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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This probably works both ways but why can’t people be honest about what they can offer in terms of meeting ! My last couple of meets have ended up stopping before they’ve really got started as guys aren’t honest about what they can offer just talk the talk. Yes my profile is now deleted with what I could offer and wanted from my meet just got to the point of thinking I’m too old for the time wasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m honest on my profile.

I can only accommodate for women around my age.

But when the house is all to myself then I’m open for older women and also couples too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think in mank cases they're honest about what they *think* they can offer. Problems arise when it looks like becoming reality and they get nervous.

We're very honest about what people can expect from us when we think we're likely to meet. We have found that in some cases it has little bearing on what they expect.

I reckon the best we can all do is try and get as close as we can to the truth and take it from there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think in mank cases they're honest about what they *think* they can offer. Problems arise when it looks like becoming reality and they get nervous.

We're very honest about what people can expect from us when we think we're likely to meet. We have found that in some cases it has little bearing on what they expect.

I reckon the best we can all do is try and get as close as we can to the truth and take it from there "

Hi

Yes I just feel like you spend that time chatting getting to know someone have a social which is good then the problems arise as in they can’t meet as often as they said etc the list goes on x

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Mine was cut and pasted from the contents of my spam folder

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine was cut and pasted from the contents of my spam folder"

Ha ha I was going to say it’s a bit long winded ??

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"I think in mank cases they're honest about what they *think* they can offer. Problems arise when it looks like becoming reality and they get nervous.

We're very honest about what people can expect from us when we think we're likely to meet. We have found that in some cases it has little bearing on what they expect.

I reckon the best we can all do is try and get as close as we can to the truth and take it from there

Hi

Yes I just feel like you spend that time chatting getting to know someone have a social which is good then the problems arise as in they can’t meet as often as they said etc the list goes on x"

I would agree with you here. I think men tend to say what they think you want to hear , just so they can get a meet. It's very time consuming trying to find the right person and it's also disappointing when they change the game.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Mine was cut and pasted from the contents of my spam folder

Ha ha I was going to say it’s a bit long winded ??"

If you hang around on Friday behind the bikesheds after school, I'll give you a certificate for bothering to read it all.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"This probably works both ways but why can’t people be honest about what they can offer in terms of meeting ! My last couple of meets have ended up stopping before they’ve really got started as guys aren’t honest about what they can offer just talk the talk. Yes my profile is now deleted with what I could offer and wanted from my meet just got to the point of thinking I’m too old for the time wasting "
It's same on any internet thing, people will only represent themselves in the best possible way. It's up to yourself to believe it or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think in mank cases they're honest about what they *think* they can offer. Problems arise when it looks like becoming reality and they get nervous.

We're very honest about what people can expect from us when we think we're likely to meet. We have found that in some cases it has little bearing on what they expect.

I reckon the best we can all do is try

and get as close as we can to the truth and take it from there

Hi

Yes I just feel like you spend that time chatting getting to know someone have a social which is good then the problems arise as in they can’t meet as often as they said etc the list goes on x

I would agree with you here. I think men tend to say what they think you want to hear , just so they can get a meet. It's very time consuming trying to find the right person and it's also disappointing when they change the game."

Yes I had a f.b for 2 years promises me he could get time off as planned never seemed to happen but stayed with him as he was a nice guy another mistake I made so much wasted time I find

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine was cut and pasted from the contents of my spam folder

Ha ha I was going to say it’s a bit long winded ??

If you hang around on Friday behind the bikesheds after school, I'll give you a certificate for bothering to read it all."

I may of found a genuine one by then I doubt it tho x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This probably works both ways but why can’t people be honest about what they can offer in terms of meeting ! My last couple of meets have ended up stopping before they’ve really got started as guys aren’t honest about what they can offer just talk the talk. Yes my profile is now deleted with what I could offer and wanted from my meet just got to the point of thinking I’m too old for the time wasting It's same on any internet thing, people will only represent themselves in the best possible way. It's up to yourself to believe it or not."

Maybe that’s where I go wrong take people as I find them and give them the benefit of the doubt but my time in life is ticking on x

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"This probably works both ways but why can’t people be honest about what they can offer in terms of meeting ! My last couple of meets have ended up stopping before they’ve really got started as guys aren’t honest about what they can offer just talk the talk. Yes my profile is now deleted with what I could offer and wanted from my meet just got to the point of thinking I’m too old for the time wasting "

Definitely goes both ways.

Sadly the internet is full of b*llshit merchants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This probably works both ways but why can’t people be honest about what they can offer in terms of meeting ! My last couple of meets have ended up stopping before they’ve really got started as guys aren’t honest about what they can offer just talk the talk. Yes my profile is now deleted with what I could offer and wanted from my meet just got to the point of thinking I’m too old for the time wasting

Definitely goes both ways.

