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By *siancouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

northwest

Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?

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By *erard123Man
over a year ago

YORK

If you had invited me over I would have brought a full packet mmmmm

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"
A good single guy will bring condoms just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"

I always bring my own when meeting.

It’s polite too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would always bring my own to a meet. I wouldn't want to leave it to chance that if I didn't that the couple hadn't either so no play.

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By *siancouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

northwest


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?

I always bring my own when meeting.

It’s polite too. "

Guess he thought we would say just come anyway and will he ok without . No chance always safe or nothing lol and thought so as well. And 30 mins is nothing to travel for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You both should have them if you're having sex regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would assume the guy would provide based on the premise that he will know what type of condoms he prefers to wear.

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By *siancouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

northwest


"You both should have them if you're having sex regularly.

"

We only meet like once a month and ran out on last meet . Thats why we asked him to make sure he has some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always baffles me how often guys don't bring condoms to a meet, luckily I always have plenty, including latex free, amazing how many use the "oh I am alergic to latex" to try and get out of using them. Bloody craziness! Also had a guy turn up to a group meet without his own condoms even though he woulda definitely known he needed larger than regular, he went home very disappointed

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Always baffles me how often guys don't bring condoms to a meet, luckily I always have plenty, including latex free, amazing how many use the "oh I am alergic to latex" to try and get out of using them. Bloody craziness! Also had a guy turn up to a group meet without his own condoms even though he woulda definitely known he needed larger than regular, he went home very disappointed "
Schoolboy error

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally!!!!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I always bring my own. Not having some bitch pin prick hers to get my mighty sperm in her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I carry condoms with me, but most of the guys I meet do as well. (I'm also on birth control in case of an accident)

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By *siancouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

northwest


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?"

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"
Well if he's outlaying expense getting to you you can see his point but argument on both sides really

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet ."

This

I always assume a guy without condoms doesn't wish to wear one and comes in hope

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet ."

I've heard that that happens, that some guys hope it won't matter that much.

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By *siancouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

northwest


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet .

I've heard that that happens, that some guys hope it won't matter that much. "

Well either safe or nothing . Simple. Theres no leeway in that lol

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet .

I've heard that that happens, that some guys hope it won't matter that much.

Well either safe or nothing . Simple. Theres no leeway in that lol"

Anal as a third option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet .

I've heard that that happens, that some guys hope it won't matter that much.

Well either safe or nothing . Simple. Theres no leeway in that lol

Anal as a third option? "

Yes yes yes

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I have provided condoms for all our meets and have all shapes and sizes and even flavours. This way I know they are in date and good quality. One chap said i did not have the make he liked...but as he had not bought any with him he had to use mine!. Given I have 4 different makes he did have a choice!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?

I always bring my own when meeting.

It’s polite too.

Guess he thought we would say just come anyway and will he ok without . No chance always safe or nothing lol and thought so as well. And 30 mins is nothing to travel for a meet "

I’m surprised others have the nerve to think that oh it’s ok to go without.

When I need condoms I always buy a pack of 12. It’s probably too much for a single male but the expire date is usually long if you buy your condoms from a trusted source.

And I always keep a condom in my wallet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet .

I've heard that that happens, that some guys hope it won't matter that much.

Well either safe or nothing . Simple. Theres no leeway in that lol

Anal as a third option? "

Anal might not get a woman pregnant but it’s not the safest especially if you play rough with no lube.

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply...

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Any guy that turns up without condoms to a private meet or a club won't be fucking me. It shows an expectation of bareback sex and I won't fuck someone with so little regard for my sexual health (and his own).

I've always got plenty of condoms and will quite happily use either mine or theirs.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

there is no such thing

both parts has to have they are own condoms ready if you play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy that turns up without condoms to a private meet or a club won't be fucking me. It shows an expectation of bareback sex and I won't fuck someone with so little regard for my sexual health (and his own).

I've always got plenty of condoms and will quite happily use either mine or theirs."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply... "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We always use our own condoms. No exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always use our own condoms. No exceptions"

Fair enough I suppose. At least you know the quality of condoms that you both use.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet .

