FabSwingers.com forum: Can older men repeat more?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking back, I can't remember fucking multiple times during a night when I was a young guy. So I'm wondering if this is something that comes on with age a bit. Any other guys find they're able to fuck multiple times during a night now they're older when they didn't before? Any younger guys who can hands on heart do this?

If it's not age related, why do you think some can and some can't?

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

#stealthboast

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Multiple times, I get it right the first time.

I much prefer a long slow session anyway, rather then quick short ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wondering the same. These days after I cum, I stay hard. This never happened when I was young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Multiple times, I get it right the first time.

I much prefer a long slow session anyway, rather then quick short ones."

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Cum once, sleep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"#stealthboast

#somequestionsarejustquestions

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Your only 40 thought that’s was young ...... wait till your in your 50s can’t say that happens with older men

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By *plbnorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Never been able to repeat here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking back, I can't remember fucking multiple times during a night when I was a young guy. So I'm wondering if this is something that comes on with age a bit. Any other guys find they're able to fuck multiple times during a night now they're older when they didn't before? Any younger guys who can hands on heart do this?

If it's not age related, why do you think some can and some can't? "

I can do it. But not everytime and it's not a given rule.

But if fully stimulated then i can go right after and after and after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was 53 could run on and on , on empty, perform over and over, but not physically come

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

It’s biology apparently. Some guys have a quicker recovery time than others.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"My ex was 53 could run on and on , on empty, perform over and over, but not physically come "

That’s what I’ve found as I’ve got older.

It was a difficult situation to get used to. Before I’d always cum and that was like the golden aim. It took some adjustment to realise that I could be inside her and not cum; as long as she feels satisfied then I’m happy with this new development.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmm

Now I'm wondering what the reason for it is then?? I must admit my horniness comes in waves. So I can't promise I can always repeat. I'm not a robot like that. But when I'm really horny I could easily fuck multiple times through a night. It also depends on how much chemistry there is between us. I couldn't just fuck any woman multiple times. Maybe I'm just a really testosterone kind of guy or something

My sexuality has definitely ramped up in the last 10 years. I hope it doesn't just fall off a cliff haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex was 53 could run on and on , on empty, perform over and over, but not physically come

That’s what I’ve found as I’ve got older.

Yes it's the journey not the destination and we get to go the scenic route or many routes, it's easy to confuse the coming as the goal

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hmm

My sexuality has definitely ramped up in the last 10 years. I hope it doesn't just fall off a cliff haha

I don’t know why it is, experience perhaps or the March of time. However I do prefer the new way. I’m celebrating it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, oh yes, oh yes I'm a repeater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm

My sexuality has definitely ramped up in the last 10 years. I hope it doesn't just fall off a cliff haha

I don’t know why it is, experience perhaps or the March of time. However I do prefer the new way. I’m celebrating it!"

Celebrate with a comeshot

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hmm

My sexuality has definitely ramped up in the last 10 years. I hope it doesn't just fall off a cliff haha

I don’t know why it is, experience perhaps or the March of time. However I do prefer the new way. I’m celebrating it!

Celebrate with a comeshot

That’s the plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm

My sexuality has definitely ramped up in the last 10 years. I hope it doesn't just fall off a cliff haha

I don’t know why it is, experience perhaps or the March of time. However I do prefer the new way. I’m celebrating it!

Celebrate with a comeshot

That’s the plan

That becomes the new problem ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably more to do with the mental as well as physical stimulation.

I'm guessing in your younger years it was more vanilla than it is now (apologies if I'm wrong) but now you might be fully enjoying yourself on many different levels than this will have a major impact on your current performance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wonder if it's to do with a different focus? When a guy's primary focus is on his own pleasure then after he's cum he's done for the night. This may explain why younger guys may not repeat so much. But when you're lying next to a woman and you know you can give her further pleasure it soon becomes irresistible to get all sexy again, regardless of whether you think you can get it up again. And then, just when you thought you were done for the night, she does a fucking lazarus on you and you're unbelievably back up and ready for another round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was able to fuck at least six times a night when I was in my late teens and into my 20’s.

Can go more than once still, but need a rest between fucks. Lol

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"I wonder if it's to do with a different focus? When a guy's primary focus is on his own pleasure then after he's cum he's done for the night. This may explain why younger guys may not repeat so much. But when you're lying next to a woman and you know you can give her further pleasure it soon becomes irresistible to get all sexy again, regardless of whether you think you can get it up again. And then, just when you thought you were done for the night, she does a fucking lazarus on you and you're unbelievably back up and ready for another round

Love the Lazarus bit. Made me laugh out loud.

It’s so true and is the most glorious surprise when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had guys that can go for two hours and cum at the end and I’ve had guys that have cum 3 times in 2 hours and had to stop totally in between. Must say I prefer the former and would avoid a repeater at all cost unless they tell me they can go for a few hours each time without cumming (but I’ve found this always to be a lie!). Only the ones who don’t boast have delivered in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had guys that can go for two hours and cum at the end and I’ve had guys that have cum 3 times in 2 hours and had to stop totally in between. Must say I prefer the former and would avoid a repeater at all cost unless they tell me they can go for a few hours each time without cumming (but I’ve found this always to be a lie!). Only the ones who don’t boast have delivered in my experience

I totally agree, a lion doesn't feel the need to have to advertise he's a lion

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

All the young men I ever met can, I thought that was the whole point of them lol!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Sorry I couldn't quite hear -could you please repeat that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not interested in cumming 3 times in 2 hours nor in having prolonged penetrative sex for 2 hours. They both sound crap. I did fuck a date for about 2 hours solid in the summer. But that was the third time that night I think. But that was only because whenever I went to pull out she asked me what the fuck I was doing haha. Sorry if this sounds like bragging. I'm being very open and honest. If that sounds like bragging that's your issue. I think there's loads of other guys who can repeat. And repeating, by itself, does not mean great sex. Does that sound less like bragging now?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Maybe a few less times now.. but that just means more playing in between

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All the young men I ever met can, I thought that was the whole point of them lol!

