FabSwingers.com forum: Massage - do you prefer to give or receive ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Being a fan of massage I love to give a good massage as well as receive one but what to you prefer ?

As much as I love to receive a good massage I just love the satisfaction of providing a long and sensual massage. There is something special about a slow build up and getting more and more sensual without the raunch too early.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving definitely, but I never turn down an offer too :D

Then trying to repay the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give although due to a health problem I can't do then as well as I used to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer giving a massage, but receiving is nearly as good.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I mainly give but recently had a massage given to me. It was lovely.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Been thinking about this and for some reason neither, L she would love it, she is a lot more kinetic than i am. So need to get out of the cognitive world.

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By *aul621Man
over a year ago

manchester

I provide body massage to ladies in the Manchester area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily receive one right now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d much rather give than receive, one of my favourite things to do and there’s no better sight than a sexy naked lady covered in oil.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Both equally.

However, if giving, I do need to hear some appreciative moans of pleasure.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Prefer to give...be it a nice all over body relaxation or a sexy one dependent on how the body's reacting (lady or hot wife).

May slightly brush or fleetingly pass areas which could be very sensitive.....oops teasing..

I know it's not everyone's taste but do love to give long foot massage but that may include use of my lips and tongue....Ow and a little eye contact....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the guys saying give... I wonder how many do really?

Me, I'll tell you straight

Would love to receive a massage right now and let out my stresses and strains. Just hope my moans of pleasure don't distract you?

Don't worry though, I would ensure you had a happy ending too!

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I really enjoy giving- but love receiving. however I am really picky- I rather give them get a semi good one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually i give but rarely receive to my disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a fan of massage I love to give a good massage as well as receive one but what to you prefer ?

I certainly want more of what I had Friday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to get a nice massage with lovely warm oil rub all over my body

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Both, any takers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give. Just love to give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both is always good for me;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I’m a giver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love getting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give, such a turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but if I have to choose it would be give

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

I do like to give ,

Just any excuse to touch Mrs sofa really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about massage/touching in total darkness. Anyone do this?.

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By *cedGemsWoman
over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)

Receive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about massage/touching in total darkness. Anyone do this?.

Sounds like fun

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By *ornyal138Man
over a year ago

bromley kent

Love to have a slow sensual massage. But,probably like most guys, it always starts so relaxing but then when the masseuse starts on my legs I get turned on. It’s the “please roll over sir” moment when you have a hard on under the towel that gets me.

Love to find someone or somewhere in London area that is not offended by me getting all turned on so I can really relax and enjoy. And if the massage goes internally to find my prostrate then happy days !

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By *ove2Lick!Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I’m definitely a giver

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By *pfornaughtyfunMan
over a year ago

merseyside

A so in need of one soon not had one in a while ,I am also really good at them so actually like giving them

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By *weberMan
over a year ago

Near Alvechurch

"Being a fan of massage I love to give a good massage as well as receive one but what to you prefer ?

Deffo prefer giving but I’ve always dreamed about receiving a prostate massage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a massage never had one

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

not a fan of either

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I like to receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love to give and receive a good massage.

Only fair to make it a mutually beneficial experience!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I like to give. I'm choosy about who I let massage me, as they would have to be very good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love both giving and receiving. It's really intimate and quite special!

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By *ereforthafunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Like both giving and receiving massages. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to give them

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Never really had a massage, only given them.

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Receving one for me me all me

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I love giving! Also love giving a sensual shoulder massage then gently kissing the ladies neck from behind

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham

But I usuly pay for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind one but love giving them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give i have strong but gentle fingers which goes down well also I don’t use oil as I can gently kiss sensitive areas while I do it inner thigh, back of neck especially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us love giving and receiving just as much, unless rimming, think we both love just receiving ?? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Give i have strong but gentle fingers which goes down well also I don’t use oil as I can gently kiss sensitive areas while I do it inner thigh, back of neck especially "

For me, using oil is a must. There is something really sensual about using a reasonable amount of oil. Hot oil is also really good, if you haven’t tried it you should.

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I’m selfish, I like to receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recieve

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

J both

A receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give i have strong but gentle fingers which goes down well also I don’t use oil as I can gently kiss sensitive areas while I do it inner thigh, back of neck especially

For me, using oil is a must. There is something really sensual about using a reasonable amount of oil. Hot oil is also really good, if you haven’t tried it you should. "

I might just do that but I would have to hold off on the kissing bit

I don’t fancy Kentucky fried lips

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By *uddleWithCraigMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton or Travels

Either as long as we enjoy it and have fun, warm oil I like to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, please. I will return the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving horny massages with warm oils

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Warm oils seems popular I guess I will be breaking out the Primus stove next time

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I like getting a nice back rub. My shoulders get quite tight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recieving. Wouldn't even know where to start trying to give one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving them as the people, we or I play with, will testify

male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to receive especially legs, can’t give good ones because my hands cramp up really fast due to health problems but I do try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give a sexy oily massage. Spending plenty of time doing it. I would love to have a Nuru massage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely more of a giver. I really enjoy giving a really nice sensual massage, you can beat it. Add a blindfold in to the mix and the senses of the one being massaged are vastly increased resulting in heightened pleasure.