I've heard that that happens, that some guys hope it won't matter that much.

Well either safe or nothing . Simple. Theres no leeway in that lol

Anal as a third option?

Anal might not get a woman pregnant but it’s not the safest especially if you play rough with no lube. "

Might not get her pregnant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet .

I've heard that that happens, that some guys hope it won't matter that much.

Well either safe or nothing . Simple. Theres no leeway in that lol

Anal as a third option? "

Sone guys do actually wonder what the problem is when you tell them they need a condom for that too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring my own, have used regular size and felt like my cock would drop off! Couldn't cum either, which doesn't make for a good meet.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I always carry them. The 2010 one in my wallet is still ok, right?

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By *siancouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

northwest


"there is no such thing

both parts has to have they are own condoms ready if you play safe "

Dont play often and ran out on last meet . Any meets we had before the guy always bought his own . Always play safe not risking bare ever .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always carry condoms either in a club or for an arranged meet with couples or single females .. I would have thought that was standard practice... Why wouldn't you?

Guess some people like to take chances and hope for a bareback meet .

I've heard that that happens, that some guys hope it won't matter that much.

Well either safe or nothing . Simple. Theres no leeway in that lol

Anal as a third option?

Anal might not get a woman pregnant but it’s not the safest especially if you play rough with no lube.

Might not get her pregnant? "

Well There’s a small chance of pregnancy with anal because sperm is live and is nearly to the vaginal opening.

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By *siancouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

northwest


"I always carry them. The 2010 one in my wallet is still ok, right? "

Hahahaha probaly need to get another l9l

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply... "

I always have a variety, just to make sure there are no excuses. When the nurse at the clinic asked if I needed condoms, last week, she looked shocked when I said no, because I had just bought a box of 144

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always carry them. The 2010 one in my wallet is still ok, right? "

Depends what you plan on using it for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would assume the guy would provide based on the premise that he will know what type of condoms he prefers to wear.

"

exactly he might need extra large and/or latex free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply...

I always have a variety, just to make sure there are no excuses. When the nurse at the clinic asked if I needed condoms, last week, she looked shocked when I said no, because I had just bought a box of 144 "

She must of thought how the hell are you going to use all of them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We always use our own condoms. No exceptions

Fair enough I suppose. At least you know the quality of condoms that you both use. "

Yep. Mind you we're soft swing nowadays and don't use them for oral.

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Another question.....who usually puts the condom on.....the guy or the lady? I have seen guys put them on incorrectly and not fully pulled down the entire length so they are more likely to come off. Luckily my partner always subtly checks the other chap has put it on right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply...

I always have a variety, just to make sure there are no excuses. When the nurse at the clinic asked if I needed condoms, last week, she looked shocked when I said no, because I had just bought a box of 144

She must of thought how the hell are you going to use all of them. "

I told her they last about 2 months, she nearly shit!

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By *ambornemanMan
over a year ago

In your town now

What's condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always use our own condoms. No exceptions

Fair enough I suppose. At least you know the quality of condoms that you both use.

Yep. Mind you we're soft swing nowadays and don't use them for oral."

I was taught in sex education class that although there is a risk with oral it’s considerably less risky.

We were told in class that=

Handjobs were the least risky

Oral slightly more risky

Then vaginal penetration

With anal being the most risky.

But they didn’t mention threesomes or double penetration in class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply...

I always have a variety, just to make sure there are no excuses. When the nurse at the clinic asked if I needed condoms, last week, she looked shocked when I said no, because I had just bought a box of 144

She must of thought how the hell are you going to use all of them.

I told her they last about 2 months, she nearly shit! "

Haha

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply... "

No wonder the NHS can’t afford to provide basic healthcare these days within our taxes going towards other people’s condoms ?

If this is a great use of public money why don’t they just provide a big pile in the corner of every GP waiting room for all of us to go down and pick up ?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"We always use our own condoms. No exceptions

Fair enough I suppose. At least you know the quality of condoms that you both use.

Yep. Mind you we're soft swing nowadays and don't use them for oral.

I was taught in sex education class that although there is a risk with oral it’s considerably less risky.