Sadly the internet is full of b*llshit merchants. "

Yes I’m slowly but surely finding that out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. If this was a guy-he'd be getting, you've only been here a little while!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the reasons I am dreading it once my fwb decides to get off his arse n look for a wife. I have had other less frequent fuck buddies and FWBs but only him that has been ok with seeing me almost every day. I know this is a bit excessive for most but luckily it wasn't for him. Can't see me finding another that would be ok with anywhere close to that, despite the amount of guys that say they would be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok. If this was a guy-he'd be getting, you've only been here a little while!!"

I’ve been on and off the site for 6 years so not new to fab ! New profile that’s all hope that answers your reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is one of the reasons I am dreading it once my fwb decides to get off his arse n look for a wife. I have had other less frequent fuck buddies and FWBs but only him that has been ok with seeing me almost every day. I know this is a bit excessive for most but luckily it wasn't for him. Can't see me finding another that would be ok with anywhere close to that, despite the amount of guys that say they would be "

Nope he’s obviously one of the very few hold on to him as long as you can you lucky lady x

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Mine was cut and pasted from the contents of my spam folder

Ha ha I was going to say it’s a bit long winded ??

If you hang around on Friday behind the bikesheds after school, I'll give you a certificate for bothering to read it all.

I may of found a genuine one by then I doubt it tho x"

Whadda you mean -all my certificates are genuine -cheeky git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok. If this was a guy-he'd be getting, you've only been here a little while!!

I’ve been on and off the site for 6 years so not new to fab ! New profile that’s all hope that answers your reply "

Sorry ,was just an observation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok. If this was a guy-he'd be getting, you've only been here a little while!!

I’ve been on and off the site for 6 years so not new to fab ! New profile that’s all hope that answers your reply

Sorry ,was just an observation "

Totally fine x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine was cut and pasted from the contents of my spam folder

Ha ha I was going to say it’s a bit long winded ??

If you hang around on Friday behind the bikesheds after school, I'll give you a certificate for bothering to read it all.

I may of found a genuine one by then I doubt it tho x

Whadda you mean -all my certificates are genuine -cheeky git"

He he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will say anything to get a fuck. No point expecting any different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one of the reasons I am dreading it once my fwb decides to get off his arse n look for a wife. I have had other less frequent fuck buddies and FWBs but only him that has been ok with seeing me almost every day. I know this is a bit excessive for most but luckily it wasn't for him. Can't see me finding another that would be ok with anywhere close to that, despite the amount of guys that say they would be

Nope he’s obviously one of the very few hold on to him as long as you can you lucky lady x"

Haha I am, don't you worry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to be honest in this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is one of the reasons I am dreading it once my fwb decides to get off his arse n look for a wife. I have had other less frequent fuck buddies and FWBs but only him that has been ok with seeing me almost every day. I know this is a bit excessive for most but luckily it wasn't for him. Can't see me finding another that would be ok with anywhere close to that, despite the amount of guys that say they would be

Nope he’s obviously one of the very few hold on to him as long as you can you lucky lady x

Haha I am, don't you worry! "

Has he got a brother lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best to be honest in this lifestyle. "

Sadly doesn’t happen much x

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

Sadly there’s no real way to tell without giving it a go. Judge by their actions.

But to do that you have to take the leap.

Catch 22 ahoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one of the reasons I am dreading it once my fwb decides to get off his arse n look for a wife. I have had other less frequent fuck buddies and FWBs but only him that has been ok with seeing me almost every day. I know this is a bit excessive for most but luckily it wasn't for him. Can't see me finding another that would be ok with anywhere close to that, despite the amount of guys that say they would be

Nope he’s obviously one of the very few hold on to him as long as you can you lucky lady x

Haha I am, don't you worry!

Has he got a brother lol x"

I’ve got a twin brother

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I tried that saying what I had to offer on my profile, had it on for about a year, got very few response from messages I sent, so I then changed it to what it is now... And get very few responses cos I don't really send messages so I have gained/lost nothing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one of the reasons I am dreading it once my fwb decides to get off his arse n look for a wife. I have had other less frequent fuck buddies and FWBs but only him that has been ok with seeing me almost every day. I know this is a bit excessive for most but luckily it wasn't for him. Can't see me finding another that would be ok with anywhere close to that, despite the amount of guys that say they would be

Nope he’s obviously one of the very few hold on to him as long as you can you lucky lady x

Haha I am, don't you worry!

Has he got a brother lol x"

He has 2...he is the hot one tho lol

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By *ola cWoman
over a year ago

Wigan


"Sadly there’s no real way to tell without giving it a go. Judge by their actions.

But to do that you have to take the leap.

Catch 22 ahoy. "

Yes very true x

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By *ola cWoman
over a year ago

Wigan


"This is one of the reasons I am dreading it once my fwb decides to get off his arse n look for a wife. I have had other less frequent fuck buddies and FWBs but only him that has been ok with seeing me almost every day. I know this is a bit excessive for most but luckily it wasn't for him. Can't see me finding another that would be ok with anywhere close to that, despite the amount of guys that say they would be

Nope he’s obviously one of the very few hold on to him as long as you can you lucky lady x

Ha ha see your lucky x

Haha I am, don't you worry!

