes all sorts and not the bassett kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and by your attitude in your previous post . bi advice im not surprised lol

whats that supposed to mean? please explain

guessing its ado with your previous thread

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/81285

Bearing this in mind i see no reason what it has to do with timewasters.

Nether straight or bi, makes no relevance to this thread from what I have read.

i apologised for the term i used in the title it was the wrong thing to put.

i do understand the difference."

Hey you don't need to apologise.

we are on your side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! A lot of people in the forums moaning today!

Move on. This is energy that can be used on getting to know someone else!

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By *ecret MomentsCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Moaning is a second occupation to some xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

????????????????????"

simple answer is dont mail couples

i have had loads of problems with couples in the past which is why i no longer meet them, i find meeting singles much easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

????????????????????

simple answer is dont mail couples

i have had loads of problems with couples in the past which is why i no longer meet them, i find meeting singles much easier"

The Op may wish to meet couples, now maybe his original post was slightly miss worded but i don't see why it should make any reference to his previous post's re Bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe he does wish to meet couples but if somethings getting to you enough to make you feel the need to open a thread about it maybe its time to change how your doing things

if i mailed couples and enough of then blocked me id stop mailing them

was only a suggestion

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By *ecret MomentsCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Singles should read profiles carefully, if couples say no singles then don't email them. It only p's them off. But then again they should just filter out singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are there so many couples on this site that are so up their own arses?!!!!!

Say one thing in a meet today advert and then have a go when you ask about something.

Then block you.

????????????????????

simple answer is dont mail couples

i have had loads of problems with couples in the past which is why i no longer meet them, i find meeting singles much easier

The Op may wish to meet couples, now maybe his original post was slightly miss worded but i don't see why it should make any reference to his previous post's re Bi.

Oh I can see what they're driving at. If the op is contacting couples not seeking bi men, and has his status as straight, it was ill advised for him to then start a thread offering men advice on bi relationships, how to act in gay saunas etc.

I'd block him too if he'd contacted me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Singles should read profiles carefully, if couples say no singles then don't email them. It only p's them off. But then again they should just filter out singles."

but that applies to everyone not just singles, my profile quite clearly states i only meet men yet i still get messages from couples every single day

but then i have guys mail me who state they dont meet smokers or are after women ages 18 to 30 or 35 or after women over 40, none of which i fit into, so just goes to show not everything on profiles should be taken as red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Singles should read profiles carefully, if couples say no singles then don't email them. It only p's them off. But then again they should just filter out singles."

It works for couples too.

Plenty single profiles are only seeking other singles.

The key is read the profile!

We have read profile's thinking they sound great both bi

, OH scrolls down to pics. I scroll back up and they won't meet smokers, or cannot accommodate.

Now we could wink or message away, but that profile obliviously does not meet what we are looking for at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MESSAGING ON THESE SITES IS JUST LIKE HAVING SEX,SOMETIMES YOU JUST HAVE TO TAKE IT LIKE A MAN ,,,LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all to do with choice you choose not to tell people but does annoy when i see couples who i have spoken with and get on declibe because i am open then too see a verification from a so called straight male who has previously messaged me double standards or???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES I WISH PEOPLE WOULD BE TRUTHFULL ABOUT THERE SEXUALITY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok we get the message, not need to shout about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hope they didnt wake you but nearly crimbo to all the straight bi bi curious timewaisters etc lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL.

HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A GOOD TIME.

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HOPE THAT LIGHTENS IT UP A BIT ,,,LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like a beacon shinning on us all radient like you both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All that shouting woke me up.

Merry Christmas everyone.

Once again i'm sorry for writing 'timewasters' as title, that seems to have annoyed some people and i have now returned my status to what it was so my other thread now hopefully makes more sense.

I changed it before due to many cpl's not liking the single bi male thing, i shouldn't have chnaged it though.

Are we all friends now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haters gonna hate

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