We were told in class that=

Handjobs were the least risky

Oral slightly more risky

Then vaginal penetration

With anal being the most risky.

But they didn’t mention threesomes or double penetration in class.

"

You might as well give yourself a hand job though. Not really worth leaving the house for.

#justsaying

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

It's basically a matter of respect, if there wasn't an understanding that it'd be a bareback meet then the bloke SHOULD bring condoms otherwise it's disrespectful. Many of you know I play bareback but that's clarified at the outset. This would be similar to a bloke coming to you with an empty tank of petrol and expect to be "filled" before leaving (pun intended, LOL)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply...

No wonder the NHS can’t afford to provide basic healthcare these days within our taxes going towards other people’s condoms ?

If this is a great use of public money why don’t they just provide a big pile in the corner of every GP waiting room for all of us to go down and pick up ? "

All contraception is free, isn't it?! Doesn't mean everyone takes them up on the offer... I don't know anyone that isn't a swinger that regularly uses condoms either way... Better free condoms than treatment for an sti... Or pregnancy, whichever way it goes, no?!

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Always carry mine with me i think its etiquette for meeting

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply...

No wonder the NHS can’t afford to provide basic healthcare these days within our taxes going towards other people’s condoms ?

If this is a great use of public money why don’t they just provide a big pile in the corner of every GP waiting room for all of us to go down and pick up ? "
Saves them spending on a lot of single mother's though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always use our own condoms. No exceptions

Fair enough I suppose. At least you know the quality of condoms that you both use.

Yep. Mind you we're soft swing nowadays and don't use them for oral.

I was taught in sex education class that although there is a risk with oral it’s considerably less risky.

We were told in class that=

Handjobs were the least risky

Oral slightly more risky

Then vaginal penetration

With anal being the most risky.

But they didn’t mention threesomes or double penetration in class.

You might as well give yourself a hand job though. Not really worth leaving the house for.

#justsaying "

Im not really into handjobs personally unless it’s with a playmate I meet up regularly with.

I’m not selfish and rather see the woman or couple I meet with have their pleasure before mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's basically a matter of respect, if there wasn't an understanding that it'd be a bareback meet then the bloke SHOULD bring condoms otherwise it's disrespectful. Many of you know I play bareback but that's clarified at the outset. This would be similar to a bloke coming to you with an empty tank of petrol and expect to be "filled" before leaving (pun intended, LOL)"

That’s quite a good pun

Reading your profile. Sounds like you do have good safe sex practice with getting tested on a regular basis.

And meeting with trusted people.

Other people I know think safe sex is not giving someone your name or number. Which makes my blood boil.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I always carry them. The 2010 one in my wallet is still ok, right?

Depends what you plan on using it for..."

It's saved my mobile phone in the rain a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever come across a tampered with condom?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I always request that any guys coming to my parties to bring their own favourite size and brand of condoms incase mine don't fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hundreds in my toy box but as i now meeting just once a yr if that they will be coming up to a clear out soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple Golden rule

No glove

No love.

Reguardless who’s invited or has had to travel you should always always have your own condoms if you value your own sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always baffles me how often guys don't bring condoms to a meet, luckily I always have plenty, including latex free, amazing how many use the "oh I am alergic to latex" to try and get out of using them. Bloody craziness! Also had a guy turn up to a group meet without his own condoms even though he woulda definitely known he needed larger than regular, he went home very disappointed "
lots of people are allergic to latex mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always more than happy to provide condoms.

I think it makes sense that everyone involved has them to hand but I also think it nice to know the history of the condom your using.

Reputable supplier

Not tampered with

Preferred Size and brand

Exp date.

likewise it is also nice to know the person(s) your with trusts you with the aforementioned and that you have reached a point in your friendship that can trust them.