Well you shot down that theory then Frisky haha

What the fuck is it then? Perhaps it is just testosterone levels or something

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Times change! In my twenties, I was like a little rabbit. Thirties! It's more about procreation. Forties and fifties, it was more of a common explosion, hopefully reached at the same point by mutual agreement. Since then the opportunities tend to dwindle, and the principal goal is to GIVE satisfaction FIRST. Never been a heavy load sort of guy, so now look after it and ensure satisfaction is achieved and, if nothing arrives, then so be it. The feeling is still the same and not everyone demands visual or tangible proof. Just reassure them that "Yes, it good for me." And it was.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Times change! In my twenties, I was like a little rabbit. Thirties! It's more about procreation. Forties and fifties, it was more of a common explosion, hopefully reached at the same point by mutual agreement. Since then the opportunities tend to dwindle, and the principal goal is to GIVE satisfaction FIRST. Never been a heavy load sort of guy, so now look after it and ensure satisfaction is achieved and, if nothing arrives, then so be it. The feeling is still the same and not everyone demands visual or tangible proof. Just reassure them that "Yes, it good for me." And it was. "

The beautiful thing about sex is the connection not the cumming. I think both sides would agree with that. Even though the cumming is rather wonderful

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Thanks for that. Yes, it's all about the connection I agree. Just see some of the pictures posted of women who seem to demand that physical proof makes me doubt I'm "cutting the mustard". But pleased to say I've had recent proof that there's many a good tune can still be played with an old fiddle.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"#stealthboast

#somequestionsarejustquestions

You clearly don’t know what a #stealthboast is...

“Oh no, my swimming pool maintenance guy has cancelled on me again. Why is it so hard to find reliable help? Does anyone else have issues finding someone reliable to clean their swimming pool or is it just me?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

getting older means you forget and lose count.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"#stealthboast

#somequestionsarejustquestions

You clearly don’t know what a #stealthboast is...

Sorry

Can't help with your pool. Maybe try a forum for people who have swimming pools

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"getting older means you forget and lose count.

Haha

That's probably it right there. "But I'm sure we did it more than once?" "No love we didn't. Now suck up the rest of your pureed lunch dear"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you peel the skin off a cucumber it doesn’t repeat.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Pardon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I repeat myself all the time. All the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the opposite. I was horny all the time when I was younger, took very little to get an erection, and could cum multiple time. That has slowed down...quality over quantity now.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"My ex was 53 could run on and on , on empty, perform over and over, but not physically come "

I think I may be similar, once I’ve cum I really struggle to cum again and it likely won’t happen for many hours later, or until the next morning, but, I can just keep going and stay hard.

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown

At my age...nope...I just last all night

Righty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no

A few thrusts and I'm ready for a toast and a nap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex was 53 could run on and on , on empty, perform over and over, but not physically come

I think I may be similar, once I’ve cum I really struggle to cum again and it likely won’t happen for many hours later, or until the next morning, but, I can just keep going and stay hard."

This exactly, I think it's an amazing asset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll cum once. Need a break for 15 minutes, then probably not cum again for the rest of the night, just get hard when required unless had a few too many shandies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me and I’ll find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been able to, always a one shot wonder. Never any problem getting it up again though so much more fun to be had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck me and I’ll find out "

Ooh matron

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

I wouldn't really know. Always been a repeater. Maybe it has something to do with a balanced diet and healthy lifestyle. Fuck knows

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I'm fortunate in having always been able to repeat - but less often now...

....in my 20's, the most I managed in one night was five times, and a total of seven times in 24 hours...

....but in my 50's, twice in a session is now my limit - though I haven't yet had the opportunity to test my 24-hour performance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only descovered this ability recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think older men can repeat more as a rule.

I’ve been with both older and guys my own age, more older though. And in my experience the younger guys can repeat more and recover quicker, whereas some of the older guys can only go once or twice and have to have a good break in between!

I don’t think it is solely to do with age, everyone will be different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t think older men can repeat more as a rule.

I don’t think it is solely to do with age, everyone will be different. "

I suspect most guys can repeat, given a little break and some sexy wandering fingers and lips

I'm certainly not someone who can turn around after cumming and be ready to go again like it sounds some young guys can. That's why I was only really talking about multiple times in a night.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Completely dependent on how horny I am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Completely dependent on how horny I am."

After all this, I think that's probably it in a nutshell

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If it's not age related, why do you think some can and some can't? "

Depends on the guy, but on my experience younger guys are better repeaters.

Maybe I just wear those older guys out.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

If it's not age related, why do you think some can and some can't? "

No - once then roll over for a nice nap .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive a barrel of cum says he can not!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this sounds like bragging but as long as I am interested I can cum and stay hard all night. To the point where in the end I have to stop as I get to sensitive.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Older people often repeat themselves over and over again

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

"Older people often repeat themselves over and over again"

You are not wrong there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat sleep fuck repeat lol

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