FabSwingers.com forum: Transgender swinger murder.

By *ain n Mable OP Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Has anyone else see the the news today of the tragic murder of a Transgender lady from Fabswingers killed by a another Fabswingers member?

Please ALL be careful out there.

I presume this post will get deleted by the Mods, but just making people aware of what is going on in our community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This being a recent murder? Cos there was one very similar I’m guessing; a year ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t heard anything.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

not heard anything about this , what area did it happen ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a new horror film.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Has anyone else see the the news today of the tragic murder of a Transgender lady from Fabswingers killed by a another Fabswingers member?

Please ALL be careful out there.

I presume this post will get deleted by the Mods, but just making people aware of what is going on in our community. "
today or a while back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just googled it.... think it was last month.. I didn’t open the full story

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Just googled it.... think it was last month.. I didn’t open the full story "
I thought so x

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Are you allowed to post BBC links?

Man guilty of murder of Naomi Hersi.

I recall the case when the body was found in a hotel near Heathrow and a couple were arrested.

This is the trial verdict.

The BBC report says they met through a swingers website.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Theres a case in the old bailey at the moment ,where a guy met a transgender off here matter 4 days of being together doing drugs and alcohol ,he allegedly stabbed her to death

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife

In Heathrow after a 3 day binge it's very sad and shocking news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just googlified it too. It was the murder from the beginning of this year. Ruggers did post regarding it at the time to reassure site users.

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By *ain n Mable OP Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

As far as I'm aware it happened in March this year, the case has only come to trail this week. I seen it on Sky news.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

BBC:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-45992899

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Terrible. Bless her

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By *cunthorpe123Couple
over a year ago

scunthorpe

That's awful. So sad x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think there's a couple of threads on it. Poor girl.

People need to keep safe whatever.

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By *ony 2016Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield /derby cinemas

R.I.P

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By *irtd09Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Yes it happened earlier in the year and the trial has been going on for number of weeks, the guy was found guilty today. He will be sentenced soon and i hope for a long time. She was a very sweet person indeed and didn't deserve this. So sad.

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By *ossie1Man
over a year ago

Heathrow

It’s ironic I chatted to her ages ago about a meet. She seemed a nice person

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

That is so sad to hear. I doubt this thread will be closed though because it is fairly easy to verify online.

I too started a thread when my girlfriends ex Dom (The man behind the Tab** N**r parties) got a 5 year prison sentence this year. Although annoyed when the thread was closed I can grudgingly see the moderators point because news about the case is not so readily available.

It is also a stark warning about the sobering but necessary need for all of us to be vigilant.

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By *lairesurreyfunTV/TS
over a year ago

Weybridge

So sad but being trans is tough these days .we are easy targets for abuse and violence .I would say I get verbal shit 5 or 6 times a week and physical attacks once or twice a month .these makes relaxing on a night out hard but you just get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So sad but being trans is tough these days .we are easy targets for abuse and violence .I would say I get verbal shit 5 or 6 times a week and physical attacks once or twice a month .these makes relaxing on a night out hard but you just get on with it "

This angers me so much, you shouldn't have to get on with it. Some people are such neanderthals!! Best wishes xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fucking terrible.

Just shows this place is like any other and safety is paramount.

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By *lairesurreyfunTV/TS
over a year ago

Weybridge

I normally use my charm and humour but have no qualms about defending myself .99% aren't bothered about use but the1% are usually the loud obnoxious ones .knowing your rights and protections. is paramount as well even though hate crime has risen more people are standing up when they see it happening

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Don’t forget he was also a prolific member on here.

I was reading the details yesterday and it was pretty chilling.

Her family have had to sit through every detail of it and her life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very sad although thankfully a very rare event in the UK. I have no idea whether the murder was related to the victim's trans status but the current attitude in society towards trans people reminds me of that towards gay men 30 years ago. I really hope we get over it although the way society and politics are going at the moment I fear the reverse will happen

Mike xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....This angers me so much, you shouldn't have to get on with it. Some people are such neanderthals!! Best wishes xx"

Oh be fair to the neanderthals, they might have been a really nice species! The only ones that we know for sure act in such an inhuman manner are of course humans! Bless their cotton socks, they can't help but be vile given the chance.

Mike xx

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

Such a horrible thing to happen. I sympathise with her family so much having to listen to his lies. The killer of a friend of mine did the same to her, blackening her name to excuse himself. So painful on top of losing a loved one.

I hope people think carefully about their safety and do what they can to minimise risk when meeting others. It must be very rare considering how many people meet on here, but cleary not impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s absolutely terrible.

I feel sickened reading the news report on this just now. That poor woman. RIP Naomi and I’m glad justice has been served

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By *ain n Mable OP Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

That's so sad to hear Claire, I sometimes forget how horrible some people in this world can be. x

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By *lairesurreyfunTV/TS
over a year ago

Weybridge

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2018/oct/26/man-found-guilty-of-murdering-transgender-woman-after-drugs-binge?CMP=Share_AndroidApp_Tweet

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Just read the guardian write up - obviously very scary stuff!

I - like many others I know - have a social in public before meeting someone - but this is still obviously no guarantee of safety if you decide to take things further!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so sorry you go through this. Stay safe. Hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God really when did this happen?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met her twice when I was previously on the site. A truly tragic end to a life

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

The upshot of this story is clear .

Trans members need to be sure that the people they meet aren’t going to have an after sex moment that makes them think they’re commited some kind of sin by having sex with them .

Adding d**gs and alcohol to a meet is bad news .

And most of all , some people are just plain nasty , so be vigilant out there . Have a back up , someone you can call if needs be .

They spent three days on a drink and d**g fuelled binge , and it ended up with the trans lady being savagely stabbed over forty times to her death by the guy who had regrets afterwards .

Please take care out there .

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Just be careful out there im glad ive got my girl and protect her as she deserves but there are guys who are opposite. They are still women and need to be on guard when meeting anyone on sites like this.

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

So glad she got justice.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Life sentence, minimum of 20 years

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Life should mean life for me . The guy will still be relatively young on his release

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By *ornstudMan
over a year ago

alnwick

If he keeps his head down gets on with his time he will do half of that and be out in 10 year .

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"If he keeps his head down gets on with his time he will do half of that and be out in 10 year ."
Tariffs don't work like that. Life means life unless early release is granted, and early release can only be granted after the full expiry of the tariff (I think they c ll it minimum sentence these days). So chummy can't go before the parole board for twenty years, and then has to prove he's safe to be released.

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