In your case if you just ran out and asked him to pick some up I can't see what the what the problem was, Its a small price to pay for an evening of excitement and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring my own

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By *umumCouple
over a year ago

LEEDS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"

Surely any sensible person would always carry at least one condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring my own condoms. Purely because I have brand and size that I like.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Always have my own ... never rely on a male to provide these

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

It has surprised me in the past how often guys don't come prepared, and I do wonder how many are hoping I'll just say don't bother. I always have a stash though and at least I know they're in date and not tampered with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard one as we expect a guy to bring them, however we supply them so we know they are fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should bring condoms to a meet. We have never had anyone who has not had condoms.

Did someone suggest if you have no condoms then just do anal ? If so we despair as it’s the riskiest practice to undertake bareback with regard to catching the worst STIs. Cannot believe there are some who think condoms in swinging are there solely to prevent pregnancy.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"
What a clown. A guy should have his own. I often ask the person I'm meeting if they have a preference for type and some people I've met prefer if use theirs.

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge

Cheeky fecker should definitely have his own !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, this thread is something of an eye opener. No matter how low my opinion of them men never fail to show they can go lower *sighs*

Mike

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over a year ago

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"

It's manners and common curtesy to bring your own!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Id bring some, but if they didn't have any id assume they were into bareback sex. Safe sex is the responsibility of both parties. Id have cancelled. Each of you should get 12 everytime you go for a sexual health check up anyway.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Nah -just improvise with whatever you find in the bin or ask one of the others to use theirs after them (inside out obviously -you wouldn't want to get pregnant now would you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always baffles me how often guys don't bring condoms to a meet, luckily I always have plenty, including latex free, amazing how many use the "oh I am alergic to latex" to try and get out of using them. Bloody craziness! Also had a guy turn up to a group meet without his own condoms even though he woulda definitely known he needed larger than regular, he went home very disappointed lots of people are allergic to latex mind"

I know... So surely those that know they are would make sure they had protection they know they can use, just incase the other person, who has no idea they are allergic, only has latex ones, no?! It's no different to the guys that need bigger or even smaller than normal ones. Like someone said, it is disrespectful as they are pretty much assuming bb or assuming they can talk you round to it and I always inform them there will be none of that as I have an fwb who I do occasionally bb with so not just my health I am protecting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"

A guy should bring them so should a woman or couple who you use though well thats a trust issue but I would say the ones with the longest expiry date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get our condoms free from the clinic as they are keen to promote safe sex. It is amazing all the different ones they supply...

I always have a variety, just to make sure there are no excuses. When the nurse at the clinic asked if I needed condoms, last week, she looked shocked when I said no, because I had just bought a box of 144 "

Oh a gross number.

(No offence, a gross is 144, in case you're not aware)

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By *irthy73Man
over a year ago

stourport

I remember meeting someone. Went back to hers and started the fun. Had a bowl of condoms next to the bed, so was passed one and started to put it on, bloody thing almost took off my poor manhood. Thankfully I had my own. We still giggle about it now!!

Moral always come packing!!

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By *nlyyours16Couple
over a year ago

Northwest


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"

That’s ridiculous can’t just give everything on a plate - inconsiderate of him to cancel last minute . Know the feeling !

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

I’ve always discussed it before meeting. I always have some but always check, as there are women who are allergic to latex just like some men. At least that way we can both be sure that between us we have what is required to suit us all.

I once met with a girl who bought some tingling sensation ones and after about 5 or 6 thrusts she started to burn down below and was having a reaction to them. Luckily I’d bought some standard ones too, so once she’d washed and calmed down we could still get what we both wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have some on me, even when I go to socials. You never know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Then there’s definitely condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes always why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but I'd rather use my own and supply them .But it would put me off if they didn't have any .As know a days they are free at any clinic and no excuse too have none .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take my own

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden


"Both. Then there’s definitely condoms. "

This. Follow that wise Irish saying, 'To be sure, to be sure'

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"

I always have them with me but find it slightly rude when others EXPECT you to supply them.

Don't turn up empty handed EVER - unless he expected bareback sex?

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We always give ours. You never know if someone did not punch the one he brings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All parties should have them and carry them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take my own and feel safer using them. I’ve had quite a few meets and met men at parties in the past that turn up without, it puts me off of playing with them and I wont want to meet them again.

If all parties plan to use condoms then surely you would all turn up with them just in case unless like the op you discussed it before had and made it clear they needed to bring them.x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?

