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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

*Waves enthusiastically!*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have one "

Lucky you

I think men watch too much porn sometimes

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By *ndrew025Man
over a year ago

west lancs

I find my middle finger alone works a treat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

*Waves enthusiastically!* "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find my middle finger alone works a treat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

Cum north little lady were really gentle and loving male

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"I find my middle finger alone works a treat "

Agree with this - one well aimed and properly used finger can be more effective than an hour of attempting to fit an entire fist in and missing the right spot.....

It's not rocket science, just understanding how the female body works...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

Sorry... I ate them all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Porn. Porn is the culprit!

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

Sorry... I ate them all!! "

Oh you tease....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

i think u need to meet a new man if the above is happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a slow tonguing motion tends to work a whole lot better

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"Porn. Porn is the culprit!"

This. Too many guys get all their 'techniques' from watching unrealistic, staged porn. Imagination and actually watching reactions is far more effective.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

im a joiner... im naturally good with my hands and fingers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wands can make you de sensitive to fingers so i have been made aware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Porn. Porn is the culprit!"

Indeed male

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

let me introduce myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being fingered alot go way to fast then made me bleed. But i'm just on here for the forums now so its no longer a problem lol.

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By *ndrew025Man
over a year ago

west lancs


"Porn. Porn is the culprit!"

Porn is the devil for making men pound away endlessly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wands can make you de sensitive to fingers so i have been made aware "

Only on the clit... And it returns fairly quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But every woman is different, you have to be patient and read the cues of her body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
there still learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us men eh.

Never do anything right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only need one finger to get her there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men eh.

Never do anything right. "

ahhh but they can and do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought I'd say hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men eh.

Never do anything right.

ahhh but they can and do "

Really? Be another thread today or tomorrow bashing us guys about something or other.

You pick them look at yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men eh.

Never do anything right.

ahhh but they can and do

Really? Be another thread today or tomorrow bashing us guys about something or other.

You pick them look at yourselves"

I dont bash. There are all good and bad with all sexes

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By *ionicfingerMan
over a year ago

...

It takes practise and experience to get to the point of not getting only as deep as the middle Phalanx and getting a lady orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

My hubby only needs one

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I use fingers and mouth the perfect pressure and touch mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a guy to rub my clit firmly after he’s cum in my, using his cum as lubrication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have been carried away on the tide of making women gush and squirt. They wrongly think it's making a woman orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us men eh.

Never do anything right. "

Some men have the art of fingering down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
I'm here , what was the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...

then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

Sorry... I ate them all!! "
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Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One finger and know what your doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...

then look puzzled when it starts to shrink."

Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I thought this thread was going to be about how long the guy's fingers have to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...

then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.

Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?! "

Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely

I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though.

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By *weetnips69Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"They have been carried away on the tide of making women gush and squirt. They wrongly think it's making a woman orgasm."

I agree there is a huge difference & sum guys

Cannot tell that x

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By *weetnips69Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"One finger and know what your doing "

Which u certainly do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...

then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.

Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!

Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely

I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though. "

Tease!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...

then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.

Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!

Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely

I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though.

Tease!! "

Teasing is good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...

then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.

Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!

Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely

I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though.

Tease!!

Teasing is good "

Teasing is very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.

Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.

Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used."

I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the men I’ve met are actually better at satisfying me with their fingers than I am. I’m useless with them on myself hahah!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.

Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used.

I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too "

Oh, hello.

I’ve got a bit of an idea but really it’s like playing cards, watch for others reactions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.

Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used.

I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too

Oh, hello.

I’ve got a bit of an idea but really it’s like playing cards, watch for others reactions "

Hello

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.

Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used.

I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too

Oh, hello.

I’ve got a bit of an idea but really it’s like playing cards, watch for others reactions

Hello "

I need to be careful I don’t put my foot in it here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...

then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.

Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?!

Yes it happens, she nearly pulled it off completely

I do like to provide a nice slow gentle finger though.

Tease!!

Teasing is good "

When you're closer!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the exact same mentality as the women who believe a penis has no nerve endings whatsoever and just shake it firmly and frantically like a blocked ketchup bottle...

then look puzzled when it starts to shrink.

Jesus! Does that actually happen?!? I mean with someone that has presumably had some kinda sex before?! "

It's actually amazing how many women "think" they know what to with a cock, no one will ever compete with your own touch, but unfortunately due to people passing on bad techniques and not actually communicating the world is now littered with useless wankers (literally)

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By *ynetaurusMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

We all know about the G spot but begin with the opening as there are far more nerves to stimulate located there then when you lady is ready gently slowly and if you dont know when she is ready be frank ASK she may respect you for it as no two ladies are alike.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's nothing worse than a man finger blasting. It can actually be quite painful.

Ohhhh to meet those talented guys who know what techniques should really be used.

I know what you mean I'd love to meet them too

Oh, hello.

I’ve got a bit of an idea but really it’s like playing cards, watch for others reactions

Hello

I need to be careful I don’t put my foot in it here "

That would be painful.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Only one finger is needed and i have met a few men who were very good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

Is that what the some people refer to as 'Finger Blasting'?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I hate this. Guaranteed to turn me off and make me sore. ‘Relax!’ - well stop acting like you’re vigorously beating an egg and I might.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate this. Guaranteed to turn me off and make me sore. ‘Relax!’ - well stop acting like you’re vigorously beating an egg and I might. "

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joker only need his middle finger he know where the right spot is and how to get me going with finger and tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him."

My man does. It's other men who don't and they don't want to be told I don't want the piss frigged out of me.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve been told that I’m pretty good with my fingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

Is that what the some people refer to as 'Finger Blasting'?"

