FabSwingers.com forum: Safe sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So here’s the thing, I may be wrong here, and nothing I’m about to say is in any way a judgment on other people’s fun. Also, living abroard perhaps I usually meet people who are in a holiday mindset.

My puzzle is safe sex.

I always use protection, both condom and locking the door to check my mum doesn’t come home (JOKE!) but I’ve noticed an increasing trend over the last few meets I’ve had from fab out here, that the profiles say safe sex, but the last 3 meets I’ve had arranged have asked at the last min if I will go bearback with them. And then cancelled when I’ve said ‘not a chance’.

I get it that safe sex in the ‘interests’ section is marking it an just that, an interest, but it does seem to me to be something of a dealbreaker on both sides.

Has anyone else noticed this?

By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

Funny old world, isn't it?

I've met only a few who ask for bareback last minute, saying they've just been tested and all clear. While I didn't doubt that, I asked how they knew I was clear??? And no, it didn't happen.

Has never been a last minute deal breaker for me, I've found that in general both sides end up bringing enough condoms to cover an orgy for a weekend.

Maybe you're not clarifying the issue soon enough? Most of the time, both of us state way in advance that it's condoms or nothing happens.

PS---what kind of lock to you use, and does it work?

By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading

Same sort of idiot that thinks 'straight' on profiles means bi irl

I gave some thought to my profile, your bad of you're too stupid to read and understand it.