That’s ridiculous can’t just give everything on a plate - inconsiderate of him to cancel last minute . Know the feeling !"

Absolutley! After all they were doing him a favour by meeting him anyway. It was the least he could have done after travelling to them to perform for them.. he should have felt honoured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have special requirements it maybe best to bring your own male or female. I tend to consider it's for the man will deal with, and I'll concentrate on not getting pregnant. Although I do have a few lurking somewhere.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"there is no such thing

both parts has to have they are own condoms ready if you play safe "

Agree!

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

It has to be a joint responsibility surely?

If guys need something specific they'll be carrying their own but it's not just a male's responsibility.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"It's basically a matter of respect, if there wasn't an understanding that it'd be a bareback meet then the bloke SHOULD bring condoms otherwise it's disrespectful. Many of you know I play bareback but that's clarified at the outset. This would be similar to a bloke coming to you with an empty tank of petrol and expect to be "filled" before leaving (pun intended, LOL)

That’s quite a good pun

Reading your profile. Sounds like you do have good safe sex practice with getting tested on a regular basis.

And meeting with trusted people.

Other people I know think safe sex is not giving someone your name or number. Which makes my blood boil. "

Well, that IS the safest sex innit? LOL

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"
I have a draw full .... as don’t trust the old “I forgot them trick” .... but I don’t think the onus is on the gentleman ..... it’s both parties responsibility in my opinion.

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?Well if he's outlaying expense getting to you you can see his point but argument on both sides really "

Seriously?

If he's travelling 30 minutes to them, he's bound to be passing a chemists, or most garages sell them too, so there is no excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always bring my own. Not having some bitch pin prick hers to get my mighty sperm in her. "

Haha! I once had a black guy take his used condom away with him as he said he'd heard white women sometimes steal sperm from condoms to get pregnant?! Arrogant fucker if I was gonna steal sperm it wouldn't be his lol

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"I always bring my own. Not having some bitch pin prick hers to get my mighty sperm in her.

Haha! I once had a black guy take his used condom away with him as he said he'd heard white women sometimes steal sperm from condoms to get pregnant?! Arrogant fucker if I was gonna steal sperm it wouldn't be his lol"

Most condoms usually contain spermicide to kill off the sperm too so kind of flawed logic on his part there. And why only white women?? Isn’t that considered racist?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take my own, and they are always extra safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always bring my own. Not having some bitch pin prick hers to get my mighty sperm in her.

Haha! I once had a black guy take his used condom away with him as he said he'd heard white women sometimes steal sperm from condoms to get pregnant?! Arrogant fucker if I was gonna steal sperm it wouldn't be his lol

Most condoms usually contain spermicide to kill off the sperm too so kind of flawed logic on his part there. And why only white women?? Isn’t that considered racist?? Lol "

Condoms don't really have spermicide now but sperm dies very quickly outside any body anyway. It was him that brought colour into it not me lol, I would have been insulted if I wasn't so gobsmacked haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are condoms?

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

If a guy rocks up with no condom, bear in mind there designed to fit him, not the lady hence his responsibility.

Clearly has no regard for his self, thus certainly none for you, take of the im horny cap and ask should I really be letting this guy use my body.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"I always bring my own. Not having some bitch pin prick hers to get my mighty sperm in her.

Haha! I once had a black guy take his used condom away with him as he said he'd heard white women sometimes steal sperm from condoms to get pregnant?! Arrogant fucker if I was gonna steal sperm it wouldn't be his lol

Most condoms usually contain spermicide to kill off the sperm too so kind of flawed logic on his part there. And why only white women?? Isn’t that considered racist?? Lol

Condoms don't really have spermicide now but sperm dies very quickly outside any body anyway. It was him that brought colour into it not me lol, I would have been insulted if I wasn't so gobsmacked haha"

Yeah is a tad cheeky. Taking it away to dispose of I can kind of see some sort of logic, but to actually give that as a reason is very bizarre

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Bring your own and be responsible for your own pleasure and safety.

Oh and not again any of those horrid Durex nonsense with packets you can't open...