Yes.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

There are just a lot of naive but enthusiastic men about at least they are trying if not that well.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

Never send a man to do a woman's job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find my middle finger alone works a treat

Agree with this - one well aimed and properly used finger can be more effective than an hour of attempting to fit an entire fist in and missing the right spot.....

It's not rocket science, just understanding how the female body works...! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

The clitoris has roughly a few thousand nerve endings so i think some guys should learn their way around one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever needed 1 finger and my tongue. Used in the right way and reading her body it gets results (although we had been together 20 years so got to really know here signs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate this. It really annoys me when they do that. They think all women want it, we don’t.

So many of them are clueless.

But also, too many think that one size fits all and that what works for one woman will work for every woman. Some women like fingers, some don’t. It’s best to communicate with the person and get to know what they like and how they like it!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

The clitoris has roughly a few thousand nerve endings so i think some guys should learn their way around one "

I think the ladies are talking about fingers on the inside not frigging a clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

It sounds like you have had a bad experience, and have felt let down because of it, would you like to elaborate on your thoughts on this matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

The clitoris has roughly a few thousand nerve endings so i think some guys should learn their way around one

I think the ladies are talking about fingers on the inside not frigging a clit "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

It sounds like you have had a bad experience, and have felt let down because of it, would you like to elaborate on your thoughts on this matter?"

Just some guys goin to hard and rough not a pleasant experience

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm pretty sure giving it a good bit of junior hacksaw action is a guaranteed winner.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I think some men do it because they think they will make you squirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

It sounds like you have had a bad experience, and have felt let down because of it, would you like to elaborate on your thoughts on this matter?

Just some guys goin to hard and rough not a pleasant experience "

I am sorry to hear that, and how did it make you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

The clitoris has roughly a few thousand nerve endings so i think some guys should learn their way around one

I think the ladies are talking about fingers on the inside not frigging a clit "

Point taken, ops post fully understood. Point I'm making is no need to finger a pussy like a one arm bandit

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him."

Precisely! If a guy was doing something I wasn't enjoying I'd ask him gently to stop and guide him in the right direction. Are people just laying there and enduring bad foreplay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him.

Precisely! If a guy was doing something I wasn't enjoying I'd ask him gently to stop and guide him in the right direction. Are people just laying there and enduring bad foreplay? "

We have to experience first before we can guide them. I had one man do the finger blast thing, years back, that made me quite ill for weeks afterwards. Now I stipulate that I will not tolerate it, so don't try it. Any man who asks me if I'm a squirter gets a lecture.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him.

Precisely! If a guy was doing something I wasn't enjoying I'd ask him gently to stop and guide him in the right direction. Are people just laying there and enduring bad foreplay?

We have to experience first before we can guide them. I had one man do the finger blast thing, years back, that made me quite ill for weeks afterwards. Now I stipulate that I will not tolerate it, so don't try it. Any man who asks me if I'm a squirter gets a lecture. "

I don't think anyone's ever asked me. If they did the answer would be no.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Oh ‘eck, you don’t use them to part the clit hood and use your tongue.

Oh hum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the younger it’s more connecting spiritually than a bone without nerves , fingering is just a small part of a sexual experience and often men confuse their brains with force that equals pleasure , it can be hurtful to ram and insert ( I’m told)

I would not like my arse prodded by 3 or more fingers

But a woman’s gentle tougue brushing across the area would be sensual

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One finger on the inside and thumb rubbing my clit. Heaven!

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Her does.

I'm also ambidextrous.

Must admit i do have my concentrating face on if pleasuring Her and another female at the same time though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another stimulating position. Lie head to foot, both on back with hips touching. Put one leg each over the partners chest. Use your thumb with finger aiming toward her belly. It can be as long as your finger and has more girth. It also seem to be more of a slower way too. She has also free run over the lower half of me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another stimulating position. Lie head to foot, both on back with hips touching. Put one leg each over the partners chest. Use your thumb with finger aiming toward her belly. It can be as long as your finger and has more girth. It also seem to be more of a slower way too. She has also free run over the lower half of me too. "

Oh forgot to say. Very visually stimulating too for both of us.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "

I think I’m pretty good but could always do with a few tips / ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One finger and to tongue, work well for me

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"If your man doesn’t do it correctly. Guide him and tell him.

Precisely! If a guy was doing something I wasn't enjoying I'd ask him gently to stop and guide him in the right direction. Are people just laying there and enduring bad foreplay? "

I've met a couple of people who don't take gentle direction or even straightforward direction well.

They think they are "experts" and just go hell for leather.

Ouch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being older and more experienced I find one finger with a gentle touch is all that's needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my fwb managed this by kissing me and fingering me with 1 then 2 fingers and i came really hard. the intense and the intimacy had me cuming over and over.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx

*Waves enthusiastically!* "

I think thats the technique they're complaining about

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall


"What is it with men who think that to make a woman cum they have to ram as many fingers in as possible and go hell for leather.

Where are all the men who actually know what they are doing xxx "
I

M here baby xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One at first, then 2 has always worked perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One finger on the inside and thumb rubbing my clit. Heaven! "

this - plus a teasing tongue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm glad I'm not in that category , have to know what to do ...going hell for leather is a newbies technique

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By *uckaroo BanzaiCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere nice

The first three times with three different women I just used my cock... however my wife is like a tap.. if you play with her boobs right she'll start to dribble to a steady flow...

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Perhaps some kind lady will give us some tips !!!!!!

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