Has he got a brother lol x

He has 2...he is the hot one tho lol "

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By *ola cWoman
over a year ago

Wigan


"I tried that saying what I had to offer on my profile, had it on for about a year, got very few response from messages I sent, so I then changed it to what it is now... And get very few responses cos I don't really send messages so I have gained/lost nothing.."

It’s just hard work lol x

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

You must be the only person on this website who ‘accommodates’ when his parents are at home! We can’t imagine any single lady on a swinger site will be impressed with that offer when you could simply book a Hotel like everyone else in that situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is dead easy to pull up loads that are not being honest on their profile.

Recently a "Straight" bloke was saying how he would like to suck this blokes cock and more! I suggested perhaps he should amend his profile to Bi and he refused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble with this site is that it is full of married/attached blokes attempted to cheat on their partners with a quick one off shag!

They are not swingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stated EXACTLY what I am seeking. I won't settle for less...I'd consider more..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You must be the only person on this website who ‘accommodates’ when his parents are at home! We can’t imagine any single lady on a swinger site will be impressed with that offer when you could simply book a Hotel like everyone else in that situation."

I actually laughed out loud at your comment... Sorry .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've stated EXACTLY what I am seeking. I won't settle for less...I'd consider more.."

This

I don’t meet them for their satisfaction, it’s purely for my own. I totally agree thought OP, Fab life is getting harder. I just stick to club meets now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to give two answers to this post.....

Lie - men that state on their profile they’re looking for more than just casual sex are just blowing smoke up your ass...

Truth - women that state they are looking for more than casual sex on their profiles are telling the truth... But when smart men read that. They take it as a road map to sex....

Moral of the post - start meeting people with the expectations of having great sex only , if it’s great ...keep going back and if it keeps getting better... a relationship will form....

Stop putting things like looking for fwb, open to more if we click , not looking to shag the whole site on profiles..... It’s like dropping blood in a shark tank

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is dead easy to pull up loads that are not being honest on their profile.

Recently a "Straight" bloke was saying how he would like to suck this blokes cock and more! I suggested perhaps he should amend his profile to Bi and he refused

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Yes I don’t get that either x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've stated EXACTLY what I am seeking. I won't settle for less...I'd consider more..

This

I don’t meet them for their satisfaction, it’s purely for my own. I totally agree thought OP, Fab life is getting harder. I just stick to club meets now. "

Never tried a club but thinking my time is up anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This probably works both ways but why can’t people be honest about what they can offer in terms of meeting ! My last couple of meets have ended up stopping before they’ve really got started as guys aren’t honest about what they can offer just talk the talk. Yes my profile is now deleted with what I could offer and wanted from my meet just got to the point of thinking I’m too old for the time wasting "

Thats why its best to talk to someone before meeting on the phone and ask some telling questions. People seem to be far more honest on the phone or maybe I am persuasive on the phone but people will open up and you can then decide who to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m going to give two answers to this post.....

Lie - men that state on their profile they’re looking for more than just casual sex are just blowing smoke up your ass...

Truth - women that state they are looking for more than casual sex on their profiles are telling the truth... But when smart men read that. They take it as a road map to sex....

Moral of the post - start meeting people with the expectations of having great sex only , if it’s great ...keep going back and if it keeps getting better... a relationship will form....

Stop putting things like looking for fwb, open to more if we click , not looking to shag the whole site on profiles..... It’s like dropping blood in a shark tank

"

Will keep the above in mind x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This probably works both ways but why can’t people be honest about what they can offer in terms of meeting ! My last couple of meets have ended up stopping before they’ve really got started as guys aren’t honest about what they can offer just talk the talk. Yes my profile is now deleted with what I could offer and wanted from my meet just got to the point of thinking I’m too old for the time wasting

Thats why its best to talk to someone before meeting on the phone and ask some telling questions. People seem to be far more honest on the phone or maybe I am persuasive on the phone but people will open up and you can then decide who to meet. "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You must be the only person on this website who ‘accommodates’ when his parents are at home! We can’t imagine any single lady on a swinger site will be impressed with that offer when you could simply book a Hotel like everyone else in that situation."

Ha ha I’m with you there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This probably works both ways but why can’t people be honest about what they can offer in terms of meeting ! My last couple of meets have ended up stopping before they’ve really got started as guys aren’t honest about what they can offer just talk the talk. Yes my profile is now deleted with what I could offer and wanted from my meet just got to the point of thinking I’m too old for the time wasting

Thats why its best to talk to someone before meeting on the phone and ask some telling questions. People seem to be far more honest on the phone or maybe I am persuasive on the phone but people will open up and you can then decide who to meet.

Thanks x"

An old phone with a PAYG sim is the way to go and you can switch it off or get a new sim if you get a persistent one is also a good choice. The chances of someone turning up is higher too if you have talked to them a couple of times I find. But thats my way each to their own.

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