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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the right and considerate thing to do with used, but not filled condoms in a session. Such as when you’ve been having sex, but not cum and say swap to receiving oral. I always remove it for receiving oral.

Just pop them on the side and bin them later? I’ve always been a bit anal about making sure they’re out of the way

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Wrap in a tissue and bin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wrap in a tissue and bin!"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blow them up, tie a knot and play volleyball for a change of activity. Everyone loves volleyball, don't they?

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

In the heat of the moment I sometimes just pop them on the floor out of the way and clear them away once everything has calmed down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is what I mean. In the heat of the moment in a 3sum or similar. Do you honestly go and find some tissue and a bin half way through?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve put more thought into this than you need to.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Stick back in your wallet then you can use it on your next meet and save money at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually in such scenarios there should already be a bin somewhere in the room planned for such an eventuality (after all you're gonna have to dispose of condoms and stuff after everything's done anyway). But in the event there isn't a bin, usually what actually happens in the heat of the moment would be people just chucking them on the floor and leaving it for the time being. Just make sure you don't forget to clear it after it's all done!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’ve put more thought into this than you need to.

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I haven’t really. Just thought it amusing to find out what other people do. I just fling them behind the bed/sofa out of harms way.

I don’t btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

You're not supposed to flick them at other people like elastic bands. Apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're not supposed to flick them at other people like elastic bands. Apparently. "

Flick it at the light so they hang there like a slimy chandelier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’ve put more thought into this than you need to.

I haven’t really. Just thought it amusing to find out what other people do. I just fling them behind the bed/sofa out of harms way.

I don’t btw. "

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

Have a small plastic tray beside the bed for that very purpose.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

It annoys us intensely when we have a party and find these things chucked to one side. We have tissues and bins. If we find out who has not disposed of them properly they do not get invited back, simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me"

Really? Wow. That thorough.

I always hand them a condom from my bag so I know it’s latex free and untampered with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me"

Is this a joke?

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me

Is this a joke? "

I would find that a real passion killer.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I always have a plastic bag hanging on a wardrobe door ready for such eventualities when I'm hosting, and indicate to all guests where it is for condom wrappers, used condoms, wet wipes etc

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Leave it in the bed. It makes for an entertaining game of hunt the condom later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me

Really? Wow. That thorough.

I always hand them a condom from my bag so I know it’s latex free and untampered with. "

You've never heard of condoms breaking or stealthing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me

Is this a joke? "

No looking after my sexual health and chance of pregnancy as a woman is not a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me

Is this a joke?

I would find that a real passion killer. "

An std or unwanted pregnancy or stealthing are all passion killers. Plus what more do you want to do after the man has ejaculated. Even if you want to keep going there is going to be a natural break.

Part of my decision on who to sleep with is how seriously they take their sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blow them up, tie a knot and play volleyball for a change of activity. Everyone loves volleyball, don't they? "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"You're not supposed to flick them at other people like elastic bands. Apparently.

Flick it at the light so they hang there like a slimy chandelier. "

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me

Really? Wow. That thorough.

I always hand them a condom from my bag so I know it’s latex free and untampered with.

You've never heard of condoms breaking or stealthing?"

Breaking is pretty obvious when it happens.

Stealthing is when a guy removes it and goes back in on the sly.

I think you’re talking about testing a condom someone has poked a hole in with a pin. I get around this by supplying my own.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"What is the right and considerate thing to do with used, but not filled condoms in a session. Such as when you’ve been having sex, but not cum and say swap to receiving oral. I always remove it for receiving oral.

Just pop them on the side and bin them later? I’ve always been a bit anal about making sure they’re out of the way "
I'd use a condom for a bit of anal too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blow them up, tie a knot and play volleyball for a change of activity. Everyone loves volleyball, don't they? "

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I hold it up like its a fish I caught, so they can see if its a big, medium or little one (amount i came).

I find they like condoms heavy with cum the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me

Really? Wow. That thorough.

I always hand them a condom from my bag so I know it’s latex free and untampered with.

You've never heard of condoms breaking or stealthing?

Breaking is pretty obvious when it happens.

Stealthing is when a guy removes it and goes back in on the sly.

I think you’re talking about testing a condom someone has poked a hole in with a pin. I get around this by supplying my own. "

No I'm not talking specifically about someone poking a hole. I'm talking about stealthing and breakages and one step I take to help ensure my safety and those I sleep with. Bringing my own condoms is something I do but it's not the quick fix solution to everything.

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

pass them to my hubby, he loves to drink them. He's even emptied bins at my meets looking for used ones and drank them!!

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"pass them to my hubby, he loves to drink them. He's even emptied bins at my meets looking for used ones and drank them!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give them to the cat as fish flavoured chewing gum

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I run to tie them in a knot and then put them in the bin or in tissue then the bin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I like to run the tap through condoms to check they were intact when inside me

Really? Wow. That thorough.

I always hand them a condom from my bag so I know it’s latex free and untampered with.

You've never heard of condoms breaking or stealthing?

Breaking is pretty obvious when it happens.

Stealthing is when a guy removes it and goes back in on the sly.

I think you’re talking about testing a condom someone has poked a hole in with a pin. I get around this by supplying my own.

No I'm not talking specifically about someone poking a hole. I'm talking about stealthing and breakages and one step I take to help ensure my safety and those I sleep with. Bringing my own condoms is something I do but it's not the quick fix solution to everything."

I’m lost as to how filling up condons with water will avoid guys stealthing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pass them to my hubby, he loves to drink them. He's even emptied bins at my meets looking for used ones and drank them!!

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I’m with you on this

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