FabSwingers.com forum: Lack of interest

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya, I've been on here for just over a week, I've had little response, have sent a good few messages. Am I expecting too much too soon, any tips? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, I've been on here for just over a week, I've had little response, have sent a good few messages. Am I expecting too much too soon, any tips? Thanks "

Yes, you are. You need to give it months, not days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks, shall sit tight

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Some guys take weeks some months and some give up there are a lot of single men on here and so a lot of competition even the true single ones can struggle at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Ms

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Rather than sending "a good few messages" try sending a few good messages ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather than sending "a good few messages" try sending a few good messages ?"

Quantity and quality tend to give the same results in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, I've been on here for just over a week, I've had little response, have sent a good few messages. Am I expecting too much too soon, any tips? Thanks "

What did you expect when you joined the site? What do you think swinging is?

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By *ungMarried2020Man
over a year ago

Halifax

You have to be i it for the long game! Don’t blast out lots of messages, send good ones when you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of 100 messages you might get 90 no replies the other 10 replies 4 of which might be no thanks 4 might be guys 2 might be possibilities 1 might be a meet. lol enjoy the frustration of highs and lows that is fab

happy hunting male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at profile advice threads and take note

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, I've been on here for just over a week, I've had little response, have sent a good few messages. Am I expecting too much too soon, any tips? Thanks "

Just to put a spanner in the works on both sides of this I’ve been chatting to an old meet he puts minimal effort in but wants the the works he can’t seen to get unless you put the effort in you get nothing back so I end up saying forget it ! X

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Might also help if you decide if you're 49 or 51 OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, I've been on here for just over a week, I've had little response, have sent a good few messages. Am I expecting too much too soon, any tips? Thanks "

You mite want to think about re writing your profile..." attached but non sexually" most ppl with read that as 'married/cheating' which could put ppl off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, I've been on here for just over a week, I've had little response, have sent a good few messages. Am I expecting too much too soon, any tips? Thanks "
A week and you are not balls deep ?? Something wrong there mate

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

People will look at a profile first before deciding whether to message you back. Does yours stand out? If it truly reflects you as a person then don't change it. Good luck.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hiya, I've been on here for just over a week, I've had little response, have sent a good few messages. Am I expecting too much too soon, any tips? Thanks "

Personally, I find attached people who directly or indirectly blame their partners for lack of sex as justification for being here a total turn off.

"I'm attached" no problem. "I'm attached but not getting sex at home" is off putting. Could be argued same difference, but what can I tell you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, I've been on here for just over a week, I've had little response, have sent a good few messages. Am I expecting too much too soon, any tips? Thanks

Personally, I find attached people who directly or indirectly blame their partners for lack of sex as justification for being here a total turn off.

"I'm attached" no problem. "I'm attached but not getting sex at home" is off putting. Could be argued same difference, but what can I tell you!"

Totally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Ms

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Thanks Ms"
can you use reply and quote so we know who you are replying to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather than sending "a good few messages" try sending a few good messages ?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying "

Until people questionned why you were never actually available to meet, of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying

Until people questionned why you were never actually available to meet, of course."
I can actually meet anytime, apart from Wednesday when I have pilates lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying "
You would never get away with that on here . Miss Marple has got nothing on the ladies on fab. Would suss you in seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying

Until people questionned why you were never actually available to meet, of course.I can actually meet anytime, apart from Wednesday when I have pilates lol"

Might be an idea to put that on your profile?

That your partner is happy for you to meet others for sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying You would never get away with that on here . Miss Marple has got nothing on the ladies on fab. Would suss you in seconds "
lol!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying

Until people questionned why you were never actually available to meet, of course.I can actually meet anytime, apart from Wednesday when I have pilates lol

Might be an idea to put that on your profile?

That your partner is happy for you to meet others for sex."
Thanks Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying

Until people questionned why you were never actually available to meet, of course.I can actually meet anytime, apart from Wednesday when I have pilates lol

Might be an idea to put that on your profile?

That your partner is happy for you to meet others for sex."
My ex wife is happy for me too meet others for sex . Does that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying "

And it is tbh, but there are lots of women/couples who like to play with attached ppl. But im just saying alot dont. But mayb re write profile, give more details about yourself n what you like. Plus few pics not just cock. Lol. X

Hope it wrks our for you. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks Mscan you use reply and quote so we know who you are replying to x"
sorry, new to this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying

Hope it wrks our for you. X "
Thank you

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying "

Again, personal preference. Attached stating they'll be "honest" with total strangers whilst being dishonest to partners is off putting to me.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying

Again, personal preference. Attached stating they'll be "honest" with total strangers whilst being dishonest to partners is off putting to me."

This is why I won't meet them. However, by stating this at the beginning, they have given us the choice of whether to meet.

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

"Rather than sending "a good few messages" try sending a few good messages ?"

this and patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos put me off straight away. I didn't even bother to read your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying

Again, personal preference. Attached stating they'll be "honest" with total strangers whilst being dishonest to partners is off putting to me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve only been here a week. Give it time.

I’ve used Fab since July this year and haven’t met anyone yet but that’s my choice.

Be patient, women aren’t going to be falling at your feet sadly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also it would probably be good if you were honest about your age or at least matched the age in your “about me” section to the age on your profile.

Did you put 49 to bypass filters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather than sending "a good few messages" try sending a few good messages ?"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your photos put me off straight away. I didn't even bother to read your profile. "
like wise

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your photos put me off straight away. I didn't even bother to read your profile. like wise"

Ruby has 48 beautiful, well thought out photos. How could they put you off ?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Your photos put me off straight away. I didn't even bother to read your profile. like wise"

liar!!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A week is a lifetime with horn...

Reality, is a lifetime.

Swinging has so many interpretations, don’t think easy sex was in the original concept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your photos put me off straight away. I didn't even bother to read your profile. like wise

liar!!!"

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

"Hiya, thought that putting, 'attached but non sexually' was being honest. It would have been easier to have said 'single' thanks for replying

Until people questionned why you were never actually available to meet, of course."

Oooo looks like you’ve pulled. Quick grab your Vaseline you’ve got a live one

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