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We see guys wondering round clubs with no condoms. Asking us if they can touch or play fucked of straight away. We’re not there to teach them safe sex or catch something fucking nasty, or hang around while they go and get one.

Might sound hateful and angry comment, you be absolutely right show respect simples

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I would have thought that it is the man's right to bring them, if a woman/couple have them as well then it is a bonus.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"I carry condoms with me, but most of the guys I meet do as well. (I'm also on birth control in case of an accident) "

That sadly doesn't stop STI's though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always bring my own. Not having some bitch pin prick hers to get my mighty sperm in her.

Haha! I once had a black guy take his used condom away with him as he said he'd heard white women sometimes steal sperm from condoms to get pregnant?! Arrogant fucker if I was gonna steal sperm it wouldn't be his lol

Most condoms usually contain spermicide to kill off the sperm too so kind of flawed logic on his part there. And why only white women?? Isn’t that considered racist?? Lol

Condoms don't really have spermicide now but sperm dies very quickly outside any body anyway. It was him that brought colour into it not me lol, I would have been insulted if I wasn't so gobsmacked haha

Yeah is a tad cheeky. Taking it away to dispose of I can kind of see some sort of logic, but to actually give that as a reason is very bizarre "

Worst bit is he didn't even take it away with him like he said he was, he flushed it down my toilet. I know this because next day my toilet was blocked, in comes my dad with the plunger. And up floats this tied up condom don't know who was more mortified, me or my dad!!

I definitely never met that guy again...

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

If we invite a guy to join us and he has no condoms we assume he expected bareback. He would be told to politely go away and never come back

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By *ogostick72Man
over a year ago

Scotland


"If we invite a guy to join us and he has no condoms we assume he expected bareback. He would be told to politely go away and never come back"

Quite agree with your views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to have latex free so I always provide them, I would rather provide them so I know they are ones that suit my sensitivities and and I prefer to put them on the guy too because that way I know that it's been put on correctly and I think it makes it more erotic.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"I have to have latex free so I always provide them, I would rather provide them so I know they are ones that suit my sensitivities and and I prefer to put them on the guy too because that way I know that it's been put on correctly and I think it makes it more erotic. "

I agree that I love it when the other person puts it on me. Doesn’t seem to take away form the moment either, like it does when I do it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect guy to bring his own to mine

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"I have to have latex free so I always provide them, I would rather provide them so I know they are ones that suit my sensitivities and and I prefer to put them on the guy too because that way I know that it's been put on correctly and I think it makes it more erotic. "
taking the latex free option is a good move anyway, if you need lube then match that up to the condoms also. By going latex free, there are less likely to compatibility issues from all sides. Skyns have a great condom in our view that fits this criteria, thinner too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy them when you get there just incase one of party doesn't turn up

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I have to have latex free so I always provide them, I would rather provide them so I know they are ones that suit my sensitivities and and I prefer to put them on the guy too because that way I know that it's been put on correctly and I think it makes it more erotic. taking the latex free option is a good move anyway, if you need lube then match that up to the condoms also. By going latex free, there are less likely to compatibility issues from all sides. Skyns have a great condom in our view that fits this criteria, thinner too "

I use Skyns because I found the latex didn’t agree with my penis, also the fit works good for me too. Better for me to take my own, that I know work for me, than to spoil the event with something less. Most men don’t know about the size differences in condoms; they’re not all the same, just like cocks lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"

Yes, he shud bring his own condoms.

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife

All ways have condoms lube and gloves in my bag as you never know

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

As a single guy I always got condoms on me, whether I'm going for a meet or just to the shop. You never know.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Yes - single guys SHOULD always bring their own condoms to a meet or a club. It's probably an unwritten rule of the etiquette, and it's considerate, selfless and good manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a guy bring his own condoms to a meet or does the couples/woman provide . As just had a guy cancel a meet last min. As we were being incosiderate that we told him to get condoms as he had a 30 min journey to us ?"

He probably wouldn't have been the right person for you if you want a considerate guy, as us considerate guys always bring condoms to keep everyone safe even the people we are playing with.

Considerate guy

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