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Never received one to be honest but do love to give a good massage and the exciting build up to fun after is hot as well as you get them so relaxed and horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give a good message. Check my verifications... who’s next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my job .... wait no that's torture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my job .... wait no that's torture

I'm up for being tortured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to message more but writing a "cold message" to someone new takes me a long time not only because I tailor it to the women in question, while still remaining faithful to my own desires, but also because I agonise over virtually every word as I'm not a natural writer.

Consequently,when I don't get a response it just adds to the difficulty of the next message, hey-oh, self pitying over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to message more but writing a "cold message" to someone new takes me a long time not only because I tailor it to the women in question, while still remaining faithful to my own desires, but also because I agonise over virtually every word as I'm not a natural writer.

Consequently,when I don't get a response it just adds to the difficulty of the next message, hey-oh, self pitying over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's my job .... wait no that's torture

I'm up for being tortured

Now that's a body to torture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving a massage

Recieving one just as much but alas too many women are just plain lazy with giving a massage

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By *rs slut n himCouple
over a year ago

dartford

Love a sexy massage... more then two hands even better mmmmlol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I get given a brutal massage from the rugby physio. But I do like to give (gentle ones) as well.

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By *veready69Man
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Definitely receive.

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By *uit and bootsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Sensually speaking, I prefer giving, as with oral.

Sports wise though, definitely receiving.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have a female friend on here. We have attended Massage and Tantric workshops together. We are looking for couples for massage swaps. If you are interested please message me. I will ask her to message you back to prove we are genuine.

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By *omangoldMan
over a year ago

norwich

Giving a massage is just as satisfying for me as receiving.

Massage can be so much fun too

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Love giving and receiving equally. As long as both are slow sensual and teasing.

Often find it better as a starter to get round two going. Somehow the first time round always ends in fucking!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Both, if they can't be arsed then I'm not wasting my time and effort. For me it has to be mutual

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

Mutuality in all. But then it’s better to give than receive. Especially when you can see how a person reacts. Seeing their muscles tense and relax.

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

Giving a massage is better I think, don't like receiving one at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both, if they can't be arsed then I'm not wasting my time and effort. For me it has to be mutual

For me mutual massage is a favourite. I love alternating between giving and receiving. Sometime it’s great to massage in a way you know you really like to see how much pleasure it gives the receiver. Hopefully they learn from you as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are there any ladies who would actually want to meet just for a massage or does it always lead to the inevitable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving a full body sensual massage but then also enjoy the feeling of boobs sliding across my body.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I love receiving, I'd love to give but can't for medical reasons.

I'd love to meet for just a massage, but I'm not sure I'd be prepared to do it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love receiving, I'd love to give but can't for medical reasons.

I'd love to meet for just a massage, but I'm not sure I'd be prepared to do it here. "

If you find the right person, go for it. x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I am great at massage, but I love recieving them. Don't be gentle though!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Allways give

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I love receiving, I'd love to give but can't for medical reasons.

I'd love to meet for just a massage, but I'm not sure I'd be prepared to do it here.

If you find the right person, go for it. x"

People who lead with it, I wonder what their ulterior motives would be, if that makes sense. With a sex meet it's clear what's what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am great at massage, but I love recieving them. Don't be gentle though! "

When winter hits Scotland I would be happy to give you a firm massage climbers hands are very strong

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

Has to be both giving and receiving for a sensual massage to work for everyone involved.Therapeutic massage...then it's a different mind set and scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both did a one day tantric massage course (I know, one day isn't much but it was good) a while back and the way it has settled out is that He prefers giving and She likes receiving.....only preferences though, both giving and receiving are great

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By *atureBoySouthMan
over a year ago

Fareham

"Being a fan of massage I love to give a good massage as well as receive one but what to you prefer ?

Both.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, happy to just give though. I'd like to find a massage buddy actually. I enjoy giving pleasure to others, its not all about full sex for me.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Both, happy to just give though. I'd like to find a massage buddy actually. I enjoy giving pleasure to others, its not all about full sex for me."

Damn. where were you when I was there the 1990s?

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